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Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by Stephenmoka4(m): 1:12am On Feb 09, 2020 |
Apeshy101:What you did might seem morally right to you, anyways. All these are not something that one can be proud of in a decent setting. I can't bash you for that but, wouldn't support you in that act either as it's best to engage in such act with a married partner. If you ask many people with similar situation as yours, "would you like your daughters, sisters or wife to be to be treated this way", many here knows the response. Will this be an encouragement to your son or brother. Well, the right response is clear. Peace |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by Igetmyown247: 1:57am On Feb 09, 2020 |
No is no. If she’s says no leave her alone regardless of if she’s wet or not. |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by eaglejay13(m): 2:59am On Feb 09, 2020 |
Ardar: Are you saying I can accuse you of robbery if you manipulate me into spending on you? 2 Likes |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by AscentSolutions: 6:38am On Feb 09, 2020 |
Apeshy101: Guy, its not until you jump on a lady that its rape o. If you persistently and relentlessly try to have sex with her by conninging her it can be tagged be rape. Maybe not in Nugeria, but for many other places, it's def rape. It's like a company haggling you for buying an advanced business course "our premium business package". . can sue for coersiin. Inface theres a popular British real estate firm in court for that. Rule if thumb, if a lady says " No" atop asking, let her be. If a lady wants you, you will know, you don't have to say it twice... Ur in Naija so you will / might get away with it, but in saner climes, you wont. If you didn't succeed in getting sex, they can even convict you for sexual harassment cos you "coerced" or talked her into it after she said no initially.. That "wet" statement is even the killer statement. And i can say this because as a guy, i have been there too and for the first time I know how it feels. This girl basically slid my erect stuff into her. And lord knows I was erect, but i diddnt want to do it. She sat on my legs and all that stuff. I told her months after. And she admitted she knew. I still feelll bad about it for some reason i cant explain and it wasnt my first sexual experience. So... Zip up |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by aswani(m): 10:39am On Feb 09, 2020 |
An old head once said to me that you had to adjust the conditions so the woman makes the first move. The stuff he said requires a lot of self discipline that lots of Naija men don't have sha. |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by 2buffagain(m): 10:55am On Feb 09, 2020 |
Stephenmoka4: This makes absolutely no sense. If a verbally convinced me to spend money on her, would I not be a ridiculous fool to go and start saying that she raped my wallet? You don't give someone a gift and then start going to report them to police that they held you at gunpoint and robbed you. She simply said what she wanted. That's been assertive. Much like a man assertively requesting he needs his dick ate. If the person agrees to do it, then that is not rape. If during the action the other person says they don't want to do again, then that's their choice. In no scenario was she forced to do it or forced to not stop. |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by Nobody: 12:05pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
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Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by angelfallz(m): 1:24pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Stephenmoka4:If it was easy in USA and Britain like you say, why are rape convictions low in those countries? |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by Stephenmoka4(m): 1:44pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
2buffagain:Convincing is different from this aspect. When a girl says no and you give 1001 reasons to say yes and she did, that's sexual coercion not Convincing. Same applies to your wallet and try to understand what gift means. Remember gifts should be done willingly and freely not be pressured or when your conscience judges etc. Try to understand mutual agreement and not someone that feel guilty for not taking part of an action, or submitting to when truely the person doesn't want to |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by Stephenmoka4(m): 1:48pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
angelfallz:There are rape cases in USA, some Hide it some share it etc,... Evidence |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by Stephenmoka4(m): 1:57pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
2buffagain:A asked me for money/food from my place, I said no not today, he keep persisting. I just cover eye and do the needful to satisfy him(he told me I'm his guy and all that sweet statement), do I want to do it. NO. Can I refuse yes but, I'm tired of getting all this request from him daily so I had to give in and later he'll start praising to boost my ego (nope that won't drive me). Should I tell the police nope, I've hit the Yes button already even when yes don't mean yes, do I deserve a praise for that nope, that was not from my heart and not freely giving. People around would be like, guy you too much but, they don't really know. |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by Martinez39s(m): 2:12pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Stephenmoka4:That is not rape. It's no one's fault that a particular girl is spineless and daft to say NO when she wants to. As long as she gave consent, it is no rape. No one is a mind reader. If Mr. B doesn't want to sell a plot of land but Mr. A talked him into the land to him, did Mr. A commit fraud? 1 Like |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by Martinez39s(m): 2:18pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
eaglejay13:Don't mind the rètards on this thread? 1 Like |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by Stephenmoka4(m): 2:20pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Martinez39s:Mr A talked to him about selling it to him is different from this, just as people Compare a virgin person to testing a new car, of which a new car can be replaced or remade but a non-virgin person cannot be reversed to his/her virgin state. She gave consent due to sexual coercion, didn't you check out that she said she didn't want to engage in such act in the first place. |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by Martinez39s(m): 2:31pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Stephenmoka4:So instead of refusing to be a spineless weakling by telling that friend off and making it clear that you will cut off the friendship if he doesn't stop, you succumbed like a spineless toddler to grant him his request. Now answer me woman, after granting your friend his request, would you say you were robbed by your friend? If NO, then you must admit the OP didn't rape his girlfriend. If YES, then we must all laugh at your stupidity. |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by Stephenmoka4(m): 2:41pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Martinez39s:That is not robbery it is a form of manipulations, in this case victim are usually fixed in a state of DILEMMA. |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by Martinez39s(m): 2:41pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Stephenmoka4:Utter nonsense. Virginity or not, the op did not rape her and the rule used to decide what rape is remains unchanged. Who even told you that the OP's girlfriend is a virgin? You stupidity has taken a weird and amusing dimension as you now suggest that being a virgin makes what OP did a rape. You twisted and discarded my apt analogy in cunning fashion. Why am I wasting time engaging an idiòt? Good day. [s]She gave consent due to sexual coercion, didn't you check out that she said she didn't want to engage in such act in the first place.[/s]There was no coercion. The OP did not rape her. I won't reply you ever again. Rot and bask in your stupidity. 1 Like |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by Martinez39s(m): 2:45pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Michellekabod2:Michelle, did the OP rape his girlfriend? I want to have your thoughts on this. |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by Stephenmoka4(m): 2:56pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Martinez39s:Try to read properly, I didn't say the OP girl is a virgin. Now you're raining insults/abusive comments |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by Nobody: 3:02pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Martinez39s:yes,he also robbed her and killed her. He carted with her vital organs for ritual as well. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by Martinez39s(m): 3:07pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Michellekabod2:What loaded sarcasm! |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by Nobody: 3:10pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
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Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by Nobody: 3:13pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Martinez39s:if the girl was a minor(below 18), mentally unstable or got the sex via blackmail ,your beloved apeshy will not be innocent though... Apeshy be careful, when a girl says no walk away...laws keep changing. In Sweden or Australia your sorry a$$ will be slapped in jail |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by Stephenmoka4(m): 3:14pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
[quote author=Michellekabod2 post=86508215][/quote]haha. Good one |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by Martinez39s(m): 3:37pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Michellekabod2:I didn't ask about age neither did I ask if sexual relation with a minor is okay. What is your problem sef? You couldn't even directly say that op was innocent of rape. Apeshy be careful, when a girl says no walk away...laws keep changing. In Sweden or Australia your sorry a$$ will be slapped in jailYeah! Sweden and Australia, the world fortresses of gynocentrism, simps, and feminism where sexual assault/harassment laws are absurdly and dangerously forged to accommodate a wide of innocuous activities as sexual assault/harassment. Hmmmm, in those countries, he would really be jailed unjustly. Do you think it would be fair, anywhere, to jail OP for what happened? |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by 2buffagain(m): 4:58pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Stephenmoka4: I generally do not care about wasting time convincing a woman to have sex. I'm a "1 no man". You tell me no once, that's it for the day. Tell me no when we are halfway in it, that's it for the day. That said, I will never accept that some guy verbally communicating his sexual needs to his woman....and she agreeing to meet those needs.....is rape. Stop it. He did not put a gun to her head. She regretting to do something she CHOSE to do after, does NOT make it rape. If you want to give way to that kind of snowflake logic then every girl that was ever disvirgined (perhaps out of wedlock) was raped. That kind of logic is even an insult to women because it infantilizes them and suggests they don't have enough damn sense to make their own decisions as adults. That's backward as Bleep. Stop reaching. 2 Likes |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by Stephenmoka4(m): 5:03pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
2buffagain:The thing is creating options with a no-no pick, that is putting the victim in a state of DILEMMA. Once the person says no, it means the person sees YES as undesirable but, the other will manipulate the person to feel different about choosing NO, which makes NO looks undesirable. |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by Stephenmoka4(m): 5:08pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
2buffagain:For the last part I both couples are married and decide to have relations, that's not rape. E.g Spouse A; Hey you look hot tonight, wanna get naughty Spouse B; haha, I can't wait. ...... That's just an example and that situation it's not rape |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by 2buffagain(m): 5:09pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Stephenmoka4: Women manipulate the Bleep out of men everyday. We don't go report them to police because of it. Again, stop infantalizing women. They are grown adults. People CHOOSE. If they choose to do something, it is infantile to then go running that you were forced when no force was applied. In this matter, unless physical force is involved, there is no such thing as a "no-no pick". If he asks too much, and she does not want, it is a simple matter of "Mr man, it's my body. I don't want. In fact, let's stop seeing each other for a while". Lobatan! Again, stop encouraging the further infantalization of women. You make them out to be fools with this your logic. 1 Like |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by 2buffagain(m): 5:13pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Stephenmoka4: Listen to yourself. By your same logic, that same spouse B can simply wake up the next morning and go "Hey you know what, last night I agreed, but I regret the sex we had. I think this now qualifies as rape. Sorry but I have to go report this to the police". Do you not see the foolishness you are advocating for? Upon agreement, all sales are final. You can even cancel the sale halfway through and leave the shop. But you cant buy the thing, come back the next day saying you don't want the thing again. Market don already calculate for that day. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by don4real18(m): 5:15pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
I have once been accused of rape by a lady. The interesting thing is that I have never even slept with her. She came over to my place with intent to lay with me but I was so busy that I didn't have time to have sex even though I wanted to. When she went home, I got a call from her friend who asked why I raped her friend. When I threatened to get the police involved, they backed down and the girl later confessed. She sent messages and got friends to beg me but my heart was hardened as I just had to move on |
Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by Stephenmoka4(m): 5:15pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
2buffagain:Women are not the only one, men, children/underage too can be manipulated, most times this are not reported to the police or filing a lawsuit against it. One thing is once a person says no to their body it's quite right to respect their choice. |
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