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Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Nyamve1: 11:17pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
No need of prior notice except u guys are just playing around |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Nobody: 11:18pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Depends on the purpose of your relationship with your partner. If the Goal is marriage and parenthood of your future kids, it is wrong to call before visiting each other. How would you understudy and prequalify a future partner without elements of surprises and spying? It is after the period of test before we can trust each other. But if you are just bleeping around without a mission. You better call. Those who engage in senseless sex are unstructured in their ways, they could get upset if you dont call before going. I can see them on nairaland. Their impulsive reaction is their core competence. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Blackdisciple(m): 11:19pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Hmmm.... Why na u should let him / her knw na.... ok what if u came and missed ur hubby at home, then will u start paying transport back home or wait for him till he comes back or call him at work place or wherever hubby is to come home cos u are around like that's selfish |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Damosoftic(m): 11:20pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
To me, prior notification is important because its possible she visit and I'm not around. What if she dont have duplicate of my key with her, she will have to go back |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by GboyegaD(m): 11:21pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Sermwell: Your opinion is okay but it doesn't really fit. I believe in boundaries and they have to be respected. That is me. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by foleskay(m): 11:21pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
nanauju:''When you're riding something '. Chaii, you go hot in reverse cow boy. Tualee for you |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Bizibi(m): 11:21pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Eulalia:hmmm....I must inform the person before I visit.i have learnt my lesson from past mistakes. |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Correcto: 11:26pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Lol you are hiding something in your personal space chiddyok: 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by foleskay(m): 11:30pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Lol. If we re to vote now, we would see that most ladies will support the idea of visiting unannounced, while the guys would go against it, only few will feel indifferent. Nigeria girls always hv this feeling of insecurity to their guys, that is why most would surely visit unannounced. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by nextstep(m): 11:30pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Well, the verb "visit" means you are going to someone else's house. Emphasis on "else's house". Girlfriend should call or otherwise inform her boyfriend that she is coming for a visit. I don't like unannounced visits... I may have my friends over, might want to concentrate on work/school, or some other thing, and your impromptu visit is (for me) an invasion of my peace and space. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by SavageResponse(m): 11:36pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Sermwell: And so what if they're dating? You should call before showing up at a person's house 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Zeinymira(f): 11:45pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
friendl: Are you a Muslim? |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by agaziomohwilfre(m): 11:51pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
is very good to visit a girl why dating |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Andrew13: 11:53pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
D guy has been cheating |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Yakyah: 11:54pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
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Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by chocboi78(m): 11:57pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Its not okay to visit anyone unannounced , buh visiting a fiance without notice should not lead to any from of argument or misunderstanding... 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by mrnelsono(m): 11:59pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
This one is serious |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Tajbol4splend(m): 12:01am On Jun 10, 2020 |
chiddyok: A lot of you are kids not ready for serious relationship 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Tonymegabush1(m): 12:03am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by kkinternet: 12:05am On Jun 10, 2020 |
No..its not ok to do that....you can't just come and catch me unawares . Prior information is the best... 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by AfroKnight: 12:07am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Most of these comments only consider the situation where the woman visits the man unannounced. Perhaps if the roles were reversed they would understand the need to call beforehand. Even if you get key, madam, call me before you show. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by One4me: 12:09am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Sermwell: If she was SCREAMING her intentions to her to-be Husband, l see that as a bad sign, maybe the Heavens are just revealing to the guy, the kind of Life-Trouble he is about walking into. We tend to ignore all these small, small signs when we are in-love but when the deed is done, we now try to shift the blame on the Woman, when in actual fact, the SIGNS were screaming at you all the while. As to whether he/she can sneak-in or not on their would-be spouse (that is what it actually is), it all depends on "their practice and level of trust in the relationship". Some 'couples' so trust themselves that such things dont matter and they dont even try to do it. Some 'couples' are so distrustful of themselves that they are afraid of what the other person may find. Their policy is that "What you dont see, does not make you bitter". But we all know how it ends eventually. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by WoundedLamb: 12:11am On Jun 10, 2020 |
NO Next!!! |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by One4me: 12:11am On Jun 10, 2020 |
AfroKnight: WHY? Please, just state coincisely WHY the person you are just about marrying for life, needs to call before showing up in your house or you need to call her before showing up in her personal house. I want to learn something today. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Slynation(m): 12:12am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Sermwell:Na see finish dey cause am... Courtesy demands you call someone prior before visits... So all i can deduce from this scenario is that the Guy is a "man of principles" 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by One4me: 12:14am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Zeinymira: What has religion got to do with it, some of you people sef. Did you ask all the people taking positions here, whether they took their position because of their religion? 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by hardbody: 12:15am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Sermwell: Whatever your neighbours said is right. Next.... |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Zeinymira(f): 12:18am On Jun 10, 2020 |
One4me: Hello, I didn't ask you a question. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by BuhariEXPlAINED: 12:27am On Jun 10, 2020 |
When is not that you are mad, just want to hurt yourself. |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by One4me: 12:28am On Jun 10, 2020 |
All of you saying it is about Respect, being reasonable, being discipline, bla, bla bla... You are all missing something very important: Irrespective of who is visiting (Man or Woman), this type of situation is completely different from what you'all are using as yardstick. A 'to-be' SPOUSE si not a 'second person' or an outside anymore, that PERSON IS YOURSELF and you dont take permission to see yourself. I am talking about a fully-commited relationship, 100% marriage in a few weeks! If l still have inhibitions about my fiance/finacee visiting me a few weeks to our marriage and He/She has to call first and get Permission, then we need to postpone that marriage until we are very comfortable with ourselves. You wonder why majority of marriages fail and end in divorce within the first FIVE YEARS? Be committed to each other fully, before you start talking of marriage because once married, its all about in-your-face! That is when the "distance, individualism and barrier you encouraged during Courtship, starts tormenting both of you. Marriage is very serious shyte, if you want it to succeed then both partners must be committed to COMPLETE OPENESS, TRUST and BARRIER ELIMINATION........ something we all find very difficult to do. 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by One4me: 12:32am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Zeinymira: Sure, you wont even dare ask me such toxic question .......but l took pity on the bigotted ignoramus that asked such questions on a public thread or forum. |
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