Idowuogbo:
*coughs* pls direct me to her quotes dat states "MEN" are always rite. We need proof o!

Idowuogbo:
Vivi!! Answer abeg!!!!!!

Shollypopz:
I swear, I could care less of she's treated right. In fact I want her to get beating. If I had power, I will beat her myself but I'm sure she'll win the fight if it get's physical. . My main problem is her kids. Is this the mentality she's going to pass on to her female and male children?? Will they be watching dad slap mummy anytime she does something wrong which is almost inevitable??!

70% of men that hit their wives grew up in homes where they watched their father do the same thing to their mums.

Rocktation: I've known a man that beat his wife just because 'she doesn't know how to enjoy his money'

Shollypopz:
I swear, I could care less of she's treated right. In fact I want her to get beating. If I had power, I will beat her myself but I'm sure she'll win the fight if it get's physical. . My main problem is her kids. Is this the mentality she's going to pass on to her female and male children?? Will they be watching dad slap mummy anytime she does something wrong which is almost inevitable??!

70% of men that hit their wives grew up in homes where they watched their father do the same thing to their mums.

freecocoa: Girls abeg y'all should take it easy with Vivi.
If anything we should help her get rid of such mindset not make derogatory comments.
Not cool abeg,

obo_man: I personally don't think you should beat a woman, maybe except she hits you first........... ( if a woman hits you, then you can react, because you are human and you respond to stimuli).


However, if it's just a case of her abusing a man, you can just walk away from the place or throw her out of your house. I personally won't end up in a relationship with such women. You know those 'kind' of women when you interact with them in the first five minutes. They are usually boisterous, aggressive, loud, unreasonable, etc...


Them women are made for area boys, not decent guy like me....

freecocoa: Girls abeg y'all should take it easy with Vivi.
If anything we should help her get rid of such mindset not make derogatory comments.
Not cool abeg,

freecocoa: Girls abeg y'all should take it easy with Vivi.
If anything we should help her get rid of such mindset not make derogatory comments.
Not cool abeg,

lalaosky:

jeez...like seriously?.....SMH...some men has lost it..WTF!!...i'm a christain by the way and in my family's history but paternal and maternal, none is a divorcee but i won't have a second thought on divorcing the hediot(if am the woman) you describe in your post and than take his arsè to court and make sure he pays even with his breath!!

abiL*:


We can keep voicing her opinions from now till Jesus comes, Vivian ain't gonna change her view point.

She has probably grown up to think in such ways. With the behaviourist theory, it's difficult (still possible) to unlearn what someone has taken years to learn.

It's like smoking, it's hard for smokers to give up smoking.

vivian chinaza:

Then are we not saying the same thing?

freecocoa: Girls abeg y'all should take it easy with Vivi.
If anything we should help her get rid of such mindset not make derogatory comments.
Not cool abeg,

ItsModella:
You are right. But as it is, helping her eliminate such mindset is proving to be arduous. She is deeply ingrained in her faulty beliefs.

Rocktation:

For shizzle, no punking. Sapele, Delta state. 2k9.

abiL*:


We can keep voicing her opinions from now till Jesus comes, Vivian ain't gonna change her view point.

She has probably grown up to think in such ways. With the behaviourist theory, it's difficult (still possible) to unlearn what someone has taken years to learn.

It's like smoking, it's hard for smokers to give up smoking.

carefreewannabe:

Dear Crown Prince,

please don't take the following as an insult and I beg you to not virtually hit me.

There is no way I would even consider for a second to marry a man with your attitude.

And IF all men had this attitude, I would prefer to be a single mum. I have seen women with severe injuries and I have also seen children who grew up in homes where domestic violence is an option, so I would rather be a single mum. Yet, before I take the risk of having to raise my children alone, I go for men who AT LEAST try BY ALMOST ALL MEANS to find other ways to handle their relationships and marriages rather than thinking how to justify it. God help me.

carefreewannabe:

Dear Crown Prince,

please don't take the following as an insult and I beg you to not virtually hit me.

There is no way I would even consider for a second to marry a man with your attitude.

And IF all men had this attitude, I would prefer to be a single mum. I have seen women with severe injuries and I have also seen children who grew up in homes where domestic violence is an option, so I would rather be a single mum. Yet, before I take the risk of having to raise my children alone, I go for men who AT LEAST try BY ALMOST ALL MEANS to find other ways to handle their relationships and marriages rather than thinking how to justify it. God help me.

carefreewannabe:

She has the right to live her life the way she wants. Her relationship / marriage is hers.
The thoughts are free and she can have whatever attitude. It's not business to teach and change her.
But she is ALL WRONG to publish wrong and dangerous information on domestic violence.
I don't care about me, less about her, I care about the generation of my daughters. She is not helpful and her statements are dangerous.
I hope, SHE can understand.
Am out of here, I need to clean up. Wanted to be ready by now

abiL*:



For one, she deems it okay for a man to lay his hands on her when she's done wrong.

If you need proof, start reading the thread from page 0.

Mtcheew!

ItsModella:
You are right. But as it is, helping her eliminate such mindset is proving to be arduous. She is deeply ingrained in her faulty beliefs.

Shollypopz:
So u're just seeing what I've been saying since the cheater's thread. The girl's mentality is a result of d sick society or bigot environment she grew up in. She has to free herself from mental slavery though.

freecocoa: Girls abeg y'all should take it easy with Vivi.
If anything we should help her get rid of such mindset not make derogatory comments.
Not cool abeg,

Idowuogbo:
Get rid of what? My dear! To each dier own. But! Wot I don't get is, y pips choose to drag her folks in.

Idowuogbo:
Get rid of what? My dear! To each dier own. But! Wot I don't get is, y pips choose to drag her folks in.