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Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by try69: 5:44am On Mar 13, 2013 |
LADIES MR PERFECT WAS A WRESTLER LONG OUT OF WRESTLING |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by JuicyGee(f): 7:50am On Mar 13, 2013 |
Err1 has made dia views miss, so its up 2 u, while deciding, weigh ur options nd dont be selfish while doing so. Overall if his bad side out-weighs his good sides, it obviously means u . Plz nd plzzz dnt sympathize wif a nigga, if u luv him u luv him, if u dnt u dnt |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by causewahala: 8:24am On Mar 13, 2013 |
temi4fash: Why u dey allow this verbose troll ride rough shod over you? Serendipity: Lemmie catch you and your yeye big words wey u nor understand, u go know how far! |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by MENTORCH(m): 8:58am On Mar 13, 2013 |
@Op there is no point been with someone you are not attracted to,if he where in your position he won't pity you. Please there are a lot of handsome guys that have good personality and been ugly does not guarantee a good personality, but your strong mehn!!!2years and 9months. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by Nobody: 9:25am On Mar 13, 2013 |
@ op two years is a long time trying to force yourself into attraction with a man you are not attracted to. Why are you trying your best to ignore your own self and needs in a relationship. Better leave the guy now for both your sakes because i can assure you he is not happy we can always sense when someone is not into us. He knows but is hoping against hope don't string him along. |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by caesaraba(m): 10:49am On Mar 13, 2013 |
andromida: @ op two years is a long time trying to force yourself into attraction with a man you are not attracted to. Why are you trying your best to ignore your own self and needs in a relationship. Better leave the guy now for both your sakes because i can assure you he is not happy we can always sense when someone is not into us. He knows but is hoping against hope don't string him along. You nailed it! |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by temi4fash(m): 10:52am On Mar 13, 2013 |
causewahala: am not in fot any e fights on dis thread.. |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by Nobody: 10:56am On Mar 13, 2013 |
Subomi-luv: Some of you women want to have it both ways.... You see, you dated him because he was a "nice guy", You are Intimidated by Good Looking men Most Likely, thus you venture off to the Nice Guy Losers Let's be honest, most good Looking Guys{People} are AsssHoles. Thus the reason why you avoid them and are stuck with this Unattractive Cornball You can't have it both ways, you Can't have a "Nice Guy" and a "Beautiful Human" All in one package, Those are very very very Rare. You want the Relationship to work because he is a "Nice Guy Loser-ish" type Bum... ...who gives you all of his lowly minimum wage weekly PayCheck from his Pathetic Truck Loading Job. He spoils you and splashes Lavishes upon you with all of his Infinite Brokeness, Which Makes you feel like a queen.... Often times with a Good Looking Guy, you don't feel like a queen, you don't feel in "Control" So now you are stuck with a Gremlin Faced Troll of a Boyfriend who has a Face Like an Xbox Avatar. You Women Can't have it both ways.... Either Pick Beautiful People or The Bottom of the Barrel Loser Type Guys, so they can treat you "Nice"... Clearly You are Shallow,.... Otherwise you would not have written a thread on How Unattractive Your Ugly Boyfriend is with his HIV-Esque Extraordinary Physique My Advice is Dump the Loser and Stop Playing with his Heart. Or Suffocate Him to Death with all that Bullshit Synthetic Hair on ya GawtDamn Head. Either Way, Get Rid of Him. The Poor Slob Deserves Better. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by Nobody: 11:08am On Mar 13, 2013 |
♥Royal♥Charm♥: Lots of Ugly and average looking people are assholes too just because someone is ugly or average is no guarantee that they will be nice and you can have nice and beautiful in a package. |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by Nobody: 11:11am On Mar 13, 2013 |
andromida: Many Women Pursue Ugly Men under the Slimy Intentions of Using them for Financial Gains When they see a Good Looking Guy, they feel he may have other Options, So he won't spend all of his Wealth or Brokeness on solely Her. This is the Real World, Not the Pretend online world where everyone pretends to be fake and say politically correct things all the time An Ugly Guy may Still be an Assshole but Possibly more desperate....At Least in the Eyes of Many Women. {Desperate=Possible Profit} |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by Nobody: 11:26am On Mar 13, 2013 |
Stop wasting his life... Just move along, cos its already obvious u have lost the connection. I'm sure u'd have assured him countless times, that he has nothing to be worried about. If u had been fair with him at the start, maybe you'd both have the perfect lives u wanted by now. I really don't know what to say to you. U're just that type. |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by blaise26abj(m): 11:58am On Mar 13, 2013 |
I'm yet to hear the last of the crazy excuses people give for breaking up. Just the other day a lady told me she broke up with her guy because he was too nice and doesn't fight with her. @ OP: You are a very selfish individual. From day 1 u never cared about the guy. U dated him because u didn't want to miss out in "dating a nice guy". Like he is some experience to be had and done with. Even right now, you are more concerned about how it will reflect on u if u told him the truth after 3 years. Well let me tell you this; you are an inconsiderate self-centered arrogant girl who doesn't know what she wants. Go Hug a suicide bomber. |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by Nobody: 12:39pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
^LmL! |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by Nobody: 12:40pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
Dude told her to Go Hug a Suicide Bomber lol |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by samyan12: 1:26pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
@op, pls pay no mind to all dis pple blaming u for what ur heart is feeling. If after all dis yle, u still don't feel d guy, den let him go, and u are in no way at fault or to be blamed by this. D reason u r in this, is becos u were not true to urself from the beginning, and u accepted pple's definition of the kinda man that'll be gud for u instd of what u knw u want. Free d guy, free urself too, and go for what u want. Life is too short.. |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by Nobody: 1:35pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
samyan12: @op, pls pay no mind to all dis pple blaming u for what ur heart is feeling. If after all dis yle, u still don't feel d guy, den let him go, and u are in no way at fault or to be blamed by this. D reason u r in this, is becos u were not true to urself from the beginning, and u accepted pple's definition of the kinda man that'll be gud for u instd of what u knw u want. Free d guy, free urself too, and go for what u want. Life is too short.. Interesting how in the Red you start off by saying...the Op isn't at fault Then subsequently go on to Blame the Op for Being At Fault in the Blue. Clearly Displaying Imbecilic Like Lordship |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by samyan12: 1:43pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
@ op, just don't let anybdy make u feel bad abt urself, some of d pple on dis site hav rly miserable lives, and dey just come here to spread gloom. Try and not get infected.@Royalcharm.. I cant say I understand what ur misery is about, but don't worry the light will come soon. |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by Nobody: 1:52pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
I personally might be much more apprehensive of becoming Infected with egregious levels of stupidity by ingesting the Gutter of Gloom drenched in a Contradictory Statement By a Mere Fool. |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by Orikinla(m): 1:55pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
[size=48pt]This is sheer stupidity again. You are not attracted to your BF, then why did you agree to be his GF dummy?[/size] |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by blaise26abj(m): 1:56pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
samyan12: @ op, just don't let anybdy make u feel bad abt urself, some of d pple on dis site hav rly miserable lives, and dey just come here to spread gloom. Try and not get infected.@Royalcharm.. I cant say I understand what ur misery is about, but don't worry the light will come soon. Who is this mor.on? @OP: If you want to be confused your whole life, have the decency to bask in it alone. Don't waste serious people's time, effort and money. |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by causewahala: 1:57pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
LMAO @ replies. where is OP sef? |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by Nobody: 1:57pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
Orikinla: This is sheer stupidity again. So she Can Boss the Poor Unattractive Loser Around. Good Looking Man Such as Myself would have had her clipping my Toe Nails, While Cooking my Sirloin |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by blaise26abj(m): 2:00pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
Subomi-luv: @ OP: For stating the bolded, pray that 3 years of your Life doesn't go unfruitful. Idi.ot |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by Nobody: 2:05pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
The Thing about Many Good Looking Women, when their Looks Fade, they often have nothing to fall back on. Often times when im with a pretty woman, her phone will receive text messages while she is performing services on me Ill Reach Over, and check the Messages while looking down into her eyes, And It's some pathetic Loser-Esque type dude writing.... "Oh Baby I love You, Can't Wait for you to Come Home, I just got Paid Today, You want me to take you Out" Fuqqing Loser..... Pretty Women Use Ugly Guys to Pay their Bills...Phone Billz...Car Notez...Ect. While they Sleep with good Looking Guys On The Side. The OP Keeps this Super Metroid Looking Mouthafoukah around for Pure Monetary Means. |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by DonaldGenes(m): 2:17pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
totalbaby: ABA, is it by force to be with him if you are not attracted to himHmmmm |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by megareal: 2:39pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
Volumptuos_bebe: Society mistakenly assumes that because women often end up with men that appear less physically attractive, that women don’t put so much value on looks, that men are the more visual sex. However, this I feel is totally untrue, because just because a woman ends up with a particular man does not mean she actually desires him. Usually pressures from society, family and her biological clock force her to settle.Kudos girl, couldn't have said it any better. Women, please learn to care for your needs before any one else's. Ever wonder why women age faster? Because society expects too much from us and we gullibly carry the burdens trying to please all and sundry except ourselves. @ OP, follow your mind. You haven't done anything wrong by following your mind. If there is no fire, let the guy go. You will only end up being miserable if you let yourself get into it out of pity. As I always say, personal happiness first....., then everyone else's. |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by Orikinla(m): 2:58pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
♥Royal♥Charm♥: She is not the only one. That is why most of them cheat anyway. |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by adabeke12(f): 3:47pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
♥Royal♥Charm♥: I doubt that. |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by Nobody: 4:06pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
adabeke12: I doubt that. ^-AYo if you Got Dark Brown Hands, and a Light Brown Face, with an Anthony Davis Unibrow.... ...Then You Most Definitely Relegated to ToeNail Cutting Duties in the Gold Kid Royal'z House. If That Description Fits Any Nairaland Ladies, Please Type HashTag #RoyalJustOwnedMe Ayo, if Ya Unibrow Has a Geometric Diameter of Infinite, and it Exceeds the Radius of Both Your Eye Sockets and Nostrils Multiplied by a 22 exponent.... Then please Type Hashtag #MyUnibrowIsAbsolutelyAbsurd Ayo....If ya Unibrow looks like a Line of Arabian BackHair across the The Wide Outstretched Back of an Obese Saudi Woman....... Please Type Hashtag #INeedAFhuckingFaceRazor Ayo, If you have a Post History, filled with Having Conversations with the Biggest Nairaland Loser Shymexx, and ya Pic Looks Awkward and Suspect.... Please Type #WhyDoTranniesStalkRoyal? |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by Nobody: 4:28pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
Orikinla: She is not the only one. These Suckaz get played for lots of Money.... Life is Beautiful......When you Pretty. God Bless the Poor Ugly Soulz. |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by Nobody: 4:33pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
♥Royal♥Charm♥: Do the uglies really suffer this much? ugly with character should be able to grab some lovelies |
Re: I Am Not Attracted To My Bf by Nobody: 4:46pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
Thank you all for the comments, good and bad, alot have really helped me and i appreciate the time everyone took to reply. Firstly i said i was not attracted to my bf, i did not say that he was ugly. Secondly i have never once asked my bf for money or anything financially related. If i want something i buy it myself and to be honest i'd say i have done more for him than he has for me. He is not a rich guy and this is not about money. I decided to give this relationship a try because sometimes you need to go out of your "comfort" zone and try new things. This is not easy for me because it's not like i want or choose this way. I wish things were different but there is something that just is not there. Maybe it's because we are in a long distance relationship but even still i feel like the long distance its great but when were together it's not the same. I do love him but am not sure if he is the one. I guess i know deep down what i need to do but i am just afraid to do it. |
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