apache77:

I descended on her so brutally while a friend was driving us back home, she opened the door of the fast moving car to jump down- it would hav been manslaughter.We had to stop, i beat the hell out of her she crawled under the car and more than two dozen cars had to crowd round us cos people following thought it was a kidnap attempt. That was five years ago.

But since that day, the lose screw in her head tightened back and she has been very pliable, very amenable now. We are married now and no issues- she is the most humble wife you can think of- and i dont threaten her or try to lord over her- no. Just a loving relationship, but she has it at the back of her mind, this her husband can be a beast if he decides to.

apache77:
u r in trouble bro...kick her asz out....you are not being firm..
my wife, wen we were dating was very refractive- as in very stubborn. i could come to see her and she will tell me get out- boota- it was dat bad. One night wen we had issues, and i was trying to stop her from stomping away in anger, she slapped me. I just held her and didnt even vex. she later put it down to being tipsy. i forgot the issue and just hung in der, swallowing all the shitt she handed down for years.....
till one fateful night in 2009 wen she misbehaved, while we were out.

I descended on her so brutally while a friend was driving us back home, she opened the door of the fast moving car to jump down- it would hav been manslaughter.We had to stop, i beat the hell out of her she crawled under the car and more than two dozen cars had to crowd round us cos people following thought it was a kidnap attempt. That was five years ago.

But since that day, the lose screw in her head tightened back and she has been very pliable, very amenable now. We are married now and no issues- she is the most humble wife you can think of- and i dont threaten her or try to lord over her- no. Just a loving relationship, but she has it at the back of her mind, this her husband can be a beast if he decides to.

She initially never liked my own friends and people around me- just her own people and friends- but now the tide has changed- its more my people around us now and my friends and no one complains- she always has a nice demeanour towards everyone. Matter of fact, as I speak, she is not just in family home, two cities away, but has even followed my mum to our village home- they have a great relationsnhip and I am happy.

This was a very very refractive woman who made our relationship hell- of all of us who dated it was difficult for any one man to get a handle on her, but I have tamed her and we have a wonderful relationship. Infact, right now, she is the one putting in all the effort to make the marriage work while I just cross my legs and watch her in amusement.

I think the single most decisive moment in our relationship was that fateful night 3years into our relationship when i beat the hell out of her- that singular moment turned the tables and told her i was firmly in charge.

You may need your own decisive moment too, to save your marriage...and your sanity, if its not too late already

m-ployer:
The story sounds incomplete. Your wife is having problem wit ur parents and u want a divorce?...tel us more. Moreover, be nice to d kids, bond with them. Provide opportunity for them to speak with Granny on fone . When they grow, they will surely look for Granny, she can't stop them.

thorpido: Apache77.....beating her into submission worked?
I hope she's not bidding her time to take her pound of flesh back.

dokunbam: The ladies will not come here now and attend to this issue here.

Come and give advice from your own perspective

Or else I will say they are all the same

IbokUtoroh: i dey tell people say if i marry n my wife wan try rubbish na to first ignore her, dont eat her food n sleep outside, anytime she is ready for marriage she will come look for me. life is too short for a wife to tek a lovely n hardworkng hubby for granted. my own no go be divorce but leavorce

opetu:

I ddnt, we were both medical students nd she wasnt young, infact d whole pregnancy issue , she sure wanted it may b to trap me down, it was a one night thingy..yes i knw dats enough to get anyone pregnant, the marriage was sumthing she was happy about also.. Even in Our NYSC after marriage she started misbehaving saying i was cheating. it just a calamity marriage ..tnx..wud pray towards it

drnairalov: Sowie Women and their problems..like mine

i wanted 2 hav sex wid ma girlfriend bt ma little brodas
were stil awake,so she said,

"1st 1 of u 2 sleep
wil get #5,000", so I slept 1st,den she dump me

PLS Y?

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IbokUtoroh: i dey tell people say if i marry n my wife wan try rubbish na to first ignore her, dont eat her food n sleep outside, anytime she is ready for marriage she will come look for me. life is too short for a wife to tek a lovely n hardworkng hubby for granted. my own no go be divorce but leavorce

devour129: trust me that's what she is doing ! It's crazy but I fear for that guy

devour129: trust me that's what she is doing ! It's crazy but I fear for that guy

opetu:

hum..dere waz quite a gud level of respect tho, it was all good! shez good wit her family expecially wiv her mom, sumtyms i do think its her mom dat giv her dose ill advices! yup d kids go to her mom, couple of time durin holidays, most times her mom come stays wit us!!

But when it comes mine, its epic quarell..even when dey come stay she frowns a lot! i knw sum kids stay with their grand parents till maybe secondary skul, i wanted that but i cnt ve dat talk less of just an holiday visit. hired a lawyer already incase of divorce.. which happens to be our landlord tnx to him d marriage ve been able to hold for dis years Of course i dnt wanna be a divorcee