₦airaland Forum

prior to the report by the EFCC on Obasanjo's unconstituitional financial spree , i had already concluded that even though the EFCC was doing a good job in opening the can of worms of many corrupt politicians, the ribadu led committee would in no way attempt to bite the hands that feeds it, in the sense of laying any tainting allegations against the nation's number one man, but after what i heard about the possibly indictment of obj due to the allegations, i would say we should really hail ribadu for this oustanding feat of bravery, he has really shown that his steel carved teeth is ever ready to chew on any bone no matter how hard it might be,the president inclusive.

hi tonia, since they are still consenually keeping tabs on the happenings in the lives, even after they've broken up, its obvious that while they were still together they were very close, it might be a habit they formed and habits as you know are hard to let go and only time can effectively do the job of curtailing it. so there might really be nothing to it, BUT on the other hand, it might also be dangerous because even if your guy doesnt make anything of the calls and emails at first, a time might come when he might start becoming more emotionally attached to her all over again, you know, that "old flame" bullshit, the world trade centre started with one block of cement and look at how massive it was before 9/11, my advice is that you tell him exactly how you feel, undiluted and uncompromised, tell him how and where it hurts, tell him he's making you to unconsiously compete with the virtual presence of this his ex- girl, he cannot enjoy his "chin chin"(ex- girl) and eat his cake (you) at the same time. in summary make know exactly how you feel but dont be harsh about it, keep me posted, all the best.

i have read so many post concerning this girl who wants to get back to her boyfriend, and all the suggestions goes to show how diverse we humans are in our thinking, but the truth is no matter what we put up here as our suggestions, we would never be able to tell exactly how the girl in question feels about the guy, people vary, and when it comes to relationships some people have very tender and attaching hearts, lets be careful of what kind of advice we put up here for this girl, if she truly loves him, it doesnt hurt to still tell him how she feels, if he's truly worth the trouble, his reaction and response to her plea would tell, pride has nothing to do with matters of  the heart, so go ahead and tell him how you feel, but there's no need going to his town, call him and pour your minds out.

many of you girls were like, move on , forget about it, she's a human being, am i getting something wrong or what, i thought the initial stages of a relationship are supposed to be very, you know ' oh i can't sleep without you sort of feeling, just ten months?, isnt the love still supposed to be spicy, fresh, hot and all that shit, 10months into the relationship and she cant remember his birthday, many of you girls talking, if your boyfriend were to do it to you i can imagine you getting all hysterical and crazy and now the guy is in the hot seat and you're posting all kinds of selfminded bullshit, girls, get real, for the guy sha, my advice is that talk to her and tell her 2 tell you if she's really into the relationship and if you matter to her.

you know atimes you girls can be very naive, your guy is receiving calls and mails from different girls and he comes up with one over substandard excuse like that  and you eat it full flesh as if it's a hot plate of indomie, probably the next time you hear him talking to them , he'll tell you he's recieving relationship counselling from an online therapist, or posssibly he's keeping tabs on the stock exchange market, wake up girl, this act might actually a cheating act in it's bud, if you still love him like i think you do, seat him down and pour your mind out, tell him you feel threatened by the calls and mails and see what happens next, a guy should make his girl feel she's the only one in the world, i'm a guy and that's how i see it,

heeeey, ice and her beau, could you guys take your word games elsewhere, i'm sure you have phones, you can express your self better via the phone, helllo, i hope i'm speaking english, a girl asked for help and all you guys can do is to start playing some lewd word games, take a hike 'oth of you

ah, pls spare me that "i cant stop thinking about her story", if you miss her that bad, then follow her, it's very simple, there are many options, you can either poison yourself, stab yourself or jump inside the lagoon, when you get to the other side you would know whether you made the right choice or not

manntee, i dont know if your recent post was reffering to me, but just to make sure, i'm a guy not a girl ;

dahh, dahh, dahhh, just listen to all 'em girls talking about  "marry her, marry her", what ever happened to the clause - it takes two to tangle, it wasn't like the guy raped her or forced her into getting laid, the scale of the blame and accusations should tilt equally to both parties. any way that aside, let me address the issue of  guys and girls who get laid before wedlock, i'm not trying to paint my self as a holy ass kind of guy, but hey , i cant help my self, i'm in my early twenties and i'v never had sex before, believe you me, i have all it  takes to get a girl laid , but  gettting laid before wedlock is something that is exceptionally "STUPID", i mean your sexuality is like your ace card, when playing a game of cards, your ace card is what gives you an advantage over others. your sexuality belongs to you, it is what makes you, YOU. it is supposed to be the only unexploited  area of your life, picture this, you get laid with a guy and after sometime both of you break up, then you see him some weeks later on the street or somewhere else, how do you feel, dont you feel empty, dont you  FEEL as if he has  taken a part of you that he's never going to return?, for the guy with the twins problem. you and the girl should sit down and talk and come to a consensus. if both of you are still mutually in love, then get married, but if she's no longer in that love cloud, i guess you forget marriage and learn how to become a good father to your kids.

Wow i can't believe this is actually coming from a lady , as in, a lady!, a girl, hey i dont know but maybe i woke up this morning with a little ache in my head and i might have lost the definitions for some things, are ladies still those people who normally wear skirts and have this high affinity for a man's pocket, just checking. it's so weird i'm almost thinking she was a guy in her former life, any how sha, it's all good, its so elating to know that there still some girls who belong to this school of thought.

i guess you have a huge thirst for attention and all the buzz i've been reading about your post should really be making you feel like what, ever ! , really i dont have any beef with you, but hey, who wants to know whether you are 70 and you've not gone out with any guy, save it.

"How can we encourage parents to let you stay overnight with your boyfriend", can you just hear yourself talk! i mean what are we Nigerian guys turning into, i guess we are getting too messed up with all the films we watch, for no reason whatsoever should a guy/girl spend the night in each other's house, not even for a prayer vigil dahhhhhhhh