jomoh: Paganism found a way to survive for centuries and despite all the information available human being still celebrate paganism disguised under Christianity.
Satan has a very strong hold on humans.
I seek refuge with Allah against shytan the accursed.
merahki: Stop with the unnecessary and counter productive things gender warring How many people have you asked out that didn’t wear weaves and Caucasian slanting make up? When last did you take a natural hair babe out on a date? You (man like you) are part of the problem indirectly. The good thing is that you can change the narrative- do it
I think because men aren't used to seeing black women with natural hair so when they do it seems a bit off. But I do agree with you a little bit
2buffagain: LOL akata na black americans. There are some good ones, but a lot of them are useless rachet individuals. Most akata women like getting hitched up with naija guys though because Naija men at least know how to take care of things. Their akata men generally could care less.
Tinosa: Hello good people I got a call that my dad was rushed to a & e because he was having frequent collapses. My mum called me that they had no much money on them. We had to clear d little we had in our account to help them add to what they had. And am glad we did but Now no money to buy Christmas chicken i promised the children someone nice should come to my rescue and help me to put a smile on my kids faces. I made up my mind long ago never to use sickness to tell lies on any of my loved ones head to get favours and so help me GOD. Anything will mean a lot. Merry Christmas celebration to u all.
pocohantas: I honestly do not think having sex with a man will make him not to propose. If there is one thing I have come to realise recently, it is the fact that...a man knows what he wants. A man can delay commitment for years with his gf, meet another girl next week and marry her in a month.
It is not by sex, it is not by wifely or husband duties (whatever that means). He just sees you and it clicks. When you meet that man, that is when you know that, when a man is in love...another mumu is born
Saffi: Is the man pursuing the woman or is it the other way round? Is the woman putting the ring on the mans finger or is it the other way round?
What I’m trying to say is that, the man is the one who chases the woman. He goes out of his way to impress and choose the woman he wants. You may not understand this, but each to their own.
I do understand, it's just that I feel you no- sex crew are hypocritical. Only a minority of ppl get married as virgins
Saffi: You have given him sex from the first month of knowing you. Given him all the styles and never denied him sex, what’s there to look for in marriage? I think what toks was trying to say is stop giving wifely duties to boyfriends. It doesn’t make sense. You have to be strategic when it comes to getting married, I’m so sorry. In this generation of lazy laid back men who do not want commitment, if you’re not strategic you’ll have egg splattered all over your face.
Now if after a year, both of you are of a certain age let’s say mid to late 20s, and he’s not made any suggestions about marriage, made efforts about taking you the isle, what is he doing? If you’ve shown you’re worthy, and he claims he loves you why is he not taking that extra step? They’re some exceptional cases, but for the most part of a man sees a future with you, he’s not going to waste time and allow the years to go by without putting a ring on it. Even if it’s just a small registry thing until he can afford a proper traditional wedding, then so be it. Men like to trap good things. He’s thinking about children and your fertile years, he’s thinking about other men who could possibly take his place, he’s thinking about the pressure you may receive from family. All I’m saying is that women should be smart and read in between the lines. Listen to their actions and not words.
But a man has to give husbandly duties to his girlfriend abi? Most of you no sex before marriage crew are so hypocritical