Beamborla:

The fact that a guy has never been with a woman does not make him cool. His person makes him cool.

Why wont a guy never be with a woman in d first place? It simply means his person is "cool" & your person makes you who you are...such a coolio will most likely end up with left overs while d go-getters select what they want.

So he just had sex with her for all this years n wants to dump her nw! If she didn't allow him into her hole!! He'll say she's too holy/one-sided bitch but nw because he has enjoyed her for this long,hw wants to dump her!! The nigga deserves to be stoned

Well.. Dis is a problem many young men faces, in most cases after having sex wit a lady d male loses all atom of feelings for d female nd I blive it can be caused by d following
1. Nt being satisfied with wat u have
2. Being into more dan one relationship
3. Having sex more than usual at any slightest opportunity
4.Forgeting d ethics of romance b4 sex... Most men at d first time dey have sex wit a lady, they take their time caressing, romancing, kissing nd other oral erotics bt there wud be slight change on d second round... Let me advice ur cousin pls tell him to try nd abstain frm having sex wit her for a long period of time if possible try nt to even see each other for sometime dis will tell u if u still love or have feelings for her nd maybe wen she gets back after d long break, while making love it wud look new nd enticing bt don't jst jump into sex caress her, try new tins its nt all abt sex if u really love a girl, romance goes a long way more than sex... Above all pray for God to give u heart to stay long in a marriage cos if u have dis problem, it wud also affect ur wife someday.... D name is Collins, I rest my case

Beamborla:
Maybe we should consider the topic; PRE-MARITAL SEX. forget all these God will punish him and home videos that always tell us lies. Let's be realistic and logical all emotions and sentiments aside. God is not a hypocrite... he already told us not to fornicate for reasons of this nature.

Crucify me if you want to, they would both be punished by God unless they accept and recognize their sin and ask for forgiveness. And I'm sure he would comfort her and give a new beginning... him as well

We go and mess up ourselves and start shouting God will punish... he won't! Except it was a rape.

I think it's time we start practicing if you want IT as badly as you claim to, put a ring on IT.

I agree with you jor... Gals need to learn to protect themselves! not when a guy tells you to jump into the fire you just jump... curse from now till tomorrow, it won't work! Unless she was jazzed or raped.

If you want to have sex, do it coz you want to and if at the end of the day he says he's not game anymore you flap your butt and leave... and if you don't want to? don't! No matter the pressure. No regrets...

Have a stand... Life's too short to live for some guy... nuff said.

Beamborla:
He shouldn't marry the poor girl out of pity only to start cheating on her or maltreating her. He should leave her, biko. We are talking about a life time contract here...

At least he didn't put his signature there. It wound be painful to her but It's for her own Good. Some other cool dude would come along eventually.

u r smart

Beamborla:
He shouldn't marry the poor girl out of pity only to start cheating on her or maltreating her. He should leave her, biko. We are talking about a life time contract here...

At least he didn't put his signature there. It wound be painful to her but It's for her own Good. Some other cool dude would come along eventually.

Madam I remove cap for u....one of d sensible post by a lady here.

Some odas here just keep on cursing d whole male folks as if na all of us dey like dat. Yeah its painful ooo but habaaaa prevention dey say is better dan cure oooo.

Ur cousin is a FOOOOOOOoOOL... He did not know that when he was enjoying it. Eya for the girl that was foolish enuf to be sleeping with the boy. That's y its better to just chill. Ur cousin should be killed. Karma works and he will get what is coming to him one day.... Idiat

U had beta take in dat girl as a wife or bear d consequences of ur irrational thoughts

Iamfrank:


Am pretty sure he loves ha, cz up to dis moment sh neva lacks anytin, he gives ha everytin sh wants

By giving her everytin she wants,does dat mean he luvs her?

what does he see her as,a dumping material?Better tell your cousin not to try it because there is a curse already

If he can get tired of his gf he will also get tired of his future wife, my advice to your cousin is he should stop reasoning like a kid and grow d f up and he shud also remba that he will one day have daughters n d bad tin is they will have to suffer 4 his evil. Men of nowadays r unbelievable damn!

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Guys like that,ladies know how to treat their Bleep up...after scooping all the honey,he wants to drop the bottle...he started it,so he must finish it or else.......i reserve my comment

asdfjklhaha:
U give them sex, the wuld say you're cheap, talk about how de slept wit u to their friends and won't respect u.
U don't giv them sex, they wuld say you don't lov them or care about their feelings.
What do guys want, why do so many men in their early, middle and late 30s still behave like teenagers?
Tell ur cousin dat he's a heartless bast.ard.

And he will meet his waterloo in front.

Since we must prove how good he/she is in bed before marriage, the hammer of the law of diminishing return will not stop landing against us.

That cousin of yours is a ____tard, not sorry to say.

Iamfrank:


I Dnt tink he is heartless...... He hasn't said he wants to dump ha.... He jst shared his problem wt me n he wants advice

hmmm, hope its not what am thinking?.... U said the Lady has enjoyed ur cousin too that He has spent like half a million on her... How come you know much about this ur so called cousin

Beamborla:
He shouldn't marry the poor girl out of pity only to start cheating on her or maltreating her. He should leave her, biko. We are talking about a life time contract here...

At least he didn't put his signature there. It wound be painful to her but It's for her own Good. Some other cool dude would come along eventually.

some other cool dude will now come and take another man's remnant

Men dey suffer sha,especially those innocent,christian brothers wey no know anything,na them dey fall prey pass.

Iamfrank:


Dnt b shocked...... Cz d gal has also enjoyed my cousin...... Accordin to him he has spent almost half a million on ha....... He is tinkin seriously

what the h**l is half a million compared to emotions and time spent

Emasel:


some other cool dude will now come and take another man's remnant

Men dey suffer sha,especially those innocent,christian brothers wey no know anything,na them dey fall prey pass.

If a man as holy as Hosea can marry a prostitute, innocent Christian brothers can if God wants it that way.

vjsmiles:
if she doesnt spread her pineapple now she is not a sex material but now she has endured your throbbing pencil she is now "not a wife material"...
tell your cousin that he is not a" human being "material

no offe?nse

Yes sir

Iamfrank:
Please, I need mature advice only

My cousin have been dating his girl friend since secondary school, he is now graduated and have a good job.....

But the problem is, he has slept with this girl like a thousand times and doesn't even enjoy her in bed any longer. He said he has enjoyed all marital privileges with her and now he is scared of getting married to a girl he doesn't have sexual pleasure with.

He is really confused right now as he doesn't know wat to do because he loves her.

Please, mature advice is needed.

I think it's a ridiculous reason his giving for not wanting to marry her .
* ok lets just say he know goes for a Virgin someone he thinks is wifey material
*he sleeps with her mayb on wedding nite n finds out that shes not good in bed ... What then ? Will he divorce n move on n keeping going round in circles till he finds one that can please him.

I just think the reason doesnt make sense . Instead of him to teach her n let her know wt he likes n all that.
Its the chic i feel sorry

if this will teach some ladies lessons, then let it do cos i don't know why women keep calling men names whereas u r d one that opened ur legs wide, if u didn't he won't force it open.

over to men- what's even una problem, why will u keep sleeping with a lady only for u to say she is not a wife material later. do unto others what u would hv them do to u, don't allow what is inbetween ur leg determine ur movement or ruin u.


all d same that is why i will still maintain u close ur leg till u r married my opinion though- ladies beware

Seriously. after pounding her soft.shes nw tasteless. I pirry u .u bera find her sweet n engage her right away 😆

i just hope girls/ladies/women are taking notes.

Man by nature is addicted to many women meaning more than 1, in a Quran says you should start with 2 that's why in islam a man is entitled to marry 4 wives, if I were him i'll manage to marry her letter will marry another upto 4

seriously , my advice to your cousin is dat it will b cruel n barbaric to such thing as dumping her.. the person u are longing for .how many time had she been f**ked
will he leave his wife after a few years of sex ??

happyjuliet:
Men shaaaaaaaaa, after he don finish all her juice, he com dey talk rubbish ... We ladies self should try and b keeping ourselves 4 d right man.

Nobi. Onle finish o... The guy dry her... Nw he wan go farm for newLand..... Shey una dey see some guys

queencalipso:
. My friend will u just keep quiet how cann u be tired of someone u claim to love annd u call giving her material thinngs love after so many yrs of digging her? Now u are looking for an excuse to dump her annd u r using spending on her to justify ur. Action. Just to mk ur self feel better she was with u whnn u had nothing nw u r a graduate. With a good job u suddenly realise she is not good for enough for u. Op hmm. My advice for u is that u should discuss with her and mk her understand the reason u both need to part ways and pray she understands and agrees with u if not u will be inviting a curse upon ur self and who ever it is u finally tk as a wife if u just dump her like that.





My two cents

ChAie !

queencalipso:
. Is he just realising that, y didn't he notice that all those yrs he was a broke ass b4 he got a job? Wht an ungratefull being.

Infact ehn

Iamfrank:

I dnt tink any curse will folo him..... Beside dey both enjoyed demselves.... My cousin alwz gives ha cash

Ogaaa Kip shut jor

crambell:
Seriously. after pounding her soft.shes nw tasteless. I pirry u .u bera find her sweet n engage her right away 😆

bae let's go'an buy ring for dem , d guy na werey , E head nack grand :/