Let us all try and be diplomatic here, there must be a reason behind every action. I hereby put it across to every one here that there must be reasons why he made such decision, let's just try and have a fair hearing before we crucify him...*****the piller of justice*****

Iamfrank:
Please, I need mature advice only

My cousin have been dating his girl friend since secondary school, he is now graduated and have a good job.....

But the problem is, he has slept with this girl like a thousand times and doesn't even enjoy her in bed any longer. He said he has enjoyed all marital privileges with her and now he is scared of getting married to a girl he doesn't have sexual pleasure with.

He is really confused right now as he doesn't know wat to do because he loves her.

Please, mature advice is needed.

my brother your cousin don see another kitten jor......he has tasted another girl thats why

Guy no b ur cousin. Na u.and if u no marry dah babe eh,Amadioha go strike ur left nyash comot.Amu eke

Smh for ur cousin and the said girl,
That's why I'll never get tired of advocating abstinence,
Girls should put their priorities right so guys like the op's cousin won't have the guts to spew poo about them,


I hope your cousin has a sister that will experience this cos one thing is sure in life "Khama",

Meanwhile, your cousin is an example of guy I pray never to ever meet in life. And I think every girl say same prayer.


Your cousin is not an arm robber,He's a Destiny-robber..,that's the bitter truth!

Yareey:

Daddy has class. He married the lady he liked

I just checked ur profile pix, you are even a malo girl.. dont generalise next time.

There comes a time when the sex just doesnt feel like it used to,at such time it is advisable for both parties to stay away from sex and engage in other activities like going out more,watch movies or just avoid seeing each other for like a month or two,him thinking that way is not because he doesnt love her,its just over familiarity taking over,both of them just need some space apart shikena




MODIFIED: even without sex,couples still get tired of seeing each other all the time,and it doesnt just happen with couples,you could feel that way towards friends and family as well.doesnt mean u dont love em

Your cousin is a fool and really silly. How I wish I can get hold of ur stup1d cousin,he needs serious beating. after sleeping with a girl for donkey years,he no longer enjoys her and wants to leave her?
Meaning even if he leaves his current babe and marries another person,after 5-10 years of marriage. He would still say he no longer enjoys sex with her and divorce her.
Your cousin is mad.

Iamfrank:


Tanx for d advice

You are thanking for a selfish advice
I am 7 years in marriage now, do you how many times husband sleeps with wife?
its uncountable. that means after mary like 3 yrs u divorce and look for another,
its only men that get and boys like ur cousine.

I no blame am, e be like person wey dey cook soup wey don over taste am when e dey cook am. when d soup come done he come lose appetite.

asdfjklhaha:
U give them sex, the wuld say you're cheap, talk about how de slept wit u to their friends and won't respect u.
U don't giv them sex, they wuld say you don't lov them or care about their feelings.
What do guys want, why do so many men in their early, middle and late 30s still behave like teenagers?
Tell ur cousin dat he's a heartless bast.ard.

Hmmmmmmmmm

Your cousin had better remained single because he'll also do it a million times with his wife and then, he'll also tire of her.

This idea of a lady placing curse on a guy after jilting her is total bullshit to me. Ladies on this board keep making that erroneous belief that a curse would do anything...nonsense. Don't marry anybody because u pity her, u 'd live to regret it. If it were to be other way round, ladies would be like, move on because she's not meant for u, she does not even deserve you. Follow your heart young man and whatever comes out of it, take it in good faith....she would be fine whether with you or without you, vis visa

My two cents

Iamfrank:


Tanx for d advice

You are thanking for a selfish advice
I am 7 years in marriage now, do you how many times husband sleeps with wife?
its uncountable. that means after mary like 3 yrs u divorce and look for another,
its only men that get married and not boys like ur cousine.

The evil that men do.........

Beamborla:
He shouldn't marry the poor girl out of pity only to start cheating on her or maltreating her. He should leave her, biko. We are talking about a life time contract here...

At least he didn't put his signature there. It wound be painful to her but It's for her own Good. Some other cool dude would come along eventually.

So someone would take in a tokunbo wife abi?

Iamfrank:

I dnt tink any curse will folo him..... Beside dey both enjoyed demselves.... My cousin alwz gives ha cash

With the way you are replying, I think the person in question is you how come u have such a detailed account of the whole thing or u monitor ur cousins life 24/7? Stop the lies.

This what you get when u enjoy something at the wrong time. If he feels nothing for her, why delaying? Tell her the situation so she would know her stance

fzero:

I just checked ur profile pix, you are even a malo girl.. dont generalise next time.

Generalise? We are talking about men like the op cousin.

wemmieslim:
Smh for ur cousin and the said girl,
That's why I'll never get tired of advocating abstinence,
Girls should put their priorities right so guys like the op's cousin won't have the guts to spew poo about them,


I hope your cousin has a sister that will experience this cos one thing is sure in life "Khama",
J
Meanwhile, your cousin is an example of guy I pray never to ever meet in life. And I think every girl say same prayer.


Your cousin is not an arm robber,He's a Destiny-robber..,that's the bitter truth!

Someone is blisteringly Vexed- iCan sense

asdfjklhaha:
U give them sex, the wuld say you're cheap, talk about how de slept wit u to their friends and won't respect u.
U don't giv them sex, they wuld say you don't lov them or care about their feelings.
What do guys want, why do so many men in their early, middle and late 30s still behave like teenagers?
Tell ur cousin dat he's a heartless bast.ard.

Chineke!!! U dey vex oooooo.

your cousin is foolish, the girl is a bigger fool, foolishness everywhere, mtchewwww. I just pity him if he dares break her heart, he should be ready for whatever consequences that will follow.

Beamborla:
He shouldn't marry the poor girl out of pity only to start cheating on her or maltreating her. He should leave her, biko. We are talking about a life time contract here...

At least he didn't put his signature there. It wound be painful to her but It's for her own Good. Some other cool dude would come along eventually.

The cool dudes always get d left overs...lol...

Just tell ur brother not 2 marry cause his type of person can not stay with a woman 4 a long time.

Even if I sleep with my girl more than Solomon ever slept with women, I still keep track of that thing that actually made me fall in love with her in the first place. I'm still a V sha and she's still a V too. V-mobile.

I remind myself of this everyday: even if I lose every driving factor in my relationship, I should never lose the friendship we share. That's the basic, the stronghold and the epicenter of every successful relationship.

And for people who argue that sex breaks relationships, I'm sorry to burst your bubble; but sex actually solidifies relationships - healthy relationships. If your relationship is based on the desire of the flesh, say you fell in 'love' with your partner simply because he/she is sexy, hot, etc and as such, would be great in bed, I'm sorry because the moment the relationship is consummated, it goes faster than it came. But if you fell in love being friends, no matter how many times you have sex, you can only want more. Why? Cos that wasn't the reason for the relationship, it just happens...for fun (as a sort of embellishment). That's why it's always advisable to marry your best friend. Have sex, fight, argue, do whatever, you still are into each other.

Look before you leap.

he took away d wife materials from her, den he should learn to see her as one... cos even without d girl cursing him, he will b cursed by her creator

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Iamfrank:
Please, I need mature advice only

My cousin have been dating his girl friend since secondary school, he is now graduated and have a good job.....

But the problem is, he has slept with this girl like a thousand times and doesn't even enjoy her in bed any longer. He said he has enjoyed all marital privileges with her and now he is scared of getting married to a girl he doesn't have sexual pleasure with.

He is really confused right now as he doesn't know wat to do because he loves her.

Please, mature advice is needed.

Has anyone considered buy a cow if he could get free milk from it in this life? God did not create milk to be wasted as if there is no value. If anyone has done that; thinking she is Animashaun of Ijebuland, let her live with the consequences. There are thousands of them right now friterring their God's giving treasures to the swine just because 'he said he will marry me', 'android', 'difficult course to pass', 'accomodation problem', 'it's civilisation/I should belong' or simply 'body no be wood/the thing fit rust',

I stopped reading when I saw "thousand"

there should be a way to measure a lady before marriage.

Coz some ladies have been furked to emptiness. no more juice. no nothing. just like buying an already a sucked orange.

Chizzy20:
Hmm..dats y courtin for a long tym isnt dat advisable.

Don't generalized

It serves her right, she has given him the impression that she has no worth and no man wants to live with a worthless lady. That should seve as lesson to those ladies with the idea that they can corner a guy with sex.

asdfjklhaha:
U give them sex, the wuld say you're cheap, talk about how de slept wit u to their friends and won't respect u.
U don't giv them sex, they wuld say you don't lov them or care about their feelings.
What do guys want, why do so many men in their early, middle and late 30s still behave like teenagers?
Tell ur cousin dat he's a heartless bast.ard.

D fact iz dat most gal dnt knw dat d more u av sex d more the Lady loose her dignity nd personalty to ur partner (nt all guys).....I keep on knack da same gal 4yrs nd stil xpectn me 2marry her,Neva!.....make I kuku bleep her lyk 5x nd Leav her coz I knw I wnt marry her which may Lead to problm in da future....Bt most guy dnt undstn dat.

Iamfrank:


Dnt b shocked...... Cz d gal has also enjoyed my cousin...... Accordin to him he has spent almost half a million on ha....... He is tinkin seriously

hahaha from secondary school half a million as in almost 500k nd he thinks he has spent so much on her to warrant d hurt nd u dint tell us how many abortions for dat thousand sex gals shine ur eye o,say no to open ur leg I will marry u 11yrs tym