Yareey:

Of course it is

Could you please, enlighten me more on this?

missterious:


I'm not a V, I'm a human being.

Oh, a human V-eing? I forgot before.

Iamfrank:


D lady in question is d demandin type.....

dude enjoy n appreciate ur woman who has been there for u.

Dats very bad...

JoeCutie:
Could you please, enlighten me more on this?

Isn't it pretty straight forward? Both religions advice not to do it and it's not accepted in the culture. As a lady you take the risk of just being " the chick that keeps his bed warm until he meets his wifey" or worst he leaves you with a baby. Disrespect towards you and your family... I mean the list goes on and on.

This is one of the main reasons why premarital sex is discouraged. You have seen everything and there is nothing else to look forward to. The ladies are always the losers in such situations. That is why the surest way to get your man to marry you is to keep him waiting until the wedding night.

Iamfrank:
Please, I need mature advice only

My cousin have been dating his girl friend since secondary school, he is now graduated and have a good job.....

But the problem is, he has slept with this girl like a thousand times and doesn't even enjoy her in bed any longer. He said he has enjoyed all marital privileges with her and now he is scared of getting married to a girl he doesn't have sexual pleasure with.

He is really confused right now as he doesn't know wat to do because he loves her.

Please, mature advice is needed.

Good lesson for ladies that wants to satisfy their boyfriends/fiance at all cause, especially with sex.

Beamborla:
Maybe we should consider the topic; PRE-MARITAL SEX. forget all these God will punish him and home videos that always tell us lies. Let's be realistic and logical all emotions and sentiments aside. God is not a hypocrite... he already told us not to fornicate for reasons of this nature.

Crucify me if you want to, they would both be punished by God unless they accept and recognize their sin and ask for forgiveness. And I'm sure he would ;comfort her and give a new beginning... him as well

We go and mess up ourselves and start shouting God will punish... he won't! Except it was a rape.

I think it's time we start practicing if you want IT as badly as you claim to, put a ring on IT.

Now the real women are talking. May God bless you and your generations. May He bless you with virtuous, godly daughters who will always abstain till the right time. Amen.

missterious:


Lol. Me, V-mobile abi? No problem.....

See couple...you both need to start a comedy show

Yareey:

Isn't it pretty straight forward? Both religions advice not to do it and it's not accepted in the culture. As a lady you take the risk of just being " the chick that keeps his bed warm until he meets his wifey" or worst he leaves you with a baby. Disrespect towards you and your family... I mean the list goes on and on.

It's true though, but it's not always the case.

Iamfrank:
Hmmmm funny enuf dis gal in question is on nairaland...... I saw ha veiwing d trend

IN that case she is either of the 3 ladies following you. i may b wrong sha.

Beamborla:

Don't speak for someone else, speak for yourself. You should marry a virgin if you can't but don't forget that if you are not a virgin yourself, you are also a leftover... disagree if you want to, it doesn't change anything

What would be better, is if she confesses her past life to her future husband, except that, it would amount to non-fairness on her part.

So she would bring problems upon one innocent man right? When she can't keep herself?

The baseline is...flee fornication...

valmunich:
Do you really have to lie about the nigga being your cousin??

Just tell the truth let's know how best to help you out...

A problem well discussed is half solved

sunnyx13:


You can't blame him, my girl parked to my house last year claiming she had issue with her dad and promised to stay a week, some months later the issue was resolved and since then she has refused to go back home, she has stayed with me for a year and some months now, I just told her last week (you can not dash yourself to me just like that) it not done, I only wanted to help and now she has refused to leave, that way you can get tired of her ofcourse, because you have everything alright without you guys being married. Each time I tell her to go back home the next thing is insulting and crying, the other time she said we should go and see her people and make it official but OMO BOY never ready, Infact I need an advice too.

hmmmmmmmm. thank God i hv my own life to live sha. most girls are annoying dey rgard themslfs as lesser beings dt worth nothing at times by their actions. SMH.

exhibition:


What would be better, is if she confesses her past life to her future husband, except that, it would amount to non-fairness on her part.

So she would bring problems upon one innocent man right? When she can't keep herself?

The baseline is...flee fornication...

There is nothing to confess cos She didn't jump from one bed to another . You didn't meet her a virgin means she has had sex before. The only confession here is if she has had abortion for him.

And Yes, I agree with you on flee from fornication.

Kizmarty:



See couple...you both need to start a comedy show

Lol

JoeCutie:
It's true though, but it's not always the case.

True but better save then sorry

Beamborla:


There is nothing to confess cos She didn't jump from one bed to another . You didn't meet her a virgin means she has had sex before. The only confession here is if she has had abortion for him.

And Yes, I agree with you on flee from fornication.

Yes she has to, 5 years is not a small thing, there maybe implications in the Long run so she won't put "someone else" in bondage. Everything needs to be discussed no half truth!!!

The way you defend your cousin though, I think your cousin in question is you. #NoOfffense

Iamfrank:


Sorry to cut u short...... He wasn't a broke ass even while he was in sch

goldenone:
shocked @ a thousand times!!!
If the girl should curse him now they will say women are wicked...
Issokay
Sex before marriage is good?
Sex before marriage is not good?
Am confused

Do u even knw d Meaning of curse!!!

Sum Ppl do knw Wat it tkes to curse!! N Wat will Mke it effective!!

r u Nt aware Dat sx Bfr marriage is Nt good?Wat will u curse!!Abi a thief cursing a thief Cuz d other thief stole Wat He stole from Ppl.

Was d gel rape? U Jst Dnt knw Wat it tkes for curse to b effective,Lik Mi I Dnt see Hw a gel's curse cn Evn pull hair from my head.

Abi u Dnt knw Dat Ppl Hv dated for over 15yrs Notin.

Ask ursef if curse was Dat easily,do u tink Mst guys will b alive,Lik me I Hv frnd n slept wit close to 68gels still counting,So report me,cry,curse blah blah Notin.

Aside Dat I NEVA Said I wnt to marry u.

Also u Hv to knw Dat courtship means checking Weda u both cn fit in,if u both Cnt.u search for anoda.and what is their if u Ppl Dnt fit in.HABA.check d essence of courtship!!pls


also Wat do u gels call use He used Mi blah blah!! See me see wahala ohh,u open leg I enter u shout I Cum WE rest.next day Bfr I wake u knock my door Bfr I say good morning u feast on my dik.

Who use who!! Is it not WE Dat enjoy d tin.HABA.

U Cum my Huz sweep,clean I Gv u money u go!!who use who?? U clean I pay,u sweep I pay,I Evn Gv u airtym.and u talk about curse.

U Hv pucci I Hv dik

U Hv boobs I Hv chest!!

yash I get too,WE both touch all dis tins,So Wat is d big deal wit curse.and u tink it will b effective.

I Dnt knw y guys r always afraid of curse,Wich I knw it will NEVA wrk,xcept she is pure!!! N a pure chick will NEVA cry for u,Cuz u will Nt see Anytin xcept I Lov u,no mre.

#Guys 4gt all dis tins curse Dnt wrk d way u Ppl c it#

Evn d Bible said Dnt curse Dat He will curse does who curse u.

So Wat.

In my own case if u cn curse Mi n Let me Hv peace n find anoda gel,I will b glad

Iamfrank:
Please, I need mature advice only

My cousin have been dating his girl friend since secondary school, he is now graduated and have a good job.....

But the problem is, he has slept with this girl like a thousand times and doesn't even enjoy her in bed any longer. He said he has enjoyed all marital privileges with her and now he is scared of getting married to a girl he doesn't have sexual pleasure with.

He is really confused right now as he doesn't know wat to do because he loves her.

Please, mature advice is needed.

Why say your cousin when we all know it's you?

Meanwhile, tell ur cousin (if not you) that he is not 'human being material'

Yareey:

True but better save then sorry

You sound like a V sha, but I know you're not.

JoeCutie:
You sound like a V sha, but I know you're not.

Okay

That your confused cousin would still get tired of his wife after four kids,your cousin don't knw what he wants!mtchew

Bro, you have bang her and now finds the relationship not good for Marriage, you can spice up you relationship and makes it pleasurable and Romantic again to get the tips visit : www.mymissingribs.com

vjsmiles:
if she doesnt spread her pineapple now she is not a sex material but now she has endured your throbbing pencil she is now "not a wife material"...
tell your cousin that he is not a" human being "material

no offe?nse

Many are Wise but FeW are renowned

Him cousin na HE-goat ......


Infact ehn .....

Iamfrank:
Please, I need mature advice only

My cousin have been dating his girl friend since secondary school, he is now graduated and have a good job.....

But the problem is, he has slept with this girl like a thousand times and doesn't even enjoy her in bed any longer. He said he has enjoyed all marital privileges with her and now he is scared of getting married to a girl he doesn't have sexual pleasure with.

He is really confused right now as he doesn't know wat to do because he loves her.

Please, mature advice is needed.

So for your cousin mind him get sence shey.......... ShE stayed with him fOR that long , Endured some daunting situations , even Made him feel like a man.... Only for your he-goat of a cousin to say "he has enjoyed all marital privileges with her and now he is scared of getting married to a girl he doesn't have sexual pleasure with "



If nobi for one thing .... I go like make the girl block him man-hood ..........


Rubbish .......... GOD go punish your cousin for that kyn tin wey him wan do d girl .......

Iamfrank:
Please, I need mature advice only

My cousin have been dating his girl friend since secondary school, he is now graduated and have a good job.....

But the problem is, he has slept with this girl like a thousand times and doesn't even enjoy her in bed any longer. He said he has enjoyed all marital privileges with her and now he is scared of getting married to a girl he doesn't have sexual pleasure with.

He is really confused right now as he doesn't know wat to do because he loves her.

Please, mature advice is needed.

. I always advice women keep ur cookie locked up in a. Jar until he does de right which is marry you stop sleeping wit a man dats not your husband. Nd for ur cousin he's an unserious person

Beamborla:

The cool dude also left his left over for another cool dude.

You & I know dats not true....d cool dude is always d one dat had no woman experience & is so desperate & grateful to have any woman in his life....so he had no left over

to pass to any other c(f)ool dude...on the other hand the sharp guy is d one who don enjoy women belleful hence he got the chance to select the best from d rest...stop

giving cool dudes false hope cos they always end up with shit leftovers from d sharp guys......lol

Lol... ladies plenty for here... this thread is dope...

Op is fake, story line fake...

But nevertheless... op your cousin is a son of a BïT©h... if he didn't marry her, he need to watch his steps...

Ladies sef ehn. U let him Bleep your life out of your punnani. Who does that?














Ho...

Beamborla:
He shouldn't marry the poor girl out of pity only to start cheating on her or maltreating her. He should leave her, biko. We are talking about a life time contract here...

At least he didn't put his signature there. It wound be painful to her but It's for her own Good. Some other cool dude would come along eventually.

bingo!

drlawizle:


You & I know dats not true....d cool dude is always d one dat had no woman experience & is so desperate & grateful to have any woman in his life....so he had no left over

to pass to any other c(f)ool dude...on the other hand the sharp guy is d one who don enjoy women belleful hence he got the chance to select the best from d rest...stop

giving cool dudes false hope cos they always end up with shit leftovers from d sharp guys......lol

The fact that a guy has never been with a woman does not make him cool. His person makes him cool.