here to learn so that when the time comes I will apply them

cruzita:
here to learn so that when the time comes I will apply them

Good..i just hope people with contrary opinion will shed light on their own perspective and not just condemn ...

Toks2008:


Egbon abeg try make sense small and educate us a little on your own stance...at least lets learn from your school of taught.

The basis of courtship is for both to know you are truly in love with each other, no lady should go into any marriage if she does not have an atom of love for the other

IamRespected:
The basis of courtship is for both to know you are truly in love with each other, no lady should go into any marriage if she does not have an atom of love for the other

Of-course there must be "an atom" of love but the truth also is that it is totally baseles for a lady to have an atom or a galaxy of love for a man who practically does not see her as special.

What many ladies do not know is that they are wired to fall in love overtime with a man who truly treats them like a queen..quote me anywhere...even the beauty and the beast movie was not just a fiction.

So if you give that guy you feel absoluetly nothing for a time to prove his desire for you and he really treats you so well,i bet you will fall hopelessly in love in the long run.

I want to be complete

And not finished

Toks2008:


Of-course there must be "an atom" of love but the truth also is that it is totally baseles for a lady to have an atom or a galaxy of love for a man who practically does not see her as special.

What many ladies do not know is that they are wired to fall in love overtime with a man who truly treats them like a queen..quote me anywhere...even the beauty and the beast movie was not just a fiction.

So if you give that guy you feel absoluetly nothing for a time to prove his desire for you and he really treats you so well,i bet you will fall hopelessly in love in the long run.

I agree with your point 1 and 2 but your point 3 I totally disagree, probably you can give him that time in friendship but for marriage hell NO

I totally agree with you that a Lady that goes into marriage with a guy that does not love him is finished..in my own school of thoughts I believe so much in a relationship where the two will be in love but the love of the guy should be more than that of the lady that way the lady will be 'completed'.

missingrib:
I totally agree with you that a Lady that goes into marriage with a guy that does not love him is finished..in my own school of thoughts I believe so much in a relationship where the two will be in love but the love of the guy should be more than that of the lady that way the lady will be 'completed'.

Sure i agree with you but then the harder part is always tilted to the lady's side.

Some ladies are so obsessed with a prototype that they just can't imagine themselves not marrying such but then this would have been an easy task if ladies are allowed to woo guys cos most times when she finally sees such guy.all she does is hope he comes to woo her so what is the use.

I know some ladies get lucky finding a hot dude who will also love and cherish them like kilode but i always tell ladies to rather pray to have a man that truly desires them...Tall and cute no be love and you wil even desire to be with a poor guy if a rich guy treats you like trash.

I would like to read more views from ladies. lalasticlala

Toks2008:


Sure i agree with you but then the harder part is always tilted to the lady's side.

Some ladies are so obsessed with a prototype that they just can't imagine themselves not marrying such but then this would have been an easy task if ladies are allowed to woo guys cos most times when she finally sees such guy.all she does is hope he comes to woo her so what is the use.

I know some ladies get lucky finding a hot dude who will also love and cherish them like kilode but i always tell ladies to rather pray to have a man that truly desires them...Tall and cute no be love and you wil even desire to be with a poor guy if a rich guy treats you like trash.

I would like to read more views from ladies. lalasticlala

that's s why wooing by ladies is a bad idea. relationship is totally different from marriage.

Right on point mr toks, meanwhie the dude above me is finished for looking for his grandmother's mate to be fvcking, he needs urgent help asap

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Toks2008:


Now let me blow your mind.

This is how women are wired.


If a woman marries a man she does not love as in no single love at all but this guy starts to show her real love and i mean treats her like a queen,i bet you that in no time, she will begin to fall in love with him. This is the mystery that women don't even understand just like the act of sharing a man. The beauty and the beast movie is not just fiction.


If you marry the man you love and who does not love or want you even if he lied to you,in no time when he starts cheating on you and treating you worse than shits, you will pray that GOD should turn back the hands of time.

The most important mystery of love is that though we do not choose who to love as you can see yourself loving someone who is totally odd from your choice but most times,loving someone is not about feelings but a conscious decision we make and stand by it.

You ought to write more stuff like these, not that Freudian miss of the other day.

I wouldn't want to settle with someone who loves me more than I love him. It has to be a mutual thing

Sometimes I don't even get what this ninja types. Heading doesn't even synchronize with content, and message is overly disjointed..
Stick to your day job if you got nothing coherent to say boy...

Hmmm, yet another outcry for the female race...if only they will hearken to this, dunno when women will start being wise, too many write ups about them both online and offline..

The today's women love everything instantanous...

They want money intantanous..
They want husband instantanous..
They want love instantanous..
They wanna sleep and wake up on the rightside of their bed...
They want every Goddam thing instantanous...

Dear ladies, it has never worked like that before, even God created one thing after the other...the globe itself takes it's time to evolve round it's orbit, our elementary geography told us so...even nature sef takes it's time to really be natural...the sun rises from the east in the morning, and sets in the west in the evening...even the ship visibility, in our secondary school geography, if you 've witnessed a ship on the sea before, you'd realised that from afar, you'd only be seeing smoke from the exhaust pipe facing up, but gradually as the ship emerges closer, you start seeing it's full body...now, in geography of the earthcrust, we termed it as one of the proofs of the sphericity of th earth...the earth is spherical in nature like an egg and not round like orange...inother not to deviate from mr stokes thread, all i'm tryna say to our ladies is, don't be too quick to jump into conclusion cos that guy might just be the bunch of prayers you 've been praying all your life, give it time, rome was not build in a day...even as i know i'm sounding intelligent, if you see some of us physical we are so dwn to earth, you might even write us off from afar but who cares??, maybe until you are privilege to come close which we will still disguise our true identity...so, my humble plea to the ladies, try to comb a guy before you leapfrog out...cheers.

Hmmm, yet another outcry for the female race...if only they will hearken to this, dunno when women will start being wise, too many write ups about them both online and offline..

The today's women love everything instantanous...

They want money intantanous..
They want husband instantanous..
They want love instantanous..
They wanna sleep and wake up on the rightside of their bed...
They want every Goddam thing instantanous...

Dear ladies, it has never worked like that before, even God created one thing after the other...the globe itself takes it's time to revolve round it's orbit, our elementary geography told us so...even nature sef takes it's time to really be natural...the sun rises from the east in the morning, and sets in the west in the evening...even the ship visibility, in our secondary school geography, if you 've witnessed a ship on the sea before, you'd realised that from afar, you'd only be seeing smoke from the exhaust pipe facing up, but gradually as the ship emerges closer, you start seeing it's full body...now, in geography of the earthcrust, we termed it as one of the proofs of the sphericity of th earth...the earth is spherical in nature like an egg and not round like orange...inother not to deviate from mr stokes thread, all i'm tryna say to our ladies is, don't be too quick to jump into conclusion cos that guy might just be the bunch of prayers you 've been praying all your life, give it time, rome was not build in a day...even as i know i'm sounding intelligent, if you see some of us physical we are so dwn to earth, you might even write us off from afar but who cares??, maybe until you are privilege to come close which we will still disguise our true identity...so, my humble plea to the ladies, try to comb a guy before you leapfrog out...cheers.

Ishilove:

Oniranu jatijati

ewo ni tie

Ishilove:

You ought to write more stuff like these, not that Freudian miss of the other day.

If i have to tell you,i never for one sec believe that any lady will rise against that thread but you did and that goes to show how complex ladies can be. So sister Ishilove,na you sabi

Ishilove:
I wouldn't want to settle with someone who loves me more than I love him. It has to be a mutual thing

lol!

Gbagbe,it rarely happens that way..there is always an unbalanced tilt in emotion so pray he loves you more.

Lalasticlala please lets get a wider audience to contribute..thanks.

Toks2008:


Now let me blow your mind.

This is how women are wired.


If a woman marries a man she does not love as in no single love at all but this guy starts to show her real love and i mean treats her like a queen,i bet you that in no time, she will begin to fall in love with him. This is the mystery that women don't even understand just like the act of sharing a man. The beauty and the beast movie is not just fiction.


If you marry the man you love and who does not love or want you even if he lied to you,in no time when he starts cheating on you and treating you worse than shits, you will pray that GOD should turn back the hands of time.

The most important mystery of love is that though we do not choose who to love as you can see yourself loving someone who is totally odd from your choice but most times,loving someone is not about feelings but a conscious decision we make and stand by it.

Nope. I disagree. Here on NL Family section I have stumbled on threads of women saying though their husbands love them to high heavens they find it difficult to reciprocate same. I can't dig out such threads now but anyone familiar with the section will agree they've seen threads like that.

Toks2008:


If i have to tell you,i never for one sec believe that any lady will rise against that thread but you did and that goes to show how complex ladies can be. So sister Ishilove,na you sabi

Lol. It's not complexity or anything like that o. You're a man so you cannot understand, the same way I as a lady cannot fully understand how it feels to be a man.

Interesting!

So women are the only ones on earth who face this palava


I didn't know o

Mtchewwww

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Stop being an idiot.

Go and look for work to do or get a skill, if your brain can't cope with learning go and learn vulcaniser or panel beater......just do something on your own and stop being a male LovePeddler.

Prove that your mummy didn't give birth to good for nothing nonentity.

is it only a woman that should enjoy marriage

IamRespected:
This is the most stupid assumption I have ever read here on nairaland

gosh dis is d most sensible comment in here..

Hmm that's the ops point of view.. And everyone has his /her own way of lookin at it

In the past 24hrs Supreme court smoke Igbo, Gulak smoke igbo, PDP governors forum smoke Igbo but the saddest of all is that Igbo whey OP smoke since Aug 2015 one MOD go carry smoke put this traditional trashy piece for FP.


MAke una take time ooooo