sonofananimal:
I'm or was that kind of emotional person,
And that almost destroyed me. Maybe because I was too FOOLISH to love a woman to the extent of ignoring simple trace of infidelity which I kind of understand the pain of the op. And he even WANT TO take her back, but thanks with the help of people and others, I was back with my senses and realize that our WOMEN don't appreciate good things but love the wicked things.

I really learnt a lesson, and that's why I don't even valued them as human beings.

and that is why God keeps punishing you with ashawo after ashawo!

GentleToks:
@All and to those who said that the guy in question should have picked one of Nigerian ladies in US. You don't want to try Nigerian ladies abroad bruv....... Lol!!!! You will opt for a man to a man marriage(Gay marriage) after Nigerian ladies here must have turned your destiny to a default settings. 89% of these ladies are nothing but pure evil.

The first thing on their list are these below:
1) The size of your dick?
2) How skilful are u with the dick?
3) How many rounds you are able to cover in a day?
4) Can you become a white guy to them over night (Mumu)?
5) Material things or money


Nigerian ladies here in western world are the most wicked species on earth. If i begin to narrate their stories one after another, you would realise that the lady in question is an angel.

This(Bastard pregnancy) is a norm among Nigerian ladies abroad; such act is trending among Nigerian ladies. White babes are worst when it comes to this; their useless tradition doesn't frown at this sort of thing.

You know what, they sometimes bring themselves to Live TV show over the same issue we are talking about here. These ladies ll bring their estranged husband to Live family show to complain about him not supporting a Bastard financially.....

If you hear some stories here in western world, you might choose to stay away from marriage for life.

in short you are broke and you have a small dick. Well it does explain why you are just another angry black man.

I have watch the movie (Yoruba movie) but can't remember the tittle. lalastica

vague:
and that is why God keeps punishing you with ashawo after ashawo!

who is this frustrated EEDIOT

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sonofananimal:
who is this frustrated EEDIOT

the truth has hurt you ehen? Pele o, now go suck a dicccck iijjot!

GentleToks:


Thank God my brother that you are able to regain your dignity and self esteem back from that horrible experience.

There is no advantage for a man in a marriage to be honest. You suffered through schools right from primary to tertiary institutions and only for a lady who was probably the last born of her family when you were going through all this economic struggle and hardship with your parents and siblings to take over and become CEO of your life.

As if that was not enough, you would go to work all day and only for these 21st century girls to complain that you r fuccking them to death. They would nag on the fact that you r snoring after paying children school fees and put clothes on everybody with food. They would blackmail you with emotion and sentiment at every given opportunity. They are even expecting to wash dishes while they cooking this days. They want you to leave your Church of 20-year-old for their father one. You will pay dowry but only for a man who didn't pay penny to be enjoying the same thing you paid dowry on for free and even planning to kill u....

They ll be the one to eat better part of meats in the soup while you r hustling like Monkeys on the street, chasing one contract or tge other, they would spend substantial part of your money on their family who knows nothing about how much you have suffered in life to attain your present level. They would even say "Honey, we need life Insurance in case of unforeseen event-Na your death be that ooooo indirectly; she would cash on that when you die.

Interestingly, ask the same woman to do her life insurance and put your name as next of kin, she would report you to Resident pastor of your church that you r wishing her death.

If you want to be an happy for the rest of your life, the mathematics is quite simple.

Find a lovely and a little bit cultured lady to give you lovely two to three childs(So many out there).

Be prepared to live up to responsibility as a loving father.

Respect the baby mama as a woman not as your wife.

Boundary should be maintained at all time no matter Konjo( After having either two or three kids depend on what you want)rning

Create activities with the childs over the weekend- Educative activities.

Pick the childs on Friday after School so as to go through their school assignments with them and drop the childs on Monday morning in School with "I love you at all time".

You ll see your life taking a lovely shape without a drama at home. Life is too beautiful and short than to allow a lady to subject you to pains and agony of life.

You ll love your life with your sanity intact.

At age of 50 to 55, find a lovely divorced lady or widow to settle down with cos of old age companion. You need that bro no doubt. All the "gragra" of young lady has left her at that age and total and refined maturity has taken over her. At the end of the day, you would realise that your existence on earth was worthwhile and peaceful.

thank you. You said it all.

Going by how WOMEN behave NOWADYs, it is better to remain single than die miserably married with a woman who nag the hell out of you.

vague:
the truth has hurt you ehen? Pele o, now go suck a dicccck iijjot!

I can see you are obsesse with dicck.

You have being notice, have a nice day!

GentleToks:


Thank God my brother that you are able to regain your dignity and self esteem back from that horrible experience.

There is no advantage for a man in a marriage to be honest. You suffered through schools right from primary to tertiary institutions and only for a lady who was probably the last born of her family when you were going through all this economic struggle and hardship with your parents and siblings to take over and become CEO of your life.

As if that was not enough, you would go to work all day and only for these 21st century girls to complain that you r fuccking them to death. They would nag on the fact that you r snoring after paying children school fees and put clothes on everybody with food. They would blackmail you with emotion and sentiment at every given opportunity. They are even expecting to wash dishes while they cooking this days. They want you to leave your Church of 20-year-old for their father one. You will pay dowry but only for a man who didn't pay penny to be enjoying the same thing you paid dowry on for free and even planning to kill u....

They ll be the one to eat better part of meats in the soup while you r hustling like Monkeys on the street, chasing one contract or tge other, they would spend substantial part of your money on their family who knows nothing about how much you have suffered in life to attain your present level. They would even say "Honey, we need life Insurance in case of unforeseen event-Na your death be that ooooo indirectly; she would cash on that when you die.

Interestingly, ask the same woman to do her life insurance and put your name as next of kin, she would report you to Resident pastor of your church that you r wishing her death.

If you want to be an happy for the rest of your life, the mathematics is quite simple.

Find a lovely and a little bit cultured lady to give you lovely two to three childs(So many out there).

Be prepared to live up to responsibility as a loving father.

Respect the baby mama as a woman not as your wife.

Boundary should be maintained at all time no matter Konjo( After having either two or three kids depend on what you want)rning

Create activities with the childs over the weekend- Educative activities.

Pick the childs on Friday after School so as to go through their school assignments with them and drop the childs on Monday morning in School with "I love you at all time".

You ll see your life taking a lovely shape without a drama at home. Life is too beautiful and short than to allow a lady to subject you to pains and agony of life.

You ll love your life with your sanity intact.

At age of 50 to 55, find a lovely divorced lady or widow to settle down with cos of old age companion. You need that bro no doubt. All the "gragra" of young lady has left her at that age and total and refined maturity has taken over her. At the end of the day, you would realise that your existence on earth was worthwhile and peaceful.

This is a recommended reading for all single males on Nairaland.

You'll thank the poster later in life.

SirJeffry:
Mtcheew, another story from all these Facebook marriages.

How can you meet a lady online, propose online and only travel to do the marriage rights after which you zoom off again?

No pre intimacy, no post intimacy nothing after you begin complain about the spouse.

Some guys have MUMU as their last name I swear.

ndi abiakwa ozo
This pincture oooooooooo

chimkaire:
ndi abiakwa ozo
This pincture oooooooooo

Adanne, kedu ka I mere?

SirJeffry:
Adanne, kedu ka I mere?

Adi'm mma. Ndaalu kwa

You be Igbo

vague:
in short you are broke and you have a small dick. Well it does explain why you are just another angry black man.

Senseless!!!!

Big dick!!!! Really........

My dear, i don't need to brag about how small or big my dickk is online; it won't make any sense. However, i must not fail to let you that all what i wrote up there was a result of my experience in life.

My vast experience about ladies was as a result of my past and past represent nothing but sexcapades.

Have you ever been told by your girlfriends that you would be a star if you r Porn star? That's the only clue i would leave u with.

AreaFada2:


Hehehehe. Not in the West.

Not in this 21st century that law/women want to punish men for all the perceived injustices against women since Adam & Eve.

They will sooner pass more laws to enslave & emasculate men the more.

We men are now on our own.

If one day we decide not to marry at all, women will lobby/compel government to force all straight men over 35 to marry.

Proven Gayism may then be only way out.

It may seem improbable but don't be surprised.

You are so ON POINT with this one!

And women do it so "subtly", while still claiming to be disadvantaged and enlisting the support of some foolish men

The future looks very scary..... will be long gone by then sha!



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You are so ON POINT with this one!

And women do it so "subtly", while still claiming to be disadvantaged and enlisting the support of some foolish men[/color]

The future looks very scary..... will be long gone by then sha! [/color] [/b]

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My Oga, na so I just dey look them o

vague:
if you weren't already taken i was going to pay your groom price for my little sister o

LoL! May she find a truly loving and wonderful husband.

Same thing happened to david my friend, his nigerian wife he brought to england, he let her join one of the colleges, while he goes to work she goes to college. She ended up getting pregnant with one of her college boy friend. the college boy friend dumped her with pregnancy, now she is begging david that she is sorry. To take her and the baby.

The worst thing for david is, the girls parent in nigeria, did not believe david when he told them what their daughter did. I ve adviced him to ship the girl back home for her parents, but he is afraid because the girl brothers threatened to kill him. My guy david is doomed.

Even though he was laughing at me for marrying oyibo woman, now him too wants oyibo woman. Long story? Yes i know but its true.

EgunMogaji:


But the same thing could happen regardless of where the Spouse came from, even the US.

Capital "No" Sir!

These shenanigans happen because of the "enabling LAWS" which are Unique to the "Western Environment".... U.S. U.K and Europe in general.

Go anywhere in Russia, Latin America, Brazil, Middle-East Countries, African Countries,..e.t.c and tell me if a wife can eject her husband from his home (using the Police!), bring in another Boy-friend and ask the husband to be paying her "Maintenance Money" to fund her love-life with her boyfriend, in the husband's house!!

Even the Judge / Police will ROFL when you make that kind of demand but in those Western countries, it is called "Rights of the woman".


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that's why I've been shouting, crying, praying, pleading and advising my cousin not to go back and marry one girl he met last December at our village I advised him to marry one Asian girl he was dating but this mofo won't listen I know it's going to be a time bomb and I'm not even going to pity him one bit after he marries her and brings her over. Imo I'm scared shitless about marriage, left for me surrogacy might be my option because I can't live watching someone enslave me, God protect me from such experience.

GentleToks:


Thank God my brother that you are able to regain your dignity and self esteem back from that horrible experience.

There is no advantage for a man in a marriage to be honest. You suffered through schools right from primary to tertiary institutions and only for a lady who was probably the last born of her family when you were going through all this economic struggle and hardship with your parents and siblings to take over and become CEO of your life.

As if that was not enough, you would go to work all day and only for these 21st century girls to complain that you r fuccking them to death. They would nag on the fact that you r snoring after paying children school fees and put clothes on everybody with food. They would blackmail you with emotion and sentiment at every given opportunity. They are even expecting to wash dishes while they cooking this days. They want you to leave your Church of 20-year-old for their father one. You will pay dowry but only for a man who didn't pay penny to be enjoying the same thing you paid dowry on for free and even planning to kill u....

They ll be the one to eat better part of meats in the soup while you r hustling like Monkeys on the street, chasing one contract or tge other, they would spend substantial part of your money on their family who knows nothing about how much you have suffered in life to attain your present level. They would even say "Honey, we need life Insurance in case of unforeseen event-Na your death be that ooooo indirectly; she would cash on that when you die.

Interestingly, ask the same woman to do her life insurance and put your name as next of kin, she would report you to Resident pastor of your church that you r wishing her death.

If you want to be an happy for the rest of your life, the mathematics is quite simple.

Find a lovely and a little bit cultured lady to give you lovely two to three childs(So many out there).

Be prepared to live up to responsibility as a loving father.

Respect the baby mama as a woman not as your wife.

Boundary should be maintained at all time no matter Konjo( After having either two or three kids depend on what you want)rning

Create activities with the childs over the weekend- Educative activities.

Pick the childs on Friday after School so as to go through their school assignments with them and drop the childs on Monday morning in School with "I love you at all time".

You ll see your life taking a lovely shape without a drama at home. Life is too beautiful and short than to allow a lady to subject you to pains and agony of life.

You ll love your life with your sanity intact.

At age of 50 to 55, find a lovely divorced lady or widow to settle down with cos of old age companion. You need that bro no doubt. All the "gragra" of young lady has left her at that age and total and refined maturity has taken over her. At the end of the day, you would realise that your existence on earth was worthwhile and peaceful.

This POST deserves to be FRAMED and placed at the Marriage registry, ..for all intending Husbands, to read before putting Signature to the dotted lines of "I do"!

I call it POST OF THE CENTURY ...l am definitely saving it for my own kids to read at the appropriate time.

@GentleToks, you just earned my "bow and RESPECT" (dont "go", just take the "bow" .... unlike a Ministerial Screening! )



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icedbeatz:
that's why I've been shouting, crying, praying, pleading and advising my cousin not to go back and marry one girl he met last December at our village I advised him to marry one Asian girl he was dating but this mofo won't listen I know it's going to be a time bomb and I'm not even going to pity him one bit after he marries her and brings her over. Imo I'm scared shitless about marriage, left for me surrogacy might be my option because I can't live watching someone enslave me, God protect me from such experience.

Fa-faa-Faaa.... Foul!
God has given us the brain and wisdom, to do that which we feel/know is RIGHT.

Generally speaking, "Men" should start taking "concrete Actions" to protect themselves, their investments and sanity, from the ravages of marriage, if they must marry.
Pre-Nuptial agreement, Magun, co-habitation without any binding "legal Cert", Gay marriage with child adoption, e.t.c are just some of the "options" available

Yo cant leave fire on your roof, then "pray to God" and go to bed!
Its a recipe for disaster!

Dont get God angry, He has tried his best and e nor concern the Big Man Upstairs, if a man messes things up.

To be forewarned ... is to be forearmed.


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Capital "No" Sir!

These shenanigans happen because of the "enabling LAWS" which are Unique to the "Western Environment".... U.S. U.K and Europe in general.

Go anywhere in Russia, Latin America, Brazil, Middle-East Countries, African Countries,..e.t.c and tell me if a wife can eject her husband from his home (using the Police!), bring in another Boy-friend and ask the husband to be paying her "Maintenance Money" to fund her love-life with her boyfriend, in the husband's house!!

Even the Judge / Police will ROFL when you make that kind of demand but in those Western countries, it is called "Rights of the woman".

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Maybe not as severe as in the US but YES it occurs in ALL those places too.

I belong to an immigration forum and we read all the stories. In fact there is a specific forum for the "woe is me stories". Not uncommon to read "help my american wife is worse than my Ukrainian ex wife, etc".

The only Men I envy so far are mostly Nigerian Men, they have an unimpressive advantage in Nigeria (and I think why most get in hot soup over here) but I also read that the Nigerian courts are getting silly now too.

daretodiffer:
The law needs to classify selfish and deceitful acts like this including giving a man another's man child as fraud, with nothing less than 20 years without parole

I blame him sha, when our men rush home to pick ‘wives' because they believe we are not traditional enough. This is what most of them get

are you traditional enough?

EgunMogaji:
...but I also read that the Nigerian courts are getting silly now too.

Quite a number of women have become judges (especially in Lagos judiciary). Word is, they got there by bottom power (because most are dunderheads). But at least they are sticking up for the women folk.

Obiwannn:
are you traditional enough?

NO

I am me enough

logica:
Quite a number of women have become judges (especially in Lagos judiciary). Word is, they got there by bottom power (because most are dunderheads). But at least they are sticking up for the women folk.

What does your mum do?

daretodiffer:


What does your mum do?

She's a retired head-teacher. What does yours do? Mind you, I don't take prisoners...thread softly. Don't say I didn't warn you.

logica:
She's a retired head-teacher. What does yours do? Mind you, I don't take prisoners...thread softly. Don't say I didn't warn you.

Mine is a retired Head Mistress.

God bless the teaching profession Nigeria and all those teachers in our formative years in primary and secondary schools.

Greetings and thanks to your Mum.

EgunMogaji:


Mine is a retired Head Mistress.

God bless the teaching profession Nigeria and all those teachers in our formative years in primary and secondary schools.

Greetings and thanks to your Mum.

...likewise to yours.

logica:
She's a retired head-teacher. What does yours do? Mind you, I don't take prisoners...thread softly. Don't say I didn't warn you.

Bwahahaha. I don't take prisoners too

My mum was a secondary school teacher. You see I understand where you are coming for. You are not smart enough to understand women in seemingly higher positions. I know that a learned person make more sacrifices in comparison to a teacher and unlike the teaching profession, it is far easier for promotion to come in as at when due without bottom power. I can understand why you would think that the female judges are nothing but who.res, you wouldn't understand what they had to go through. You can never understand the sacrifices they have to make, your mum isn't one and you just couldn't care to find out. How can a woman achieve something so prestigious? Just like other idio.ts, you join them in telling whoever cares to listen that it is only possible through bottom power. Would you say the same if your mum were a judge, Oh wait! She isn't. And if I remembered correctly, infidelity and fornication in schools are as common as dirt despite the fact that it hardly adds anything to their careers (too many of schools everywhere).

By the way, Nigerian legal system have always been shi.t especially to the less privileged.

daretodiffer:

My mum was a secondary school teacher. You see I understand where you are coming for. You are not smart enough to understand women in seemingly higher positions. I know that a learned person make more sacrifices in comparison to a teacher and unlike the teaching profession, it is far easier for promotion to come in as at when due without bottom power. I can understand why you would think that the female judges are nothing but who.res, you wouldn't understand what they had to go through. You can never understand the sacrifices they have to make, your mum isn't one and you just couldn't care to find out. How can a woman achieve something so prestigious? Just like other idio.ts, you join them in telling whoever cares to listen that it is only possible through bottom power. Would you say the same if your mum were a judge, Oh wait! She isn't. And if I remembered correctly, infidelity in schools is as common as dirt despite the fact that it hardly adds anything to their careers (too many of schools everywhere).

Let me just quickly start off by telling you, that your FATHER is an idi0t, and your mother is a stinking cvnt of a dunderhead. That's where you inherited your stench from; I can tell merely by looking at your profile; your vag1na stinks. I'm sure the stench is enough to stunt the growth of your brain cells, but story for another day.

Now that I got that out of the way, I will let you know that I sit twice a week and discuss with lawyers...SANS...and Honorables...all lawyers who know their sh!t. Lawyers who spend all their daylight hours with these judges we speak of; and can tell they know next to nothing. Judges who will adjourn cases at the drop of a hat. Adjourn simply because they have a headache. Adjourn because the A/C isn't working. So I do know what I am talking about; and you like your id1otic parents are just a m0r0n with pretensions or should I say delusions of having some knowledge.

We can continue the dance if you wish...monkey.

logica:
Let me just quickly start off by telling you, that your FATHER is an idi0t, and your mother is a stinking cvnt of a dunderhead. That's where you inherited your stench from; I can tell merely by looking at your profile; your vag1na stinks. I'm sure the stench is enough to stunt the growth of your brain cells, but story for another day.

Now that I got that out of the way, I will let you know that I sit twice a week and discuss with lawyers...SANS...and Honorables...all lawyers who know their sh!t. Lawyers who spend all their daylight hours with these judges we speak of; and can tell they know next to nothing. So I do know what I am talking about; and you like your id1otic parents are just a m0r0n with pretensions or should I say delusions of having some knowledge.

We can continue the dance if you wish...monkey.

Is that it? I thought you were going to type three pages worth of BS to tell me how miserable you are.

Well, a man who sits with lawyers, SANs and whatever twice a week would be smart enough to ignore such mo.ronic defamatory BS. I don't believe it. I don't think any one with a well functioning brain would.