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That's Naija for you. If it ain't broke; don't fix it.

feaworaoja007:
My brother,lemme ask you one question...with all your exposure and everything;are you going up or down? You think this is the case of "the maids are not to blame?"...so of all the girls in this world you decided to restrict yourself to this one? Why? Do you av complex issue or is it that you cant go out and meet the kinda gurl u want?...so,just becos she can cOok and has good manners you"l marry her...ds jazz wey dem put for you must clear IJN..."i dont see any chemistry btw 2 of u...i dont think it"ll work!

You are right. I have the same feeling it won't work. And I think the guy already knows it too.

Something is lacking and in certain relationships, what is missing is pretty much more important than what is already obtainable.

I think what he's doing here is just trying to rationalize in his mind between how he really feels and how the girl will feel if things were the other way round. He's also probably trying to figure out how he would deal with the girl's reaction cum disappointment when he tells her he just can't continue with the relationship but at the same time, he doesn't want to be stuck in a sympathy marriage arrangement.

What so many people advising the guy to stick with the girl don't understand is that compatibility can be a very big issue in certain relationships and in this guy's case, I have a feeling the mental compatibility is what is seriously lacking in their relationship hence the guy's confusion.

Yes, it wasn't such a big issue all this while they were courting but now it's marriage and when it comes to marriage, most guys often tend to develop superior sense!

Nice post albeit I must say, I don't like the emphasis on money.

If as a girl, you think or believe all what a man can do for you is to provide for you, then you are making yourself so VAIN and making the man so WORTHLESS.

Listen to this: A business that makes nothing but money is a poor business - Henry Ford (American industrialist)

Yes, I've made the payment.

Paid $3.99 through PayPal and got five years extension!

fexyrich:
Nigerians with this myopic mentality about JOB..Is getting a job the only guarantee for a good life or financial freedom?? What happened to becoming an entrepreneur and pursueing your dreams??Instead of building another mans dreams...When you have a job you can only buy television.But if you chase your dreams you would one day be watched on television.Nigerian youths should think outside the box and grow beyond the mindset of going to schl just to gain employment..And som myopic and low thinking nigerian ladies would use JOB as a standard to accept or reject a manDoes Linda Ikeji have a job?? No but she created one and she is all over the news for her creativity,talk of the likes of psuare,Seun of nairaland,wizkid,slot,owners of jumia and many more very successful nigerian youths..Please let our youths change this mindset let's think creativity..That's the reason for education not just job..

Keep it up, Sir. You are full of wisdom.

Bayern Munich watch out!

Because you are next!!!

Na wa o!

Maybe OPEC will soon remove her name from the list of former OPEC chairmen?

sandrajazmin:
Is it jst me, or are dere ppl who read comments on d frst page nd ignore the rest?


Secondly.....
Hv u eva read a comment on nairaland u like and jst bfr u click like, u notice d person messed d whole comment up wt sth he/she attached below it.
And ur like OMG wtf i all ds, u jst cnt help dan ignore d coment.

Y O U A R E N O T A L O N E.

Oga mister emusmith, what the fück do you mean by "average-looking"?

Oh man, I think that's pretty much demeaning to them girls.

tosyne2much:
Reads the topic=>enters thread=> reads the Op's write-up=> shakes my head=> unzips my trouser=> brings out my 6.5 inch joystick=> pee on op's head=> walks outta thread

OP, you are medically okay, just that you are suffering from the wages of your sin which is fornication ... As in, must you bleep when you are not married ?

Op, before you can get a piece of advice from me, get married first and then re-open this thread when your joystick does not errect on your wedding night and i will advise you medically

Lastly, did u say u had to call off ur engagemnt because of your erre,ction. I mean who does that ?

Na wa o! I never could have imagined that tosyne2much could be this funny... and wicked too!

Is sports betting a sin? Na wa o! What kind of question is this?! Anyway sha, why not ask Akin Alabi?

Well, on a more serious note, it is what it is. If you think it is a sin, then it is. If you think it's not, then it's not.

Na wa o! See as here dry eh! So, there are no Man City fans in this country eh kwa? Chai, e be like say Man City dey only get fans any time dem dey play... Chelski

Josephamstrong1:
i dare U.

I dare you.

Na wa o! All these snake eaters eh... hmm!

Stelvin101:
Somebody came here to ask for ideas from Nigerians, on how to invest 2.5million naira. see pple response. I pity the future of this country

I'm telling you! The future really scares me! Some responses here doesn't just give any hope at all.

And that's is very very terrifying, I must say!

delishpot:
If say na man post this topic about what his woman did to him now....... NL boys for don arrive to abuse women like vultures wey see dead body...........God dey measure una punishment with heavenly scale.

A dey tell u! Nairaland boys eh, fear us dem!

youmour:
Some people are just spewing rubbish here,clearly they havent been molested by this monsters,i pray when its your turn you guys will come out of it alive to support the OP.

Don't mind them.

Lawmaking in Nigeria: The coolest job on earth?

Goodness gracious!

No, no, no... nooo! Himkers, I don't believe this.

We have to modify this. Let's just say he or she erroneously sent you a draft of his or her application letter.

I think that's better, right?

Right.

defending champions indeed. Mtcheeewww

This article is completely meaningless to me. I don't see any point in it all.

If you want to fhuck your maid; go ahead and do it but don't just come here and try to justify it!

It's like a thief telling people,"Hey, look, I'm a thief and if you don't hide your wallet very well, I'm going to steal it because I can't help it!"

Akuko.

Go to abroad and present this your logic. By the time the divorce lawyers have ripped you apart, torn you to pieces and completely rid you of all you've got, you'll be the one begging your next wife not to hire any maid again!

Self-control is the key. Nothing more; nothing less.

authority2006:
When I was reading this story, I was telling myself that this girl would get the bashing of her life. You don't expose yourself on nairaland, you can only end up regretting it.

Hahaha... Obviously she's a learner. She wanted to show the world how smart she is. It has backfired. One rule for all girls on nairaland: never write, say, do, or support anything that shows or even minutely suggests that you are smarter than guys.

Iyke1998:
I will save my mum(I can NEVER have someone like her).....
My marriage won't be fun for me without my mum's presence...

I can marry a new wife.
I can get $100m since there is LIFE...

That's all!!!

Correct man!

Mum is irreplaceable!

RedCard1:
And ugly Annie be like: look at what this lady is doing to my property.

Well, I just have to endure cos I can't afford to loose a man like 2face.

Everyone knows 2face is the only reason I am being heard about today.


He's the reason why I share tables with top celebrities.

I even battled over 20 women to get him.

Not to even think of the fact that BABALAWO means was adapted just to make him marry me.


Lord of marriage pls help me.


Up and down she goes. WAILING WAILER

You're wicked. Very wicked. Very very wicked

Hahaha... I guess like attracts like. You are randy. She's hot. Together we have...?

Mtcheeewwwww... Arsenal will never fail to disappoint.

... And it came to pass

Wow! The boy is good!

Kipitup!

Hahahahahaha

Caitlyn Jenner must hear this!

S/he should come and see the pastor that was responsible for his transformation!