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Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by MAKABBEY(m): 8:20pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
the moment u started having side bf, both of dem will be fucking u, den my sister, wots different between u and slut? even slut is even better coz she is going money, wots ur gain? ladies are born to be loyal and faithful no matter wot... 1 Like |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by Yarduni: 8:21pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
Sexytemi: I think you are someone of a very low value, low esteem. If you had a noble purpose in life, you wouldn't spend your emotional energy on a side guys or whatever. 3 Likes |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by Nobody: 8:21pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
After spending ample amount of my time to understand lustful love and the trail of heart-breaks it wrecks on its flow; I have come to a conclusion that monogamy is not a norm. Monogamy is a construct of mankind to regulate and control a person or persons they cherish and keep them in constant dependence on them for everything. We work so damn hard to keep marriages, when it is effortless to have plural lives and mate as other Organisms. We call ourselves Organisms yet we are not compelled to live organically. Organically, lusty love is too huge to be channeled to one person, it was meant to be utilized to cherish the whole world but we focus that love energy on one human being, creating frictions, pains, hatred and emptiness here and there. In order to fill the void in our love for our partners we buy him or her the world. Do every godamn undo-able things in and out of the bedroom to please and keep the person and fill the void. It can not completely be filled. Because monogamy is not natural norm. I want to see a sincere married person, who has been married for over 30yrs that hasnt slept with someone else. This is a challenge. Yes, OP, I agree we must train our hearts to accept that a woman needs a sidy-boy and men also need a side-chic. Gradually, we will come to live organically and fucck who ever electrifies us with e/rection. I salute! 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by Maduawuchukwu(m): 8:21pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
ItzMePuffPuff: And later when a man does same you feminists won't allow us rest. |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by Nobody: 8:21pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
am sure am not the only smelling shhhiiittt around here? |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by enitey(f): 8:21pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
Lol You can have a side boyfriend,and still love the main guy more.Moreso,some persons do not know how to double-date |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by Nobody: 8:21pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
unclezuma: It wasn't free y'know. Where my money at? Pay up, good sir. |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by lezz(m): 8:21pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
Laveda:The concept of cheating in a mate's perspective has been skewed by hypocritical convention. Men's fidelity is in provision, sustainability, inheritance, etc. Our hormonal genetics is wired to worship those slim gentle curves yours in solemn devotion. |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by surreal15(m): 8:22pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
Please lets get married already. I love your positive energy.! Benita27: |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by doll912(f): 8:22pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
If you want to have side boyfriend, please do, if you want to be loyal to one man, please do. All have advantages and disadvantages...just take your weighing scale and measure the one that suits you and your emotions... Then come back on nairaland and tell us another story that touch But to be Frank, think and choose your method wisely. |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by marisdgreat(f): 8:22pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
"Real men stay faithful. They don't have time to look for another woman because they're too busy looking for new ways to love their own." 4 Likes |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by Sexytemi(f): 8:23pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
Yarduni: Hmmmm, can I ask you a question? |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by godson300040(m): 8:23pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
chronique:
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Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by jidxin(m): 8:24pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
Sexytemi:I dont know y ppl re not of like time....mutual understanding ...love only me love only you. no side wateva....but its better to steer off love than to ve a side chic. I hate it wen I found my so called lover wit side bae. |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by Nobody: 8:24pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
Maduawuchukwu:we learnt it from u ,uncle ] |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by lilwheezy1(m): 8:24pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
What you girls don't know is that you created does monsters , you are asking how ? you remember that innocent boy that fell in love with you in sec scl or uni , you remember how he can do anything to please you, even kill and also you remember how you string him along , how you told your friends you cant date him because he is so immature , you want to date the mature and big boys , what do you think happened to him , he grew up to become the nemesis of the women folk, after you broke up with him he swore to break as many hearts as possible , take it or leave it .. This is what I've always say to my female friends , guys don't really think like you do , if you see your man flirting with a less or more beautiful woman , he just want to chop and clean mouth , guys are curious they just want to eat once and go back to the love of their life which happens to be you , if you can live with that you will be happy (to guys that's not cheating ), but if the#chopping # as happened more than once then you should be alarmed , then maybe check urself that woman is doing something better than you Note : Mind you no man wants to loose a good woman except the confused ones. 1 Like |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by adewumiopeyemi(m): 8:24pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
[b]in this recession period money is the main tin involve chikenu.. if there is no money no lady will want to date a poor man[/b] |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by lezz(m): 8:24pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
BurningBlade:Yeah, bro, a girl double-dating is standing on the threshold of full prostitution. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by dezzyxv(m): 8:24pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
If 90%of men are cheats, then d remaining 10% are being cheated on by you ladies [color=#000000][/color] |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by Precioussilas10: 8:24pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
Sexytemi:olosho mode activated...in ur next relationship,when u see u a guy cheating,just quit.same goes for the guy....which sane man wants to marry an olosho?..becuz he will definately know someday |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by godoluwa(m): 8:25pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
Toke Makinwa na asshole infact shes a complete disgrace to ndi ofe mmanu because we always think twice before we act. No sane man will spend the rest of his life with a gal of her type, the b1tch should take to Oba Akiolus advice. Iranu 2 Likes |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by marisdgreat(f): 8:25pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
"A real man can't stand seeing his woman hurt. He's careful with his decisions and actions, so he never has to be responsible for her pain." a real man will not cause his girlfriend pain. 1 Like |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by ikp120(m): 8:25pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
Sexytemi: Babe I'm loyal to my babe, but life has denied me the privilege of having a loyal babe. I guess that's how life works ***sobs*** Baby let's chat privately. Check my signature and reply. |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by Nobody: 8:25pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
BabaRamota1980:daddy of ramota have been counselling since the 80's .. ladies yield to this man |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by ReubenE(m): 8:25pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
OP, you are trying to play double chance, which in my opinion may fail as well. Keeping a side guy is like repeating the problem you are trying to solve. Don't count on the experiences of the few you mentioned to generalize. Relationship is a complex thing which requires careful study to make the right steps. Men cheat but not all men cheat. I think same goes for the ladies as well. We all meet the devil once in a life time, I guess your friend met hers in the body of her boy friend. When a relationship goes south, people should learn to move on. We don't always get what we deserve and we cannot sulk for a lifetime as a result of this. There are still good guys out there, so keep your mind open. Thank u 1 Like |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by humilitypays(m): 8:26pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
Sexytemi:My sister, the problem is not guys, the problem lies with the ladies, how and why you may ask Let me tell you why you ladies are to blame for your relationship woes and heartbreaks: Majority of ladies in this our side of the planet are greedy. Because of greed, you ladies have too high expectation from guys, and as a result, you ladies ignore the average guys and fall for the alpha male who see themselves as gift to all women! While growing up, most ladies pick wrong fantasies about who their ideal man is based on romance movies and novels they read. Ladies want tall, dark/fair, rich, outgoing, fun-loving guys. These kind of guys are highly sort after and they know it,so they can keep to one lady, not possible. It's the same reason singer Flavour is busy sleeping and impregnating all girls he meets because most Nigerian ladies are dumb! Imagine after seeing Flavour's promiscuous and wayward lifestyle, many ladies including Yemi Alade, Chidinma, and many other Nigerian ladies still want Flavour, which shows how gullible and greedy women are! Do you know that few men are dating plenty women while many guys are completely single, why Because ladies keep running after those few men with super-alpha qualities while ignoring, snubbing and turning down the numerous genuinely good guys who would love and worship them. Men are more realistic with who they go after to date or love but women aren't realistic! An average Nigerian guy can't see Chidinma, Tiwa Savage, Genevieve Nnaji, Yemi Aladi, Oluchi Orlandi, Agbani Darego, etc and go after her or wish to date her and get her to love him, but you will see one Mgbeke girl with less than 200k in her bank account living in one room apartment with all her family fantasizing and wishing to date/marry Wizkid, Dbanj, Flavour, or some rich, handsome guy, and she doesn't expect the guy to cheat on her because she is who Women of our time must learn to be realistic in life like their male counterparts, go for your level of guy and work and pray with him to grow together than accepting guys who see u as worthless woman that have only sex to offer to them! Once a man knows u have other great values to offer to him other than sex, he won't play or joke with u, but if sex is all u have to offer to men, then expect plenty heartbreak even after he marries u! 16 Likes |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by surreal15(m): 8:26pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
Yarduni: She is hurt and maybe the book made it worse since she could relate to some extent. People say stuffs when hurting... But if all she wrote in the book is true, that guy has a real problem. |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by Laveda(f): 8:27pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
BurningBlade: Papi! Thanchu 1 Like |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by BabaRamota1980: 8:27pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
Sexytemi, you have caused a tsunami with this thread. See how many people are viewing it.... |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by Bimpe29: 8:27pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
Two wrong will never make a right. I disagree with you. There is unseemly no competition in wrongdoing. |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by Nobody: 8:28pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
ButterFrost212: What side of malo are you from? |
Re: Every Lady Should Have A Side Boyfriend! by kogs(m): 8:28pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
Sexytemi:point of correction d side babes are black market we use them as supplement. Is not easy to be a man ohhhhh. Haha haha am only joking. But d destiny of a relationship lie's in a lady's hand if u handle it well u see it grow so be wise babe 1 Like |
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