Xiadnat:


It wasn't free y'know. Where my money at? Pay up, good sir.

ItzMePuffPuff:
we learnt it from u ,uncle ]

Laveda:
I can't help but laugh, using Toke's case as a case study. She was aware of his cheating habit.

There's just the truth, having a side guy can't help anything.
Its very hard before you see a girl loving 2guys at a time, except you're telling she should just be flirting with both of them, then fine.

You can't be commited to 2 people at the same time and be focused, truth is, along the line you'll lose interest in one.. We are wired differently, unlike guys, some can't keep 4 and not care..

And you as a girl keeping two, you're gonna be _fucking the both of them right? Let's face it, you're gonna lose at the end, maybe.

Cheating is never an option, walk away if you aren't feeling the relationship again.

Sexytemi:



All men aren't cheats, but 90% are.

2dugged:
can you please explain what it entails to be a real man,cos I know of matured married men with kids who cheat on their wives,if a man with kids doesn't fall into the category of a real man,how then can a so called bachelor ever make the list?

idupaul:
Women take this man woman thing too serious while in reality it's rubbish ..So you typed this long epistle just to say you need 2 men .

Maduawuchukwu:


Yah. So let it go round. When u girls follow men strictly for money, we guys follow strictly for sex. You guys always act like u are on the losing side. What if I told you that 90% of girls cheat in relationships?.

But uncle
...should we not follow yer example and do as u do?

Sexytemi:




am not saying she should love both, all I'm sating is she should have some one somewhere who she can relay on when the one she loves messes up, someone who can keep her busy with the attention she craves, I ain't telling her to sleep with the guy(we girls know how to play our girls in that dept) all I'm saying is we ladies need to stop putting all our eggs in one basket.

Vorpal:


What side of malo are you from?

Benita27:
To think Toke wrote down all that transpired between her and her bf later husband on that book is to believe Buhari will make N1 equal $1 before he leaves office .

Poo happens and because some1 cheated on you isn't a guarantee that all the guys who'll come your way will be cheats.

"All men are not the same" cheating isn't an option for me.

Laveda:

Papi! Thanchu

MAKABBEY:
the moment u started having side bf, both of dem will be fucking u, den my sister, wots different between u and slut? even slut is even better coz she is going money, wots ur gain? ladies are born to be loyal and faithful no matter wot...

humilitypays:
‎My sister, the problem is not guys, the problem lies with the ladies, how and why you may ask Let me tell you why you ladies are to blame for your relationship woes and heartbreaks:

Majority of ladies in this our side of the planet are greedy. Because of greed, you ladies have too high expectation from guys, and as a result, you ladies ignore the average guys and fall for the alpha male who see themselves as gift to all women!

While growing up, most ladies pick wrong fantasies about who their ideal man is based on romance movies and novels they read. Ladies want tall, dark/fair, rich, outgoing, fun-loving guys. These kind of guys are highly sort after and they know it,so they can keep to one lady, not possible. It's the same reason singer Flavour is busy sleeping and impregnating all girls he meets because most Nigerian ladies are dumb!

Imagine after seeing Flavour's promiscuous and wayward lifestyle, many ladies including Yemi Alade, Chidinma, and many other Nigerian ladies still want Flavour, which shows how gullible and greedy women are!

Do you know that few men are dating plenty women while many guys are completely single, why Because ladies keep running after those few men with super-alpha qualities while ignoring, snubbing and turning down the numerous genuinely good guys who would love and worship them.‎

Men are more realistic with who they go after to date or love but women aren't realistic!

An average Nigerian guy can't see Chidinma, Tiwa Savage, Genevieve Nnaji, Yemi Aladi, Oluchi Orlandi, Agbani Darego, etc and go after her or wish to date her and get her to love him, but you will see one Mgbeke girl with less than 200k in her bank account living in one room apartment with all her family fantasizing and wishing to date/marry Wizkid, Dbanj, Flavour, or some rich, handsome guy, and she doesn't expect the guy to cheat on her because she is who

Women of our time must learn to be realistic in life like their male counterparts, go for your level of guy and work and pray with him to grow together than accepting guys who see u as worthless woman that have only sex to offer to them!

Once a man knows u have other great values to offer to him other than sex, he won't play or joke with u, but if sex is all u have to offer to men, then expect plenty heartbreak even after he marries u!‎

Benita27:
God fearing men, cos one who's God fearing won't cheat on his wife.

Benita27:
God fearing men, cos one who's God fearing won't cheat on his wife.

Benita27:
God fearing men, cos one who's God fearing won't cheat on his wife.

ButterFrost212:
What side of Malo? You mean what part of the north? Adamawa anyway

BabaRamota1980:


my friend drop that nonsense. Every guy is God fearing. If not you all will be treated worse. The fear of God in us keep it to minimum.

Tufunky:
madam. Here's what is going to happen. You take guy number 1 serious and guy number 2 as side chick. when guy number 1 starts cheating on you , you dump him and move to guy number 2 to take him serious only to find out that's you were merely a side chick to guy number 2 and you end up getting dumped. Toke Makinwa wrote 1 book at the end of her experience. with the road you want to take, you may end up writing an entire encyclopedia with 10 volumes when you are through. Don't worry, as a consolation I will read volume 1..

Sexytemi:



I'm sorry to read this, but I'm sure she or her friends must have gone through heart breaks and were only trying to be on the safe side.