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Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Youdondeymad: 4:00pm On May 06, 2017 |
davide470:Thanks my honourable mod. 3 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by MENTORCH(m): 4:09pm On May 06, 2017 |
Mynd44: Wrong, pussy and dick isn't the same thing. If a dick bleeps 500 women it remains the same or even sharper but pussy doesn't. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by OgbeniSamm(m): 4:23pm On May 06, 2017 |
Wait! Don't tell ur nephew first. I think u shld let d babe knw he's ur nephew. She myt not knw yet. If she's okay with it despite d fact dat u don bleep am before, then luck up and let them get married. Dnt tel ur nephew o! If u tel him and he feels indifferent abt it now, it will later cause problem btw husband and wife in future. U can only tell him if there's smt dangerous attached, just to protect him, if nothing, then let them be and attend d wedding...but dnt stick around them after wedding o! U must gv a significant distance. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Nobody: 4:30pm On May 06, 2017 |
Honestly I wouldn't mention it to him but do tell her that now she is with your cousin she should be faithful. Why Well from experience you don't want to be tagged as a non well wisher by the same couple if their love is stronger than your objections cause technically you're referring to something in the past. Something that doesn't affect her future unless you choose too My cousin once told me to spy on her husband when we went clubbing like a fool I did and she went to tell him my cousin said till today gatherings are uncomfortable 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Nobody: 4:33pm On May 06, 2017 |
HARDDON:Yes you!!! |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by SmartyPants(m): 4:38pm On May 06, 2017 |
Youdondeymad: I'm sorry but i just put myself in your nephew's shoes. That man has the right to know, and based on the bolded you are just trying to protect yourself. What you should do is let your nephew know the truth in a mature way. Call some elders around, inform him of the situation and let them advice him (if you can't). Anything built on deceit will surely crash and the crash will be worse than what you are trying to avoid today. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by DavidEsq(m): 4:40pm On May 06, 2017 |
Youdondeymad:OP, u said Nephew now u saying cousin. Don't they mean different? See as lie dey be 4 ur mouth. If ur ex babe is ur Nephew's chic, then how old was she wen u wr gbenshing her? paedophile OP. I dey junction dey wait u with my guys and we gallant wit our koboko |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Erinz: 4:58pm On May 06, 2017 |
Its tOo late to tel ur nephew, u shud av done dat early. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by pato1(m): 5:08pm On May 06, 2017 |
Bumbae1: |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Youdondeymad: 5:11pm On May 06, 2017 |
DavidEsq:It was a mistake,I just modified the post.He is my cousin not my nephew,I hope you are happy,please I'm not a paedophile,it is not a must to comment.Thank you "Mr saint and perfect" for your contribution. 3 |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by justmenoni: 5:14pm On May 06, 2017 |
Ok, but true true shey youdondeymad? quote author=Youdondeymad post=56265769] *Yawns* Ok noted 3[/quote] |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Youdondeymad: 5:14pm On May 06, 2017 |
SmartyPants:Thanks,I'm sorry for the confusion earlier,he is my cousin(not my nephew). 3 |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Selfdesign: 5:15pm On May 06, 2017 |
But if it's the other way round, no biggie right Women have suffered |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by TheABOMINATION: 5:20pm On May 06, 2017 |
davide470: You are right to say he shouldn't tell, because the marriage plan has gone too far. But who is to say the girl won't reveal the fact later, and cause the cousin to vex with op for not telling him. My advice is that op should meet with the girl, talk to her, come to agreement with her that none of you will talk. Although this seems like you are both covering a crime, but the fact is that as long as op has no guarantee that the girl won't talk later, then op should not keep quiet. And if op can't meet with the girl, to come to a non disclosure agreement with her, then he should tell 'the guy the babe you are marrying, I dated her for two years o'. That said, telling the guy can also turn out bad for him, in the event that the guy is not ok with the fact, but can no longer cancel the wedding, then he will simply wish op hadn't tell him. Therefore op follow the first advice, leave the decision to tell or not up to whether you can make the girl agree to keep quiet about the fact. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Youdondeymad: 5:23pm On May 06, 2017 |
justmenoni:No i'm not,what about you?lol 3
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Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Youdondeymad: 5:29pm On May 06, 2017 |
Selfdesign:I'm not a sexist sir/ma,I believe in fairness,justice and equity irrespective of sex,creed,status etc 3 |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Youdondeymad: 5:38pm On May 06, 2017 |
TheABOMINATION:I don't think I can meet her to discuss anything because she won't believe me,we deleted every connection we had then after we broke up.I deleted her numbers,FB account etc(she did the same also).She won't even accept my friend request on FB,whassap etc because she knows my details,I can create another account but I don't like bugging people.I'd attend the wedding but I would lay low,I wont say anything,after that I'm moving away from their lives for good. 3 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by RaeMystix: 5:39pm On May 06, 2017 |
Yikes!!...Sloppy seconds. It better you tell him sooner than later. He would know of it eventually. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by doskie(m): 5:40pm On May 06, 2017 |
Youdondeymad:God forbid!!! its a taboo in my culture |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Youdondeymad: 5:43pm On May 06, 2017 |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by TheABOMINATION: 5:47pm On May 06, 2017 |
Youdondeymad: If that's the case then good. If the guy is someone you can move away from, then you can get away with not telling him. But if he is someone that you will keep getting involved with, someone you plan to continue to be best friends with, then he will definitely find out and confront you. So if you are not going to tell him, then you'll have to stop being best bro with him. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by DorisK(f): 6:00pm On May 06, 2017 |
I will or won't depending on how rich, handsome, or sexy he is. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by DorisK(f): 6:02pm On May 06, 2017 |
I will marry him if he's dangote or Gates, or Donald Duke or John cena or Ronaldo or Harry styles even if he dated my mother |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by objayjay: 6:06pm On May 06, 2017 |
Bumbae1:what sort of leftover??...ain't we all someone's leftover??...oyah kwantinue.. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Youdondeymad: 6:14pm On May 06, 2017 |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by oluwashedy: 6:18pm On May 06, 2017 |
Youdondeymad:Well if you say she's good, then her marry ur nephew 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by manmustwac(m): 6:29pm On May 06, 2017 |
YES! But it won't be an easy decision |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by DavidEsq(m): 6:45pm On May 06, 2017 |
Youdondeymad:
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Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by MkayOshh: 6:57pm On May 06, 2017 |
It will be better for you to let your nephew know about it. it wont be fresh if he later find out. Blood!!!. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Youdondeymad: 7:01pm On May 06, 2017 |
DorisK: 3 |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by justmenoni: 7:11pm On May 06, 2017 |
No but youdondeymad? quote author=Youdondeymad post=56269433]No i'm not,what about you?lol 3[/quote] |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Youdondeymad: 7:18pm On May 06, 2017 |
justmenoni:Ok nobody is mad. 3 |
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