₦airaland Forum

EwuOjota:
99% of the guys looking at this picture now.

If I pull out,make I kpai.

mgdimagaladima:
Lesson to all men

Don't marry someone because of her /his beauty but because of the Love u have for each other

Mowunmiaf:
Actress Lilian Esoro’s ex-husband, Ubi Franklin, has finally opened up after divorcing his estranged wife.

Ubi, in a mature way on Instagram, seems to have revealed what went wrong in their marriage.

Ubi wrote ;

“When we put up with each other without love, then the result is grudges, resentment, hate, and a general dislike for others. Putting up with each other in love looks different. Our failure to bear with one another in love is why all sorts of relationships fail.

Read full story...http://aftrending.com/ubi-franklin-gives-hints-on-why-his-marriage-to-lilian-esoro-failed/

Abdulhakeem78:
The name of the so called "prophet"
How is he going to refund the money if they didn't win the cup?

CastedBlog:
As You know Phyno is one of those few artist who is yet to be involved in any babymama drama, The proud rapper just shared some really dopes photos with the N200m Roll Royce he bought in March, His currently in the US, see more photos below!


Gossip From Ebiwali--
http://www.ebiwalisgossip.com/2018/06/singer-phyno-shows-off-his-white-roll.html

LivingFree:
You thought you made sense

Relationships are for LOVE, not FOOD.

zicoraads:
Let's try and keep it civil, shall we?!

That said, I'll tell you my reasoning. I totally agree that relationships should never be a financial avenue for anyone, man or woman. I also agree that the only woman agree to form that level of class should be a financially independent woman.

Since we have agreed on the above, I'll like to ask you some few questions.

I think we can also agree that a lady like Linda Ikeji falls into that category. Now if, for instance, you ask her out and she agrees to date you, do you think because she is financially independent, she wouldn't want diamond necklaces, wrist watches, original designer shoes and bags as gifts? Or won't you surprise her by taking her to the best restaurants in town, or even a getaway weekend at a good and expensive hotel or even to other places abroad?

I'll love you to answer the questions above.

Getting her those things won't change the fact that she is financially independent.

But how about when you date the lady in your street? Will she want all of that? Of course not!

So why ask a "Linda Ikeji" out? Instead of asking that lady in your street out. Which one do you think will be more financially draining on you? The answer you have is the reason why this thread was created.

zicoraads:
I've seen countless narratives on Nairaland about ladies and their love for money. The most annoying one was the one I saw today of a guy complaining that his girlfriend would always want them to eat out where he'll end up paying 2k or 3k. But let's be honest with ourselves, that narrative is very wrong.

Now I'll show you why it is.

There are different types of ladies in a university. As someone who comes from a modest home, go for the ones who are serious with their studies and are more into guys who know why they are in school. These ones are more of the future than the present. They don't even mind drinking garri with you. Others, however, are the ones whose houses off campus are tastefully furnished and who live in apartments worth 150k. They also dress to kill. You think all of these fell from the sky? She has a lifestyle that needs to be maintained. As her man, realize that you also have to contribute to that. Don't ask her out and if she starts demanding, you run to Nairaland, shouting about how ladies are materialistic.

There are also these types of ladies in the larger society. A working class lady will most likely not follow you to the woman who sells beans and bread around your area. She will most likely prefer to lodge or eat Golden Tulips, Jevinik, BluCabana etc. Not her fault, she is classy and has taste. She has probably passed that stage where she followed her university love to the beans and bread seller. She is not about that life anymore. She still loves you a lot though, her taste notwithstanding.

Point being, at every point in your life, know how to cut your coat according to your size. And if you want to punch above your weight, don't go shouting about ladies' love for money. They are most likely just above your league.

loveformercy:
Ibo women are the most beautiful in Nigeria

Jochabed:
That's why i hate this Issue of BF/GF. And why let a man who is not your husband see your unclothedness? Too Bad.

Lalas247:
Oh ok ur sisters , aunts and mothers abi ? Ok I see ride on .....sorry u had to grow up with such hence why u ain’t brought up right ... not you fault.
Your response tells me everything ..