₦airaland Forum

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OP, no matter how innocent or good she acts or she even think she is, but has a capable and healthy body, and her only source of income for both her self and her mom is through you, SHE IS A LEECH.

She might not actually bear in mind to come and gold dig on you or any thing of that sort. She might even have a genuine unflinching love towards you, but she is still a leech, whether she knows she is or not.

You both are from poor families, you are working your ass off poverty, and she is depending on you through poverty.

See success is not gender based, let her find something doing, atleast to augment your efforts, you can even help her with capital and ideas, if not, kick her the fvck out. She is seriously drilling your pocket.

As the Igbos will say 'Ejiro akpata Etufuo a bu ogaranya'

Translation - You can't become rich when you spend all you earn.

No matter how bad Nigeria seems, DO NOT EVER IGNORE THE IMPORTANCE OF EDUCATION!

You all keep calling the Ronaldos, messis, Beyonce, wizkids etc. But you forget one thing, they are the ones at the very top of the food chain in their various fields.

For every wizkid, rashford or tekno, there are hundreds of thousands to millions of people in that same field that can't even feed properly with what they do.

And mind you, with education, you will still see Engineers, doctors, lawyers richer than Messi but just not as famous, and those are the ones at the ones at the top of the educational food chain.

What you should consider is the average persons; an upcoming artist in Nigeria and a doctor doing his house job in Nigeria who earns more? And mind you, the doctor still has a higher probability of making it than the artist.

No matter how much the today society wants to twist it, EDUCATION IS STILL THE KEY.

OmoAlata1:
Too much filter. Her real skin is not this smooth and stretchmarks free. It has cellulites

Pure truth.

It's practically impossible for a lady this fat to have a smooth skin.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Lol... But we know the rent strategy has been helping ladies with extra cash since naira lost its value

I SALUTE YOU MA'AM

You are one reasonable fellow

Biglittlelois:
The guy is not a fool, he is actually removing the mindset most ladies have that guys cant give money without wanting sex in return, he is indirectly helping the good guys, she came with that mindset, he set the record straight that not all think with their diick,

If everyone decides not to ask anyone for an assistance, the world would be a better place true, but communication and human interaction would be at its minimum, would you say you've never asked anyone for help b4, knowing you have other means of getting the money?

If you had comprehension skills and logical thinking, you will see where Op told her not to bother paying, meaning she wanted a loan, and I'm trying to see where Op said she is trying to defraud him, pls point me to it,

Op is not a fool, instead you are the slow fool for insinuating and assuming things about me and him just to make stupid points to garner approval from your ilks here, work on your intellect.

If like you say, he wants to set the record straight. Why not send her home after seeing that she came prepared for sex. Wouldn't that have taught the lady a better lesson that not all man want sex.
If he is truly what you are trying to portray him be, the hint of prostitution should at the very least be offensive to him.

Moreover since this was a huge success on the ladies part, wouldn't that encourage future occurrences?

AwkaetitiBabe:
The op out of d benevolence of his heart asked her to keep the money. Don't fault d lady, you don't know her experiences. She simply came prepared incase the op turns out to be a punny collector.

You seem reasonable.

But all I can say is, past experiences or not(We are not actually sure of any past experience), what she had in mind was clearly prostitution. This (prostitution) is clearly and unambiguously defined by her actions.

This leads me to the inference that;
1. She might not have explored all other avenues to raise the required money.
2. Her main motiff might actually be to get into the guys pockets and not necessarily, looking for help.
3. If number 2 above is the case, she would now be celebrating for getting such an easy target. While plotting more future moves.

Biglittlelois:
So because of giving means he has zero knowledge? Okay according to your silly mindset, if a lady always give you everything you request for, what is she, extremely stupid or mumu? What are you,a fraudster for trying to use sex to get what you want? Correct?

The lady in question came, bearing sex in mind. Doesn't that tell you that, there might be some other thing she can do to raise the money, but like most ladies do, she narrowed her life line down to prostitution.
Yes prostitution I say, bcoz she was willing to offer sex for money.

When guys find themselves in situations like this, they look for all other alternatives, or at least borrow.

Yes, since the lady is working, she could have come to the guy to lend her money, and she would pay in a later date.
Have you thought of that? Of course not, you are among the "most ladies" looking for the nearest mugu to defraud.

This guy is a serious fool and it's a pity he wants to be applauded for foolishness.

ubunja:
pls tell these men desperate for female approval

They are very stupid set of sex deprived males.

My problem with you and all other stupid male folks that think themselves good by doing something for ladies and not demanding anything in return is that you lots are EXTREMELY STUPID.

Why must you be the one to give to ladies and not the other way around?
Or, how many times do you see the female folk financially helping guys that are "just friends" with them?

You be mugu!
That girl don open office for your head.
And to think that you ran to Nairaland to massage your ego... Smh.

The lady had a problem, and as typical of all ladies looked for the nearest foolish male to solve it for her, while carrying their weapon (sex) in mind as a means to defraud you, and you had the audacity to be defrauded so easily.
This has to be the easiest scam yet that lady have polled.

I am sincerely sorry to say this, but "if knowledge is power, your energy level is zero"

I had raw-sex with the EEDC (Nepa) marketer in my hostel. I made a sexual joke at her and she laughed, she followed me to my room and I did the needful. she is really ugly and fat.

I was so frightened after the act bcoz of HIV. Went for a test few days after the incident, no HIV. Was told to come back after 3 wks. It's past 3 weeks and I am yet to go. I don treat malaria twice in two weeks, which is really rare for me. I think I have got the poo.

To worsen things, I had sex with one of my friends gf's and condom broke.

What if I gave it to her and she gave it to my friend, and they keep spreading it like that, and I think I am growing thinner.

Chai I am finished!

The former tread was so much fun, let's try and keep this one going.
I will share one of mine.

After one of those days of getting high in school, I and my friend decided to go to club. You know guys na, we take a lot of sporadic decisions. So we left house around 11pm, it was a rainy day so we had to wait alot before we saw bikes.
We earlier decided that we wouldn't drink anymore at the club, and we really didn't have so much money on us to afford club drinks. On getting to the club however, we saw our lecturer, and maybe bcoz he wanted to impress his babe, he showered us with drinks.
I got high to the point that I could barely walk with out support and my confidence increased like mad.
I went up to the DJ's babe took her one side, chyked her with every skill I've got, babe snubbed on the basis that she is way older than I am, and that her boyfriend was the performing DJ.
Anyway, at the instant I didn't really care, I just focused on her breath taking ass.
Later, she came and called me, I followed her off the club hall to outside so we can hear our selves and talk. I wanted to beg for her number as soon as we left the club, but she asked me a shocking question 'do you want to fvck?' I replied yes b4 she could finish.
We went to a street, close to the club, that had no street lights, and I fvcked her in a hidden corner, both of us standing and looking out for vigilantes.
While we were still on it, 'we heard who be you?' we separated instantly, next thing we heard was a gun shot to the air, I immediately scaled a fence and jumped into a mechanic compound which was equally guarded by vigilantes, however, I don't know why they didn't notice me with all the noise, in other not to be caught by them, I had to hide inside one spoilt bus, I didn't even know when I slept, alcohol na bastered. I woke around 6 in the morning, that time, I was the only person in the compound, I scaled the fence again and left.

The girl, I couldn't care less about her. I've never seen her till date, even if I see, I might not recognize.

I have always wanted to take cute pictures, but looking at this pot I call a stomach, I just relax and stay indoors.

Maybe one day, 6 pacs would grow out of fashion, then I could model then.

Sisi99:
I love your coherent respond, but what explanations do you have to back up your views.

HIV is not a death sentence like our Nigerian society has made it seem. It's just a viral infection. A person with HIV who is serious with AVR will live a very healthy life.

Problem only arises when the patient continually deviates from the required patern of taking the treatment. This can cause a predominant growth of a resistant virus strain.

When the resistant virus dominates in ur body, AVR are no longer effective on you. Na there ur actual problem go start.

Anyway HIV is way better than cancer. It's completely possible for a HIV positive woman to marry a negative man, give birth and even breastfeed negative children.

It's just ignorance that is dealing with Nigerian's as it regards HIV

I would gladly marry an HIV patient. Provided that she gives me peace of mind in the marriage.

Also, if we are rich enough, she'd live healthier than most HIV negative Nigerians.

Heck! We could even have raw coitus if she is religious with her medications and has low enough viral load.