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Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Which Nairaland Members Would You Prefer To Date? by 4Him1(m): 9:45pm On May 24, 2008
If onyinye wants a boyfriend, let her come out and ask humbly.  cheesy This style doesnt work anymore.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Which Nairaland Members Would You Prefer To Date? by 4Him1(m): 9:41pm On May 24, 2008
onyinye2:
@ 4 Play
Wow what kind of world do you live in huh You just hating on me because you know i am to woman for you. I make look inferior.
Abeg this woman just wants us to laugh this afternoon. cheesy
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Which Nairaland Members Would You Prefer To Date? by 4Him1(m): 9:34pm On May 24, 2008
4 Play:
No mind am. . .she probably goes home every night to suck the d**k of some guy on welfare. Some girls and there baseless uppity. grin
sometimes you just open ur mouth in wonder.  grin
There's no picture so we can even assess whether anyone here has a shot or not.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Which Nairaland Members Would You Prefer To Date? by 4Him1(m): 9:28pm On May 24, 2008
onyinye2:
I couldn't say because i thought any of you could handle a girl like me. If you can, come holla at me. cool
as long as u're from this planet there is always a guy who can handle you eh.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Which Nairaland Members Would You Prefer To Date? by 4Him1(m): 9:26pm On May 24, 2008
RampantT:
My backyard. . you can watch but no touching wink
he cant even watch. Carry una eye go somewhere else. grin
SportsRe: Tennis Is Interesting Again! by 4Him1(m): 9:07pm On May 24, 2008
French open kicks off tomorrow guys!

What's your prediction? I say its between Djokovic and Nadal.
Christianity EtcRe: Is Physical Abuse Enough To Get A Divorce As A Born Again Christian? by 4Him1(m): 9:05pm On May 24, 2008
then get a divorce. I dont think the bible admonishes you to remain in a marriage where your life is in danger.
FamilyRe: What Makes You Appreciate Life? by 4Him1(m): 8:53pm On May 24, 2008
happy birthday mohawk.
FamilyRe: ~Is It Necessary To Wear The Engagement Ring With The Wedding Ring ?~ by 4Him1(m): 8:46pm On May 24, 2008
i never gave it a thot, i just assumed women wore both.
Christianity EtcRe: A Sister Leaves Isla M; Advise On Best Course by 4Him1(m): 8:44pm On May 24, 2008
What do you think you will achieve by sending delegations to her? She must have done a lot of soul searching to have arrived at that decision.
There are family members of mine who are mus'lims today and some who dont even practice anything, there is a limit to how much you can evangelise them.
Eventually you just have to admit that not everyone will see things your way and let them be.
PoliticsRe: N/A by 4Him1(m): 8:35pm On May 24, 2008
SeanT21:
its the oppisite, most puerto ricans think they are BLACK. Especially the ones on the east coast.
that's because whites think PRs are black. The average PR thinks he's white.
Christianity EtcRe: A Sister Leaves Isla M; Advise On Best Course by 4Him1(m): 8:29pm On May 24, 2008
you really cant do much. The most important thing is to understand why she has taken the step she took and allow her freedom to do as she pleases. Afterall there is no compulsion in is'lam.
PoliticsRe: Iyabo Obansanjo Is Innocent by 4Him1(m): 2:20pm On May 24, 2008
the senate is certainly a den of robbers.
RomanceRe: I'm Not Comfortable With My Baby's New Job - What Do I Do? by 4Him1(m): 2:18pm On May 24, 2008
good job klassyguy.
PoliticsRe: Another Plan For Tenure Elogation In Nigeria? Rise Up And Fight For Our Right by 4Him1(m): 3:58am On May 24, 2008
they can choose to stay there for 38 yrs, as long as they uncouple us from this yoke of a unitary system of government. If states like Jigawa no longer had access to unearned taxes from the south and oil money they'll find something better to do than sponsoring thieving bills.
FamilyRe: What Makes You Appreciate Life? by 4Him1(m): 3:56am On May 24, 2008
the little things, like being able to wake up in the morning hale and hearty. When you work in a hospital you get to appreciate so many things you take for granted.
Christianity EtcRe: Can We Smoke And Serve God? by 4Him1(m): 3:54am On May 24, 2008
A bit complex, if you agree that the your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit then i would assume that smoking is a means by which you defile it.
RomanceRe: The Uk Summer: Operation Seduce The Innocent Man by 4Him1(m): 12:32am On May 24, 2008
RampantT:
that's what I thought wink
Leave the seducing to the likes of Lloyd tongue
no be ur fault. grin its because . . .
RomanceRe: I'm Not Comfortable With My Baby's New Job - What Do I Do? by 4Him1(m): 12:29am On May 24, 2008
debosky:
@ David

there is no problem in him expressing his views, but the tone of 'telling her my mind' suggests to me that it was laid down like the law - remember my first post - homeboy left it pretty ambiguous as to how he did the 'expression' of his mind. If he did it in a way that was considerate, maybe her repsonse would not have been the same. Being worried is one thing, but especially with women (no offense) you need to choose your words carefully to make sure you are passing the message across correctly, that it doesn't sound domineering or 'choose between me and the job'.
All due respect but this is completely unrealistic in real life. There is absolutely nothing wrong with telling my gf my mind . . . women pull the "choose me or ur friends" stunt almost all the time . . . so what if the guy said to choose between the relationship and her job?

The guy has legitimate fears that has been echoed by her parents and friends too so what's the big deal here?

Since when did we start having to watch how we speak our minds to our gfs? I'm not for controlling her movement, choices or lifestyle but as long as she's with me she must understand that whatever decisions we both make is no longer about one person's benefit alone but must take into consideration the feelings of the other.

debosky:
I'm guessing based on the responses here that if he thinks the same way, he'd have laid it down like the law or like a superior all knowing being delivering 'guidance' - which is utter bollocks to me (pardon my french)
He clearly didnt sayhe laid anything down as the law, that is what certain clueless females here have read into a simple post in order to say the usual crap about independence.

If my gf suddenly decided she wanted to jeopardise our relationship by going off to do missionary work in Afghanistan you bet she's having a piece of my mind AND the law.
RomanceRe: The Uk Summer: Operation Seduce The Innocent Man by 4Him1(m): 12:22am On May 24, 2008
RampantT:
David, excuse me?
Just say you dnt know how to seduce a woman jare. . . tongue
uh oh. grin
SportsRe: England Captaincy, Who Is Really Worthy? by 4Him1(m): 12:21am On May 24, 2008
Rio Ferdinand - Senior member of the squad, captained Man U during the champions league final, member of one of Europe's strongest central defence pairing, strong sense of leadership.
RomanceRe: The Uk Summer: Operation Seduce The Innocent Man by 4Him1(m): 12:12am On May 24, 2008
RampantT:
stop talking in riddles jo. . .but then. . then what? grin grin
it is better to speak in parables that hearing they may hear and not understand. smiley
RomanceRe: The Uk Summer: Operation Seduce The Innocent Man by 4Him1(m): 12:06am On May 24, 2008
RampantT:
Not really, if the girl is not in the mood, nothing can take it off
true but then . . .  wink

leqe:
@4him
i have one, but these summer girls make her look like she's from the 80's. how will man be faithful under this 280atm pressure.
if you have one then you shldnt be looking at all. If they are bothering you now what will happen when they strip in ur presence?
RomanceRe: The Uk Summer: Operation Seduce The Innocent Man by 4Him1(m): 11:59pm On May 23, 2008
leqe:
@4him
as for me, i'm a one man one girl type, the problem is that these summer girls can tempt the pope cheesy
then pick one and let ur mind be at rest abi.  cheesy

RampantT:
Na wa o . . .

Good thing I'm told not to wear skirts jare. . .jean pant all the way grin
and u suppose those are more secure?  grin All it takes is . . .  tongue
RomanceRe: The Uk Summer: Operation Seduce The Innocent Man by 4Him1(m): 11:56pm On May 23, 2008
RampantT:
shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked I'm surprised at you oh. . .it's better if the skirt is all the way to the knees na grin grin cheesy cheesy
what's the difference? you can always slide it down if you want. grin
Better a small one for easier access. tongue
RomanceRe: The Uk Summer: Operation Seduce The Innocent Man by 4Him1(m): 11:52pm On May 23, 2008
The Sly:
One or AMAP? . . . . . grin
That depends on the energy level of lege. I would suggest 1 for now since this is his first summer to pick. Let him get experience first.
RomanceRe: Seriously! Does That Make Us Bad Girls? by 4Him1(m): 11:50pm On May 23, 2008
OMO IBO:
mamaput, u should be ashamed of yourself. your daughter is supposed to be the one making these comments. but no, u'd rather catch up on missed child-hood play fights and child-hood fantasies on the net.
i shall let u be. but keep playing and acting like mother on the net. like anyone cares how many children u have or have not.
what has mamaput done to deserve this? I'd want to assume you would expect others to respect you when you are her age.

HR.hotness:
so r u letting me stroke your ego or what  tongue
woman, do as thou desireth. I think i just left you a buyers beware alert. wink
RomanceRe: The Uk Summer: Operation Seduce The Innocent Man by 4Him1(m): 11:45pm On May 23, 2008
why the complaint? simply pick one of the many and enjoy the rest of ur summer.
RomanceRe: Seriously! Does That Make Us Bad Girls? by 4Him1(m): 11:35pm On May 23, 2008
HR.hotness:
I'm bored with this thread

[size=20pt]where is 4HIMhuh?[/size]
a brother has been working hard to pay his bills and climb the social ladder. grin
There's been precious little to respond to in over 2hrs.

Uche2nna:
Why is it that most naija woman (and even the AA women) in the Western countries tend to push this independent thingy to the extreme. More than their white counterparts? undecided

Most of the time You find out that they think that independence is synonymous to being rash, rude and uncultured undecided
preach it bro! I'm tired of repeating myself like a broken record.
EducationRe: Algebra Cafe: Solve Math Problems Here by 4Him1(m): 11:21pm On May 23, 2008
x = 3^5
x = 243.

there u go.
EducationRe: Algebra Cafe: Solve Math Problems Here by 4Him1(m): 10:45pm On May 23, 2008
ifyalways:
what happened?why did it suddenly stop? sad

4a + 6b = 12
2a + 5b= 8
solve cheesy
lol,u guys should come back please.this thread was so so refreshing and educating.
a = 3/2
b = 1

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