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HealthRe: Many People Are Suffering In Silence. It's Called Depression! Lets Talk About It by 4Him1(m): 12:17am On May 04, 2008
mizzlanae:
You young are very argumentative and quite Anal-Retentive might i ad.
and you adults with kid-like mentalities are too desperate to force your opinions down our throats.

mizzlanae:
This forum is not about you or the likes of you.
No one here is seaking as i mentioned a number of times.
that's why its open to alternative viewpoints even if it makes your eyes bleed.

mizzlanae:
I showed you that depression has been around for some time. It was not created by THE WHITE MAN sitting in his hospital.
I would suggest you all ignore this young man because he obviously suffers from a disease himself,but is in denial. It is called DIARRHEA OF THE MOUTH.
I'd rather have depression than that,at least it can be concealed.
sorry sis, continue living in your bubble of depression. Prozac will be next on ur shelf.
How old are you and u're crying about depression? Like you're the only one alive. Give us all a break pls.

mizzlanae:
By the way ,who said people with depression can't handle adverse situations.
If anything we have mastered adversity. Depression would BE LIKE the residue left behind.
We are here to support one another, If I had you as a husband I would kill you and blame it on depression, LOL(i'm just teasing)
Yeah right. You mastered adversity which is why professors here spend 8 hrs a day feverishly trying to develop new drugs so you people can at least not be a drain on medicare.

mizzlanae:
Grow up young man.
madam, there's one person who needs to grab herself up by the bootstraps and stop whining like a spoilt child. It certainly isnt me.
Christianity EtcRe: The Gospel Of Barnabas(the True Forgotten Gospel) by 4Him1(m): 12:09am On May 04, 2008
Frizy:
Fellow nairalanders, at this point you will observe that God's intention was not that Jesus was to be killed or sacrificed as the Pauline Christians believe, Christ was to be saved from death until he comes back at the end of world for a purpose.
Ok we've heard your rabble. But help me to solve this riddle . . . if Christ didnt die according to you, what happened to Him?
Did He achieve what was IMPOSSIBLE for Mohh'ahmad . . . i.e. ascending to heaven without seeing death?

Frizy:
Secondly, the chosen of God was Ishmael said angel Gabriel. Believing any contrary means that you're unconvinced or saying the angel says no truth and the rabbis who changed word were right. Thot.
More rabble. Even the qu'ran says no such nonsense. Pls quote it for us . . . instead of relying on the gospel of barnabas . . . remember you people told us that the true injil was lost . . . where did you find this portion?
Christianity EtcRe: The Gospel Of Barnabas(the True Forgotten Gospel) by 4Him1(m): 11:55pm On May 03, 2008
Frizy:
Fellow nairalanders, at this point you will observe that God's intention was not that Jesus was to be killed or sacrificed as the Pauline Christians believe, Christ was to be saved from death until he comes back at the end of world for a purpose.

Secondly, the chosen of God was Ishmael said angel Gabriel. Believing any contrary means that you're unconvinced or saying the angel says no truth and the rabbis who changed word were right. Thot.
Not only is the above false . . . you have woefully failed to explain to us whether Barnabas was speaking Spanish or Italian in the 1st century when he is alleged to have written this "gospel". cheesy
Christianity EtcRe: The Gospel Of Barnabas(the True Forgotten Gospel) by 4Him1(m): 11:54pm On May 03, 2008
babs787:
@4Him & Smile4kenn


Do you have anywhere to hide?
Now please read:


In the mid-4th century manuscrpt called Codex Sinaiticus, the Letter of Barnabas and the Shepherd of Hermas are included as part of the New Testament (The New Encyclopedia Britannica, vol. 14. p. 814).


So the question to ask is, 'why did they remove it from NT'?
funny, its easy to spot fraudulent people.

The "letter of barnabas" and the "gospel of barnabas" are TWO CLEARLY DIFFERENT THINGS. Bros, ordinary google shld solve your hypocrisy.  grin
RomanceRe: What Must Your Lover Do For Him/her To Be Romantic? by 4Him1(m): 11:48pm On May 03, 2008
NaJa HaJe:
Praying for and with me
i particularly liked this the best. Man, the day i do this with you know that u've gotten way under my skin.
Every other thing i can do with just any girlfriend but not the above.
EducationRe: Study Hard Students by 4Him1(m): 11:43pm On May 03, 2008
put this on the algebra thread.
Christianity EtcRe: Christian Songs by 4Him1(m): 1:37am On May 03, 2008
not really a fan of the Katinas.
I got easily bored with their "thank you" song.
Christianity EtcRe: Scandal: Pastor Chris Oyakhilome In South African Trouble! by 4Him1(m): 1:35am On May 03, 2008
WallaceDon, yours is indeed an excercise in quoting the bible out of context.
TravelRe: Uk Visa - Visa Appeal Process by 4Him1(m): 1:34am On May 03, 2008
Akolawole:
SAD! SAD!! SAD!!!

Ken Livingston Lost his London mayor post.
Excellent. Citizens of London have sent a strong message that London is not for mu'slims only.
HealthRe: Many People Are Suffering In Silence. It's Called Depression! Lets Talk About It by 4Him1(m): 12:26am On May 03, 2008
mizzlanae:
"Don't be so heavenly bound, that you are no earthly good"
There is no fear of this happening. Being depressed isnt a sign of being earthly good either.

Imani, first let me appologize for u know what. wink

I'm not being harsh, i think some people need to hear some home truths (bitter it may seem) than all these avalanche of sympathy they seem to be drawing.
It is sad that we allow white folks sit in their hospitals drawing up lists of "new diseases" every day to explain away their problems.
First it was ADHD, now its autism . . . in Africa there is nothing like ADHD . . . a child who wont listen in class isnt given medications but flogged thoroughly until he behaves himself.

I've had enough of people disguising their inability to handle adverse situations under the guise of depression. There is no pain that is unique to anyone, we've all been hurt before. . .
HealthRe: Many People Are Suffering In Silence. It's Called Depression! Lets Talk About It by 4Him1(m): 10:33pm On May 02, 2008
No one is perfect (even though the bible enjoins christians to work towards it) but we shld not all be miserable midgets too.
If you look critically, everyone has at least one reason to be thankful for life. Negative experiences are there for a purpose . . . to teach us to be stronger, to be experiences we can learn from.
If you dont fall down you'll never learn how to rise from a fall.

If you spend your time howling after a fall you'll never learn how to rise either.
HealthRe: Many People Are Suffering In Silence. It's Called Depression! Lets Talk About It by 4Him1(m): 9:58pm On May 02, 2008
i'm still waiting on those who claimed depression is a clinical illness.

To go quoting David's psalms as a sign of his depression does not cut it. There is a difference between being "troubled" and being "depressed". Even though David claimed several times to be troubled, what prozac did he use to beat his alleged depression?
This man was a warrior who later became king, a mighty man of valour and God's own best friend . . . no where in the bible are we told that he suffered from a mental disease.

The 12 yr old girl is simply a victim of a society that has taught her that the only way out of problems is to go the cowardly way of suicide.
Look around you and see celebs who commit suicide glamorised and made front page news (Mark Speight), celebs who end up in jail are the subject of huge media gossip, they drink and drive, lie, cheat, do drugs and yet we hold them up as our role models.
No wonder our kids are turning to drugs, suicide and hiding under the banner of depression . . . the media has slowly taught us to believe a lie, that to be irresponsible actually pays.

Wake up, stop moaning about your sorrow and do something about it!

If you're depressed because of a broken relationship - you're not the first!
Depressed about rejection - hello, others have been there done that.
Depressed about your job - some don't even have one.
Depressed about life - thank God you even have the internet to complain.

No matter the situation learn to spare some time to give thanks for the fact that you are blessed with air to breath, food to eat and a life that is worth living. Millions would kill to be where you are today, to have the things you have and to enjoy the liberties and freedoms you have obtained on a platter of gold. We live in a generation where complaining is now a thing of prestige . . .

Go to Darfur or the Congo . . . if depression were really a disease there shld be nowhere left there. I'd have expected them all to have long committed suicide.
RomanceRe: Rejected by 4Him1(m): 8:32pm On May 02, 2008
hurts but you have to move on. most likely someone better is around the corner, you just never know.
Christianity EtcRe: The Gospel Of Barnabas(the True Forgotten Gospel) by 4Him1(m): 8:30pm On May 02, 2008
olabowale:
@Davidylan: A re, ki de she, omo iba eni? lol. Barnabas and Paul are from the same after Jesus generation. If you claim that one is completely a fraud, then there is 50/50 chance that the other is.
Here is the problem, while other scriptures in the bible can be traced to the 1st century, the fraudulent gospel of Barnabas did not surface until the 15th century. who hid it and why?
another problem, was Spanish and Italian the language of the 1st century apostles?
All other gospels were found written in greek or aramaic . . . why is this "gospel of barnabas" different?

olabowale:
But at best that one is never 100% correct! Paul has been proven to be false, since he was never a companion of Jesus.
1. Paul has been proven to be false by those whose tenous "religion" is exposed for the falsehood it is by the inspired writings of apostle Paul.
2. If not being a companion of Christ makes Paul false then shldnt that same criteria not also disqualify Barnabas?

olabowale:
Just google Paul as a false prophet. The evidence is abounding.
1. The "evidence" comes from mus'lims uncomfortable by Paul's teachings.
2. Just google up "the gospel of barnabas", the evidence that it is a fraud is also astounding.

olabowale:
First divest yourself from Pauline falsehood.
Funny, "falsehood" by your own definition is anything that exposes the qu'ran for the fraud that it is. If we are to divest ourselves of falsehood, a good place to start would be the "gospel of barnabas".
CelebritiesRe: Mariah Carey Weds Nick Cannon In Bahamas by 4Him1(m): 8:24pm On May 02, 2008
sheniqua:
The older woman /younger man couples do last.
The men get a lover,an older sister and a mommy all rolled up in one.
lol are you older than your husband? grin
CelebritiesRe: Mariah Carey Weds Nick Cannon In Bahamas by 4Him1(m): 7:51pm On May 02, 2008
motun_rayo:
This is sad and embarrasing for Maraih, how she gong to be taken seriously with a husband like Nick Cannon,
Mariah lost some respect from me because I expected more and better from her.
Really, but since when did we become judges of who can marry who? I dont understand how you think your "loss of respect" for someone who has never met you makes any difference to her marriage.

Allow her some breathing space pls. She's 38, she deserves some love even if its from someone you dont approve of.
PoliticsRe: Gani by 4Him1(m): 7:46pm On May 02, 2008
sheniqua:
Infact they should capture Obasanjo,rip out his kidneys and give them to Yaradua. grin
Both of them should just go. There is very little difference between a thief and an inept but honest man.
CelebritiesRe: Mariah Carey Weds Nick Cannon In Bahamas by 4Him1(m): 7:44pm On May 02, 2008
naija_diva:
nothing wrong with that, but Mariah Carey could have and should have done better than that. she needs someone like her, not no kid comedian.
She probably looked around and didnt find anyone her age. Who do you suggest she goes for?
CelebritiesRe: Mariah Carey Weds Nick Cannon In Bahamas by 4Him1(m): 7:39pm On May 02, 2008
its the new craze, marriage and babies among celebrities. Nothing new.
PoliticsRe: Gani by 4Him1(m): 7:37pm On May 02, 2008
and obasanjo, atiku, babangida, bamaiyi, useni and other rogues are waxing stronger.

Anyway its a sign that finally the 50-60s generation are slowly dying out before our very eyes.
Christianity EtcRe: The Gospel Of Barnabas(the True Forgotten Gospel) by 4Him1(m): 7:36pm On May 02, 2008
Frizy, i long for the day honesty will be a part of is'lam.

Quoting from a 15th century Spanish/Italian forgery? Where did any of the early 1st century apostles read or write in Spanish or Italian?

When will hypocrites like you boldly quote the qu'ran?
PoliticsRe: Gani by 4Him1(m): 6:28pm On May 02, 2008
lung cancer again?
PoliticsRe: Gani by 4Him1(m): 6:16pm On May 02, 2008
no source?
HealthRe: Many People Are Suffering In Silence. It's Called Depression! Lets Talk About It by 4Him1(m): 5:12pm On May 02, 2008
NubianQ:
4him,

am sorry u feel that way but as usual we can only hope people can understand.well what can i say, if u fell its not medical then what is it? i really agree with HR, hope it never happens to you. well tell me then, are u saying people who are suicidal or manic depressed can't handle situations, have u ever had your mind really work against you, if have never been there u would never understand. i guess u are perfect and forgive me for being in your words part of

a "generation overly eager to blame everything but themselves for their own inability to handle adverse situations"

its your opinion,
they are just cowards who are too afraid to face responsibility and would prefer to take the easy way out.
Our forefathers had way way more problems than we face today and we dont hear stories of them committing suicide. Didnt depression exist then?

There are situations when you are just down emotionally but you need to pick yourself up by the bootstraps, stop the pity party and get on with making something out of your life rather than hiding under prozac.

You tell me, how does your mind work against you? Your mind is YOU.
HealthRe: Many People Are Suffering In Silence. It's Called Depression! Lets Talk About It by 4Him1(m): 4:57pm On May 02, 2008
HR.hotness:
Its sad you think so
Hope it never happens to you
sorry sis, about time we started carrying the can for our own actions rather than hiding under medical jargon.
Christianity EtcRe: The Gospel Of Barnabas(the True Forgotten Gospel) by 4Him1(m): 4:52pm On May 02, 2008
Frizy:
I have the great pleasure of presenting to our Musl'lims and Christian brothers the Gosple of Barnabas.  The Musl'im will find it illuminating and inspiring.
Why? simply because this forgery attempts to authenticate the many lies found in the qu'ran.

Frizy:
Who was Barnabas? Barnabas was an apostle of Jesus Christ.
Here is an even more interesting fact, Barnabas was not one of the early apostles but came in well after Christ had resurrected. Which gospel was he then writing that appeared only in the 15th century long long after the other 1st century gospels had been published?

One more interesting fact, the two earliest surviving manuscripts of this apparent forgery are written in SPANISH and ITALIAN. Languages which were definitely not used by the early apostles. The general consensus is that this was apparently edited to conform to is'lam.

Frizy:
It is my plan is to post the complete the Gospel of Barnabas once or twice daily section by section. Stating the sections in the actual arranged form in English. smiley
Funny how you people spend so much time "planning" to post complete gospels from the bible but are super reluctant to post verses from your own qu'ran. Speaks volumes of your honesty.

Frizy:
May the light of the Gospel of Barnabas illuminate the hearts of all those who care to read it. Amen/Amin.
Is this fraudulent gospel now a part of the qu'ran?
TV/MoviesRe: Any Lover Of Mount Zion Films In The House? by 4Him1(m): 3:47pm On May 02, 2008
Nice moving dramas. I'd like to get my hands on their latest productions.
HealthRe: Many People Are Suffering In Silence. It's Called Depression! Lets Talk About It by 4Him1(m): 3:43pm On May 02, 2008
Depression is not medically a disease. It has been so labelled by a generation overly eager to blame everything but themselves for their own inability to handle adverse situations.

Someone said that depression is clinically a chemical imbalance of the brain . . . i beg to disagree, alchohol and other chemical neuro-depressants do not produce the sad, melancholic behaviour that is symptomatic of those who hide under the umbrella of depression.

Infact anti-depressant drugs ARE a clinically chemical imbalance of the brain as you are trying to artificially induce a neurological response.
RomanceRe: My Precious American Life In Florida by 4Him1(m): 4:28am On May 02, 2008
Mr. Lakanye, allow me to analyse your situation:

Having grown up on a street called FADEYI-ALADURA, off OBAFEMI AWOLOWO WAY, IKEJA, LAGOS, in a house owned by the Okoruwas,  as a tenant with my blood brother who once called me his slave, and having grown up with the Okoruwas with bunch of the most beautiful young women of that age, I had such a phobia for black women.
I'm not sure you truly understand the meaning of the word "phobia". it means - an exaggerated usually inexplicable and illogical fear of a particular object, class of objects, or situation
Your mother, cousins, aunts are all black women, do you have an illogical fear of them?

No bro, you're like the very many black men in Africa who see white women on TV back home and revere them as gods. You worship the ground they walk on, you drool at the mere thot of touching their silky hair, you fantasize about the forbidden thrill of having sex with them . . . being seen with them to you is a sign of having "arrived" . . . you will sell your soul to be able to call a blue-eyed blonde your own.

Its not about phobias, its about a lack of self esteem in your own color.

My phobia for them was the bedrock of my exodus to America for further studies during one of those indefinite UNILAG shutdowns in the days of the camouflaged bureaucratic leaders of the EARLY 90s.
30% of America's population is black. If you had a REAL phobia for black women i'd have expected you to emigrate to more white oriented societies like Russia. There are black women in the Florida you have chosen to hide, do you have a morbid fear of them?

I had since lived in Florida, became an American citizen, and a single parent to two beautiful girls, one a 9 years old from my first American woman-friend on a one night stand,
That you would be proud to announce that your first child is a product of a one night stand is further confirmation of your desperate and shameless fascination with the white female. It is also a window into what kind of woman she was, suffice to say its 90% likely she's one of what her kind call "white thrash".

and the other, a 31/2 years old, from a marriage to a white American woman  My marriage did not work due to her infidelity, and she finally divorced herself after she found out that her second born child does not look like her husband at all. She didn't even bother to come back home from the maternity ward.  But, I loved her, and would have taking her back
Another sad experience with white thrash again. Its very apalling to note that she was cheating on you right under your nose that she didnt even respect you enough to be afraid to carry another man's baby right under your roof for 9 months.
What is even sadder is the fact that she didnt even bother to return to your house after the baby, she abandoned the baby and walked out on you . . . sir that is the worst way to walk all over a man's battered ego. Saying you still loved her and would have taken her back is enough to make a rational human wonder if you have any shred of dignity at all.

but marriage rarely works in a society where a woman feels and thinks she had to live against the biblical ordinances.
There are millions of marriages that work in the US. Marriages based on skin color, prestige, and low self esteem will always hit the rocks.

My problem is the facts that I have not been able to keep a relationship with any American woman.
Maybe because the REAL decent white chics you so desperately want are not looking to marry outside their race. It can be frustrating, pele.

I am a single parent, and have full custody of my two American children from American women. My situation is rare in the American society due to the concepts of CHILD-SUPPORT.
Your situation is not rare. You hooked up with female prostitutes who happen to be white. If both were upstanding responsible citizens, the best you'd get would be weekend visitation rights.
I suspect your REAL intention behind mentioning the term "american" anytime you reference your kids is to let us know they are half caste. . .

I came to America with my believes that the Almighty God would not put me through anything I cannot bear.
The Almighty God gave you black women, you claim to have a phobia for them . . . short of making you white overnight, there's really little the Almighty God can do for you now.

DOES ANYONE HAVE A SOLUTION TO MY PROBLEM?
Bros, you have psychological issues far beyond the scope of this forum.
SportsRe: Is This A Joke? Shaibu Amodu Includes Kayode Odejayi In Eagles Squad by 4Him1(m): 3:40am On May 02, 2008
Akolawole:
3) To you Femi may be disbraceful. He is theyoungest player to that tournament and he want to the championship with his head held high after winning Silver boot and Bronze ball in Under-17 world cup.
grin cheesy cheesy cheesy really? He was younger than me when he played at the U-17 world cup? shocked
PoliticsRe: Drafting Nigeria's Downfall: by 4Him1(m): 3:24am On May 02, 2008
bros na real wa. the signature snapped me back to reality. grin
PoliticsRe: Drafting Nigeria's Downfall: by 4Him1(m): 3:14am On May 02, 2008
sheniqua:
is that really them?

hi david grin
Nwandolina! shocked grin wetin happen? This ur name na baba.

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