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onyinye2:
Yes the FOUNDATION
But is built with:

Money
Sex
Trust
Compromise
More sex
Understanding
More money and sex on the side
God.

You forgot the ever present "God fearing" that Nigerians love. Apparently,you have to be scared shitless of God for you to be an eligible partner. I don't how scared you have to be but I gather you have to be really really really really scared of God.

KarmaMod:
A good 60% of divorces nowadays is based on financial issues, 4Play. Looks like people are getting bored with the "love shall see us through" song.

I guess millionaires don't have wives filing for divorce. All you need to make a marriage work is love. . . . ._{obviously, it helps if the woman can cook up a storm and is a slut in the bedroom}

Love is all we need!!!!!

Sisikill:
And what did I tell you when said the same to me that they when I was leaving? Remember that day? You were crying, You had a tight grip on my legs and begging? That's right. . . I  laughed and said MY MAMA DIDN'T RAISE NO FOOL and when I was done laughing, I said GOOD LUCK WITH THAT. I meant it, I still do.  

That hurt but I was blessed to find Ruby and Onyinye who were prepared to give a man who can only afford a bus pass a chance. Yes,our house might be a council property,we might be on welfare and unemployment benefit but these 2 wonderful women-Ruby and Onyinye- can see the glowing inner qualities I possess.

merge:
ALL THE Poor Man in N-land Raise your Hand UP   

Poor bank account but rich in spirit.

onyinye2:
Money conquers the moment. . . . . Love conquers all.

This is why you are such a sweetheart. Tell them.

Will bank account ensure a man's fidelity? Will wealth ensure that the man isn't a wife beater? The qualities you search for are internal that will endure the test of time.

onyinye2:
Cutty buddy. . . . why do you make a boldface lie? Wasn't you that told Naija women to go to Australia because we were ugly?

Is that what Seun used my username to do?    I'm not going to take this lying down. Totally unacceptable.

KarmaMod:
4Play you wan make I expose you eh?

Do you know Seun is a very mischievous person? He starts up threads and posts in my name,when I have absolutely nothing to do with them.

Sisikill:
Whoa! Whoa! Whoa! You are not going to put this on me! I asked several times, how much do you have in your bank account. . . you said you had enough. How did you expect me to react when I found out that your defination of enough is what I use to by paper towel? Did you expect me to what. . . sit on the cockroach infested couch, hugging it out and chanting "Love Conquers all?"
As if!  

Successful marriages are built on love not on a luxurious couch.

KarmaMod:
why have anyhthing to do with us "wowo Naija girls" in the first place

When have I ever described our beautiful Nigerian ladies as wowo?   Na wa o .All this just to taint my image.

KarmaMod:
mesya, let him ask ridiculous question. Poverty don erode his head

I have always said that it is the inner qualities that matter .It is the richness of a man's character that matters,that is what Ruby and Onyinye saw in me. Together we will build a successful future. All you jealous women should keep quiet.

mesmya:
D-reloaded

Never heard of her.

KarmaMod:
Seriously what happened to 4Play? I no dey like this new version o

Who is this?  

onyinye2:
Oh 4P. . . . you know you is nothing but my cutty buddy.  

I will always cherish the fact that you were prepared to be my 2nd wife. It wasn't easy recovering from the trauma of my marriage to Sisikill. I was lucky to meet 2 understanding women in you and Ruby.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=164819.msg2731419#msg2731419 date=1220138796]I'm already married to 4 Play

@4play
How could we have married if you no get money, though you are handsome?[/quote]I dey ask myself the same question. I think love conquers all obstacles.

mesmya:
@ruby and onyinye
don't tell me u guys want to end up wt an anambra man?

The strength of our love helps us overcome anything. I will leave the story of how I met these my 2 wives for later.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=164819.msg2731399#msg2731399 date=1220138455]yes, no be me and you get divorce, because there was never a dispute[/quote]I wonder o. How can we divorce when we didn't have any disagreement?   Never mind those idle rumor mongers.

Uche2nna:


 Knowing Ruby , she would come after You with knives, skillets and pans  

I had to calm her down because she wanted to assault the paparazzi disturbing our wedding

mesmya:
but i think say ruby and onyinye dey US?

The wedding was done here. You no sabi wetin dey happen for London,it was in Heat magazine.

onyinye2:
Sorry my policy is "2nd place don't get a prize." I aint no one's slideline hoe.

I agree totally,that is why I made our relationship official by marrying you as well. Never mind what the haters say.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=164819.msg2731373#msg2731373 date=1220138146]no be me and you.[/quote]It's true,no be me and you go divorce. This our marriage is cannot be broken.

If wishes were horses, beggars would ride

You are so right. . . . . the way people were wishing us bad luck,but we always knew their wishes won't come true.

This thing na old news, in more ways than one.

mesmya:
oh gawdddd,fokplay d information minister

You no sabi about my wedding with Ruby? It made headlines in London. You should have seen the reaction when I took on my 2nd wife,Onyinye.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=164819.msg2731350#msg2731350 date=1220137823]Remember, I denied your proposal.
You were poor, that was not the problem o, but you no handsome [/quote]You mean my proposal to end the marriage? I know you did,I was pleased to know you didn't mind me taking a 2nd wife in Onyinye.

I can testify to Onyinye & Ruby_Pearl's selflessness because they are both married to me even though I am very poor. It is one happy polygamous marriage.

@Ibime

Let me try to dissect this retard's rant. This fool invokes the necessity of "bloc voting" on the basis of skin pigmentation when the adoption of such a cretinous mentality will put to bed any chance of racial minorities ascending to power in the US. You want blacks to vote on the basis of race while hoping that whites don't return the favor,what an idiot.

What this historical illiterate doesn't realise is that both parties regularly help blacks break the glass ceiling. Was it not the GOP that ended slavery and voted more enthusiastically for the Civil Rights Act than the Democrat legislators. Who does this tit think appointed blacks as Chairman Joint Chiefs of Staff,National Security Adviser, Secretary of State, Justice of the Supreme of the Court? Colin Powell would have obliterated McCain in a GOP primaries.

The KKK votes Republican?You are obviously an slowpoke. Besides,the most prominent KKK member is Dem Sen Byrd who is currently in the US Congress.

The GOP ruined New Orleans? That must be why the state of Louisiana has gone for a Republican Gov since the Katrina storm.

This tribalist dolt who spends time on this forum extolling how Ijaws kill other ethnic groups is claiming to be ''pro-African''.

Obama,who is as white as he is black, won't change the perception of Blacks merely by the fact of being elected. What we need to change the perception of Blacks is consigning to the dustbin of history,idiots who reason like you.

Nigga, the historical significance of an Obama presidency goes way beyond your petty partizan politics so save all your trivial debate for Kobojunkie or Tayo-D.

I don't know why stupid Nigerians pin their masts to any political party anyway. Only an idiot is restricted or pidgeon-holed in his thinking by whichever party he supports.

I am neither Democrat nor Republican and yes, I support Barrack because he's black. Shoot me!

@Ibime
Only an obscenely imbecilic individual openly bases his support for a politician because his skin color closely resembles his. What difference would historical significance make to your life. Electing a man who has 3 eyes,a hermaphrodite, a dog,e.t.c would all be epoch making but no lucid person advocates that elections should be decided on matters as trivial as mere historical significance.

The stupidity of Nigerians,in basing their political support on ''supporting your own'',hasn't exactly made Nigeria an eldorado.

I forgot I'm talking to the same tribalist dolt who claims Ijaws fire AK47s with one arm while swimming with the other,a feat not even the retarded will believe.

I have always wondered,whenever Obamamaniacs commence their glib chants of "yes we can",why can't someone shout,"what"? Yes we can do what?

From one orgy of flannel to the other,no one seems to ask about the specifics. Is it any wonder that Obama seeks to limit the amount of face-to-face debates he has with his rivals-Clinton and McCain. Stripped of his teleprompter,he becomes an ordinary uninspiring politician.

There is nothing like 'free' healthcare. Free healthcare has to be paid for. Nigeria's entire budget is not up to the UK's NHS budget(the UK has less than Nigeria's population). This claim that Nigeria is a wealthy country is unfounded.

Queenisha:
My dear na wa o
how can you decide on a VP you never met then schedule a meeting to meet her for that purpose.
This is bizzare
it's like  4play hearing of this beautiful woman from Asaba and the first time he sets his eyes on her,he asks for her hand in marriage then the marriage is contracted and consummated the same day.

This is odd. All the Obamaniacs with their homo-erotic passion, hetero-erotic crush in your case,are absolutely convinced that Obama is more than qualified for the job,yet,they have never "set eyes" on Obama. Yet you think it's odd that McCain should be convinced of the qualification of Palin when he has only met her once?

Like I noted earlier,Obama isn't even aware of our existence. He never mentions Nigeria and rarely talks about his plans for Africa but we are supposed to be enthralled because he is half-black.

cola:
Abraham Lincoln had exactly eight years of legislative experience in the Illinois state senate at Springfield and four years of service at the Senate in Washington.    [i]sounds like Barack?[/i]He took oath of office on the eve of a war.He is still one of the most terrific Presidents Americans still talk about to date.

OK. Experience is crucial and it's good McCain called attention to it.But then he turned round and put a near rookie, layman a heartbeat away from the Preidency of the USA.So why has he been shouting about readiness and experience everywhere?Self-centred political expediency!

Don't you get tired of trotting out Obama talking points? How can anyone justify the inexperience of a presidential candidate on the grounds that the opposing vice-presidential candidate is similarly inexperienced? You haven't answered why Obama chose a man who voted for the Iraq war,something he railed against Hillary for doing.

Also,the bizzare idea of referring back to the mid-19th century in order to find another American president who was similarly inexperienced is laughable. The experiences and accomplishments required of the US president in the mid-19th century,an era in which most Americans were poor and illiterate,cannot be superimposed into the 21st century.

That was a time an unschooled autodidact could aspire to be President. Try becoming President today without a University qualification and justifying it on the grounds that Pres A.Johnson wasn't a graduate either.

Indeed,by having to go back almost a century and half,you do illustrate the point,that Obama is the least experienced person to run for President on a major party's ticket in modern times.

Geniall:
You'D better bow and tremble. If there was one, would you know it? Your attempt at sarcasm is funny.

"Vastly" different economic and technological challenges? You can't refrain from using melodramatic adjectives that make nonsense of your argument, can you? In what sense are the economic and technological challenges "vastly" different? If anything, such a promise would make more sense now than it would have then. Maybe you don't think the experiments by major car manufacturers such as Cadillac, Chevrolet and Toyota with hybrid vehicles, biomass CHP combustion engines, electric engines and nuclear energy are similar to landing an unmanned flight on the moon. Not surprising.

All I can see are wild stabs in the dark. You seem to suggest that the existence of such energy alternatives as you have listed,some of which have existed since the early 70s,could inevitably lead to energy independence within 10 years. You haven't explained why this is so other than risibly invoke JFK's memories.

The question is not what I think but what the experts think. Can you name any reputable person who thinks that the oil age can effectively be ended within the next 10 years? One single person,and don't tell me Barack Obama.

The mere existence of technological progress is not proof of the possibility of a technological breakthrough within 10 years. JFK was advised that 10 years was feasible. Who in his right mind so advised Obama?

Melodramatic adjectives? Goodness me,we need to work on your understanding of adjectives/adverbs,never mind the energy industry.

PS:

So if he cites them, then the "impossible" promise suddenly becomes possible? Tut-tut. Told ya. You shouldn't have used that word "impossible" unless you knew what you were talking about.

Them? Who are these experts who share your belief in the viability of Obama's promise?

Geniall:
What exactly is impossible about his promises? What's impossible about ending dependence on foreign oil in 10 years? I would be a lot more cautious about using the word "impossible", because improvements in our knowledge and scientific breakthroughs are quickly changing our definition of what's possible and what's not.

You could say it's highly unlikely, given historical precedents, and you would be absolutely right. But tell that to John Kennedy, who promised to put a man on the moon within 10 years. Foolish, impractical and a promise only a brash, inveterate romantic could make but, guess what? It happened.

You maybe don't realise how quickly scientific breakthroughs can turn technology around. But "impossible" is not a word to bandy around carelessly.

And, no, some educated people don't get offended when people make impossible promises, maybe because they know that what may be impossible today may yet become possible tomorrow.

If you believe the US can replace close to 13m barrels p/d of oil within 10 years,kudos to you. If you also believe there is some technology in the pipeline which will make this possible within that time frame,I bow and tremble at your ''wisdom''.

Invoking JFK is risible because the economic and technological challenges towards meeting the 2 goals were vastly different. JFK's promise was prompted by the scientific community's perception of what is technically feasible,there had been an unmanned landing by the less advanced Soviets as far back as 1959.

Unless Obama's expertise has suddenly included the energy sector,I will like to see him cite experts in the field who think his promise is possible within that time frame.

Nor is that claim,ending energy dependence in 10 years,the sole such ludicrous claim he has made.

tpia:
no need to blindly parrot everything Obama says nah.

Obama zombies do this all the time, and its alarming and smacks of Hitler.

The thing is irritating.Go to any thread about Obama and you will see Campaign Obama talking points being reproduced verbatim or paraphrased. It's quite disturbing.

Big B1:
The speech was incredible and can never be matched.

That was what you said about the 'Rev Wright speech'. Sure you will say the same thing on inauguration day.

rasputinn:
By and large I really like the Mccain guy though,I even prefer him to Barack on some issues like gay unions/marriages

Issues that are quite frankly irrelevant as far as Presidents are concerned. They can't change much.

I saw Obama promising to end America's dependence on foreign oil within the next 10 years[impossible],end the war in Afghanistan and Iraq[he can only end America's involvement],e.t.c I was thinking,don't educated people feel offended when politicans shamelessly and repeatedly insult their intelligence by promising things they can't do in return for votes?

In everyday life,if someone were to promise you the impossible in return for your help,don't you get irritated ?

KarmaMod:
Sharrap jare   The hell does wives have to do with children? Stop changing topic!  

First I can be just as crass as any man if I'm in that mood   Not questioning the kid's worth, just her judgment and her anti-choice stance. Not every woman can bear to go through what she is and should be given the right to choose whether or not they want to.

That she chose to go through with it speaks volumes of her and shouldn't invoke condemnation. All you gullible people who keep whining about pro-choice/pro-life,how much power does a President have to change Roe v Wade?

Bush is pro-life,has that stopped abortions?