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Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by Raalsalghul: 8:03am On Jun 02, 2019 |
Ugosample:Very insightful post I must say. I don't know but delaying child bearing is one aspect Nigerians hardly look at. Funny enough it's not only the ladies's decision to pop out sometimes pressure from the man too. Such scenario is still affecting my sister's friend till now. And in her case, she was just 22. And I wish NiggerAreans as you call it could bring down having kids to just 2. 3 and above should be for the elite. Our population is bloated already. As for me, the mere thought of bringing a child into this contraption is enough reason to steer clear of Marriage. Finally, I've observed that most say 80per cent of successful/well to do people in this part of the world are kids of successful people too. So I dont blame the ones that want to have millions before settling down. Poverty can be inherited moving from one generation to the other. Reason why planning is vital. 3 Likes |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by abbiboy: 8:05am On Jun 02, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Lazy she-goat.year 3030. 2 Likes |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by 77up(m): 8:13am On Jun 02, 2019 |
erico2k2:You think that girl and all same with her mindset want to get married for content? All they want is reginal Daniel kind of life , cant you see as she's screaming ned nwoko upandan on the thread? I just pity the man that ll be deceived by their little fine face to come their way . 7 Likes |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by Realhommie(m): 8:14am On Jun 02, 2019 |
Phenomenal16:I WISH i could just marry you for this, emphasis on wish.. Nice one |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by Denimadz(m): 8:35am On Jun 02, 2019 |
This are the issues, marriage is not about how much do you earn, you have Men who earn 35,000 and are living happy with their wife, while others earn 150,000 are having issues, even in Europe its not everyone that earns up to 150,000 a month and yet people get married and live together. One of the most difficult things about marriage is getting the woman that is a friend and partner, and family. Did any of us leave our parents when growin up because they went through hardship? So what are we saying, if you find someone who is ready to live with you, you are good to go. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by Raalsalghul: 8:37am On Jun 02, 2019 |
specter:How's the business coming along? |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by Realhommie(m): 8:37am On Jun 02, 2019 |
VillagePipu:This is very important for me.. Kudos |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by Mizwisdom(f): 8:37am On Jun 02, 2019 |
Reality check: ladies, only about 10% men will not care if you contribute to family upkeep or not. Don't think you won't contribute 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by Jman06(m): 8:40am On Jun 02, 2019 |
I didn't come to this world to work for any lady! It smacks of selfishness for a lady to just sit her assz down somewhere while raising unnecessary standards for men to attain before marriage! I'm working hard to make money not because I want to impress any lady but for the sake of my unborn kids and also make my mum proud of her son. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by Nobody: 8:42am On Jun 02, 2019 |
HeliosHay:If you are still searching for a good wife then I support your decision,I I thought you only want to have kids when you make a enough million. . |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by mubby4real(m): 8:44am On Jun 02, 2019 |
Preshy561:Thief |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by Munzy14(m): 8:45am On Jun 02, 2019 |
ibkayee:wonderful point.. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by 77up(m): 8:49am On Jun 02, 2019 |
jackals:More reasons why men are going extinction. Why is it always you , you and you? The question is what can you offer the man ? Marriage is not suppose to be one sided , both are in it together. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by jackals(f): 8:58am On Jun 02, 2019 |
77up: You're right. But who tell you I'm bringing nothing into it |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by GeneralPula: 9:09am On Jun 02, 2019 |
All I smell here is check balancing. Some ladies here are very wise lol Well, my own plan is that, before marriage paparazzi at all, I must have saved 5m or more. So whatever she wanna do won’t be a problem. Even if she has a job & making money already, it’ll only be a plus for her! If she has no job at all, it’s still not gonna be a problem! I have an account for the unknown girl already lol! But one thing is I’m a very low key person. It’ll take an extraordinary mind to spot me. That extraordinary mindset is all I need from a lady. One that knows the different between Gold & Gold plated. Well lots of ladies especially Naija ladies don’t actually know! 3 Likes |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by Ugosample(m): 9:18am On Jun 02, 2019 |
Raalsalghul: yes Indeed you have spoken well |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:21am On Jun 02, 2019 |
See how they're throwing expletives everywhere. |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by Safiaa(f): 9:26am On Jun 02, 2019 |
And that’s sad because then in reality it’s the woman that carries most of not all the responsibilities on her head. After 10 years most wives always look haggard and worn out, yet the husband still looks active. If a woman must contribute, it should honestly be the bare minimum. If you are a career woman, let all the responsibilities be split equally. Your husband must equally wash plates, sweep the house, cook for the children and yourself and take care of the kids, because you are equally the provider in the home. But the reality is that the woman will always carry the burden. Oga will still expect you to bounce on top of his dick after all that stress. It’s a shame women are being manipulated and they cant even see it. Mizwisdom: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by kindness44: 9:30am On Jun 02, 2019 |
samueloduoye:marriage is not for everyone, instead to find work u the look for Alaji u come turn ur body to cash and a carry � for the ones that say a man must earn N3000, 000 before considering marriage, now how can a civil servant with great level 01 with N18900 salary or a graduate with GL 04 get married? (there are also female civil servant too) Marriage is a team work not a dependable, he is the head u r the neck, both paties should bring something to the table, both parties should provide for d children. |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:32am On Jun 02, 2019 |
Safiaa: Thanks for this, my dear. Don't mind these sexists men. After we still split bills with them, they won't be responsible with sharing the house chores. Later later, they'll still cheat last last, so what's the point? Let's drink garri in a mansion than eat fried rice in one room at obalende. In the end, they'll still call us prostitutes. Let me suffer with my Ned Nwoko in peace. |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by billbonesmd(m): 9:32am On Jun 02, 2019 |
E dey traffic for Ikorodu UyaiIncomparabl: |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by Nobody: 9:39am On Jun 02, 2019 |
Safiaa: Oh Jisos, Cette dame est venue avec ses problèmes 2 Likes
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Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by Nackzy: 9:43am On Jun 02, 2019 |
samueloduoye:has anyone noticed that all those suggesting 800k 500k 200k 150k are all women, that's why most of them remain single till today even at age 35 2 Likes |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by Safiaa(f): 9:43am On Jun 02, 2019 |
Lol I don’t understand ohhh When it comes to splitting financial bills their mouths will open like parrots. They are so quick to ask what you contribute financially to a marriage. But when it comes to domestic contributions and other aspects, they are mute. You want to be addressed as the head of the home, yet your wife is doing practically everything in the house. She’s the one running the home. The only job that you’re really assigned to do is provide, yet you still want to split that role into half with your wife? You wonder why women don’t respect men of this generation. They are absolutely pathetic. UyaiIncomparabl: |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by austelright1: 9:46am On Jun 02, 2019 |
[quote author=VillagePipu post=78939176] No na. You know say she see that 500k as the ultimate for her, I come show her say that 500k sef na nothing. Na brain, prospects, smartwork and continuous improvement wife wey get sense dey look out for, not 500k. You guys are funny, how can you guys said with 500k a man can't leave comfortable in any choice place in Lagos. For your information i am married with a kid who is 6yrs old, I earn that amount every month and live comfortably well in Abuja. For your information I live in Wuse2 one of the highbrow areas in Abuja. My rent is 1m every year, i comfortably pays it without hitch, every month we hadly finish 100k, i have a car and my wife has too...my child school fees is payed from my income and i have a house I'm paying through mortgage every month and the house is in Katampe another highbrow area in Abuja with good infrastructure, serene evironment and i plan moving by next year when I'm done paying for the house. Who told you earning every 500k every month is not more than enough for you to live anywhere in Nigeria. Let me break it down for you. House rent i save 100k every month Feeding/other expenses 100k every month Paying myself every month 100k Mortgage 200k every month. Child school fees is 150k every year. Pls tell me how I'm not living well with all my expense taking care of. My wife works her own money we keep it in case of emergency which rarely comes up. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by bonje02: 9:49am On Jun 02, 2019 |
Nackzy:Lol |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by austelright1: 9:50am On Jun 02, 2019 |
You guys are funny, how can you guys said with 500k a man can't leave comfortable in any choice place in Lagos. For your information i am married with a kid who is 6yrs old, I earn that amount every month and live comfortably well in Abuja. For your information I live in Wuse2 one of the highbrow areas in Abuja. My rent is 1m every year, i comfortably pays it without hitch, every month we hadly finish 100k, i have a car and my wife has too...my child school fees is payed from my income and i have a house I'm paying through mortgage every month and the house is in Katampe another highbrow area in Abuja with good infrastructure, serene evironment and i plan moving by next year when I'm done paying for the house. Who told you earning every 500k every month is not more than enough for you to live anywhere in Nigeria. Let me break it down for you. House rent i save 100k every month Feeding/other expenses 100k every month Paying myself every month 100k Mortgage 200k every month. Child school fees is 150k every year. Pls tell me how I'm not living well with all my expense taking care of. My wife works her own money we keep it in case of emergency which rarely comes up. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by HeliosHay(m): 9:54am On Jun 02, 2019 |
austelright1:[quote author=austelright1 post=78946210][/quote] You said every month you hardly finish N100K...yet you mention you spend 200k on mortgage, 100k on feeding/other expenses etc...is that correct?..maybe its a mistake somewhere but something doesn't add up. |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by gcof(m): 9:55am On Jun 02, 2019 |
Iamgrey5:2000 for Otukpo |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by willyo(m): 9:56am On Jun 02, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl: With that ugly face? U are the one who is suppose to feed a husband 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by gcof(m): 9:56am On Jun 02, 2019 |
ibkayee:which billionaire son He is the money bag. If you catch am, hold am tight |
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