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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by nlPoster: 7:27am On Oct 30, 2019
@King Grist

If you're still a boy as you described yourself, you shouldn't be thinking of marriage.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Igetmyown247: 7:28am On Oct 30, 2019
futurerex:
Edo, Akwa Ibom and Benue girls because they're cheerful givers. Them no the close leg

Do not generalize there are some good ones. Same apply to women from other part of the country.

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Nobody: 7:32am On Oct 30, 2019
ken6488:
Calabar or Igbo

Though I can date not marry
#note I am from Delta

Reason Is because of distance..

cheesy and The excessive bride price
I'm from calabar and deeply in love with an urhobo, Deltan lady. . Will marry her soonest.
Na poor man go only complain of excessive bride price.
Love conquers all things

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Mozibee007(m): 7:53am On Oct 30, 2019
Mum said I should have nothing to do with Benin ladies. Because they are too diabolical

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Omar09(m): 7:53am On Oct 30, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Ngwa and mbaise

My mama warned me against marrying an Mbaise babe. Tho I have one who truely loves me.
My uncle warned against Ngwa. Tho I don't like them cause their girls are short.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by KingGrist: 8:02am On Oct 30, 2019
nairalandposter:
@King Grist

If you're still a boy as you described yourself, you shouldn't be thinking of marriage.


I'm just saying my own
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by nlPoster: 8:07am On Oct 30, 2019
KingGrist:



I'm just saying my own


Anyone describing himself as a "boy" in a real life context, is indicating he actually is one.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by chukzyfcbb: 8:34am On Oct 30, 2019
In awka, peeps are wary to marry from Awkuzu, it's said that thier girls are either very promiscuous and the guys into gang/illegal activities, lol

My pops was wary of Nnewi People, he said they were dubious in nature.

Personally I am wary of Imo State girls, done see enuff from there to leave me with doubts.

Las Las we all have stereotypes regardless of how we hide it smiley

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Shinapraise(m): 8:41am On Oct 30, 2019
Lamanii22:



Yoruba... And the Yoruba guys I've met didn't treat me nice...
why not let me treat you right see my signature for my contact

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Vulcanheph(m): 8:44am On Oct 30, 2019
When i was younger my Mum (Bless her soul) used to Warn me and my brothers about akwa ibom girls, i never used to know why but when i grew up i got to see the truth.......make No mistake, they make incredible girlfriends but Horrible Wives, and their Dowry is more than enough to build You a Duplex also when You are Dating their girls make sure You don't get her pregnant because You don buy market from her people and those people are very diabolical.....even their men hardly Marry from their state.........

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by WENGERNOMICS(m): 8:52am On Oct 30, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Ngwa and [url][/url]mbaise

Why na? I have heard this for so long but I don't know why they said to stay away from those places.

Can you educate us?

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Karleb(m): 8:55am On Oct 30, 2019
My dad is always saying I shouldn't bring an Igbo girl home and I don't understand why the man is being unnecessarily tribalistic. I don't just get it.

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Nobody: 9:01am On Oct 30, 2019
WENGERNOMICS:


Why na? I have heard this for so long but I don't know why they said to stay away from those places.

Can you educate us?
They say ngwa people are wicked and ate human beings. For mbaise people, they simply cunning.

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Lamanii22(f): 9:02am On Oct 30, 2019
Bishopbones007:
where are you from



Osun state
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Lamanii22(f): 9:05am On Oct 30, 2019
Shinapraise:
why not let me treat you right see my signature for my contact

Oh really....
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by WENGERNOMICS(m): 9:07am On Oct 30, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
They say ngwa people are wicked and ate human beings. For mbaise people, they simply cunning.

But is there any tribe that does not have wicked people?

As for Mbaise, the gist is that if you see a snake and see an Mbaise person, kill the Mbaise person 1st and leave the snake. Unfortunately, I did not heed that proverb and I encounter one Mbaise person that explained it to me practically .

That said, I still don't believe every single person from there is worse than a snake.

In summary Sha, stereotypes are bad. Na tribalism and religion dey kill Naija!

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Nobody: 9:11am On Oct 30, 2019
WENGERNOMICS:


But is there any tribe that does not have wicked people?

As for Mbaise, the gist is that if you see a snake and see an Mbaise person, kill the Mbaise person 1st and leave the snake. Unfortunately, I did not heed that proverb and I encounter one Mbaise person that explained it to me practically .

That said, I still don't believe every single person from there is worse than a snake.

In summary Sha, stereotypes are bad. Na tribalism and religion dey kill Naija!
This has to do with old beliefs. Can you elaborate on the killing mbaise before snake talk?
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by KingGrist: 9:22am On Oct 30, 2019
nairalandposter:



Anyone describing himself as a "boy" in a real life context, is indicating he actually is one.

I'm 17.
I'm a boy, I didn't deny it.

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by WENGERNOMICS(m): 9:30am On Oct 30, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
This has to do with old beliefs. Can you elaborate on the killing mbaise before snake talk?

It's just a usual proverb in Igbo land. Like you said, it's old beliefs. They say Mbaise people are as cunning and more dangerous than snakes and so one must be wary of them.

I have a good friend who is married from there and his wife is a great person. Nothing of such. But. I also have a former coworker who uses me to do practical. She is a physical evidence of that proverb. Raw and undiluted.

So advice is that on very serious matters like marriage, you must be convinced in your heart that this is the right thing......then trust God

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by ken6488(m): 9:51am On Oct 30, 2019
MEJOISLAND:

I'm from calabar and deeply in love with an urhobo, Deltan lady. . Will marry her soonest.
Na poor man go only complain of excessive bride price.
Love conquers all things
cheesy. Is not that I can't marry them io cheesy As you say love rules I can marry One if in love sha

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by MissOffpoint(f): 10:00am On Oct 30, 2019
Igbo
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by MissOffpoint(f): 10:02am On Oct 30, 2019
futurerex:
Edo, Akwa Ibom and Benue girls because they're cheerful givers. Them no the close leg

How many Edo girls have you met for you to reach this conclusion?

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by kingmann(m): 10:14am On Oct 30, 2019
ken6488:
Calabar or Igbo

Though I can date not marry
#note I am from Delta

Reason Is because of distance..

cheesy and The excessive bride price
Which kind distance Delta to Anambra pass 1 hour

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by chinchonglee(m): 10:17am On Oct 30, 2019
KingGrist:
You guys should remember not to judge a particular group of people because of what someone told you or what you heard. Get to
Know about people and other tribes. Not all of them exhibit bad characters.
I'm an Igbo boy, and my mum will allow me marry anyone from any tribe as long as it makes me happy´┐Ż.
I feel u bro... I am big fan of dis school of thought until i dated two yoruba girls..

I saw 200reasons never to marry frm dat tribe but who knws, love conquers all

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by chinchonglee(m): 10:19am On Oct 30, 2019
MissOffpoint:


How many Edo girls have you met for you to reach this conclusion?
Personally i ve met plenty and the guy is nt lying abt EDO girls.. i dnt knw for akwa ibom and benue girls
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by kingmann(m): 10:20am On Oct 30, 2019
Skmoda360:

Even Akwa Ibom, there bride price is overly much ehn......
Almost all Akwa ibom girls na Bleep girls
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by movingclouds(m): 10:22am On Oct 30, 2019
My mom has never talked or shown any sign of hatred for any other tribe.. But as for me, I coild do anything to marry an Igbo girl... I'm Yoruba

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by ken6488(m): 10:22am On Oct 30, 2019
kingmann:

Which kind distance Delta to Anambra pass 1 hour
. grin I don't just like distance marriages
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by MissOffpoint(f): 10:23am On Oct 30, 2019
chinchonglee:

Personally i ve met plenty and the guy is nt lying abt EDO girls.. i dnt knw for akwa ibom and benue girls

Hmm, nawa oo
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Suchy22(f): 10:26am On Oct 30, 2019
Mumsy is totally against Yoruba men cuz they don't take care of their women. According to her, marry a Yoruba man and you're on your own.

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Weirdgee: 10:37am On Oct 30, 2019
nice thread my mother always tells us not to marry Benin woman....that they are too fetish and wicked.

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