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Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by ifeanyijonah: 3:27am On May 27, 2020 |
pls how do I post something on nairaland? |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by anonymous1759(m): 3:31am On May 27, 2020 |
Your girl is not proud of you simple. If you can cope with a woman like that fine but as for me the day I notice my wife or girlfriend ain't proud of me I'll bounce I'll never be a second option. You know why? Because you'll always be the second fiddle whenever the first guy is back. I would have reason with your girl friend if you've engaged her for at 3 months without plans for marriage but just a week it's too damn early if she truly loves you, the happiness will be seen over her for at least a month. On a second thought if you trust her 100%, you might believe the spiritual attack she told you about. It's risky to go open in this part of the world. If she's hiding your ring for the Grater Good fine. My advice. Be vigilant, be spiritual, ask family and friends to pray for you God will definitely reveal her true intentions to you or any of your close relative. This little signs before marriage can be a life safer and a prevention from future heartbreak. Don't mind people telling you she's smart for refusing to wear engagement after a week. One week is too early not to put your ring on. I can excuse mommy and daddy who refuse to wear their ring not a young couple. Refusing to wear your ring simple means you're putting on your Wi-Fi available to connect. Be wise. 2 Likes |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by FEGNO: 3:33am On May 27, 2020 |
Like someone earlier stated, she is either leaving her options open or she is being cautious incase of disappointment. Either way, you do not have her complete trust and attention. I have attended an engagement party where a guy proposed to a lady in the presence of friends and family. The lady was beaming with so much joy ( or so it seemed ) until i heard she returned the ring the very next day without much explanation. |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by Ferdinandu(m): 3:38am On May 27, 2020 |
Hotzone:Oga why should you be putting engagement ring now instead of wedding ring. Corona wedding is same as engagement, no much expenses so what is your excuse?. I will be your husband is different from i am your husband. Leave the poor girl alone to still keep her options open if you are not ready to be in Marriage now. |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by Hndrrxxx(m): 3:39am On May 27, 2020 |
Lol who u be supercase1: |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by MrDoGood(m): 3:41am On May 27, 2020 |
NuclearGodzilla:Great movie |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by KIDfurniture(m): 4:11am On May 27, 2020 |
You re tired ke.. u never even marry am yet oh. Endure biko. Men re meant to die faster . Hotzone: |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by henryadex(m): 4:13am On May 27, 2020 |
Spiritual challenges hmm she's not residing with you because of her faith and you want her to be putting on engagement ring, how would she explain to her colleagues in church that she's engaged Bobo cool temper till she is yours finally
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Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by megley(f): 4:27am On May 27, 2020 |
If she's not wearing the ring then she's not so sure about marrying you, take if from me Which one is spiritual challenge? Guy, talk things over with her before you go and collect list and make mistake oo 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by Kirinwa: 4:30am On May 27, 2020 |
Hotzone: My worry is not even whether she wears your ring or not but rather spending on someone who earns higher than you and who withholds her money. Has she spent a dime on you? How do you intend to work together if you are the only one spending or loving while the other partner is passive? I think you are dating yourself. Watch it. NB: I think she doesn't want rumours or gossip at this early stage. I also think she's reserved about showing you off as the engagement can be called off anytime. She's protecting herself or keeping her options open. |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by Jamesayo: 4:44am On May 27, 2020 |
There is no way you settle spiritual matters physically and with the opinions of people. Settle it spiritually unless you are not the man meant for her. Fast and pray with her since she understands that path well... I trust God to settle things for you both. |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by Nobody: 4:54am On May 27, 2020 |
There are some Pentecostal churches that don't recognize the use of rings in marriage/engagement. She might be a member of one of the churches,and this thought cannot be easily taken from her heart as she's been programmed that way. So don't break ties with her if you are satisfied with her. |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by TaiKuun(m): 5:03am On May 27, 2020 |
Marry this girl at your own peril. She gonna manipulate the hell out of you under the guise of "Spiritual reasons" 1 Like |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by wizod(m): 5:24am On May 27, 2020 |
OPstop disturbing us. she is a serial cheat |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by Ibrahiimo(m): 5:24am On May 27, 2020 |
Whatever' Girlfriends and BOYFRIENDS matters are nothing but VANITY upon VANITY. I'm out of here!!!
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Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by wizod(m): 5:30am On May 27, 2020 |
TheRealProphet:worse 1 Like |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by ViktorCash: 5:33am On May 27, 2020 |
She dey cheat on you |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by Richie1234: 5:43am On May 27, 2020 |
What kind of spiritual challenge that forbids the use of ring ? Does she told you the nature of the challenge ? To set the record straight. 1) Either she is seeing someone else 2) she is not proud of identifying herself with you .or something is not right. My gf is a banker . There is no day she goes to office without her ring . We were meant to get married 10-11 April before covid 19 halted it . By God grace a new date is fix by July to do family and friends wedding |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by Glink2018(m): 5:46am On May 27, 2020 |
It means you are not presentable but while she enjoys your money she will.still.hanging around you...it is good for someone to be fool so that.another person will benefit from his foolishness...op, to.say the.truth, you.are a Fxxl. |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by Nobody: 5:48am On May 27, 2020 |
wizod:thanks. |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by MEGA4BILLION(m): 6:25am On May 27, 2020 |
She is not your wife yet, she earns more than you but you are taking care of all her bills, your problem is not the lady wearing the ring but you need sense. 1 Like |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by toprealman: 6:26am On May 27, 2020 |
Hotzone:What has the engagement ring got to do with her spiritual issues? |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by Tumbulum: 6:29am On May 27, 2020 |
Bola146:coman take wedding ring tomorrow. |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by Sleeky2020(m): 6:36am On May 27, 2020 |
Have you gone with her to see her parents? If no kindly fix a date with her to see her parents. Secondly,be wise don't spend on her anymore rather if you are sure you want to marry her tell her that you are saving for her marriage. Thirdly, why must you date a lady in the same office, what happens to your financial security. I can conclude that this is a framed up story. Finally,leave wetin dem write for moto enter moto. Only legends will understand. quote author=Hotzone post=89784328]Good morning to you. I don’t know if I am over reacting but I proposed to my girl a week ago and she was so excited about it and it was so romantic but I just noticed to my greatest chagrin that she doesn’t wear her engagement ring to work. So I complained and she said she’s facing some spiritual challenges. We don’t live together as she claims her faith is against it. We work in the same organization and her position is a little higher than mine but I take care of bills concerning her but it seems I am getting tired with much terms and conditions. It’s draining my energy. Please, I need u to talk to me because I am about to “collect list” from her kinsmen.[/quote] |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by Sleeky2020(m): 6:37am On May 27, 2020 |
Have you gone with her to see her parents? If no, kindly fix a date with her to see her parents. Secondly,be wise don't spend on her anymore rather if you are sure you want to marry her tell her that you are saving for her marriage. Thirdly, why must you date a lady in the same office, what happens to your financial security. I can conclude that this is a framed up story. Finally,leave wetin dem write for moto enter moto. Only legends will understand. quote author=Hotzone post=89784328]Good morning to you. I don’t know if I am over reacting but I proposed to my girl a week ago and she was so excited about it and it was so romantic but I just noticed to my greatest chagrin that she doesn’t wear her engagement ring to work. So I complained and she said she’s facing some spiritual challenges. We don’t live together as she claims her faith is against it. We work in the same organization and her position is a little higher than mine but I take care of bills concerning her but it seems I am getting tired with much terms and conditions. It’s draining my energy. Please, I need u to talk to me because I am about to “collect list” from her kinsmen.[/quote] |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by holluphemydavid(m): 6:44am On May 27, 2020 |
How sure are u Dat she will even wear ur wedding ring � |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by NairaMaster1(m): 6:45am On May 27, 2020 |
Zinny25: You're close to the truth. |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by NairaMaster1(m): 6:46am On May 27, 2020 |
HundredWays: Did he tell you he's making love to her?
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Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by Gracejeri(f): 6:56am On May 27, 2020 |
Sometimes I wish we post with pictures, so that we can udge by appearance.. Shebi u want to hold her down for long and chase out other suitors for her? It doesn't mean she doesn't love you, it means she has reasoning.. My brother proposed to a girl and came back laughing that she knows the girl won't wear it.. Which we the family sided for the girl, cos a ring can make you chase out some others that are serious....now they're married with a baby and oh yesterday was their 1yr anniversary.. No be ring be the koko. |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by harizonal123(m): 6:59am On May 27, 2020 |
Hotzone: When I did mine it was the same thing cos we work for same organization but separate branch. She told me that she didn't want anyone to know about it until our invitation card was out to prevent gossiping and spoilers from interfering & I agreed with her. She didn't wear it that much but she cherished it. I could see that in her. It's been 3 months after wedding & no wahala. How was her mood when u proposed to her? |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by friendl: 7:07am On May 27, 2020 |
Quickly marry her before she changes her mind ,...her eyes still dey outside 1 Like |
Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by Reynbowjenie: 7:11am On May 27, 2020 |
Hmm why don't u do all necessary rite, since she doesn't want to wear it,come to think of it some guys propose to some ladies and later marry another,are they lord of the rings ,in a relationship that lasted for ages e.g 5-7 years |
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