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Family › Re: Dan Savage Tells Ben Carson To Prove Sexuality Is A Choice By Sucking His Dick by 5minsmadness: 9:28pm On Mar 10, 2015

thank God Ben Carson is one of the most brilliant minds in the US, if it was a nobody that said this he would have been laughed off the stage. Even now Ben Carson's associates are putting pressure on him to recant his statement since he is viewed with very high regard in the society.

And as for those of you who do not believe in conspiracy theories, I assure you right now, If Ben does not recant his statement, he will never go forward in that his politicking or whatever position he was hoping to attain. I wont be surprised if in the next ten years we hear that he is involved in some sort of child molestation case or rape or a high profile adulterous fiasco. "They" always know how to bring these smart black men down.

Family › Re: Dan Savage Tells Ben Carson To Prove Sexuality Is A Choice By Sucking His Dick by 5minsmadness: 9:25pm On Mar 10, 2015

finofaya:
The age of consent is already below 10 years in some parts. For the purpose of this exchange I think what matters is not the age of consent but the idea that non consensual sex is condemnable. Once you can accept the idea, it's easy to see why homosexuality should be preferred to paedophilia.

My point is this: why accept any one at all? why are we having to prefer one over the other when both are blatantly abnormal human behaviour both spiritually and scientifically. A critical study of evolution shows that sex is mainly for procreation; the pleasure that comes with sex is peculiar mostly to higher mammals and primates and even then it is believed pleasure was tied to sex to encourage procreation and continuity of the species. "homosexual relationships" go against everything natural in that they provide all of the pleasure and no aftereffects(reproduction). it is abnormal, plain and simple and people with such tendencies should be helped, not encouraged to continue in their baselessness in a bid to appear modern and 'politically correct'.

Do you know that before the sexual revolution of the 70s there were only four common types of sexual diseases, the most terrifying being gonorrhea and syphilis? Now, after the sexual revolution we have more than 20 different types. Science will always have an excuse, coincidence, increased travel led to increased spread of disease, blah blah. Like there was no travel in the old days.

Do you know that the first case of HIV in the US was found among a group of homosexuals? In fact for a long time AIDS was thought to be a disease of homosexuals only before it now spread to the heterosexual population? DO you know a homosexual man is 18 times more likely to acquire HIV than a heterosexual man?

why are we trying so hard to accept this abnormality of the species, we no longer call them gays, we are always looking for more polite names to call them, gays, then homosexuals, and now they want to be known as MSM(men who have sex with men), who's agenda are we really following here when we allow a practice that is so against nature, against our normal desires, a practice that will definitely lead to more HIV spread in the human population, why are we allowing it instead of curtailing it?

Who's agenda are we really following?

Family › Re: Dan Savage Tells Ben Carson To Prove Sexuality Is A Choice By Sucking His Dick by 5minsmadness: 4:43pm On Mar 10, 2015

finofaya:
What about the interests of the child?

That's why I said consent would be reduced to 10yrs. So the child can make an 'informed decision'

If that sounds absurd then remember that 30yrs ago this argument about whether homosexuality is normal or not would have sounded absurd as well.

Family › Re: Dan Savage Tells Ben Carson To Prove Sexuality Is A Choice By Sucking His Dick by 5minsmadness: 1:34pm On Mar 10, 2015

finofaya:
I don't want them to be celibate, I want them to seek out more mature partners. Did you read what I wrote at all?

I did.
Pedophiles aren't interested in more mature partners. They are not attracted to them. They are more interested in little kids and if they have been wired that way I think it's unfair that we deny them their nature-given lustfull desires.

Family › Re: Dan Savage Tells Ben Carson To Prove Sexuality Is A Choice By Sucking His Dick by 5minsmadness: 1:14pm On Mar 10, 2015

finofaya:
The question of which conduct we should permit and which we should proscribe is different from that of which behaviours are natural and which are acquired/the result of our environment. For example, adultery is common place, and most people would agree that men are polygamous by nature and so it is natural for, at least, the man, to cheat. However, this has not stopped some states from criminalizing adultery. Would you say adultery is unnatural because it has been made a crime in some parts of the world?

Throwing back the question to you sir, would you say, giving that nature has graced two sexes with a pen.is and a vag1na, would you say homosexuality is natural? If you compare putting a plug into a socket, and rubbing a plug against another plug to complete a circuit, which would you consider as normal?

Family › Re: Dan Savage Tells Ben Carson To Prove Sexuality Is A Choice By Sucking His Dick by 5minsmadness: 1:09pm On Mar 10, 2015

finofaya:
I think 5 years is a rather low margin to set. Maybe 18?

Children are not consenting adults, and that's why pedophilia is not okay. Once you take away consent from any sexual activity, you have a problem. Try making love to a non consenting adult female and see what happens. Without consent, even our heterosexual love becomes an offence.

I'm simply trying to follow the logic you put forward sir.
Pedophiles can't help being pedophiles just as homosexuals can't help being homosexuals.
It's not up to 30yrs ago that homosexuality was viewed as a sexual illness and a crime even in the US. But that stand was overturned to accept the more sexual liberal way of life we see everywhere nowadays. So maybe they should do the same for pedophiles as well. Lower the age of consent to 5yrs or 10yrs if you prefer so they can carry out their desires uninhibited. Abi u want pedophiles to remain celibate? Are they not human beings too?

Family › Re: Dan Savage Tells Ben Carson To Prove Sexuality Is A Choice By Sucking His Dick by 5minsmadness: 12:50pm On Mar 10, 2015

FrancisTony:
You are only exposing your stùpidity. Never knew you like this....

Tell me how sex between two man or woman hurts you? Abeg, park well jare.

Pls eh, explain what this comment has to do with my post that you quoted.

Dunce.

Family › Re: Dan Savage Tells Ben Carson To Prove Sexuality Is A Choice By Sucking His Dick by 5minsmadness: 12:14pm On Mar 10, 2015

FrancisTony:
5minsmadness, you can lie sha.
Lemme allow you to exhibit your five minutes of madness.

A 5year old child will never demand for sex except having lured to the act. What does a 5year old child know about feelings and attractions. Oestrogen and Testosterone starts functioning at a certain age.
Homosexual and Heterosexual paedophilia is darn wrong because they take an advantage of a minor.

If your "yeye" story is to be true, then, it means the girl started enjoying after she has been molested a millions on time. She was addicted to it through several rounds not her choice to do it.

Very very very deep sigh.
It's always tasking arguing with you.
Just because you haven't heard of something doesn't mean it's not true.
On an off note I'll like to discuss your deism later on in religious section... maybe later in the evening if u r chanced?

Back to topic, yes I have seen a case and heard of many where the child enjoyed the sex. This shouldn't be so surprising to you if you realise most of the time the kids don't even know what is going on is wrong. Don't be carried away by the sensationalism of the romance novels you read here about child molestation and how the child was '' traumatised'', half of the time the kids don't mind and only feel bad when there is pain involved or when they are made to feel ashamed by those around them.

Those that begin to enjoy the act and even fall in love with their captors after 'millions on time' like you put it suffer from a different condition called 'Stockholm syndrome'. Read it up. It's interesting.

BRB. Am in the office. I'll tell u about the case I saw.

Family › Re: Dan Savage Tells Ben Carson To Prove Sexuality Is A Choice By Sucking His Dick by 5minsmadness: 10:10am On Mar 10, 2015

FrancisTony:
5minsmadness, you didn't make sense a tad bit.

Before we can continue, answer this question.

Is Paedophiles and rapist sex between two consenting adults like homosexuals?

Francis Tony, you hardly make any sense yourself.

OK I get it. It's about consent, right? I know of one and have read of several cases where the little 5yr old girls insisted they were in love with their pedophile partners. They consented to having sex and what is more they enjoyed it. So I guess it's okay then.

Family › Re: Dan Savage Tells Ben Carson To Prove Sexuality Is A Choice By Sucking His Dick by 5minsmadness: 10:02am On Mar 10, 2015

Or why stop at sexual orientation? What about serial killers? They can't trace their source of attraction to killing. It's just there and that's it. Why go against societal norm? They didn't choose to be attracted to killing just as I didn't choose to be attracted to women with large buttocks. So it's not a choice for them.

They are just wired that way.

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Family › Re: Dan Savage Tells Ben Carson To Prove Sexuality Is A Choice By Sucking His Dick by 5minsmadness: 9:24am On Mar 10, 2015

Or wait, how about serial rapists? By your logic, they can't help having forced sex, I mean, why swim against the mental norm of having consensual sex, knowing fully well that if they are caught they will be punished for their crime? They didn't choose to be that way, they just are. we should give rapists a break too. It's their sexual orientation. They are wired that way.

Family › Re: Dan Savage Tells Ben Carson To Prove Sexuality Is A Choice By Sucking His Dick by 5minsmadness: 9:19am On Mar 10, 2015

finofaya:
I don't even know who Dan Savage is.

I think the logic is persuasive. You couldn't say where your abhorrence for romantic intimacy with your gender comes from, if asked. You certainly did not choose to be repulsed by men, sexualy. You just know you have it and you do what it says. You can't even begin to consider acting contrary to it.

In the same vein you can't trace the source of your attraction to women. It's there and you like it, end of story. You don't remember choosing it.

Someone who wanted to be gay would not only have to choose to be attracted to others of the same sex, but also to be repulsed by the opposite sex. What could motivate such a choice? Why doesn't the person go for bisexual or asexual, which requires a smaller mental overhaul? Why doesn't anybody seem to remember choosing their sexual orientation? There are no satisfactory answers to these questions which are raised when you call sexual orientation a choice.

Being wired that way is a better explanation.

You are so right. They are wired that way.
I mean, it's the same with pedophiles. Those men that are attracted to and have sex with babies and little children under 5yrs old. It must not be their fault that they are attracted to them since it's not the norm. They must be wired that way too. So let's stop punishing pedophiles and respect their desires and way of life too.

Family › Re: Dan Savage Tells Ben Carson To Prove Sexuality Is A Choice By Sucking His Dick by 5minsmadness: 6:05pm On Mar 09, 2015

“They said there were two things: their Judeo-Christian faith, and their strong families. Those were the things that had to be attacked, and those things have been systematically attacked.
“There’s a book called the Unclad Communist… it lays out the whole agenda of how to attack the family and the Judeo-Christian values, to weaken the structure of America… you can see all the things that are happening in America today.”

Politics › Re: A Sensible President by 5minsmadness(op): 7:49am On Mar 08, 2015

Family › Re: Plz Help! Her Husband Has Suddenly Developed Sick Sexual Fantasies. by 5minsmadness: 7:41am On Mar 08, 2015

Nothing wrong with golden showers, cumming in the mouth(this one actually disgusts me but one man's meat...) or rimming. The important thing is for your partner to be comfortable with it. Having sex is an act that is supposed to bring pleasure to both partners and it also involves a lot of trust since he or she is exposing herself and their vulnerability to each other. Forcing, threatening or blackmailing a partner to do something they don't want to do breaks that love and that trust and the sex becomes torture and a thing of disgust instead of pleasure.

The problem with this our generation is selfishness. It's all me, me, mine, what I want, what will make ME happy, what I won't tolerate in this marriage...etc. If you do anything in marriage for your partner instead of yourself, even sex, all these problems will hardly crop up.

On an off note, I find that it's the ladies who initiate golden showers more grin

what's up with that? grin

Family › Re: How Come We Dont Have Full House Husband In Nigeria? by 5minsmadness: 1:37am On Mar 08, 2015

falconey:
we have hardworking and responsible men and we are where we are today?

.
We are where we are today because of poor leadership and ignorance, and not because we are lacking in hardworking and responsible men.

Family › Re: Plz Help! Her Husband Has Suddenly Developed Sick Sexual Fantasies. by 5minsmadness: 10:50am On Mar 07, 2015

So many mad people here...

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Family › Re: What If There Was No "Cheating" In Relationships? by 5minsmadness(op): 5:21pm On Mar 06, 2015

[quote author=cococandy post=31365645]If one can divorce because of infidelity, that means sleeping around isn't what they ever wanted for themselves or their marriages.

they divorce because their partner has been unfaithful sexually and that is a big deal in society. if it wasn't a big deal then they wouldn't divorce.

[quote]For someone like me,I'm a germophobe. The last thing that will make me happy is to knowingly kiss a lip that has been kissing every other lip.
Or go down on a D that has been recently digging another woman's hole.
#Amsorry. I can't deal.

Didnt you read the part about the STD ATM testing machine? grin

It would be totally germ free grin

. Does that help in making you shift ground?

Family › Re: What If There Was No "Cheating" In Relationships? by 5minsmadness(op): 5:16pm On Mar 06, 2015

DaGC:
We would all live 'happily ever after'

Or until some new problem crops up undecided

Family › Re: What If There Was No "Cheating" In Relationships? by 5minsmadness(op): 5:15pm On Mar 06, 2015

Khabuqi:
Swingers advocate.

What I don't understand is, why be in relationship if you wanna feck around...

so you are saying the whole reason for being in a relationship is for fecking?

Family › Re: Help!!! My Neighbour Is A Screamer by 5minsmadness: 5:09pm On Mar 06, 2015

snthesis:
jst read ur thread, i thot it was jst me... so how do u cope

Hmmn, I guess I just got used to it eventually oh. The day I created that thread i was so pissed I actually recorded their voices and wanted to paste it on nairaland but I decided against it, names were ~~mentioned~~ screamed out, and I no wan make dem trace me evict me from my place.
My elderly aunt heard it and thought of going over to give them a piece of her mind but i dissuaded her.

my gf though came up with the idea of screaming really loud when we are em em...but it started becoming a competition with them becoming even louder so we scratched that idea embarassed

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Family › Re: What If There Was No "Cheating" In Relationships? by 5minsmadness(op): 4:58pm On Mar 06, 2015

cococandy:
Although they will very soon find out that it doesn't make them any happier.

And why wont it make them any happier? If sexual infidelity is enough for you to 'divorce' your partner( grin

) why won't sexual liberation make your union a happier one, after all, you dont have to have that nagging feeling of "has he been faithful" always at the back of your mind. You won't feel the need to check his phone often or he checking your phone (for example) since everything is out in the open.

Family › Re: What If There Was No "Cheating" In Relationships? by 5minsmadness(op): 4:54pm On Mar 06, 2015

Ewuro4:
Open relationships.... Albeit may sound great and easy to you, but Not Everyone's ideal option.

I mean, why marry at all

1. because you have found something in that person more special than sexual attraction.

2.So as to have children for that special person

3. So as to raise children in a stable environment where they can identify a constant father/mother figure

4. So you can have a constant companion to spend the rest of your days with.

Family › Re: What If There Was No "Cheating" In Relationships? by 5minsmadness(op): 4:48pm On Mar 06, 2015

TV01:
1. Sex brings many things to relationships, but not strife, hating or backbiting - people do that. Sex does not need to be relegated, rather valued and "morally regulated".

2. If sex were relegated to the background what would be the difference between an intimate male/female relationship and any other kind? Even if relegated, sex comes attached with bonding, feelings and outcomes - i.e. consequences which can't be detached from sex.

3. Societies have long learnt that sex has to be ascribed a moral value and regulated to a degree. If sex becomes merely transactional or a consumable, there will be tremendous harm. To male-female relationships and the natural outcome of those relatiosnhips - children.

4. Sex is not the issue here, people are. Inculcate a proper appreciation of sex, it's rightful context and proper expression. Instill Character, values and morals, so that sex - and people - are treated with the due care that they should be.

Or perhaps I should ask how you see this working out - especially in a sense of improving things

TV

1. most of the strife that come up in relationships is usually due to unfaithfulness a.k.a sexual issues. If people stopped viewing sex as such a big deal maybe there wouldnt be so many broken hearts?

2. The difference would be LOVE my dear sir. LOve, which should be the binding factor in all relationships, not material things like sex and money which can depreciate or disappear altogether with time. That's probably why the good book admonished that there should be no sex in a relationship until marriage, because they knew the deletreous effects sex could have in a relationship. why is there so much infidelity in marriage? could part of it be that the partner gets tired of "eating the same egusi soup all the time?" grin

3. how?

4. Actually, Sex IS the issue. Its been placed on such a high pedestal that if you err once it can follow you for the rest of your life, meanwhile the appetite for sex is so powerful it can drive someone to madness. Why all the stress? why not "legalise" it like marijuana? At least the ladies wont have much to complain about anymore(i doubt though, they always have something to complain about grin

) and the guys wont be worried that the gals aint loyal. It might even breed a higher level of commitment because the couple know they can have sex if they want to, but choose not to.

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