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Onegai:
Na wa o.

See, I don't care how people view me, I don't care if they clap. Their Likes and quotes didn't send an alert to my bank account. I don't even care much about this, it's not about me or about getting likes or quoting Abraham Lincoln. I dunno, I thought I saw some girl who was just like me and I really got caught up in trying to make sure she didn't waste too much time getting to where she needed to be.

What I do care about, and what you are refusing to see, is all the numerous people whom have come here to relate their own stories with people like her and how and what worked to change the situation for the better. And in every case that ended well, same story: someone was strict with the person.

[s]But, I'm gonna do you a solid. I'm going to personally hand over to you and step away, if anyone mentions me I will mention you and I'll check with the people doing the most what your contributions are. How does that sound, good?
So, when are you going to Igando oh, and what do you think we should discuss with the father of the child? Could you help with the antenatal? How about the beauty course, I had some ideas that maybe I could contact some friends of mine about helping later but I'm sure you have tons of ideas! Thanks[/s]

Unnessecary blackmail.

missjo:



What is wrong with you ma'am?
As much as I don't agree with TV on a lot of things,your tone on this issue confirms a lot of what he laid out. You sound like the alpha and omega in this matter when it's even Thorpido that's been doing the visiting,i just don't get you.

I understand your interest may come from a good place,but you need to work on how you reel out directives,you're not the boss of Moji or anyone here for that matter yet you don't even realize how you come off because a lot of people are applauding you.
JEEZ!

Why should anyone care what it is you want or how you want it done for the love of God?

Lol.
Take it easy.
Everybody has their style.
I must say i dont like the tone either but if it yields results...

When Joseph Mbu could not take it anymore, he subdued his wife one day, tied her to his vehicle and dragged her on paved roads all around Los Angeles until her head split in many pieces

Loisemm:
U guys that have been saying she should or must give up her child for adoption are funny. I doubt u are in Nigeria. A poor Nigerian family will never give up their child for adoption. Not even the child of their unmarried daughter soaking garri under their roof.
Talk more of a mama who is capable of providing at least the basic needs for her daughter- Moji and Moji's children!

Pls stop all these trying to plan her life. Offering her contraceptives is still okay sef. But saying she must give up her kid for adoption, she must do this, she must do that... E get as e be o because this girl is not an orphan o. She has people. She is an adult too. However immature she behaves.

Thank you.
As if she doesn't have relatives to take care of the kid. Or even her own mom sef. Or they think giving up a child for adoption is easy like that.
Haba.

repogirl:
He can surely check up on me anytime....

Seriously though...what's with all these vain guys that like camera like this these days. Leave the vanity to us females Na.

Those oyibo girls almost look like the zombies on walking dead, lol. Someone please give them a sandwich or something!

Ahahahahhaahhahahahaa

thorpido:
Not ex-wives but girlfriends who probably lived with him.
There are men who change the moment pregnancy 'enters' matter.She told me the issue has more to do with the man not being empathic with her first trimester pregnancy illness.

She might not be the abuser,have you considered why four women couldn't stay with the man?

My point is, why do you even believe that story in the first place? Has she proven herself worthy of trust? How are you sure she isn't garnishing her stories to garner sympathy?

And please she is an abuser already, if not to anyone but herself.

boohema:
However this guy, I would say is the best man I av ever met in ma life. He has a good heart, hez God fearing, open minded and extremely caring. I love him so much but I think he loves me more. If only he wasn't younger or not ready to settle down. We are both done with school and all, he has very great prospects. Hez super intelligent with excellent academic records which I find very attractive in men.

Hmmm

So what you are saying is that he is just perfect. You find no flaw in the guy? Sorry, but this sounds like Infatuation/Fresh love syndrome to me.

Men dont change. He's not the issue.
However women change a lot after marriage. This one you're already having serious issues with his age, are u sure u can cope with that for the rest of your life? Its not the norm for women to marry men older than them, althoughit happens and some of them even live happiky ever after. But are you sure your temperament is that which can ignore or withstand the looks and remarks and challenges of the future? Do you get easily swayed by other people's opinions? In ten years time when he says he feels you look down on him because yoy are older, will you be able to handle it in a mature way without flying off the handle?

Think about it.

See his worwor face

obixcel:
hm, Ok. I thought his recent movies over d past year or two had been "just there", nothing intriguing. I tried watching "The Trust", turned out to be trash. Maybe I'd give it anoda try cos he's been one of my favourite actors too for at least d last two decades.

Heard he's having money troubles and will act any movie for a nickel. See how awesome he made Kickass, brought that movie to limelight with his acting.

Nicholas cage be the bomb

phulxpression:
My dear,Av bin a silent reader(guest).Is it a taboo 2 register n giv my opinion . Kindly welcom me jare.

Not at all
Welcome to the Madhouse

phulxpression:
@Op I sure no 1tin abt Nigerians.Its hard 2 find pple dat will tel u d truth.Wot appens wen dey render d assistance 1ce or 2ce?

Pls reflect on everything Onegai as said,she's ur true frd and if I Av somone around me as blunt as dat.I guess my life wnt b like dis


Sorry for typos.

And you just registered 30mins ago.

This thread is getting more and more interesting

Ishilove:
Akuko uwa

I have a feeling thorpido will come and fill our ears eyes with tales from Mama Moji which will be remarkably different from what Moji has come to say here.

There's something i've been meaning to point out but felt it wasnt necessary cos its not the purpose of this thread.


All these men that abused her, are we really sure she was abused? Sure she showed a mark on her hand to thorpido, are we sure its a mark of abuse and not another injury from something else?

The second man that had 4 ex wives... 4 ex "wives"? In Nigeria? Not ex girlfriends o, wives! I havent seen that level of divorce in this country o, maybe just one or two among our celebrities. I could be wrong.

The second man loved her and took care of her: then she got pregnant for him and all of a sudden he turns abusive? Why? He starts to beat a woman he cared for and catered to previously, because she got pregnant for him? Or is it possible she tried to force a pregnancy on him? Or she became abusive when he could no longer cope with her attitude?

All these abusive relationships she has been in, has anyone considered that SHE MIGHT BE THE ABUSER?

sisisioge:
Lobatan! I was so expecting this a while ago. Well done! I'm sure if all have eventually contributed to your cause, one day they would be painted in the same light you've been painting your mother!

By the way, let me hint you one secret of this forum...it contains all the tiers of the society strata. There are some people you wouldn't have the liver to open foul mouth on should we all gather in the same room even if your eyes don tear pass kilode!

Good luck with your life dear...may God Himself help you set it right.

You know, you are not very good with sarcasm. I almost thot u were supporting her against onegirl.

Mindfulness:
You are special to me too. A special nairalander. And I like your response a lot. It made me smile like a re.tard.


[size=3pt]Don't get carried away. [/size]

Heheheh

Mindfulness:
I don't know. Probably because it makes me feel good. Selfishness again. The good side of it.

Because you love him. He is special to you. You wouldn't do those things for me even if i was your next door neighbor. Why? Cos you barely know me. And even if you did, it wouldn't have the same effect cos i'm not special to you. He is.





And if he feels neglected because of the kids and told you about it you would pay attention to his needs and not just sternly tell him to be a more caring father and 'suck it up'or not have kids next time.

Why?

Because: You don't know. Probably because it makes you feel good.
Or in other words
Because: You love him and would do it to make him happy because he is special to you and it makes you feel good.



[size=4pt]I won. Admit it[/size]

Mindfulness:
He doesn't need me to do those things.
He managed to have them done before I started doing them.

I make him laugh. Is it a necessity?
Oh, and I get his favourite drinks and snacks when I know that he is going to watch his favourtie team play. (without him asking me to do so).

I am such a great woman.

Why do you do those things?

Star Trek into darkness.
Silly title. Aweeeesome movie! Would watch it again. 8/10.

Star Trek Beyond.
Silly title. Good movie. Loose plot in my opinion. But enough suspense to keep you watching to the end. 7/10.

Now you see me 1 & 2.
Haven't watched this movie? Then you're wrong! Great movie both of them, will keep you on the edge of your seats! 9/10

Turbo kid
This movie came out in the 80's. Dont know why its making rounds now but its awesome! Good old fashioned blood and gore without the squeaky clean CGI effects of modern era. 7/10


Zootopia.
A lot has been said already about this movie on this thread. If you like 3D animations, you're in for a treat. 8/10

Secret life of pets.
Ahem. Honestly i'm a fan of cartoons and i have this movie in my house, yet i've not been able to watch this movie to the end without snoozing half way through. Great beginning. Lovely ending. Always sleep through the middle. Dont know why. 7/10

Pride and Prejudice zombies.

Who wrote this? And why
Just kidding. Nice movie. Not for those who think too logically. 7/10.

Suicide squad.
Watched star Trek beyond instead following strings of discouragement from this thread. But will definitely watch it soon.

obixcel:
My 2016 worst rated animated movie goes to "Ice Age Collision Course". I'm a huge fan of dis franchise but d producers made a mess of dis one.
My 2016 best rated animated movie goes to "Zootopia"

A case of not knowing when to quit.

Thats cool. All very important.
However,

Mindfulness:
I iron his shirts. He needs a fresh one every day.

I take his cars for inspection regularly because he would barely do it due to a busy schedule.

I cook dinner for him ans his business partners when he invites them over.

I often take care of his paperwork.

Only three? I have four. Want some more?

All these seem like necessities to me. Like he needs you to do them. Like he would get into trouble if u didnt do them. What do you do that he doesnt need you to do, yet it makes him happy when u do it? (hope u get what i mean?)

Mindfulness:
Why do you want to know?

Have faith. Everything isnt a trap . Answer first let me ask my next question.

Mindfulness:
Don't they want to be treated like babies? Cleaned after and cooked for?

I find her views irritating. Women focus on their children too much? It's a mother's job to give her little one as much attention as the child needs and caring fathers do the same. The relationship between the couple is less important for some time and until the child develops some autonomy. If you can't deal with it, don't have kids. Simples.

@mindfulnes what things do you do for your man that dont revolve around you and yet make him happy? Three examples would suffice.

P. S dont bother if u think i'm being too personal.

bukatyne:
See you guys fixation on sex/female body

So you guys acknowledge men need women? Laughing in Spanish

She equally authored another feeding and proper care of marriages... can't seem to find a good summary like this.

Hint hint: She doesn't believe in una the 'head' makes the final/sole decisions.

Where did we say men dont need women(and vice versa)?

jaybee3:
I honestly don't mind paying for that with additional family planning or whatever

Her history suggests her major problem is self control hence the need to solve the pregnancy ish

I think the word is dangerous, not expensive. At 3months the placenta is fully formed and very tenacious. A lot of uncontrollable bleeding can occur and lead to death.

EfemenaXY:
T'is barely noon and you're drinking?

Come, I hope you're off duty doc?

Lunch break

Dyt:
But iyamu crying
I need the money
Oh God pls help me






I am genuine
If I don't get the $45 I will cry
I have been crying sef


Pls do you know any of them?
I need the money badly
Else no outing for my son this weekend





EPPPPPPP ME PLIS

My friend stop all this noise and send me your bank account

An0nimus:
Chineke!!! serious?

My helpers plis fogiv mi, D price is nw N920,000. plis hep, plis

EfemenaXY smiley don change o, epp me plis

Lol this made me spill my beer

An0nimus:
Sob stories don't cut it here no more. Most people have grown wiser. You can't claim to need help and not expect folks to get to the root of things.

Nowadays, NLers prefer to be wrong about your case, apologize and help you than be scammed by some twenty year old in Unical.

For those easily moved to epp people, please epp me. I need N450,000 only to start keke business.

I'm dead serious

You are not current.

Keke is now N920, 000.

thorpido:
It could be a lie but it could also be true.
A lot of girls get themselves into bad shapes especially when it comes to pregnancies with the 'pregnator' nowhere to be found.I know because every week,there's a girl asking to have an abortion.

So she has no moral scruples about soliciting sex for cash or getting impregnated pre-marriage, but she has issues with abortion? Why didn't she just abort the child and solve half of her problems? (am against abortion anyway and 3months is already kinda late)

Anyway, I'm not here to judge or whatever. Like i said, 50%.She might desperately need the money, a lot of people do in these trying times. However it looks to me loke she deliberately cooked up a severely tragic lie to obtain empathy and cash from the easily gullible.


And why the deliberate attempt at sounding uneducated when her previous moniker reveals otherwise.


And no personal bamk account? In this day and age of GTB and ecobank easysavings accounts. Haba na chief. Check am na. And she went to SA and came back without bank account o. Abi they dont ask for account details to process even visitor's passport? HABA naaaaaa.


Anyway. Still observing.

EfemenaXY:
It's easy to see you deliberately wrote very badly, compared to your write ups in your alternate suzzy account.

Why??

Incidentally you appear to strongly attract "wicked" men.

Look at where she was asked for her international passport, her english is neat and impeccable. Then suddenly she's back to av, ai, I is, again.

Abeg e.

Pregnant, sick, toddler, starving, wicked men, wicked mother, everybody wicked, got pregnant again (to a mam with not one but four(4) failed marriages), more wickedness from previously loving man, suicide, suicide,



And then no bank account.

Hey, this lady that always addresses me without quoting me. I agree with you for once.


You guys (sic. Mizmycoli) should take a break from this emotional rollercoaster and calm down. Oga thorpido or whoever should verify her story. Personally i think its more than 50% lies. But i could be wrong.

Sounds like professional begging to me.

MizMyColi:


Omase o
Ah!
Aye yi le gaan.

Even pregnant women who enjoy lots of pampering are seen as 'suffering' how much more the one that is beaten with stick and kicked at the slightest provocation. It is evil. Pure evil. No amount of anger should make anyone hit a pregnant mother.

May the spiritual family of the child you are carrying comfort you and bring you succor.

I wish you well my Sister. This write up has brought tears to my eyes this morning.

It is well.

cc: Jaybee3 Pickabeau1 and TeHN, please come to her aid. Please.

I must say, I'm surprised. And maybe a little disappointed.
You fell too easily.

Mizzzbeee:
Suicide Squad 4/10 am so happy I ddn't waste my time in d cinemas for this. Very weak plot. Loved Harley Quinn tho

That awkward moment when you are excitedly standing in line to buy suicide squad tickets and then u read this