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PaperLace:What is this? Pls be serious. Undertaker will destroy Rey Mysterio, no contest. |
bukatyne:I think what the writer is trying to say is, your body is just as important as your soul. Physical attraction is just as important as intellectual/behavioural attraction. In order words women should realise that men see physical attraction as a very big deal. We worship the female body, moreso when it is a female we love. When we have sex with a woman we love, its much more than just a romp between the sheets and sexual gratification, its a deep physical and emotional connection. We yearn to give as much pleasure as we recieve. In fact most men reach climax faster from the visual confirmation that we are giving pleasure to the woman. That is why a man's sense of sexual achievement comes when he makes his woman climax. We dont just have sex, we make love. Something like that anyway. |
Finally common sense is making a comeback. |
But men are happiest being men, and women are happiest being women, with few exceptions. The differences start to manifest themselves very early. In one study Dr. Laura mentions, a barrier was placed between 1 year-old babies and their mothers. What did the little boys do? They attempted to get around the barrier or knock it down. The little girls? They cried until their mothers’ picked them up. Men tend to respond to things physically, women verbally. In fact, the two sexes are just right for each other |
missjo:Nothing more to add ![]() |
Rapmoney:Modifed. The bolded statement is very very false. I grew up in the south and have been priviledged to work in the east and western part of this country. It is a common occurrence in families with one car for the wife to have more acces to it. It has nothing to do with pride or manliness, its just the more practicable thing to do. She runs more of the errand while the man is away at work. If she doesnt drive she'll be disturbing oga non stop. Yes there are families where the man will drive to work under AC car and leave his wife and kids to be struggling with okada, but that is the rarity and certainly not normal. |
ifyalways:It is the norm everywhere, from when i was little to when i grew up. Dont know what part of the country op grew up in. |
Rapmoney:Which part of the country is this pls? |
Rapmoney:These men are few. And the arrangement hardly lasts as they find thier decision turns them into the family driver. |
Rapmoney:Most men do this. If there is only one car in the family and the wife knows how to drive, she eventually takes over the car. The man finds himself using the car less often, especially when he doesnt seriously need it. Its actually more convenient as it frees him from running random errands for the wife. If the wife does not know how to drive, the husband finds that most times he has to take her places with the car. Wether it be the market place or to help with school run for the kids and whatnot. It can honestly become quite frustrating and most times the men enroll thier wives for driving school so they can have some of thier freedom back. Your question of how many men do this presupposes you dont have many friends that are married. Ask around for those couples that have only one car, its a pretty common occurrence. |
chinma414:Thanks boo ![]() |
How true is this? Landlord didnt come to ask for rent for those three years? ![]() |
greatgod2012:Heheh. And here i was thinking i was public female enemy Number 1 ![]() Thanks ma'm. |
Dyt: ![]() |
tugar:Sometimes women say terrible things out of anger. If you follow every word spoken by your wife you will just get bp. How has your marriage been over the years? How will you rate it over 10? If it has been miserable all through then there must be a problem you two have not addressed? If it has been fairly ok then she might be in a desert phase right now where she is rethinking her life with you after 4 kids and wondering what might have been i.e with her ex. Now is the time to show her love, that is, if u truly love her. Take her recent emotional flirtations with her ex as a challenge, not as an insult. You have four kids together and almost a decade of marriage, surely that must count for something! Have you been paying her any attention recently? As guys we tend to Take a step back. An old ex wants to invade on your property, your family, your home. Your anger should be directed towards him, not your wife. Ignore or push aside the hurtful words you read from her to her sister, a message you actually were not meant to see. Woo her again, take her out, make time for her to gist with her and make her happy. Change your schedule. Stop looking for the best way to punish her for cheating, look for a way to make her love for you catch fire again. We all want to be loved, her included. The ex is just a distraction and an obstacle, a man like you. Be a man and overcome him. Win your wife back. All the best. |
Dyt: ![]() |
KillerBeauty:Na onions. |
mizthorlu:Abeg stop yammering and bring out the part 2! Been refreshing this thread since yesterday ![]() |
![]() Honestly i dont know whether to laugh or cry. This was damned funny and very sobering at the same time. Op why? Why? This early morning? Frontpage pls. |
VikingsOO7: ![]() |
misspicy:Ladies will never agree to stop it first. They are not as mature as us guys ![]() |
misspicy:Someone has to be mature and stop the bashing first. Anyway. I hear you. |
ItsQuinn:Ok cool. Men are men and boys are whizkid. Women should know the differences. It will save a lot of heartache. |
ItsQuinn:Pls learn to differentiate men from boys. Some boys dont have sense, all they see is a pretty lady and they are looking for how to enter. Smh. |
ItsQuinn:Pls learn to differentiate men from boys. Some boys dont have sense, all they see is a pretty lady and they are looking for how to enter. I shake my head. |
ItsQuinn:Let me answer this. A man that doesnt have a job and uses the money the woman sweated for to visit ashawo is not a real man. A real man would be ashamed his wife is going out to get the daily bread, a job he should be doing. A real man wont be able to sit in the house doing nothing, His conscience won't let him do it, he would rather go out and beg or clear grass or carry concre if he is not physically challenged. A real man will quickly go into depression if he cannot cater for his family because he feels he is letting his family down. A lazy or irresponsible man does not deserve the wife to stay with him. The money she brings home should be for herself and her kids. That will make the lazy or irresponsible man jump up to his respobsibilites. |
ItsQuinn:For the past 8 years he couldn't get a job. .if you are familiar with the job market e.g post nysc, you will understand how frustrating that can be. See graduates carrying concre cos they cant find work to do. Do you even know what concre is? |
misspicy:Sorry pls Are you saying you have never seen a thread where the women start bashing the men first? |
misspicy:Lol What you just defined up there can be summed in one word. PARANOIA. you feel everyone is out to get you until proven otherwise. |
misspicy:But the story was not of a man who wasn't responsible was it? You ladies quickly see the worst thing in men and then you miraculously expect men not to see the worst in you. Lol. As far as i can remember, the ladies started the bashing on nairaland. They insult guys at the drop of a hat then cry wolf when the guys retaliate. Guys have simply caught up on the insults, that's all. I doubt most guys here are interested in bashing women but we learnt to do so from the female folk online. I know i did. Stop bashing guys and guys will stop bashing you. Simples. Back to the story for instance. Honestly tell me why the ladies in the first page responded the way they did. A story was told of a man who had fallen upon difficult times. He was not said to be irresponsible. It takes a lot from a proud man to beg but there he was, begging for a job. His wife left him. That's wrong. The op now remembered his mother and how she stood by her husbamd when he lost his own job, even when he was depressed. Thats a virtuos woman. That deserves praise. Yet they left her and went to bash the Op's father. Why would they behave in such a rude and uncultured way? If someone bashed your father here now, would you take it lightly? Why did they respond that way if they were not already primed to be bitter towards men generally? |
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I'm just trying to use his decision to compare the attitude of some men I have seen who would never allow their wives to drive, even for once.


