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addiction12:
we have talked several times about it, all he does is to ignore me. he has this I don't care attitude, no matter what I say, it doesn't mean anything to him. sometimes he got wet as a result of his chats. he even sent money to the lady I was trying to divert his attention from and he told me he was broke when I asked him for money.

addiction12:
he is only pretending to be quiet. he never ask me anything nor does he ever opened up to me regarding this, he won't just open up except online

summerflame:
If women do go through this pain, why will a loving and a sensible man go for a polygamy?

WOMEN DESERVES THE BEST. LOVE U MUM

Bolustic:
As the last child of the family and the only child yet to marry, I sleep and eat anywhere I want, I have my toothbrush and room in each of my siblings house, I can cruise their cars, fortunately for me, they live within the same area and most importantly, collect money from each of them anytime I'm travelling.

#proudlylastborn

lilmax:
wait o......is it that freedom means stupidity or what?

and the worst part is when you condemn it they call you uncivilized .......like wtf

sugah:
I haven't gone through your previous posts on the subject matter, so im not quite sure what your contention is.
No need for the lecture, i know what the process entails and I HAVE gone through it. You see the emoticon after the question? It meant i was being cheeky.
Even women that go through vaginal delivery dont go playing football afterwards...so maybe a silly statement?
Maybe.

sugah:
By natural birth you mean vaginal delivery right?

What wound are you talking about?? I guess what egunmogaji is trying to let you understand is that there is a lot of advancement in the field already and depending on where you have the CS done, "there is no wound".
I had one 3 weeks ago to have my lovely son and by the [b]next day I was up and about. [/b]Iv been doing everything by myself ( taking care of me and baby, cooking, laundry etc) and the only drugs im on is prenatal vitamins.
Things have changed....

repogirl:
dnt mind that one, I don't know whethet he is in heaven.

Even if a woman is sent home on the second day, it doesn't mean she is able to carry out the same tasks as a woman who had a natural delivery.

Women who undergo CS need compulsory assistance for a while. Let him be fooling himself wherever he is.

SonofHim:
Why you dey insult the guy MBBS now. MBBS London no be moimoi ooo.

SonofHim:
Why you dey insult the guy MBBS now. MBBS London no be moimoi ooo.

kuchikau1:
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Young man,
be careful. Be very careful.

kuchikau1:
Dear poster,
some in house medical procedures are not mearnt for public/patient consumption.
As a practicing Medical Doctor/surgeon, i frown at this because nigerians and indeed many anxoius persons will try this without permission or proper guidance. Please such information as this should be reserved for medical doctors.
I love you. But lets thread with caution.

Thank you.
[s]DR. ThankGod
Bsc,(nigeria), MBBS (london).[/s]
Department of surgery.

EgunMogaji:
Keep kidding yourself.

You're home the 2nd day after cs here.

Explorers:


Ive heard that from many times from women that after the third Csection, they will be advised to go for family planning/control. Like the fourth will be dangerous.

Aeman:
I don't tink so cos, av seen som1 wo gav birth all her children on cs nd she has 4 children. So it depends on many factors.

ademiD:
congrats op....where is the venue for the naming ceremony? make we con chop rice Indomie

maxioptiultra:
@shadeyinka & 5minsmadness

No, he's not married.

I'm disappointed because I didn't see the guy involved as someone who wouldn't mind sleeping with, or having something sexual with an acquaintance. You know, engaging in flimsy or casual stuff.

Although I don't support pre-marital sex, it's even understand able is such advance is made within a relationship, or if not a relationship, after the guy sees that the lady in question is 'feeling' him. Anything aside that is creepy and disturbing, and just makes me realise that the average male doesn't see sex as anything. Any female who comes visiting is good sport...? I didn't know we had gotten there, but it appears we have.

maxioptiultra:
No dear, I'm not at all hurt. Just sorely disappointed. That's all.

maxioptiultra:
What gives the average man the right to make these sort of advances on an unsuspecting female who innocently thinks she is forming a warm, no-strings-attached friendship with a supposedly responsible guy?

What gives him the right to spring this sort of surprise on her?

What gives him the right to upset her this much, and make her lose the vestige of trust which she still maintains for their kind?

What makes him think he can't enjoy a warm visit from a female friend or acquaintance without bringing some sort of sexual act into the mix?

What gives him the right to disturb her sense of safety this way?

What gives him the right to disappoint her by holding himself out as an easy-going, decent and responsible guy today, only for him to turn around and make an awkward request tomorrow?

What gives him the guts to think that every lady out there is for his taking?!!!

What has corrupted him so much so that he thinks her pleasantries and niceness indicate some form of sexual interest in him?

What makes the average man all that he should not be?

njokusboy:
Who tell u say den be Nigerians?

Originally from Cameroon, Mr Sube moved to France at the age of 18 and moved his family to Britain from France in 2012 so that he could study mental health nursing at the University of Bedfordshire.

Fawklicant:

Ioannes:
Lol, you can't be more mistaken. It isn't a defeatist statement. I'd like to think it's a statement of someone who has seen it all.

There's definitely more to life than sex.

When you get there you'll understand.

Ioannes:
Lol, you can't be more mistaken. It isn't a defeatist statement. I'd like to think it's a statement of someone who has seen it all.

There's definitely more to life than sex.

When you get there you'll understand.

crackhaus:
As in eh, at least I'm not the only one with reservations on this story.

I just didn't want to dwell on dissecting it totally, to avoid a situation where readers would assume I was making excuses for the guy & diverting attention from the fact that she was sexually assaulted.

Ioannes:
You can actually only speak for yourself, not all men.

The base instinct for any human bring male or female, or even any living being is self-survival.

Sex is overrated.

nedgist:
first time!!! I need 5000 likes...oya, began to liking my comment

Mindfulness:
Guess!