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striktlymi:
I believe Adam and Eve were among the first humans God created but I don't think they were the only humans God created directly.

crackhaus:
Lmao...
You actually had to go bring my comment in response?

Lol, a lot of these folks on here can't read...
Or did you in any part of your OP state that the act of cheating is a mistake?

Na oga Mynd44 use him own hand type mistake enter this thread oo, and trust every subsequent poster to roll with it... mob mentality!

FrancisTony:
Admiring the work of God is a sin?

FrancisTony:
You mentioned Bible/Christianity while replying Aisha2, that was why I felt the need.

P.S- I'm a deist. Try again

FrancisTony:
That's why there's something called "SELF CONTROL". Hormornal secretion(Testestorone & Oestrogen) is a natural phenomenon except if one, is an asexual.
We are all tempted to steal but control it from manifesting. Haven't you been tempted? Yes or No....

Going by your assumption, no guy would still remain a virgin after puberty because we all admire. You don't have a point, I must-say.

Admiring isn't bad but putting it into practise. I've many important things to discuss with ladies than fantasizing how to get them laid. Smh

Getting her laid is a systematic process which has been finely planned, not a stùpid mistake. Mistakes take place without a slight thought of it.

FrancisTony:
Bible talked about forgiveness but "Adultery" is heinous sin to the extent that bible made it the only reason a man/woman should/could divorce his/her spouse.

Matthew19:9
And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery."

Mynd44:
Cheating is not a mistake. How does that happen.

Dropping dinner plates while washing is a mistake

Me hitting your window with a ball while playing with my friends is a mistake.

Sleep walking and breaking my lamp is a mistake

My hand brushing a girl's boobs as she passes by in a narrow space can be an excuse

Walking to the kitchen to steal a piece of meat from the pot is not a mistake

Phocking another person while your wife is at home is not a mistake. It is a calculated and premeditated event.

Stop this abeg. Cheating can never ever be a mistake. You do not have sex and call it a mistake

Crackhaus:
While the act of cheating itself may not be a mistake, the feeling of regret as in sadness, repentance, or disappointment that overcomes a cheater is what classifies the act as a mistake in his/her mind - like I said, path of least resistance

FrancisTony:
Are you a faithful husband?
Just leave it for us to say.

cococandy:
would you in all honesty advice a man to forgive a philandering wife?

No long answer pls.just a yes or no sentence

FrancisTony:
I just had to laugh.
I guess he believes the phrase that, "all men are cheats".
How can he say a "faithful husband that has been denied sex for long periods of time is more likely to cheat than if he has sex regularly.

Using "more likely", it means faithful husband do cheat also.
Sorry to burst his bubble, a faithful husband frowns at cheating... [size=14pt]He only admires[/size]

cococandy:
did you notice how wife was conveniently exchanged with girlfriend?
I thought we were talking about married people?

aisha2:
Poster wants to cheat let him cheat, its our mentality for settling for less that has gotten us to this level.

Cheating is not a mistake, see how he is justifying and glorifying cheating." the se-x was good ". I always say it if spouses didn't put up with cheats then cheaters will stop but because you make yourself so helpless and put forward all sorts of idiotic theories cheaters will keep treating you like trash.

Adultery is rated same as homosexuality we all hate and condemn and the punishment is the same. Same way gay rights have been criminalised an over zealous religious can also come and use the same major to criminalise adultery.

If a man commits adultery with another man’s wife—with the wife of his neighbor—both the adulterer and the adulteress are to be put to death.

Anyway each to their own, anybody who quotes me hoping for back and forth is on their own.

FrancisTony:
You are hilarious at emboldened.
I'm not sure you know the meaning of "faithful husband".

olapam:
I find it so embarassing for me having to pass were a man is peeing by the roadside were should I look .nomatter how pressed you're can't you find a secluded place to relieve yourself pliz .

goofyone:
Polygamy (man-women-children), Polyandry (woman-men-children) and group marriages (men-women-children) characterized many societies from the orient to the Americas before western civilization raided and overtook these areas. These were active societies that fashioned marriages in such a way as to enable their societies survive. You might want to google it and you'll find a number of societies still practicing these marriage types even today.

It's hard to prove that "marriage is extremely important in safeguarding our society and civilization'.

pickabeau1:
Can you give examples of such civilisations

goofyone:
.....Societies are birthed from beliefs, and there are certain belief systems that don't support your suggested type of traditional marriage (father-mother-children), even from time past. Yet, these societies have not imploded and might as well be flourishing better than ever.

Mynd44:
A woman spoke to me once about her husband. He was the loving guy and then he cheated on her. She was pissed and angry and tried to leave the husband as she had told herself she could never forgive a cheat her family members spoke to her, she said no. Then her pastor called her and the husband and the pastor said he has spoken to the husband and he has agreed to change.

The woman is living somewhere in Ibadan right now with HIV contracted from her husband who cheated and she forgave because it is just once.

Serial Cheats are evil and have no regard for you, your love, your sanity or life. They only care about the pleasure they will get in that moment and when they get that selfishness off their body, they get sober and beg.

If he/she cheats, before you forgive and stay because of love or religion think about your life and how much that person values it.

Mynd44:
"Trust is like a mirror. Once broken, you can fix it but you will still see the cracks"

Mynd44:
See the flaw in your whole point? Punishable by law bla bla bla. Cheating is morally wrong and so is murder. I doubt you people even know the impact of cheating when a partner trusts you with everything only to find out that you betrayed that trust.

In some cases, your cheating is feels as bad as killing the person so please hold your theories.

You can't cheat by mistake except you were molested. How can a grown supposedly sane adult pull off his/her clothes and cheat and when the act is over remember that it was a mistake.

Where do you people come from?

Alexk2:
a cheat will always be a cheat unless there is an 'overall revolutionary change of his/her personality';

Mynd44:
What if I kill your child willingly and then realize my mistake. Does that count?

Mynd44:
Abeg how do you cheat by mistake?

call4shola:
you have said it all bro. I apreciate ur honest opinion. nice 1..