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@uniqueempress.
So many advice yeah?
Where to start?


Follow the advice below. Its going to be hard for you cos you want to try out all the chemicals that have been suggested. You won't want to listen to people telling you to stop using chemicals and creams, despite the fact that you have been probably using chemicals and creams for years with no result.

But I strongly advice you to listen to the advice below.

baby124:
You probably have hormonal issues. Give it time. With age, it will clear up. Nothing you can do. In the mean time, don't touch your face. Wash your hands always, drink lots of water and stay away from oily or fatty foods. Also cut down on the milk or dilute your milk. Acne is one of those things many teenagers and young adults go through. It's normal, don't beat yourself up. Also, do without make up for now. And use very light lotions with no oil or fragrance on your face.

Op everybody seems to be asking the same question.


Why do you say you are not ready?

EfemenaXY:
The first line of your quoted text states very clearly that it's not for the under 18's.

The family section is for all, so now be a good boy and take your over 18's explicit stuff to the appropriate section before you corrupt the young and innocent folks here.

This from a lady who enjoys giving descriptions worthy of woke soyinka's writing prowess of men bringing out their peepees to wee in public?
I laugh in Cantonese

laplace12:
In your mind sexually explicit means unclad pics. Your entire write up is describing a sex scene and you see nothing explicit in it

So you are now a mind reader to know what's in my mind.

Can you please highlight the place in bold where I described sex taking place.

laplace12:
I thought there sexuality section on this forum? Pls mods do the needful

Sexuality section is for sexually explicit content. What's sexually explicit about this?

OH COME ON!

You people really believe a 6yrs old will understand the concept of life and death enough to want to end it all, then go to the extent of tying a noose(how many of you reading this know how to do it) with a thick enough rope(how will she know the one that wont break under her weight and how to tie it to the roof without help) and then go ahead to commit suicide without fear?


THIS CHILD WAS MURDERED!

2legit2qwt:
Lol @ no 10, so you actually believe that myth?

You think the Bermuda triangle is a myth?

.

Most of the things here look more like a wishful thinking list than a bucket list.




Nyway,


1. Skydive
2. Compete in Chopped Kitchen
3. Win Chopped.
4. Have a 3some with me n two ladies(many opportunities, no liver )
5. Visit Disneyland
6. Have my own yacht
7. Learn to sail(yohoho!)
8. Meet Nicki Minaj and touch her
9. She touches me back
10. Visit the bermuda triangle. This should be the last for obvious reasons.

Ewuro4:
@bolden is where common sense falls in. All procedures are required for a patient. I mean tonsillectomy wouldn't be done to an hearty individual will it?? Why dab into what may cause a lifelong disability on a healthy girl in name of just Tradition? That's it, Tradition?

Am I making any sense

We are going round in circles.

How is male genital mutilation required for a newborn baby boy?

I have a question pls
How come lacalisticala's threads always make front page

Ewuro4:
Every procedure ( as little as tonsillectomy) has its own likely implications. That's why we sign consent forms prior ...

@5minsmadness

Crackhaus .. I give up

Exactly my point! Female circumcision is a procedure as well abi? So why focus on the complications so much, why paint it as completely and utterly bad so much so that even a discussion pro-fgm is viewed with 'disgust' as aptly put by some of the commenter's here? Couldn't they simply have modified the procedure to ensure it caused no harm?

otokx:
This our extended family model in Nigeria needs rejigging. Does the lady not go to work? Those saying buy 1 get 1 free have a strong point.

The op is a nice person, that's all.
Father in law come to MY house to give ME orders? under MY roof??
Hahaha.
And his wife was quiet?

Hahaha.

I laugh well well.

ileobatojo:
Link?

http://newborns.stanford.edu/CircComplications.html

There you go

ileobatojo:
Emm circumcision does not cause 'holes in the penis' (epispadias and hypospadis) It does not cause phimosis, rather is the treatment for phimosis. And it is very unlikely to cause "severe bleeding for days". Uncontrolled severe bleeding would likely have someone ex sanguinate before getting to "days".

Emm, yes it does all those things. According the department of pediatrics, Stanford , UK;

Complications of Circumcision
With any procedure, it is important to know what complications are possible. Not only does this knowledge guide technique (to minimize the possibility of a poor outcome), but it also allows for a more informed discussion with parents who are considering circumcision for their son and permits improved recognition of problems if and when they occur.



Bleeding
Infection
Insufficient foreskin removed
Excessive foreskin removed
Adhesions/ Skin bridges
Inclusion cysts
Abnormal healing
Meatitis
Meatal stenosis
Urinary retention
Phimosis
Chordee
Hypospadias
Epispadias
Urethrocutaneous fistula
Necrosis of the penis
Amputation of the glans
Death


References


All these are complications that can arise from Male Genital Mutiliation.

So why haven't we eradicated the practice? Why eradicate FGM only?

Sophyrocks:
Are you that emotional? I thought men are not as emotional as women are.

I am definitely not, was just a little surprised you admitted there is a difference between the sexes after all.

And everybody has forgotten about the op...


Op are you still there? How are things this morning? Have you guys sorted yourselves out? Sorry eh.

Sophyrocks:
I dnt underatsnad how a man can be so emotional like a woman

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Keeping this for possible future reference

Sigh. Another day on Nairaland.

ihedinobi2:
Lol. Yes nau. I can attest to that. Once a woman has got over her virginal fear of sex it's one of the easiest tools of manipulation she deploys. That and her domestic skills.

I've been safe because I've a leash on it and because my domestic standards are crazy high. I actually trained myself to be a little more tolerant there.

I said Choi because I've been a victim

Ewuro4:
this man don tire

Lol
I have learned from experience that one cant hold a logical discussion on Nairaland without whipping up sentiment that beclouds everything. And no matter how hard one tries to explain, the 'offended party' will continue to rant and tirade until the other gives up in silence.

Having said that, I actually saw the point of and agreed with elektra's post; hence my response.

I decided to debate on female circumcision(not the ugly name of female genital mutilation like the whiteys renamed it because it wasn't their culture) and how it differs from cutting off a newborn male baby's penis skin(which the whites have no problem with since it is their culture) and some people have already decided here is a pro-FGMist, lets crucify him, lol

Why is male circumcision not called Male Genital Mutilation(MGM)? After all it mutilates the natural look of the male genitals, causes severe bleeding and pains for days, has potential for life long side effects like penis-mutiliation, bleeding, sepsis, reduced sexual sensitization, holes in the penis(hypospadias, epispadias), tetanus, hiv transmission from infected instruments, phimosis, pain on urinating, etc etc etc?

Why is MGM good and FGM bad?

BlackLeopard:
Random nairalander with generally no patience for inhumane bullshit

Yeah!
I 'liked' this post too

As a Christian, the one firm stance I had was NSBM. It worked wonders. Many women use sex to control a relationship. Once devoid of this tool, many are simply left exposed as lacking any depth or real quality. I seen others where the woman will give sex, then withdraw it to speed things up or otherwise manipulate the man

Face-palm.
Choi

kunyeo:
As a sequel to my earlier posting,there's a latest development. My father- in- law stormed our house unannounced today and I definitely knew the purpose. He went round and round coming to the conclusion that I allow my sister in law stay with us for some time.I stood my ground and he was about leaving,he gave the parting shot that the lady would stay with us.That was when I lost my cool,letting him know that he can only advise me, but not come and impose his decision on me in my own house.He felt offended that I was arrogant to have boasted that the house belongs to me.He left for his base.I tried apologising to him if I was rude,but frankly there were no ways to assert and express myself.

Dafuq?
My own house I paid for with my money?






In fact. Op you are nice.

guttentag:
Do you agree with me?

I hope bros doesn't think that is the head

nikky5:
Why do men beg women and even bribe them because of sex? Is this normal?

Because men have a higher sex drive than women.

Testosterone is the hormone responsible for sex drive amongst other things. In a young adult man it is as high as 500 to 700ng. In a young adult woman it is 30 to 50ng.

What this means is that a man's konji/sex drive is 16 times more stronger than a woman's own. Whatever a woman is feeling, the man is feeling it x10 and higher. This is how men feel. All the time. Everytime.

bennygreat1:
Men that ve Money.... I mean REAL money don't beg for s*x....


The women give it willingly..

Word.

aisha2:
So sorry about this, good you shed some light.
If you are in lagos go to the office of the public defender alausa. If you are in any other state google FIDA address in your state, they will help bring him to justice.
Btw a 12 year old should not be caring for your kids

How old should the person be to care for the kids? Am asking because most times people say things like this and I wonder if they live in the same economy we do or they are being idealistic. Its just to watch over them that's all.


Op, sorry oh. Don't you have brothers or uncles you can report to? Men with muscle?

Vanpascore:
didn't u see what i saw??

I did.
The pictures are real.

Vanpascore:
Was d woman taken to hospital or why is d hand gloves and d head set to camera?? No blood stains on d cutlass #adonbilivit

You are in serious denial.