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Sophyrocks: Ooooohh ashawo!!! Wetin carry you go my profile? Whom are you trying to check out, Me? Quit the stalking jare!!! All these small small boys on Nairaland with no aiota of respect. Pffft.

You say you dnt care less about my opinions about issues! Stop being a hypocrite and Quit quoting me!!

softsparkyy: Please help me ask Op what the lady wore during the hugging and wrapping of legs.

Wrapper?

Skirt?

Pyjamas?

Nightgown?

lingerie?

Trouser? or

pant.


When you advice girls to sit and close their legs like a lady, some people will shout,bark and ask you "Wetin carry your eyes go there". Very inappropriate for a married woman to such.

Sophyrocks: And you think you are the cultured one? With the speed you took to pounce on my comment? Have you forgotten your username Mad man? Like shaybebabe rightly put it, your name should be Ongoing madnessss!!! You are the uncultured person here. And oh, you are soooo concerned about the gender bashing here init, so you had start counting the threads against males opposed to females right? You have soooooo much time on your hands to do that? Hahahahahahaha. You can be pissed at such yeah? So why are you being a hypocrite to pounce on my comment simply because i stated the obvious?

If you've got no time for my opinion, actions speak louder than words, Quit quoting me like your life depends on it. And yeah, i will continue to state my opinion as a citizen of the federal republic of naija under democratic rule whether you wanna piss in your pants or sip acid because of my comment. Feel free to create an obsesssion over me all over Nairaland!!! It boasts my Ego!!

And oh, you are soooo concerned about the gender bashing here init, so you had start counting the threads against males opposed to females right? You have soooooo much time on your hands to do that? Hahahahahahaha. You can be pissed at such yeah? So why are you being a hypocrite to pounce on my comment simply because i stated the obvious?

If you've got no time for my opinion, actions speak louder than words

It boasts my Ego

Sophyrocks: Hahahahahahaha. Look at how you are bursting your Veins over my comment. Yada yada yada!! Men like you hate to be told the basic truth. You dnt like upholding your own responsibilities!! #In uncle rockaus voice#Oh Oh Oh you now remember husbands are to pray right? You now remember husbands are to lead right? You now remember as heads you are supposed to pray ba? The point i have been making all along, that is if you even understand english is the poster's constant threads on women women women!!! Women do this women do that. That is the unneccessary load on women im talking about dunce!! do women marry themselves? No single thread addresses men. If you are toooo blind to see it, i can see it and i will say it as it is. Perhaps you just wanna be biased yourself here because this thread addresses women. If a female posts threads all about men, i am absolutely sure you will come up here as usual to share the same sentiments so dnt give all these sanctimonious crap you are spewing!!! And i have absolutely every right to point out how biased Resourcepower has been in all his posts just as you would do with any female here who does the same!! So hug the wet transformer near you or jump into a lagoon for all i care if my comment gives you sleepless nights or raises your B.p!! And im gonna keep stating my opinion so you can keep bursting your viens!!!

Oh Oh Oh you now remember husbands are to pray right? You now remember husbands are to lead right? You now remember as heads you are supposed to pray ba?

Goldenboy007: What are you people talking about? it's a hormonal issue and it occurs in different degree with different individuals. Did you guys read the article I posted at all? Similar hormones that make women crave sex at some times of the month and hate it at other times of the month. This is just like criticizing women for what some people classified as "eccentric mood" during the menstrual cycles.

Why are we always eager to judge other people? I do not blame you all, I blame those that are brave enough to share their private problems with people they assumed to be reasonable.

And for you to say "kanwulia" is right simply means you have consented to also be tagged as part of the "shameless men"

Goldenboy007: Post-Coital Tristesse

"The man that wandereth out of the way of understanding shall remain in the congregation of the dead"
- Prov 21:16.

I seldom use religious sentiments in an argument but I lack a proper reply for you. To say I am disappointed in what people like you come here to say would be an understatement.

I hope this article will educate you more -

Many men, and some women, have been plagued by post-coital tristesse for ages. According to Aristotle, “the exhaustion consequent on the loss of even a very little of the semen is conspicuous because the body is deprived of the ultimate gain drawn from the nutriment … [so] as a general rule the result of intercourse is exhaustion and weakness rather than relief.”

The Roman poet Petronius, in the first century A.D., wrote “Doing, a filthy pleasure is, and short;/And done, we straight away repent us of the sport.”

Hence the Latin proverb, “Omne animal post coitum triste.” All animals are sad after sex.
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My favorite treatment of the idea comes from the Irish poet W.B. Yeats in “The Chambermaid’s Second Song": “From pleasure of the bed,/Dull as a worm,/His rod and its butting head/Limp as a worm,/His spirit that has fled/Blind as a worm.”

Your spirit, the drive that took you to bed in the first place, has fled with your orgasm and so you get depressed and flee, too.

There may actually be a scientific reason why this happens, though I like the poetry better. It involves the hormone prolactin. That’s the same hormone women need to make milk, but men have it, too, and it shoots sky-high immediately after orgasm. When you have intercourse, it soars even higher, up to 400 percent higher, than it does after masturbation. We know this because sex researchers have paid college men to sit in rooms, watch porn and masturbate (beats working at Chuck E. Cheese's.) They interpreted this to mean that intercourse is a much more satisfying experience than masturbation.

All well and good, but in another study they concluded that prolactin works like a thermostat to shut off our desire, our appetites, and therefore the exciting, revved-up drives that make us try to satisfy them. So you get dull as a worm and your spirit flees. The more satisfying the sex with a woman, the duller you get.....

Google the rest..

If you are as civilized as you claimed to be, you will apologize to the young man !

shaybebaby: Not applicable! The sun rises and sets on my booty!
Now yours though must be real shitty because it's hard to imagine anyone would come out with the Sh!t that you call opinion. The only plausible explanation is that you talk out of @rse hence why your words stink!
Sh!t for brains hence your ongoing madness!

shaybebaby: Up your ars-e? No thanks!

shaybebaby: Can I suggest that you change your username to ongoingmadness. Not sure the one you use currently does you justice.

Sophyrocks: Look at you!! You think God reasons like you that he gives special preferential treatment to men and give unnecessary loads of responsibilities to women? Is God almighty a God to only women? As a christian, are you not supposed to pray to your God?? Are you to wait for someone to do for you or remind you of it? As a responsible head of the family, you are to carry your family along SPIRITUALLY. That is why you are the Head. Go and read the bible and know what the Headship role is! You dnt know what it means but you make so much noise about it. The earlier you know your Headship role properly, the better for you. All these unnecessary loads and emphasis on women women women like women are now Heads of the family is Nonsense!! That is why you men are screaming too much about submissiveness. Do your part as husband as your wife does her part. PRAY FOR YOUR WIFE!!! Its not rocket science!!!

cococandy: Smh.

Do you need to go back to school to learn what friendship is?

cococandy: Bla to the bla.

So what's with the 'friend' line? Is there something in the water you guys drink these days? Or every female on the same thread are friends?

cococandy: Gay because he's speaking the truth?

2009 that's 5yrs ago. Nairaland was a bit more sane than it is now. We had mostly real and humble men. Not closet misogynists.
I wish I was around then.
When I go through the posts of guys then and guys now there's a remarkable difference

Tellmeurmind: Since I caught my wife dating a guy in about 5 months ago and later forgave her after pleading, I find it difficult to make love to her again. Eachtime I try to do so, my manhood would not rise. Initially I thought something was wrong with me but later discovered am perfectly ok. I looked outside to see if I had problem but merely touching the lady hand made me know that there is nothing wrong with my manhood . Am Am confused, nothing move in my body when am with my wife. Please, how can I help the situation?

troy20: really? i get it.call me all the filth you want but you cant stick a knife through me on nairaland.try to hide a little bit the shit you are full off ma'm.for someone full of male curse slang, you really seem not to know what you are do you, it even saddens me when you live with a husband and a son.

knowledge4: OP
Seems that you are not telling the whole truth.
A 5 year old marriage crashing is not a good testimony.
You mean that you did nothing wrong and she left like that?
Before i can contribute,may i ask some 'silly' questions?

Was it a proper marriage? I mean, did you pay her dowry in full?
Did her parents willingly support the marriage or was there any opposition from them?
Or was it a 'mistake pregnancy' that transformed into marriage? Have you fulfilled all traditional obligations to her family?
When she left,what was the immediate problem that surrounded her departure?
When she left,what was your reaction? Did you inform her parents? What was their response?
what efforts have you made to reconcile since she left?
have you gone for marital counselling?
For how long was the courtship before marriage?
Was she working or a housewife?
Did you promise her a heaven on earth in marriage to entice her to marry her?
Did you make promises you could not fulfil?
What annoys her?
What annoys you?
Were you always at loggerheads in the marriage?
Did you really understand her before you married her?
Are you from a polygamous background?
Is she?
When you married her,did you have the idea in your heart that divorce is an option if necessary?
You are the complainant now and we have not heard from the other party.
Nevertheless,to give a more reasonable counsel that can benefit the marriage, even in the absence of her side of the matter,we need more details of the relationship.When a marriage crashes,the two partners are directly responsible,not one.In fact,the husband has the larger share even though not his fault.She remains innocent until otherwise proven
Please shed more light.Pending your response,please kill the thought of divorce that you are already nursing in your heart.Personally, i do not support divorce on any ground,no matter how bad the relationship.

jennykadry: ^^ Why do I feel you contributed a big chunk of trash to your marital issues?

Why are you playing the victim ? You are yet to tell us one single thing you've done to your wife?you cannot tell us you've not wronged her directly or indirectly. All you've done is tell us how "humble, Godfearing ,loving caring " you are.

You have not told us the real story, people ask you questions and you just keep going in circles.

Mr man go and work on your marriage and take your eyes off that gurl outside that is turning your brain upside down.

IyaBasira: When a woman posted problems that she was having with her husband, everyone was screaming at her , asking her what she had done wrong.
Now a guy is posting problems with his wife and everyone is saying "pele ooo".

@ Poster ; What happened to cause the seperation? In - laws can be nasty at times but leave that side of them trying to ruin you for now. Why did you seperate from your wife?

Sophyrocks: ResourcePower, you are fond of posting threads targeting only women. I have pointed this out to you once but you never make adjustments. you always push holding a marriage to a woman only as if Men are dummies and puppets to decorate the marriage. So is it only wives that are to pray? Did the bible say that only women are to pray to their God? Has God almighty ever said he was the God to women only? I dnt understand this emphasis on women only o. Maybe Men do not have A God they pray to who knows.

RoyalRoy: Hard to swallow but makes allota sense though.