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nnekamezor: My gudness... wat a username..... 5minsmadness..SMH

cococandy: lets not confuse liberty with irresponsibility.
There's no deception in the word liberty or democracy.
The key is that as long your action doesn't cause harm to the next person,you're at liberty to be yourself.
People who are under the control of others all the time tend to develop stunted IQs
Scientifically proven.
So please don't say that stuff you did about democracy ever again.

Now to the topic.


every married person took a vow to be there for their spouse and kids.
so knowing your duty to them and doing it according shouldn't be negotiated.

on a normal day,everyone should have liberty to do what they wish with their time,but when married,your time doesn't belong to you alone anymore.it is a vow you took VOLUNTARILY. Hence withdrawing will result in direct effect on your family. as long as such vows remain solid,you're required to hold your own end of the contract.

but let's look at the real liberty I'm talking about. with another simple example.
a wife wants to go back to school to study law. but hubby refuses because he feels once she's gotten a law degree,she won't call him 'master' anymore.
never mind that his refusal wasn't because he had her best interest at heart but because he's only out to service his own ego.

Those two are just examples with variations in each case.

Only a confused person will misunderstand liberty to mean reckless behaviour without consideration for their loved ones.

cococandy: So I ask again. What's wrong with liberty?

MizMyColi: An ENFJ prefers:
E - Extroversion to Introversion
N - iNtuition to Sensing
F - Feeling to Thinking
J - Judging to Perceiving

STRENGTHS
ENFJs are natural-born leaders, full of passion and charisma. Forming around two percent of the population, they are oftentimes our politicians, our coaches and our teachers, reaching out and inspiring others to achieve and to do good in the world. With a natural confidence that begets influence, ENFJs take a great deal of pride and joy in guiding others to work together to improve themselves and their community.

ENFJPeople are drawn to strong personalities, and ENFJs radiate authenticity, concern and altruism, unafraid to stand up and speak when they feel something needs to be said. They find it natural and easy to communicate with others, especially in person, and their Intuitive (N) trait helps ENFJs to reach every mind, be it through facts and logic or raw emotion. ENFJs easily see people’s motivations and seemingly disconnected events, and are able to bring these ideas together and communicate them as a common goal with an eloquence that is nothing short of mesmerizing.

The interest ENFJs have in others is genuine, almost to a fault – when they believe in someone, they can become too involved in the other person’s problems, place too much trust in them. Luckily, this trust tends to be a self-fulfilling prophesy, as ENFJs’ altruism and authenticity inspire those they care about to become better themselves. But if they aren’t careful, they can overextend their optimism, sometimes pushing others further than they’re ready or willing to go.

ENFJs are genuine, caring people who talk the talk and walk the walk, and nothing makes them happier than leading the charge, uniting and motivating their team with infectious enthusiasm. ENFJs are passionate altruists, sometimes even to a fault, and they are unlikely to be afraid to take the slings and arrows while standing up for the people and ideas they believe in. It is no wonder that many famous ENFJs are US Presidents – this personality type wants to lead the way to a brighter future.

Read more @ http://www.16personalities.com/enfj-strengths-and-weaknesses

MizMyColi: OP must be an ENFJ or one in the FJ category.


Due to his altruism and sensitivity, He likely struggles with decisions involving hard choices. He may be wavering between different options, unable to stop thinking about all the possible consequences.




[s]SackThe Young Lady Already Joor.[/s] She needs to give you space. You seem to be living your life for her

As a people who initiated feminism and have finally arrived at the journey’s final destination—a state of existence completely unimaginable to the likes of Adichie—this is how we live as Scandinavians:

1. There is no chivalry left in the land. Men open doors for themselves. Women open for themselves. Anything other than that is foreign and the exception, not the rule.

2. Men pay their bills. Women pay theirs. A couple visits a café, the man pays for his coffee and the lady pays for hers. Anything other than that is foreign and the exception, not the rule.

3. Men do not compliment women. Instead, because men and women are engaged in an eternal battle for equality, each party expects to be complimented. Anything other than that is foreign and the exception, not the rule.

4. Like the French and the Germans jointly told Britain when that island nation pushed to renegotiate its EU membership conditions: The European Union as an organisation isn’t an à la carte setting where one enters and decides what to take and what to omit. You either are fully in, or fully out. Put differently: there’s no such thing as cherry picking when attempting to adopt feminism. You can’t say ‘I want that aspect of it, but not the other one’. It is and will always be a chain of realities—imperceptibly linked—and once you try securing an element, be sure to welcome the rest which will inevitably follow.

5. We Scandinavians have championed the feminist cause since time immemorial. Still, our women over here have yet to invent anything beyond roadside hair salons. The national innovation coffers are accessible to both sexes equally. But it’s the men who continue to invent and innovate and help this region maintain its spot as the leading innovator globally. That’s to say that there is no proof that feminism could turn women into the world’s top inventors of things and founders of top companies. The reality in Finland, after one hundred years of feminism and equal opportunities, is that men alone still found the major companies whose taxes take care of the nation, and when such firms employ women it isn’t purely for their skills but also for the sake of diversity.

6. Unfortunate rivalry or war between the sexes is big in our homes and workplaces.

7. Our families are often broken and passionate love is now foreign or the exception.

8. It’s not uncommon for our children to be victimised by battling parents, and for them to be eventually raised by the government.

9. We no longer make enough offspring to perpetuate our civilisation.

10. And finally: there is little to zero love, kindness, and humaneness left around here. We seem to have stifled all of it with the warring energy we’ve been emitting for the past hundred years. This was the reason nobody thought it necessary to assist Adichie in carrying her bags in Sweden.

chimajii: Mr. 'i wont accept my mistake' go back and confirm. Then thank me later. Also you have another one.>>.. It's not its. u may want to sit ur hairy a s s down!! #haveaniceday

Eapps: actually he is trying to say he doesn't like any of it.
I like that type of winding

chimajii: As i said and not 'Like i said'

AdeniyiA: You didn't tell us that you prepared the breakfast within 5mins nd consumed it within 5mins. Every activity took 5minsmadness

severee: Go where?
Don't get me wrong i do love the meal its just the sausage the naked beans, the omlette and the bread that i don't like everything else looks good

mynameisjade: Cinq minutes de folie, Avez-vous pris vos médicaments ce matinC'est très bien que vous prenez..

crackhaus: What happens to her when she grows up is neither my business nor yours

If only it were this easy.
Do strippers, p.orn stars, and sex workers start their craft from childhood? Maybe they were trained that way by their moms huh?

That child may end up a doctor, a lawyer, a journalist, or an engineer. I doubt she would have the time to dress like that.

Shouldn't be anyone else's business at the end
of the day.

mynameisjade: Awake ooo......
Inbetween nice topic,but some kian people sha
Apart from those willing to learn,correct there r some People that are jst somefin else...God help us,happi Sunday y'all

by the way, nice topic, but some kain people sha

Nonso23: Chai! This aspect is sort of like conceptual physics. You model with mental pictures. Unless maybe nairaland can tether our brains together

For the space time continuum warping. Think of a mosquito net in 3D then imagine throwing a stone at it whilst assuming the mosquito net gives way as soon as the stone touches it but doesn't tear oo. It just keeps giving way at the front elastically while mending at the back of the stone. ice the separated strands glue back behind the stone sort of. I don't think I'm making sense sef

Nonso23: Does the speed of light vary around the universe?
No.

Alright let me see what I can do.
Can you create a system to operate in a vacuum. No friction, drag, air resistance, unsteady acceleration/velocity, etc these are the variables that make this theory sound a bit far fetched. Eliminating them will make this fictional model more relatable.

When this large train moves through space. it bend/ warps the space-time of the relatively larger body upon which it cruises. You being inside the train are now in a different space time continuum. A warped version of the earth's. Here time, distance and all other dependent and independent variables take a new value albeit a small deviation which increases as the speed of the train increases. 2kg measured in the train may weigh 2.2kg when you get off the train and measure it on ground. e.t.c. You may throw a stone off the train and count the time taken for it to land as 3 seconds. someone on the ground doing the same gets 4 seconds. And you both are using the same wristwatch and are also correct. Time measurement is not absolute.

The train becomes another earth to you and all you can do on earth wrt physics still hold true on the train.

If you have been on a ship you will understand.

armyofone: But orange will make him hungry. To me, he looks like someone who is highly starved waking up
Just look at his breakfast table, haha. I wonder how many eggs dey there.

armyofone: Hint Mr. Bachelor

Make sure your brown bread is whole grain (not multi grain)
Remove that baked bean
Get old fashion oat meal and cook yourself (5-10mins to cook but healthy)
Bread, peanut butter and milk are enough for your breakfast.
A bowl of Kellogg cereal is enough also
Add cucumbers to your breakfast and banana as snack.

Your sausage is shinning (don't ever fry sausage in oil) just put is in a pot with water and let it cook and dries up.

EfemenaXY: The more colourful a dish is, the healthier it it.

Your breakfast lacks essential fruit, vegetables and vitamins. Just brown, brown, and more brown stuff. Are you trying to kill yourself with bowel cancer from all those processed foods??

I bet you deep-fried your sausages.