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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by streetshuttle(m): 9:14pm On Dec 09, 2020
I was thinking u got sense.
BaddieFreak:
Please if you want all control over your woman and dictate to her as you wish, do the needful, pay her bride price and marry her. Stop wasting her time and expect her not to have other options. You even beat her, no wonder she is cheating on you woman beater.
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by emmaodet: 9:15pm On Dec 09, 2020
dyera:
The girl is a beautiful unmarried adult and you can't prevent her from seeing other men. Your attempt to use violence to control her action is very wrong. If you are unwilling to share her with other men, then you should do the needful and end your relationship with her.

I tell you that there is nothing you can do to stop a girl that has a habit of seeing other men. Even a married woman is free to have an affair, she will not be breaking any law by doing so.

If you are not comfortable with this girl seeing other men, you breakup with her. If you something damaging to her because she is seeing other men while in a relationship with you, she has the right to put you in jail.

If we are to follow your advice, that means a lot of ladies shouldn't be complaining about guys been irresponsible nowadays because only a stupid/foolish man will invest his resources, energy, time etc on something that is sooooooooo unreliable/unstable like a relationship.
A relationship that a woman can pull out any time, date anybody she likes (since you people don't regard commit anymore), sleep with anybody she likes because it is her body, her life, then only a stupid idiot will take such serious.
I am not surprise that men sponsoring women to school is at an all time low, processing and taking a woman abroad is dropping drastically and coming from abroad to marry a nigerian lady is gradually facing out.

So much for these generation of ladies. Though, they have gained the freedom they are constantly yearning for even though they were never in chains before but they have lost integrity and respect. The reluctance to sponsor a lady to school, place her on monthly allowance, come home to pick a lady abroad are all indications of people with low integrity, unreliable, untrustworthy, unfaithful and gradually becoming uncultured plus promiscuous.

A shame, A big Shame

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Money2000: 9:17pm On Dec 09, 2020
Women are serpents
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by esonuu(m): 9:26pm On Dec 09, 2020
My brother, irrespective of how difficult and how much you think you gonna miss her if you should let her go, you must be courageous, take a bold step and take the right decision. you will never have peace in as much as that Lady remains in your life.. i have been there before
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by DukeJoe17: 9:51pm On Dec 09, 2020
enemyofprogress:
peace is another useless girl, she flirts around, moreover she has boat mouth and body odours. Let him just go for blessing


Blessing May not be that blissful.
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Shadysen: 9:54pm On Dec 09, 2020
Chii59:
Ask yourself that question.
I pity the dude that is going to wife you.
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by DukeJoe17: 9:56pm On Dec 09, 2020
BadBradley:
even in marriage they will still like ok for excuse to cheat.

Very very easy to get laid.

Those breed are attention seekers and anyone that gives them small attention get hold of the pussy.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by kaboninc(m): 10:08pm On Dec 09, 2020
Hushbingo:
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.

When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me.
So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]

The only advice is that you leave her and talk a walk. But you really should be beaten and slapped until you become so unconscious and feel even in your state of unconsciousness what you did to her.

This is how domestic violence starts. Never told a woman. Just take a walk and continue living.
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by SimplyFacts: 10:11pm On Dec 09, 2020
Guys that beat ladies dey try oo angry. Why can't they just move on

If you know what happiness is, you would leave the lady & move on. Time heals faster than you think
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Paulianfa: 10:17pm On Dec 09, 2020
guy u like toto too much and that toto go kill u and destroy ur carrier, u have eyes and u cannot see that the gal is possess and no amount of rough Bleep wud change her mind because she is a flirt and she cannot make a good wife or home u will live in BH. ur problem is that on how to let it go because of big yansh or breast.... u beta Start now nd reduce some kind feelings towards her, so that u will live long




if u want to live long stay away from love
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Candycrushy(f): 10:25pm On Dec 09, 2020
Awon chairman women beater association...I greet you bros...till you kill her, then you'd still run back here and ask stupid questions...mtcheew
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by muller101(m): 10:31pm On Dec 09, 2020
BaddieFreak:
Please if you want all control over your woman and dictate to her as you wish, do the needful, pay her bride price and marry her. Stop wasting her time and expect her not to have other options. You even beat her, no wonder she is cheating on you woman beater.
One day this your mouth Will land you in serious trouble. Pls read the first 4lines of your comment. Does it make sense?
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by tunize(m): 10:41pm On Dec 09, 2020
Which one is i have invested so much on her that you can't ket her go? Bro nor be ppl dey buy motor 40m use am grt accident car scatter beyind repair them nvr still die? So a lady is now and investment orishirishi let her be for peace to reign nor go kill person pikin oooh seems u have ur own anger issue.
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Nobody: 10:58pm On Dec 09, 2020
Shadysen:
I pity the dude that is going to wife you.
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by OROSUNBOLB(m): 11:01pm On Dec 09, 2020
Once a cheat,always a cheat ! Guy,please leave that girl and walk away if you don't want to go six feet down untimely.
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by RealityShot: 11:02pm On Dec 09, 2020
Hushbingo:
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.

When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me.
So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]
if you accept her back now and in 2weeks or months she says she is pregnant and won't remove it,

WOULD YOU BELIEVE THAT YOU ARE THE TRUE OWNER?

if your answer is no or not really or not sure or anything other than yes, my guy
LEAVE THAT GIRL NOW!

Forget all her crying, it's all crocodile tears.

TRUST IS GONE, leave that relationship or you will doubt every child you two have in the future.


Once a cheat, always a cheater!

Telling you from experience bro.. I forgave her 3 times and she still ended up with another man's child!

Bye-bye
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by VicM6: 11:09pm On Dec 09, 2020
Hushbingo:
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.

When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me.
So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]
I was reading ur post nd it was making sense until i got to the part where u said you laid ur hands on her to the point she was unconscious..... Dude, you are a demon just like her. Am out.
Don't ever lay ur hands on a woman because the day you do that, you are being cursed.
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Tonitoniton(m): 11:15pm On Dec 09, 2020
Hushbingo:
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.

When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me.
So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]


A man that will continue a relationship with woman with multiple partners needs his head examined by a head shrink
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by jameel6: 11:16pm On Dec 09, 2020
Sometimes I find it extremely difficult to understand humans, most of us got to know the kind of woman we are in love with when it was too late, if you think that lady will stop sleeping around after wedding you are dreaming. Better dust yourself, do some medical examination and move on. How people love really amazes me.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by RealityShot: 11:23pm On Dec 09, 2020
Akada2020:
Una don mad finish for this Forum.... which kind kabukabu story be this
bros no be story,
My own gist worse pass this one self!

Girls dey cheat too much nowadays.

See as some of them even dey here dey defend the mumu girl.

Na when op marry am she go stop?

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by dynigoche: 11:35pm On Dec 09, 2020
[ I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b][/quote]


you have said it all that "you don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day", so why ask for our opinion
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by friendl: 11:48pm On Dec 09, 2020
Na you get the problems ,no be she ...why go through a girl phone ??
Relationship is not a do or die affair
If you love her enough ,...marry her,na grave you go see single lady who doesn't cheat .

You don't have any right to beat her at all ,...she is not your wife ,infant you be woman wrapper
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by John4B: 11:48pm On Dec 09, 2020
maybe u are not financially buoyant
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by massalati(m): 11:52pm On Dec 09, 2020
beamtopola:
These are the type of men that dont value female child. Shame on you for hitting a female


Some people are mad, even you
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by thecommunist(m): 12:03am On Dec 10, 2020
I have 2 sisters, a wife and a daughter ,so I get mad when I hear about guys beating up thier wives or girlfriends. That being said, you have no right to be angry because there is no commitment here. Honestly, I see no fault in her actions since you guys are not married. You really have no right over her nor what she does or decides to do with herself. The best you can do is to break up with her instead of giving yourself headaches and allowing yourself be coaxed into becoming a beast.
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by thuxzwda1: 12:48am On Dec 10, 2020
dyera:
The girl is a beautiful unmarried adult and you can't prevent her from seeing other men. Your attempt to use violence to control her action is very wrong. If you are unwilling to share her with other men, then you should do the needful and end your relationship with her.

I tell you that there is nothing you can do to stop a girl that has a habit of seeing other men. Even a married woman is free to have an affair, she will not be breaking any law by doing so.

If you are not comfortable with this girl seeing other men, you breakup with her. If you something damaging to her because she is seeing other men while in a relationship with you, she has the right to put you in jail.

BUT Y U GO BEAT WOMAN!

drop d babe info for our redpiller association. #dem_go_do_am_justice
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Armanipounds: 1:01am On Dec 10, 2020
I must say you are very stupid for hitting a woman! you don marry her? why hit her then? she isn't yet called your wife you have started battering her, talk more if she doesn't dodge a bullet by marrying you, what then would you do? if you are not comfortable with a relationship full of deceits and lies, why not walk away..... I view men who hit women as ANIMALS
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by jimcaddy(m): 1:20am On Dec 10, 2020
Baba first and foremost you have no right to beat someone's daughter like that oh. She is your girlfriend and not your wife. Even if she was your wife, what right have you got to beat her. If you cannot deal with her infidelity, the best thing to do is to just leave. Let her go. Don't stress it. There are several women out there who will remain loyal. Don't let her put you inside trouble oh. If you beat her and she dies nko. The whole story will change.
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Hferryman(m): 1:47am On Dec 10, 2020
Hushbingo:
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.

When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me.
So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]




The fastest way to hell is going through your partner’s phone. Stop doing it ... ain’t saying anything again.
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by unmask: 2:06am On Dec 10, 2020
Hushbingo:
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.

When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me.
So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]
You are an idiot for laying your hands on her. You should be arrested and thrown in jail
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Basicend: 2:20am On Dec 10, 2020
yrex01:
I didn't beat mine, I make sure I chased all her bestie n side guy away, make sure she has no one but me sotey babe introduced me to her mom n family. Babe can't go 4hrs a day without calling me but before if I no call we no talk. After I make sure she's so obsessed bout me, I broke up by telling her friends say I no do again make em epp me tell her. Mumu sick for months.

Guy, u be serious werey o.

I duff hat for you.

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