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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by OTayobami(m): 3:41pm On Dec 09, 2020
Ha! You be idiot o lol! Werey say "i don't want to let her go because you've invested so much in her".....
She don turn recharge card business now.
Seems like you already know what to do, why are you still coming here to ask for suggestions?

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by PROFFIRE: 3:41pm On Dec 09, 2020
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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Ladycewhy(f): 3:42pm On Dec 09, 2020
You beat person pikin wey you nor know road to e papa house?.What makes you think you have the right to assault someone's daughter?


If we check now,you are not a saint o. Why men can't take cheating like women do is what I don't understand. Assault is assault, I don't care what she did, no man will treat my future daughters like that , never. Na crase dey your head to lay your filthy hands on my daughter, you go enter ring that day fight your mate since you be fighter.



You know she is not faithful to you,you don't want to let her go because you don't want her to move on to the next guy. Mr man tell us what you want us to do , advice you to chain her ?

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Amotekun777: 3:42pm On Dec 09, 2020
OP, dey dere dey disgrace ur generations all cuz of a public toilet. Madness dey worry you ooo, I swear. You be one foolish Simp... dem Ekeletu pple. angry

Just dey imagine... you even come do UFC for am. angry You dey craze ni? Dem don swear for ba?

Na Ojuelegba Thunder go strike you las las, Olofo! angry

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by BadBradley: 3:42pm On Dec 09, 2020
BaddieFreak:


Wlhat I mean is that he can't claim that she is cheating since she is not yet married to him, she has to keep her options open especially if the man in question hasn't showed her that he is ready for a long term relationship.
the definition of a girl without a shred of virtue or honour.

So a girl keeps all the guys interested in her within her grasp while dating one? Prostitute!

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by xtervaganza(m): 3:42pm On Dec 09, 2020
Hushbingo:
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.

When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me.
So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]
you beat her unconscious cos she cheated? What if she died ? Is that what you will tell the judge? You want to spend the rest of your life in jail?

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by richmondefosa(m): 3:42pm On Dec 09, 2020
Nothing, i repeat NOTHING whatsoever warrants you to raise your hand on a woman.
How dare you?
why don't you take a walk out of the relationship?

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by 1EmmyKay: 3:42pm On Dec 09, 2020
OP just let go. Its been revealed to you the kinda girlfriend she is. And you're endangering yourself if you keep up with her. Abi what did you think nairamarley meant when he said" alaye calm down jor is not your girlfriend is just your turn.
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Gentlesniper(m): 3:43pm On Dec 09, 2020
BaddieFreak:
Please if you want all control over your woman and dictate to her as you wish, do the needful, pay her bride price and marry her. Stop wasting her time and expect her not to have other options. You even beat her, no wonder she is cheating on you woman beater.
Even if you marry her and pay triple of her bride price, such girl will still cheat.
its visible to the blind and audible to the deaf, from the OP's write up.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Churchill6767: 3:45pm On Dec 09, 2020
She belongs to the streets..

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Romanus123: 3:45pm On Dec 09, 2020
You better leave her now you have the time before you beat her to death and land yourself in life imprisonment
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by AlfaSeltzer(m): 3:45pm On Dec 09, 2020
You beat a woman unconcious? You must very proud of yourself.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by ablejesus26(m): 3:46pm On Dec 09, 2020
Baba no worries shebi you dont want to leave her abi no fear oo niggas will cry small but them go drink trophy chop rice after 3days life continues

Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Emaytex(m): 3:46pm On Dec 09, 2020
BaddieFreak:


What I mean is that he can't claim that she is cheating since she is not yet married to him, she has to keep her options open especially if the man in question hasn't showed her that he is ready for a long term re[color=#006600][/color]lationship.

Habit is easy to form but difficult to break.
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Amotekun777: 3:46pm On Dec 09, 2020
BaddieFreak:
Please if you want all control over your woman and dictate to her as you wish, do the needful, pay her bride price and marry her. Stop wasting her time and expect her not to have other options. You even beat her, no wonder she is cheating on you woman beater.

angry
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Hedonini: 3:47pm On Dec 09, 2020
Some of una mumuness reach make dem jail una. Is it by force to continue with the girlfriend? Shoo.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Winterfell2: 3:48pm On Dec 09, 2020
Why did you beat her? Never lay your hands on a woman no matter what until she doles out the first slap. How much did you invest that you'll beat her? There are many women out there better. You caught her cheating break the shit up and move. Once a cheat will always cheat. You love her so much then ghost her for a month and come back. Use the if love something so much let it go rule and see how it works.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Dididrumz(m): 3:48pm On Dec 09, 2020
BaddieFreak:


What I mean is that he can't claim that she is cheating since she is not yet married to him, she has to keep her options open especially if the man in question hasn't showed her that he is ready for a long term relationship.


Some of you talk any how.

So even if he's already planning to marry her tomorrow, as long as he hasn't paid for her, she should be sleeping around with other guys abi??

Rubish talk.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by bukxy(m): 3:48pm On Dec 09, 2020
grin just can't stop laughing, op don jam wahala!

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Anfieldboss: 3:49pm On Dec 09, 2020
BaddieFreak:
Please if you want all control over your woman and dictate to her as you wish, do the needful, pay her bride price and marry her. Stop wasting her time and expect her not to have other options. You even beat her, no wonder she is cheating on you woman beater.

And married women don't cheat abi

Marriage is not a cure for promiscuity. A lady that cannot stay exclusive in a committed relationship will struggle to be faithful even in marriage.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by pocohantas(f): 3:49pm On Dec 09, 2020
BaddieFreak:


What I mean is that he can't claim that she is cheating since she is not yet married to him, she has to keep her options open especially if the man in question hasn't showed her that he is ready for a long term relationship.

Faithfulness starts from a relationship. Every attitude needed to keep a marriage starts from relationships. That is why I hate to hear the word “wife duties”. If she is not faithful to him while dating, not respectful, not caring, not cooperative- she won’t turn any better because of a ring. That is if she even gets it.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Keshinr0: 3:49pm On Dec 09, 2020
Alaye, let the bi*ch go.
Investment ko

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by sylve11: 3:49pm On Dec 09, 2020
Themainboy22:
You discovered she's been cheating, but you are not smart enough to discover that she belongs to the street. They day you killed her, probably that's when the illusion you called "love" will clear from your eyes. If you like don't let her go, stay there and be forming love, I will stay here to read your news on NL front page.


hahaha............ grin cool
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by iamezekwesiri: 3:50pm On Dec 09, 2020
Until you beat her to death..... Then those material investment will yield high profits for you and your innocent parents...

Oga, for your brutal nature not to land you in Jail.... take a break from that relationship. Abi u wan give am SNIPER?

You don't own her and can't control her flirtatious nature.... Gba ba kwa oso ndu gi before u kill person.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Nobody: 3:50pm On Dec 09, 2020
These are the type of men that dont value female child. Shame on you for hitting a female
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Laboni: 3:51pm On Dec 09, 2020
Until you kill her, that’s when your eye will open.. Better let that girl go, the devil is using you but you don’t know yet.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by duduade: 3:51pm On Dec 09, 2020
I don't believe this is a red pill case

Upload pictures of your beaten Hf

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Nimrod81: 3:51pm On Dec 09, 2020
Hushbingo:
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.

When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me.
So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]
it's really not your business if she shifts to another guy.. for your own good let her go fast...

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Simplebeauty: 3:51pm On Dec 09, 2020
For money palava in your relationship..chat me up for your quick loan
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by We4all: 3:51pm On Dec 09, 2020
Hushbingo:
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.

When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me.
So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]

At the bolded, tell me you didn't enjoy it? Between you and the lady, I don't know who is worse. Let her go before you are declared wanted for murder.

The way you're enjoying sex with her, is same way other guys are too. So, why the heck are u pained that she is a generous giver?
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by marsup: 3:53pm On Dec 09, 2020
Hushbingo:
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.

When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me.
So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]
I honestly think you need to see a psychiatrist. how on earth do you see all these signs clearly, and still asking what to do? you better count your loss, and move on, or continue and end up in jail for killing her.

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