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Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Nobody: 11:54pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
silento:did you know? You are very very stupid.. And who told you that your baby mama no got get another lover, just like that your babe? You also is a confused soul, do you want love or child? Baby mama cannot give you love o, only child... Your baby mama gat many client nahh. So you want child alone bah? Or what do you want? |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Pimine: 11:54pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
BiggyB242:Aswearugaaad Exactly. That's hella disrespectful. |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Unrated900(m): 11:56pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
justified007: D guy na mugu |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by OriOko88(m): 12:03am On Jan 16, 2021 |
SocialJustice:Why are u crying more than the bereaved oga age? Why d curse! Chilax |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by MyChoice1: 12:05am On Jan 16, 2021 |
yungchop: He's not lying oo, I have someone close that does that. But I see it as wrong from every angle.. very very wrong and repulsive. The girl did right to leave him because that guy is highly insecured. That attitude will get worst in the marriage. |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by kondogbia(m): 12:07am On Jan 16, 2021 |
The two of you are mad 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by johnkay1(m): 12:07am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Bro..... You need just little of red pill. Search for the tread and take small dosage, it will help your sanity. You need logic not emotion this time around |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Atticusxsz(m): 12:11am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Mrpojj: Lmao No be small kind "Memory Space" creator she be. 3 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Atticusxsz(m): 12:12am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Mrpojj: Lmao No be small kind "Memory Space" creator she be. Probably, na another form of programming to her. 2 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by sorextee(m): 12:16am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Ive been reading ur response to members who are telling u the truth on page one. But u still acting james bond, sherlock holmes. Does she have a torchlight phone(i mean second phone)? If yes, have u checked that phone? Why im asking this, back in the days wen i was a bad guy, i cheated so badly on my gf. I had a main phone and a tirchlight phone. The main phone was clean. Sometimes she checks the phone, nothing inside. If only she knew the small phone is where all my secrets are. I played my game so well that i was never caught. Im just saying sha. Maybe maybe, just check out dat small phone with her. Cos that lady seems smart. All those mental whatever shes going thru is just to guilt trip you. I can swear something is going on between them. The ball is in ur court sha. But hacking her whatsapp for whatever reason is a no no for me. She may have logged on to her whatsapp from ur laptop, but u for log out completely. U no try in this aspect. 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by DaddyYankee: 12:17am On Jan 16, 2021 |
U still dey learn work. She will delete every chat she had with him. I was in your shoes, I opened my eyes and saw the truth. All the guys she told me were her friends were people she was fucking. She was an olosho. Your gf is a slut Serene123: 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Ibyno(m): 12:19am On Jan 16, 2021 |
as all ur eggs are not in one basket same goes to her,
my friend, engaging a woman dose not equal to Marriage.
if u want her to cut off other guys marry her, if she continue, Divorce her. |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by OriOko88(m): 12:19am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Kingluqman:Baba agbalagba. Correct OG 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by WudBMother: 12:22am On Jan 16, 2021 |
You are insecure. If I am that girl , if you do not change I will not marry you. The next thing is to beat her for talking to any man after marriage. No one is obliged to pick your call at all times. Is she a phone operator? She was even honest to tell you who she was with. Do you think that she would have told you if something was going on between them? Get over yourself, apologize, stop the unnecessary monitoring and next time keep your hands to yourself instead of dragging her phone. If you can not trust her LEAVE HER. |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by joyousever(f): 12:28am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Op, from your narration, it's apparent she was looking for an opportunity to excuse herself from the relationship and simply used that little fight as a major excuse to do so. Simply give her the time she asks for even more time if you can.Get busy with other ventures and before you realise, you'll get over her without realising. Little fights are normal in a relationship and they get sorted out in no time if the two parties are truly in love. But. In this case, I think she feels she has another option, hence the bluffing. Don't force any convo again with her, simply let her be, when she really needs you she'll reach out to you by herself. |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by saintruky(m): 12:30am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123: Oga defender u re doing well.... Sha know it will end in tears... 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by nitt: 12:32am On Jan 16, 2021 |
op has proven unable to man up and take the decision to dump the cheating girlfriend. The evidence is unquestionable but wants to use sherlock Holmes tactics to convince himself of something that is clear to the non mumu. This is 2021 and if by this time you fail to realise that as a Nigerian you should not manage this kind of nonsense especially with all the nonsense we go through everyday as Nigerians then, I think your case is beyond the ordinary 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Oturatetuala(m): 12:32am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Went through that shit man, give her sometime if she ain't coming back , let her go for good bro |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Brendaniel: 12:40am On Jan 16, 2021 |
sorextee: I don't know how you guys handle relationship sha, if I can't check my wife's phone at will or she checks mine at will, then there is a problem, even as I am single I can show any person my phone chats and all my social media accounts cause I hide nothing, if you see anything you don't feel comfortable about you ask me and I will explain, anything less from my partner and we are done... 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by TemmyT002(m): 12:40am On Jan 16, 2021 |
What I know is that a babe who has nothing to fear and who can be trusted and who really loves you wholeheartedly would never hide her phone from you. 2 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by IamSoProlific: 12:41am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123: Whatsap on two different phones? How did you do that please, I'd like to know. Thanks |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Judybash93(m): 12:46am On Jan 16, 2021 |
We meuveeee bro... |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by OriOko88(m): 12:50am On Jan 16, 2021 |
doris4u:You wan hack your guy's acct abi? |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Nobody: 12:51am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123: You are cheating she is cheating, una engagement still dey dating stage. Both of you should move on |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Trueyarn(m): 12:52am On Jan 16, 2021 |
This guy, how can you conclude she is not cheating because you hacked her whatsapp? Do you have access to her mailbox? Abi you no know say hangouts smooth pass whatsapp? |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Focusmind: 12:55am On Jan 16, 2021 |
OP, I just pity you. Despite people's reservations and comments, you seemed more determined in defending her. Oga discharge her immediately and move on. Marriage no be joke o but una no go hear. Ok na, just continue. |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Afromentalist: 12:58am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Skepticus:No lies detected 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by OriOko88(m): 12:59am On Jan 16, 2021 |
SexytorresE:So Thats how you been hiding your phone and deleting chats with your side guys abi 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Sniper101(m): 1:06am On Jan 16, 2021 |
She says she needs "time to get her mental health back" ...which is an indirect way of saying she needs "time to go fvck with the other guy" for a while And I dare say that she needs the time off, away from you, so she wouldn't be feeling guilty during the times she's fvcking with the other guy Guy...as a guy who's been there and done that...my advice for you is; get back your engagement ring and move on with your life. Sometimes, love is not enough. SOMETIMES "love" alone shouldn't be the criteria for sticking with someone. Move on, bro! IamSoProlific: WhatsApp on two different phones is never possible. It's not possible with Mark's Whatsapp And it's not possible with GBwhatsapp either What's easily attainable is getting someone's Whatsapp messages(as they drop) directly to a laptop. |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by chaloskyx: 1:06am On Jan 16, 2021 |
OGA THERE ARE LOTS OF GIRLS OUT THERE YOU DONT WANT TO MARRY SOMEONE WHO WOULD TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOUR FEELINGS AND CHEAT ON YOU SO LET GO. AND FYI YES SHES DEFINATELY CHEATING ON YOU THE THINK ABOUT IT IS JUST DELAY TACTICS TO SPEND MORE TIME WITH HER BOY TOY |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Charx122: 1:15am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123: Did she say mental health? Lol she's unstable double dating ..let me tell you she's gonna move on these some kind of fun she's having with this guy your not giving her. ..does she drink alcohol or smoke ? |
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