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Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by OgaRico(m): 11:21pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
mosdii: Guess who is back!! Mehn,one guy bi claim the other day say them don knack you ban for centuries to come.I dey try so hard to remember the exact words wey him use describe your predicament....but mehn,that guy bi seriously nearly finish you. 1 Like |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by 99thEnemy(m): 11:23pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
EzegeNdiigbo: Nobody na account with elevated privilege oh! you can't click the moniker you can't see the posts / threads he creates on his profile. you can't tell when last he was seen.
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Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by fafambo: 11:24pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
Do I really need to take it into consideration or overlook?is she from MBAISE? |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by opeldavid: 11:24pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
Red flag....run for ur your dear life....or if u love her so much, start teaching her now or start early to shout now ooòoo b4 its too late,if she can’t change, bros leave her otherwise u will continue to complain till the rest of your life. |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by bamac(m): 11:25pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
I am not sure she is nursing same plan with yours. |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by AbujaCitiBlog: 11:26pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
Do I really need to take it into consideration or overlook?You are the one enabling this behaviour. Some years back, I was dating a lady with similar mentality, until I got fed up. I stopped giving her T fare. When she asked me, I camly told her that giving her T fare everyday makes me feel that I am dating an Olosho who needs settlement money every time she visits! She was devastated, she said she is not an Olosho, I told that that's why I stopped the Tfare so that the feeling that she's an Olosho will go away. She pretended to be angry and stormed out. A week later she called that she was coming to the house, I said Ok. She came. That day she started the topic again. She said I disrespected her by what I said, I stood my ground and explained it to her with a straight face. I said being my girlfriend means that she is a friend who happens to be a girl. I asked her, If I give you transport everyday, what is the difference between you and a prostitute who collects money with every visit? I told her that some prostitutes when shown some love will even stop collecting money but here she claims she is my girlfriend but I have to give her money as if she is a Prostitute with every visit. From that day, everyday Tfare stopped. Once in a while I support her but it stopped being a daily occurrence. I also told her point blank that she is very stingy she tried to defend herself, I told her that her stingyness makes me wonder if I am in any kind of trouble and couldn't access cash that she can't help me. My dear set standards. Don't throw her away yet, she may just be ignorant about things like this. Maybe, all the men in her life so far have not been man enough to confront her and make her understand. Be the one to interrupt the trend. Be a man. Moral of the story is that what you allow in your relationship as a man is what you get. Stop giving her the Tfare everyday. Put your foot down. She is not the only girl in the world. Set standards for yourself. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by danvault: 11:27pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
Pegi23: Damnnn I love seeing tattoos on faces. |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by Bucky001(m): 11:30pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
Jackyz:A brief detail could help cos I might've known but had forgot |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by egoldman(m): 11:30pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
Do I really need to take it into consideration or overlook? The future is female |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by Mobog(m): 11:30pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
DaddyRochie1642:It's not compulsory we make a comment |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by SexytorresE(f): 11:31pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
Oga u are dating urself, sorry to say. The handwriting is written , read the signs 1 Like |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by conscientionist: 11:35pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
Typical case of [/b]My money is my money and your money is our money[b] She can not change and when you can not meet up to these benevolence again hypergamy takes over then you loose both ways. You can either continue hoping she changes or flee, your choice. |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by slevan: 11:38pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
I have no comment. Simp....LY hilarious. 1 Like |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by bayumyguy: 11:39pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
U better Japa cos she is stingy from ur write up and it might affect you in the nearest future....once u are stingy it will affect all part of your life.....my opinion |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by seyz91(m): 11:41pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
your post got me laughing myself out here especially the part of forgeting to buy toothpaste and tearting the tube most of us are guilty of that as we can't help but forget to buy that paste thing even though can be cheap As per your gf, she's damn stingy and YES you gotta pay attention to it, you also overdo it, you said her transport to and fro her house is 200 yet you normally give between 1500 to 5k as transport, what are you trying to prove to her? that you have excess money to waste and yes about her keeping her paste in bag, Thats typical naija girl she just showed you. 98percent of naija girls are exactly same, obtaining other guys of urgent 2k and the likes and be doing some AJO(thrift contribition) and at the end of the day they have alot of money which they dont do anything good with but to buy wigs, make hair, bags and shoes as they have no sense, they believe cuz of their pussy and their edited pic they will always see/meet Admirers(magas) on social media to always obtain everytime to make more money as for the part of paying attention yes you gotta, considering she had never bought you anything with her money before and those things you noticed while eating, i would say its best you run for your life now cuz when things eventually God forbid if anything happens and you happen to be broke she will never render help to bring you out of it, she's bad for a companion in relationship/dating not to talk of marriage i've said my piece! your girl own worse sha very very worse. Do I really need to take it into consideration or overlook? 2 Likes |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by Pat081: 11:42pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
No problem for those who have no galfriend ntin to worry about you better look for another one because this one will run away when things are hard oo and she may give u another man baby if she see money 1 Like |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by Respect55(m): 11:42pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
A girl once visited me. I bought big-sized juice that we would use to eat. I prepared something nice upon her coming. During the meal, I want to serve myself a glass after she took hers but she refused asking if she wasn't the one I bought it for. I thought she was joking but I was wrong. I said okay, let me see how she will finish it. This girl put the remaining juice inside her handbag while leaving. It was her last time. I didn't pick her calls again after seeing her off and I didn't call too. Sent her a message that it was over. Chineke napu ekwensu ike. 3 Likes |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by Satoshi9ja: 11:43pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
Simply have an adult conversation with your babe. Tell her how you feel. Tell her what she is doing wrong and how she can change. Help her to change and watch her reaction. If she doesn't change in 22 days, dump her. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by GidiCars: 11:44pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
All these mumu guys that like showing themselves for women must have heard what have you done that someone hasn't done before. You dey show yourself for woman and your immediate family no too dey alright, you be mumu. I'm not directly talking to the OP, I'm just speaking generally. 1 Like
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Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by wumi2017(f): 11:46pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
Bye bye to stingy Koko girlfriend |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by Nobody: 11:48pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
THE TWO OF YOU ARE CHEAP ASSES. |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by Yippeedaniel(m): 11:53pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
Innobee99: I be man ooo |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by simplesearch: 11:57pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
Yippeedaniel: Very very nonsense indeed. Keeping a girl for days he's not married to when God said we should abstain from fornication and all appearances of evil., Even if he's got zero fear for God, shouldn't news of rape and death flying here and there teach him some lesson? |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by phenylalanine(m): 12:04am On Feb 20, 2021 |
Do I really need to take it into consideration or overlook?Tell her what she is doing is not good, let know there are times she as to sacrifice some of her things not because u can't afford but for love.. most of this girls were brought up with the wrong notion that a man shld do everything, if you don't tell them they will not know.. so tell let her know if she continues then you can now call her a stingy girl.. talk to her about it 1 Like |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by alizma: 12:06am On Feb 20, 2021 |
Do I really need to take it into consideration or overlook?YES you need to pay attention to those warning signs. Is obvious there is no emotional attachment between the two of you. What you share is material attachment. If you think I am lying, let her visit you like two or three times and in those three times, only give her 500 for transportation and try to explain to her that things are bad and you don't have enough. You will then see her true nature. Women are naturally found of giving to any man they are truly in love and happy with. |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by Aksnoopy: 12:17am On Feb 20, 2021 |
She bought a new towel when the towel in my other house got torn. She cooked with her money in less than 2 hours when I said I wish I can take food along to my main house. She did the above two with her money I am always forced to refund her money even when she never asks. She never ask me for money. Above all she is just 19. I won't say more than these. 1 Like |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by SweetDipBenny(m): 12:23am On Feb 20, 2021 |
Listen to ur heart Free dat gal She's no gud |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by Lexusgs430: 12:28am On Feb 20, 2021 |
Do I really need to take it into consideration or overlook? You are not overreacting...... She is showing you her true colours, just like a flash of rainbow............ If she cannot spare 200 naira from 2K, she would never spend 20K, from her 200K on the family (if you're thinking of marrying her)......... She believes her money is her money, your money is not only your money............ Selfish, self centered, egoistic lady..... Dump her very quickly........ 1 Like |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by heniford2: 12:28am On Feb 20, 2021 |
Do I really need to take it into consideration or overlook?dude!!! dude break up with this useless ass you call girlfriend, common mehn why settle for this type of lady |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by Ever8090: 12:30am On Feb 20, 2021 |
Bola146:tell her what!!?...that girl is stingy for life nothing can change her period.. |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by Fulcrum15: 12:31am On Feb 20, 2021 |
Run,run, run. |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by Oteikwu1(m): 12:32am On Feb 20, 2021 |
I had similar experience too my gf bought dry from her village when she travel for burial she brought d fish we use together she insisted that I must pay d money that someone borrow her the money since d relationship is now shaking get rid of selfish ppl both male and female |
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