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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by sapphiere(f): 10:45pm On Apr 06
lalasticlala:
What's the coldest way you found out your relationship was over?
I reject it for you lalasticlala. No power will make you breakup. Go in prayer sir.
Any power planning to scatter your home will not succeed IJN.
Divorce is not your portion IJN Amen.

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:45pm On Apr 06
LagBae:
His number became unreachable since 2013.

Wowww. That's sime high level ghosting. Social media? You couldn't find him there either.

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by alphaNomega: 10:46pm On Apr 06
LagBae:
His number became unreachable since 2013.
Did he kick the bucket?
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:47pm On Apr 06
1stHooligan:
She went for NYSC and never looked back. I don't much blame her but I hope she never finds what she's looking for.

She left with a part of me I am trying to get back

Release and let go. I know you're hurt, but saying she never finds what she's looking for means you've not forgiven her... that may block your own blessings, too.

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:50pm On Apr 06
iamyemiakins:
When I realised she saved my number with Honourable, I no know the constituency wey I represent

LMAO!!!!!!! cheesy cheesy cheesy Are you not deserving of honour?

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by fineboynl(m): 10:53pm On Apr 06
It’s seems to me I have a Foresight and sometimes people think I see visions, but it’s just my too much sense and instinct. I always walk out from relationships before it get to that point or the worst. There is always signs which many of you ignore. And beside I never put my mind fully in relationship. Always wearing an amor when going to into it as I see relationship as war and battle you have to be prepared for the the worst. That why I can like you today and dislike you tomorrow. And the next thing is to discontinue

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by extol1(m): 10:53pm On Apr 06
Petriaa:
I am here to read comments
I noticed something about you, you are always saying I came to read comments. madam, say your own and let people learn from you

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 10:54pm On Apr 06
1stHooligan:
She went for NYSC and never looked back. I don't much blame her but I hope she never finds what she's looking for.

She left with a part of me I am trying to get back
You shouldn't have given her that part of you at all.

You made her your world and she took that away.


Never pedestalise a woman. It ends up badly.

There are better women out there for you. Just own ya eyes and you will see.


One love

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by gymnasium(m): 10:58pm On Apr 06
My own pain ooo.....na when I see wedding pictures on Facebook na so I shock

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by alphaNomega: 11:02pm On Apr 06
fineboynl:
It’s seems to me I have a Foresight and sometimes people think I see visions, but it’s just my too much sense and instinct. I always walk out from relationships before it get to that point or the worst. There is always signs which many of you ignore. And beside I never put my mind fully in relationship. Always wearing an amor when going to into it as I see relationship as war and battle you have to be prepared for the the worst. That why I can like you today and dislike you tomorrow. And the next thing is to discontinue
you will never experience true love if you go in with this mindset. I think heartbreaks are worth the experience, you don't want to grow old and regret all you missed because of one smelling armour

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by poweredcom(m): 11:03pm On Apr 06
SaintAlbert53:
very heart breaking... sad

she went to Nysc camp, I couldn't reach her after the third day she got there. I tried so many times to connect to her, but all attempts failed.
Finally, her line went through and when i asked her why happened, she confidently told me she gave her phone to someone who needed it urgently.
We talked, laughed and at the end of our conversation, she told me this: Teddy, I am sorry things aren't going as planned before I came here, i am seeing someone else and i really like him so much..

I was speechless and i no cry o but tears dey rust down my eyes..
Then I told her;

Me: Who's this guy?..

Ex: You don't need to know him Teddy, I just want you to know we won't be talking on the phone anymore because he doesn't enjoy me talking to other guys..

Me: Mummy u mean this thing abi na Yahoo format be this?

Ex: Just try and understand, like I told you when we met the first time, I don't like to have anything with my ex-. So, please get someone to love you, i am sure you will be fine in no time. Bye, God bless you.

It was like i was listening to one of John Legend's song until she updated all her social apps dp with the new guy's pic and wrote MY KING..
OH MY GOD.. SIGHHH

So sad these type of gals are gals with small brain all they know is to leech on men..

Good as she said her.mind ..to you the best thing in life is to be successful

These type of gals good to trick and nak Dem and delete Dem off

An average naija gal seems to be useless to me that why I don't even date Dem ...

@womenareapes1
@mosdii

Advise this young man. Never to give his heart to naija gals
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Idonije8(m): 11:03pm On Apr 06
Warrgidanairala:
He stopped calling having realized that he can never have me on his bed after spending so much money on me and other frivolities, kai I chop him money sha.Bamanga Dan Allah wherever you are please forgive me,may God touch your heart to forgive me
sincerely na you loose.... you think is just about money the truth is he has a heart of Gold na people like you make good people wicked

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 11:03pm On Apr 06
SaintAlbert53:
very heart breaking... sad

she went to Nysc camp, I couldn't reach her after the third day she got there. I tried so many times to connect to her, but all attempts failed.
Finally, her line went through and when i asked her why happened, she confidently told me she gave her phone to someone who needed it urgently.
We talked, laughed and at the end of our conversation, she told me this: Teddy, I am sorry things aren't going as planned before I came here, i am seeing someone else and i really like him so much..

I was speechless and i no cry o but tears dey rust down my eyes..
Then I told her;

Me: Who's this guy?..

Ex: You don't need to know him Teddy, I just want you to know we won't be talking on the phone anymore because he doesn't enjoy me talking to other guys..

Me: Mummy u mean this thing abi na Yahoo format be this?

Ex: Just try and understand, like I told you when we met the first time, I don't like to have anything with my ex-. So, please get someone to love you, i am sure you will be fine in no time. Bye, God bless you.

It was like i was listening to one of John Legend's song until she updated all her social apps dp with the new guy's pic and wrote MY KING..
OH MY GOD.. SIGHHH

This made me smile.

That geh is redpiller to the core

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Volkswagen90: 11:04pm On Apr 06
iamyemiakins:
When I realised she saved my number with Honourable, I no know the constituency wey I represent

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Volkswagen90: 11:06pm On Apr 06
Warrgidanairala:
He stopped calling having realized that he can never have me on his bed after spending so much money on me and other frivolities, kai I chop him money sha.Bamanga Dan Allah wherever you are please forgive me,may God touch your heart to forgive me
Poor Bamanga, God will judge u

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Kenturkey048(m): 11:07pm On Apr 06
1stHooligan:
She went for NYSC and never looked back. I don't much blame her but I hope she never finds what she's looking for.

She left with a part of me I am trying to get back
This got me...Well, we move.

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Leetika: 11:07pm On Apr 06
Met this girl in Abuja whilst serving. She was serving too..well she claimed she was a virgin and we should not do anything sexual.. I agreed . I would ask her to kiss me at least , she wouldn’t . She just didn’t wanna do anything sexual. But she is so quick to ask for money . Like I turned to her father. Money for hair , money for pad , money for data money for everything walahi..minus other embarrassing thing I did for love. I sha noticed that there’s no way this girl loves me. She is just in it to drain me. . She even asked me for iPhone 12 me that just finished serving. Struggling to get on my feet. We fought on this request. She told me to touch my savings so I can buy her the phone.. I said she should chill so I get money from another source as I can’t touch my savings .

Everyone told me this girl was using me sha but I still stayed. Anyways 2weeks ago she was in my house and one way or the other I found out she was sleeping with one of her bosses where she was working as a corper. I wish I can mention the name of the company cos the foolish married man is here on Nairaland also .

This evil soul told me she was going for a work trip to Enugu last December , said it was her job people taking her there and it’s by flight. And I should send her money to buy stuffs. I did but I wasn’t comfortable With it. I did not know they went to knack my girl in Enugu.. and I went to pick her back from the airport after dem don knack her.. the so called virgin wasn’t a virgin after all . I broke up . I put it to her that she cheated but this girl swore with her life that she didn’t for some reasons I could not show her my evidence.

I got nothing against u .. but u got a habit of chasing corpers posted in your office. How your wife doesn’t know u re cheating on her baffles me. I don let the girl go . Chop her. Na small thing make me change my mind do wetin my guys wan do u and that girl together. The. U know the debt is paid

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Mraphel: 11:08pm On Apr 06
[quote author=BiggyB242 post=100554593]

Edo girls are controlling, though if they love you, they are loyal. [/quote
Edo girls can be loyal to two three guys at once.

They're too serious and predictable reason I dislike Edo gals]

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Mraphel: 11:10pm On Apr 06
Leetika:
Met this girl in Abuja whilst serving. She was serving too..well she claimed she was a virgin and we should not do anything sexual.. I agreed . I would ask her to kiss me at least , she wouldn’t . She just didn’t wanna do anything sexual. But she is so quick to ask for money . Like I turned to her father. Money for hair , money for pad , money for data money for everything walahi..minus other embarrassing thing I did for love. I sha noticed that there’s no way this girl loves me. She is just in it to drain me. . She even asked me for iPhone 12 me that just finished serving. Struggling to get on my feet. We fought on this request. She told me to touch my savings so I can buy her the phone.. I said she should chill so I get money from another source as I can’t touch my savings .

Everyone told me this girl was using me sha but I still stayed. Anyways 2weeks ago she was in my house and one way or the other I found out she was sleeping with one of her bosses where she was working as a corper. I wish I can mention the name of the company cos the foolish married man is here on Nairaland also .

This evil soul told me she was going for a work trip in December
Touching
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Volkswagen90: 11:10pm On Apr 06
SaintAlbert53:
very heart breaking... sad

she went to Nysc camp, I couldn't reach her after the third day she got there. I tried so many times to connect to her, but all attempts failed.
Finally, her line went through and when i asked her why happened, she confidently told me she gave her phone to someone who needed it urgently.
We talked, laughed and at the end of our conversation, she told me this: Teddy, I am sorry things aren't going as planned before I came here, i am seeing someone else and i really like him so much..

I was speechless and i no cry o but tears dey rust down my eyes..
Then I told her;

Me: Who's this guy?..

Ex: You don't need to know him Teddy, I just want you to know we won't be talking on the phone anymore because he doesn't enjoy me talking to other guys..

Me: Mummy u mean this thing abi na Yahoo format be this?

Ex: Just try and understand, like I told you when we met the first time, I don't like to have anything with my ex-. So, please get someone to love you, i am sure you will be fine in no time. Bye, God bless you.

It was like i was listening to one of John Legend's song until she updated all her social apps dp with the new guy's pic and wrote MY KING..
OH MY GOD.. SIGHHH

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by SimplyFacts: 11:11pm On Apr 06
sapphiere:
I reject it for you lalasticlala. No power will make you breakup. Go in prayer sir.
Any power planning to scatter your home will not succeed IJN.
Divorce is not your portion IJN Amen.

I no trust this lady grin.

I hope the prayers are hearty angry
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by FashionCookie(f): 11:13pm On Apr 06
LagBae:
His number became unreachable since 2013.

Maybe he died..
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Floreate: 11:15pm On Apr 06
milann:
'I'm sorry'. That's what she texted after abandoning me to be chief chike's second wife. It was a sad experience after all we shared. I just thank God i already browsed her.


You thanking God for having committed sexual immorality?

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by SimplyFacts: 11:16pm On Apr 06
Leetika:
Met this girl in Abuja whilst serving. She was serving too..well she claimed she was a virgin and we should not do anything sexual.. I agreed . I would ask her to kiss me at least , she wouldn’t . She just didn’t wanna do anything sexual. But she is so quick to ask for money . Like I turned to her father. Money for hair , money for pad , money for data money for everything walahi..minus other embarrassing thing I did for love. I sha noticed that there’s no way this girl loves me. She is just in it to drain me. . She even asked me for iPhone 12 me that just finished serving. Struggling to get on my feet. We fought on this request. She told me to touch my savings so I can buy her the phone.. I said she should chill so I get money from another source as I can’t touch my savings .

Everyone told me this girl was using me sha but I still stayed. Anyways 2weeks ago she was in my house and one way or the other I found out she was sleeping with one of her bosses where she was working as a corper. I wish I can mention the name of the company cos the foolish married man is here on Nairaland also .

This evil soul told me she was going for a work trip to Enugu last December , said it was her job people taking her there and it’s by flight. And I should send her money to buy stuffs. I did but I wasn’t comfortable With it. I did not know they went to knack my girl in Enugu.. and I went to pick her back from the airport after dem don knack her.. the so called virgin wasn’t a virgin after all . I broke up . I put it to her that she cheated but this girl swore with her life that she didn’t for some reasons I could not show her my evidence.

I wan ask if una don take your own share of the national cake, but if all that is true about her, she might've become national pandemic angry. And you deserve something better.

Meanwhile, don't rush into conclusion over hearsay or emotional krikukriku

Leetika:


Naa I have picture evidence of her and the man. Sex chats and nudes she sent him, plus how they frolick hotels in abuja here. Sad thing be say the fool they beg me make I no break up because she no cheat on me. All in the bid to keep wrecking me financially. Like see lies cos I no wan show her the evidence. Devil lives in human form with some girls

Good to let her go then. Don't mind her,,, she's only trying to keep a nice guy for retirement/marriage.

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Aksnoopy: 11:20pm On Apr 06
Lala!!! Lol this heart break will definitely go round.
A voice note of her conversation with her EX played while she was playing music out loud with her phone. The way she rushed the phone, I grabbed it before her and she struggled for it and later left it with me.
We both listened to it, she couldn't look me in the eye. I was just smiling. She left the phone and went home.
A spirit actually told me not to put on the generator that very day, very unusual, I obeyed that spirit.
I couldn't sleep that night. She came back for her phone and threatened to seize some of my property, I told her I will arrest her if I ever see her in my house again.
I refused to give it back and told her she is never getting it back.
I gave the phone out to a lil bro. grin.

I didn't just take the phone back, I took back everything I ever got for her, most of them were in my name, lol!

Niggas, if you brake up with a bitch, take your properties back ASAP! cool

If a bitch complains that you have been fucking her recklessly, tell her to give you back your semen as well. grin

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by fineboynl(m): 11:21pm On Apr 06
alphaNomega:
you will never experience true love if you go in with this mindset. I think heartbreaks are worth the experience, you don't want to grow old and regret all you missed because of one smelling armour
there is nothing like true love. Beside I don’t need it.

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Ogalanyaidi(m): 11:23pm On Apr 06
-She stopped picking my calls,
-Turned off her read receipts
-Turned off/on her phone when I call.
-She didn't show up on the flight that I earlier booked for her. Sydney - Melbourne.
-We didn't speake to each other for 1 month.
- Her elder sister blocked me on WhatsApp.

-I woke up one day, and informed her family that the relationship was over and I wouldn't be going ahead with the marriage plans.
- I demanded for the engagement ring
- I discovered that I was the 4th guy that she had agreed to marry but went on to ditch.

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by bigpicture001: 11:26pm On Apr 06
placeofallure:
No experiences to share. Never been heartbroken, I always do the leaving.

You are a virgin.... Prove me wrong if am wrong
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Dalil8: 11:28pm On Apr 06
fineboynl:
there is nothing like true love. Beside I don’t need it.

I like the way you reason!

It's the same with me.

When you love and adore yourself so much, trust me you would never be bothered about someone else loving you.

My love is more than enough for myself.


Nigerian men lack self love, it's the reason why they are easily swindled by nigerian women in the name of love.

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 11:29pm On Apr 06
Jaqenhghar:

You try. At that point if anybody confronted me I wasnt sure I had the will too clench my fist sef. I was in a daze.... a heartbreak is no joke sha grin

And you still never learned your lesson? shocked

Always going to every thread doing Captain Save-a-hoe?


When will you learn bro?

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by RexTramadol1: 11:30pm On Apr 06
Omolewa, it may not be well with her again





After my tfare, she just ghosted me online



I kept wondering where I was wrong.

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