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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by jantman(m): 12:15pm On Apr 26
sad shocked
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by jantman(m): 12:16pm On Apr 26
@Grace456

Can't you stay alone for a while just to figure yourself and put yourself on track?

Must you jump from one relationship to another? Sometimes you ladies are the cause of the heartburn you get from Crazy men who will lie and deceive you

Stay single for a while.
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Codes151(m): 12:18pm On Apr 26
Grace456:
Help Me Before I Make The Greatest Mistake Pls

I'm a single mother in my early thirties, my daughter is just 2year old and the father is not ready to marry me or take any responsibility on her but still hiding me and his secret wife and won't let me go but I have decided to leave becos he's no adding any value to my life n my daughter's either.

Fast forward
I met a guy online who claims he lives in the US and I discovered I like him since I've met him and now he said we should settle down and marry. I own a duplex in a choice area in Lagos, completed though still small loan I'm paying on it. I agreed to settle down with him but since I told him he can't stay in my house that he needs to get a house, he started acting funny.

The second one, I asked him to show me proof of ID or his work ID, for me to be sure he's who claimed he is, he changed it for me. I tried to let him know that I'm just trying to be careful, don't want to fall prey again but he won't listen to me. He stopped calling and when I call him, he will return my call after like 5hours.

Pls advise me, is it polite for a man to marry and come stay in a woman's house because he said he will soon travel back? This is someone I like to support to get another apartment somewhere else but I haven't told him that. He has really changed in days.

No insult pls...pls ignore rather than insult me pls.
your right.

Never settle despite anything.
Especially with your child, make safe choices for your interest And that of your child

A lot of us out here are liars
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Kingstanding: 12:21pm On Apr 26
dederocs:

Come live in VI/Ikoyi/Lekki, you will live a good life. I love the Nigerian natural life and food/business market.
You're talking like educated illiterate and common sense is not a course in University.What is the percentage of Nigerians that can afford living in VI/Ikoyi and Lekki? I'm damn sure 5% of Nigerians can't afford that. I'm sure you don't have international passport talkless of being to international airport.
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by dederocs(m): 12:31pm On Apr 26
Kingstanding:
You're talking like educated illiterate and common sense is not a course in University.What is the percentage of Nigerians that can afford living in VI/Ikoyi and Lekki? I'm damn sure 5% of Nigerians can't afford that. I'm sure you don't have international passport talkless of being to international airport.
Check the percentage of poor Americans compared to rich ones. It's about how you living where you at. Zombie.
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by berbs: 12:38pm On Apr 26
Grace456:
Help Me Before I Make The Greatest Mistake Pls

I'm a single mother in my early thirties, my daughter is just 2year old and the father is not ready to marry me or take any responsibility on her but still hiding me and his secret wife and won't let me go but I have decided to leave becos he's no adding any value to my life n my daughter's either.

Fast forward
I met a guy online who claims he lives in the US and I discovered I like him since I've met him and now he said we should settle down and marry. I own a duplex in a choice area in Lagos, completed though still small loan I'm paying on it. I agreed to settle down with him but since I told him he can't stay in my house that he needs to get a house, he started acting funny.

The second one, I asked him to show me proof of ID or his work ID, for me to be sure he's who claimed he is, he changed it for me. I tried to let him know that I'm just trying to be careful, don't want to fall prey again but he won't listen to me. He stopped calling and when I call him, he will return my call after like 5hours.

Pls advise me, is it polite for a man to marry and come stay in a woman's house because he said he will soon travel back? This is someone I like to support to get another apartment somewhere else but I haven't told him that. He has really changed in days.

No insult pls...pls ignore rather than insult me pls.

Run oooo, else, you'll give him the documents to your house last last thinking you don fall in love. Before you start having some yeye feelings, run.

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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by adanny01(m): 12:38pm On Apr 26
Grace456:
Help Me Before I Make The Greatest Mistake Pls

I'm a single mother in my early thirties, my daughter is just 2year old and the father is not ready to marry me or take any responsibility on her but still hiding me and his secret wife and won't let me go but I have decided to leave becos he's no adding any value to my life n my daughter's either.

Fast forward
I met a guy online who claims he lives in the US and I discovered I like him since I've met him and now he said we should settle down and marry. I own a duplex in a choice area in Lagos, completed though still small loan I'm paying on it. I agreed to settle down with him but since I told him he can't stay in my house that he needs to get a house, he started acting funny.

The second one, I asked him to show me proof of ID or his work ID, for me to be sure he's who claimed he is, he changed it for me. I tried to let him know that I'm just trying to be careful, don't want to fall prey again but he won't listen to me. He stopped calling and when I call him, he will return my call after like 5hours.

Pls advise me, is it polite for a man to marry and come stay in a woman's house because he said he will soon travel back? This is someone I like to support to get another apartment somewhere else but I haven't told him that. He has really changed in days.

No insult pls...pls ignore rather than insult me pls.

You wrote it in black and white, I believe you don't have to read in between the lines.

Dump the guy

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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Olypm(m): 12:41pm On Apr 26
Hummmm Don't allow him to sleep in your house again! He is not serious. Let him go rent even if it's one room, a man telling you all that bullshit is a kid! Don't let him hinder good men from you. Let him find a better solution to his life first.
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by DozieEjike: 12:41pm On Apr 26
My sister all I can tell you is RUN! He's got ulterior motives! He just wants to use you to achieve something!
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Kingstanding: 12:44pm On Apr 26
[quote author=dederocs post=101136863]
Check the percentage of poor Americans compared to rich ones. It's about how you living where you at. Your an idiot.
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Kingstanding: 12:46pm On Apr 26
dederocs:

Check the percentage of poor Americans compared to rich ones. It's about how you living where you at. Zombie.
. The poor Americans can afford three balanced diet square. Poverty has destroyed your thinking.
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by uchwar1: 12:46pm On Apr 26
dederocs:

So many get money, but US dey shack them, your papa iq low, bastard, be like you no know sarcasm. Go marry sugar mama grin
May God bless your papa
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by MansoryMX(m): 12:47pm On Apr 26
A woman in her early thirties, haves a child and not married. Owns and lives in a duplex in a good place in Lagos is usually an expensive Olosho as far Lagos or Abuja is concern. This I know for sure! So it’s a tit for tat situation. I have no advice for this one. Na dem!

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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by dederocs(m): 12:49pm On Apr 26
Kingstanding:
. The poor Americans can afford three balanced diet square. Poverty has destroyed your thinking.
Keep being a slave immigrant.
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Yaks02(m): 12:50pm On Apr 26
Grace456:
Help Me Before I Make The Greatest Mistake Pls

I'm a single mother in my early thirties, my daughter is just 2year old and the father is not ready to marry me or take any responsibility on her but still hiding me and his secret wife and won't let me go but I have decided to leave becos he's no adding any value to my life n my daughter's either.

Fast forward
I met a guy online who claims he lives in the US and I discovered I like him since I've met him and now he said we should settle down and marry. I own a duplex in a choice area in Lagos, completed though still small loan I'm paying on it. I agreed to settle down with him but since I told him he can't stay in my house that he needs to get a house, he started acting funny.

The second one, I asked him to show me proof of ID or his work ID, for me to be sure he's who claimed he is, he changed it for me. I tried to let him know that I'm just trying to be careful, don't want to fall prey again but he won't listen to me. He stopped calling and when I call him, he will return my call after like 5hours.

Pls advise me, is it polite for a man to marry and come stay in a woman's house because he said he will soon travel back? This is someone I like to support to get another apartment somewhere else but I haven't told him that. He has really changed in days.

No insult pls...pls ignore rather than insult me pls.



Even though u seem older than me
Come to me and get the best of everything that won't cause u any regrets
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Aarenasbaba(m): 12:55pm On Apr 26
Watch carefully

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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Kingstanding: 1:00pm On Apr 26
dederocs:

Keep being a slave immigrant.
. Thank you and you too keep on being a slave in your father's land. I like to live like a slave where everything are working well. Whenever you like to visit US yell at me I promise to assist you with everything I have by the time you visit US you will know that I'm living like a king here in State.
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Lovelyn451(f): 1:13pm On Apr 26
hmm...u should be careful o,these guys are dangerous and can harm you and your daughter, they can't handle rejection...be strong for your daughter and be prayerful, I don't know why I'm feeling scared for you and your daughter, oh God

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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by GentlePEACE: 1:20pm On Apr 26
Grace456:
Help Me Before I Make The Greatest Mistake Pls

I'm a single mother in my early thirties, my daughter is just 2year old and the father is not ready to marry me or take any responsibility on her but still hiding me and his secret wife and won't let me go but I have decided to leave becos he's no adding any value to my life n my daughter's either.

Fast forward
I met a guy online who claims he lives in the US and I discovered I like him since I've met him and now he said we should settle down and marry. I own a duplex in a choice area in Lagos, completed though still small loan I'm paying on it. I agreed to settle down with him but since I told him he can't stay in my house that he needs to get a house, he started acting funny.

The second one, I asked him to show me proof of ID or his work ID, for me to be sure he's who claimed he is, he changed it for me. I tried to let him know that I'm just trying to be careful, don't want to fall prey again but he won't listen to me. He stopped calling and when I call him, he will return my call after like 5hours.

Pls advise me, is it polite for a man to marry and come stay in a woman's house because he said he will soon travel back? This is someone I like to support to get another apartment somewhere else but I haven't told him that. He has really changed in days.

No insult pls...pls ignore rather than insult me pls.

You look like a cool woman. It's a pity you are meeting the wrong men. Pls leave that guy, dont go looking for a man, let it happen naturally, trust me, you will find that right man who will marry you and take your kid as his own.

In the meantime, I'm looking towards a owning an apartment and be paying back monthly. Can you share with the me where you got that service from, I've been to Jaiz bank and they said their mortgage service is available to Gov't workers only.

I don't mind if you can shed little light on this. Thanks Grace
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by MummyD2020(f): 1:20pm On Apr 26
dederocs:
Mugu, good Nigerian men dey, successful, most of them in America live via hand to mouth. Abi na US dey shack you grin

What is mugu here now? She is asking for advice why insult her? Which kin humanbeing u be sef? I tire for u people that will just insult people without tangible input to their dilema. She is asking for advise, u dey call her mugu for wetin biko nu? I believe you have also sought for advise from people. How will u fewl if they insult u on top the issue bothering u. Dey take am easy

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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by MummyD2020(f): 1:21pm On Apr 26
Grace456:
Help Me Before I Make The Greatest Mistake Pls

I'm a single mother in my early thirties, my daughter is just 2year old and the father is not ready to marry me or take any responsibility on her but still hiding me and his secret wife and won't let me go but I have decided to leave becos he's no adding any value to my life n my daughter's either.

Fast forward
I met a guy online who claims he lives in the US and I discovered I like him since I've met him and now he said we should settle down and marry. I own a duplex in a choice area in Lagos, completed though still small loan I'm paying on it. I agreed to settle down with him but since I told him he can't stay in my house that he needs to get a house, he started acting funny.

The second one, I asked him to show me proof of ID or his work ID, for me to be sure he's who claimed he is, he changed it for me. I tried to let him know that I'm just trying to be careful, don't want to fall prey again but he won't listen to me. He stopped calling and when I call him, he will return my call after like 5hours.

Pls advise me, is it polite for a man to marry and come stay in a woman's house because he said he will soon travel back? This is someone I like to support to get another apartment somewhere else but I haven't told him that. He has really changed in days.

No insult pls...pls ignore rather than insult me pls.


If you don't stop that relationship, you will regret it . Aswear

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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by GentlePEACE: 1:22pm On Apr 26
MansoryMX:
A woman in her early thirties, haves a child and not married. Owns and lives in a duplex in a good place in Lagos is usually an expensive Olosho as far Lagos or Abuja is concern. This I know for sure! So it’s a tit for tat situation. I have no advice for this one. Na dem!

Come on, don't think like a foolish person. An olosho won't dare keep a pregnancy, they are ontop of their games. Pray your sister(s) or future daughter does not fall into the wrong hands of some bad guys out there.

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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by MummyD2020(f): 1:26pm On Apr 26
Grace456:


Never even kissed before talk more of sex

You owe no one an explanation. You ain't a kid madam.

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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by awujoolasola(m): 1:32pm On Apr 26
Hope the Guy have not ask for your house documents. Oju é a la(your eyes go open)
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by MansoryMX(m): 1:37pm On Apr 26
GentlePEACE:


Come on, don't think like a foolish person. An olosho won't dare keep a pregnancy, they are ontop of their games. Pray your sister(s) or future daughter does not fall into the wrong hands of some bad guys out there.

I ain’t thinking like one but only looking everyone angle from what how the Op describe the woman in particular. I don see plenty things for Lekki! So I know what I am saying grin
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Ajilenu: 1:51pm On Apr 26
Grace456:
Help Me Before I Make The Greatest Mistake Pls

I'm a single mother in my early thirties, my daughter is just 2year old and the father is not ready to marry me or take any responsibility on her but still hiding me and his secret wife and won't let me go but I have decided to leave becos he's no adding any value to my life n my daughter's either.

Fast forward
I met a guy online who claims he lives in the US and I discovered I like him since I've met him and now he said we should settle down and marry. I own a duplex in a choice area in Lagos, completed though still small loan I'm paying on it. I agreed to settle down with him but since I told him he can't stay in my house that he needs to get a house, he started acting funny.

The second one, I asked him to show me proof of ID or his work ID, for me to be sure he's who claimed he is, he changed it for me. I tried to let him know that I'm just trying to be careful, don't want to fall prey again but he won't listen to me. He stopped calling and when I call him, he will return my call after like 5hours.

Pls advise me, is it polite for a man to marry and come stay in a woman's house because he said he will soon travel back? This is someone I like to support to get another apartment somewhere else but I haven't told him that. He has really changed in days.

No insult pls...pls ignore rather than insult me pls.
I won't tryna act like the Devil's advocate here but he wants you to hand him trust over a platter. Though we guys can act funny when asked these kinds of questions but still insist on it cos at the end of the day, your doing it for yourself and your daughter's.

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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Ajilenu: 1:52pm On Apr 26
squash47:
Dem go soon cash out for ur head.

That bros abroad is tired of foreign games, he now wants to come Back and play local.

Like how Ahmed Musa came back to play for Local League.

Which well thinking Nigerian man will want to marry and move into his wife's house ?

There is something he is hiding from you.

Modified FTC

I dedicate this FTC to women going through emotional pains in their marriages. May God help you all.

my neighbor, just dey inflict pain on his wife and I feel very sad about it.

Nobody is ready to listen to the woman. Everybody thinks she is wrong. But na d man dey mess up big time.
I just pray she doesn't die of depression.







imagine, your 16 year old mannerless sister go dey insult ur wife and u go dey support d small girl.

some men are Cows.


omo, follow that man talk o. Of una dey close, make una chill for bar then reason am sense.
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Cnach: 2:05pm On Apr 26
Grace456:
Help Me Before I Make The Greatest Mistake Pls

I'm a single mother in my early thirties, my daughter is just 2year old and the father is not ready to marry me or take any responsibility on her but still hiding me and his secret wife and won't let me go but I have decided to leave becos he's no adding any value to my life n my daughter's either.

Fast forward
I met a guy online who claims he lives in the US and I discovered I like him since I've met him and now he said we should settle down and marry. I own a duplex in a choice area in Lagos, completed though still small loan I'm paying on it. I agreed to settle down with him but since I told him he can't stay in my house that he needs to get a house, he started acting funny.

The second one, I asked him to show me proof of ID or his work ID, for me to be sure he's who claimed he is, he changed it for me. I tried to let him know that I'm just trying to be careful, don't want to fall prey again but he won't listen to me. He stopped calling and when I call him, he will return my call after like 5hours.

Pls advise me, is it polite for a man to marry and come stay in a woman's house because he said he will soon travel back? This is someone I like to support to get another apartment somewhere else but I haven't told him that. He has really changed in days.

No insult pls...pls ignore rather than insult me pls.
U think say u get brain, u wan marry rich man, person wey don arrive abi..na scammer u dey price so. do u really think u love the guy? I will help u with the answer, u don't but u only love the personality he projected. the standard of ur choice it not bad o..but u see Nigerian girls? oyibo land go kill them shaa..make sure u watch people coming to u so close, stop this ur abroad something, u can go there if u want, give ur attention to someone u can watch closely. And u are still asking for advice on top something who stayes in US white house but want to move in with u in ur own apartment...be careful o

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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by smasher1(m): 2:11pm On Apr 26
Grace456:
no be US dey shack me. I can afford to relocate to any country of my choice. Just like him anyway

Problem, why date someone you meet online. Any date online is with someone who is hiding who dey are.
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by smasher1(m): 2:14pm On Apr 26
[quote author=PrettyBunny post=101120563]From your story, all I see is red flag. I would have done the same, if I was in your shoes.. You did no wrong by trying to confirm his identity.

You know what you are supposed to do, do it before it becomes a case of broken heart.

If not for your sanity, at least, for your daughter's own.

Love will find you again. So, don't rush it. Just enjoy life and build with your baby girl, and things would definitely work out for good for you and your daughter.[/quote

Fact is, she may not get someone to love. She already has a kid. It's better to be alone, than to be with someone hiding their identity. Until she gets someone better, she should calm down. I wish her the best in life.

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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Nobody: 2:27pm On Apr 26
Grace456:
Help Me Before I Make The Greatest Mistake Pls

I'm a single mother in my early thirties, my daughter is just 2year old and the father is not ready to marry me or take any responsibility on her but still hiding me and his secret wife and won't let me go but I have decided to leave becos he's no adding any value to my life n my daughter's either.

Fast forward
I met a guy online who claims he lives in the US and I discovered I like him since I've met him and now he said we should settle down and marry. I own a duplex in a choice area in Lagos, completed though still small loan I'm paying on it. I agreed to settle down with him but since I told him he can't stay in my house that he needs to get a house, he started acting funny.

The second one, I asked him to show me proof of ID or his work ID, for me to be sure he's who claimed he is, he changed it for me. I tried to let him know that I'm just trying to be careful, don't want to fall prey again but he won't listen to me. He stopped calling and when I call him, he will return my call after like 5hours.

Pls advise me, is it polite for a man to marry and come stay in a woman's house because he said he will soon travel back? This is someone I like to support to get another apartment somewhere else but I haven't told him that. He has really changed in days.

No insult pls...pls ignore rather than insult me pls.

Don't marry him else you will regret it.
He probably sees you are somehow comfortable and he wants to take advantage.

Did I hear you say you want to support him to get a place?

You are already falling as a maga. If he was from the US why is he broke. He is a bomber like Slawormiir the real Nigarrr grin

Forget about him and wait till another good man like me comes around grin

Jokes apart, don't date that guy I take God beg you. grin
Wait for someone like me. A very cool headed guy who doesn't like wahala.

I no fit say sorry when you start another thread with the headline, "He Scammed Me And Ran With My Properties"

Slawormiir my guy na joke o. grin

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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Godbless3(m): 2:28pm On Apr 26
I like myself, never have a long distance relationship.
The bros want come back from (fake) abroad, chop ur puna for free and then cashout and you are dancing to it in the name of being desperate for marriage.
Sisi, leave online love and concentrate on ur life, open ur heart for any relationship around while ur head is up and running.
I dn't want to see another treat from you on how a guy use and dump you o.

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