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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Mypeople2(m): 9:44pm On Apr 26
Grace456:
Help Me Before I Make The Greatest Mistake Pls

I'm a single mother in my early thirties, my daughter is just 2year old and the father is not ready to marry me or take any responsibility on her but still hiding me and his secret wife and won't let me go but I have decided to leave becos he's no adding any value to my life n my daughter's either.

Fast forward
I met a guy online who claims he lives in the US and I discovered I like him since I've met him and now he said we should settle down and marry. I own a duplex in a choice area in Lagos, completed though still small loan I'm paying on it. I agreed to settle down with him but since I told him he can't stay in my house that he needs to get a house, he started acting funny.

The second one, I asked him to show me proof of ID or his work ID, for me to be sure he's who claimed he is, he changed it for me. I tried to let him know that I'm just trying to be careful, don't want to fall prey again but he won't listen to me. He stopped calling and when I call him, he will return my call after like 5hours.

Pls advise me, is it polite for a man to marry and come stay in a woman's house because he said he will soon travel back? This is someone I like to support to get another apartment somewhere else but I haven't told him that. He has really changed in days.

No insult pls...pls ignore rather than insult me pls.
Babe, forget that guy ..Na scammer .He should have an apartment, no matter how small ..The guy nor dey shame self?

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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by GentlePEACE: 9:52pm On Apr 26
Grace456:


I got the loan with a company account with first bank. Though its TOD I pay back all loans everymonth and get another one immediately then I use access bank alongside and lendigo.ng

For now, no more loan with first bank and a token with access bank.

Wow. Impressive. Too bad some people are misjudging you because you have a duplex of your own.

Pls what's the TOD? How much was the cost of the house then?
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Blakjewelry(m): 10:05pm On Apr 26
Grace456:
Help Me Before I Make The Greatest Mistake Pls

I'm a single mother in my early thirties, my daughter is just 2year old and the father is not ready to marry me or take any responsibility on her but still hiding me and his secret wife and won't let me go but I have decided to leave becos he's no adding any value to my life n my daughter's either.

Fast forward
I met a guy online who claims he lives in the US and I discovered I like him since I've met him and now he said we should settle down and marry. I own a duplex in a choice area in Lagos, completed though still small loan I'm paying on it. I agreed to settle down with him but since I told him he can't stay in my house that he needs to get a house, he started acting funny.

The second one, I asked him to show me proof of ID or his work ID, for me to be sure he's who claimed he is, he changed it for me. I tried to let him know that I'm just trying to be careful, don't want to fall prey again but he won't listen to me. He stopped calling and when I call him, he will return my call after like 5hours.

Pls advise me, is it polite for a man to marry and come stay in a woman's house because he said he will soon travel back? This is someone I like to support to get another apartment somewhere else but I haven't told him that. He has really changed in days.

No insult pls...pls ignore rather than insult me pls.
why online? why inform him of what you have achieved? The your already have child so what is the rush? let love come naturally

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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Prince4945(m): 10:14pm On Apr 26
SweetCunt97:
When reversed its norm. Thats how it should b. The lady goes to her husband house and submit to him. You cant come into my house and still expect me to submit. Taa

You haven't been in love before I guess..
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Grace456: 10:19pm On Apr 26
Insectkiller:
Are you that cheap??

A man sleeping in ur house..are u married to him?
?

Answer those questions then we know wey forward..

Anuofia

He hasn't slept in my house before he just comes around
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Grace456: 10:21pm On Apr 26
GentlePEACE:


Wow. Impressive. Too bad some people are misjudging you because you have a duplex of your own.

Pls what's the TOD? How much was the cost of the house then?

TOD is temporary overdraft. The house cost 48m with other charges 50m.

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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Grace456: 10:30pm On Apr 26
FryMosquito:
bring it on, you can dm the no.

I sent u a dm already pls reply thanks
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by FryMosquito: 10:33pm On Apr 26
Grace456:


I sent u a dm already pls reply thanks
Noted, will revert back
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Stevyne: 10:51pm On Apr 26
Grace456:
Help Me Before I Make The Greatest Mistake Pls

I'm a single mother in my early thirties, my daughter is just 2year old and the father is not ready to marry me or take any responsibility on her but still hiding me and his secret wife and won't let me go but I have decided to leave becos he's no adding any value to my life n my daughter's either.

Fast forward
I met a guy online who claims he lives in the US and I discovered I like him since I've met him and now he said we should settle down and marry. I own a duplex in a choice area in Lagos, completed though still small loan I'm paying on it. I agreed to settle down with him but since I told him he can't stay in my house that he needs to get a house, he started acting funny.

The second one, I asked him to show me proof of ID or his work ID, for me to be sure he's who claimed he is, he changed it for me. I tried to let him know that I'm just trying to be careful, don't want to fall prey again but he won't listen to me. He stopped calling and when I call him, he will return my call after like 5hours.

Pls advise me, is it polite for a man to marry and come stay in a woman's house because he said he will soon travel back? This is someone I like to support to get another apartment somewhere else but I haven't told him that. He has really changed in days.

No insult pls...pls ignore rather than insult me pls.
Out of your vulnerability
Him go outsmart you collect house for your hand!
Better wise up and discard the tick off you

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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by INTEGRITYA1(m): 12:18am On Apr 27
Grace456:


He told me he lodged in a hotel since he got back from USA but I went there unannounced and he later directed me to his friends house living in a ghetto and he said he just checked out from the hotel

Don't you now detect lies in all these?

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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by GentlePEACE: 7:05am On Apr 27
Grace456:


TOD is temporary overdraft. The house cost 48m with other charges 50m.
Wow. That's huge. For how long are you to pay back the house loan?
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by DrFunmisticGlow: 7:11am On Apr 27
Grace456:
Help Me Before I Make The Greatest Mistake Pls

I'm a single mother in my early thirties, my daughter is just 2year old and the father is not ready to marry me or take any responsibility on her but still hiding me and his secret wife and won't let me go but I have decided to leave becos he's no adding any value to my life n my daughter's either.

Fast forward
I met a guy online who claims he lives in the US and I discovered I like him since I've met him and now he said we should settle down and marry. I own a duplex in a choice area in Lagos, completed though still small loan I'm paying on it. I agreed to settle down with him but since I told him he can't stay in my house that he needs to get a house, he started acting funny.

The second one, I asked him to show me proof of ID or his work ID, for me to be sure he's who claimed he is, he changed it for me. I tried to let him know that I'm just trying to be careful, don't want to fall prey again but he won't listen to me. He stopped calling and when I call him, he will return my call after like 5hours.

Pls advise me, is it polite for a man to marry and come stay in a woman's house because he said he will soon travel back? This is someone I like to support to get another apartment somewhere else but I haven't told him that. He has really changed in days.

No insult pls...pls ignore rather than insult me pls.
he's a hobosexual and a scammer.

The writing is on the wall

Focus on yourself and your daughter

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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by daniel7328(m): 7:44am On Apr 27
Grace456:

I sent u a dm already pls reply thanks

Why aren't you replying my mail back......
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Victoria938(f): 10:53am On Apr 27
My advice is that you should give yourself a break from men for awhile & focus on building both yours & daughter's future.The right person will come definitely.

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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Nobody: 10:58am On Apr 27
Grace456:
Help Me Before I Make The Greatest Mistake Pls

I'm a single mother in my early thirties, my daughter is just 2year old and the father is not ready to marry me or take any responsibility on her but still hiding me and his secret wife and won't let me go but I have decided to leave becos he's no adding any value to my life n my daughter's either.

Fast forward
I met a guy online who claims he lives in the US and I discovered I like him since I've met him and now he said we should settle down and marry. I own a duplex in a choice area in Lagos, completed though still small loan I'm paying on it. I agreed to settle down with him but since I told him he can't stay in my house that he needs to get a house, he started acting funny.

The second one, I asked him to show me proof of ID or his work ID, for me to be sure he's who claimed he is, he changed it for me. I tried to let him know that I'm just trying to be careful, don't want to fall prey again but he won't listen to me. He stopped calling and when I call him, he will return my call after like 5hours.

Pls advise me, is it polite for a man to marry and come stay in a woman's house because he said he will soon travel back? This is someone I like to support to get another apartment somewhere else but I haven't told him that. He has really changed in days.

No insult pls...pls ignore rather than insult me pls.
cash out for ur head b d next thing.

no go fall mugu

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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by SweetCunt97(f): 5:37pm On Apr 27
Prince4945:


You haven't been in love before I guess..
Love aint stupidity jarey.
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by abeniagbon(m): 7:45pm On Apr 27
Grace456:
Help Me Before I Make The Greatest Mistake Pls

I'm a single mother in my early thirties, my daughter is just 2year old and the father is not ready to marry me or take any responsibility on her but still hiding me and his secret wife and won't let me go but I have decided to leave becos he's no adding any value to my life n my daughter's either.

Fast forward
I met a guy online who claims he lives in the US and I discovered I like him since I've met him and now he said we should settle down and marry. I own a duplex in a choice area in Lagos, completed though still small loan I'm paying on it. I agreed to settle down with him but since I told him he can't stay in my house that he needs to get a house, he started acting funny.

The second one, I asked him to show me proof of ID or his work ID, for me to be sure he's who claimed he is, he changed it for me. I tried to let him know that I'm just trying to be careful, don't want to fall prey again but he won't listen to me. He stopped calling and when I call him, he will return my call after like 5hours.

Pls advise me, is it polite for a man to marry and come stay in a woman's house because he said he will soon travel back? This is someone I like to support to get another apartment somewhere else but I haven't told him that. He has really changed in days.

No insult pls...pls ignore rather than insult me pls.

God truly bless you... Imagine some guys are funny....staying a ladies house for that matter... all his stay in yankee what does it gain... practical maybe nothing but a fine boy and accent speaking... eat your food, have sec with you and still ask you for cash, like someone said na to cash out on you he is planning.... even if he show all those ID he can run fake ID and show them to you... but his mind ain't with you... he is also keeping so many things from you either... bless up

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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by jantman(m): 1:15am On Apr 28
Grace456:


Not that I can't stay alone but it's a bit difficult for me. There r things I will want to do at home but no man to help. Like switch over from light to generator, carry something heavy maybe in the night that the staff would have gone home, maybe start the generator it makes me feel bad honestly

Miss Grace
I understand how you feel, and I know that you need the love and affection of a good man.

Like I said before, just be patient.

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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by jantman(m): 1:22am On Apr 28
Miss Grace456

It is true that love cannot be acquired by being alone

But use your 13 sense . smiley

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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by m4mo: 7:01am On Apr 28
I'm going to go against the grain here. Have you considered that he's checking you out to confirm what you're saying?

1. You told him you have your own place, you love him, you want to get married, etc... Yet when it comes to coming down to meet you, he can't stay with you. In his mind, maybe this girl is feeding me lies.

2. You want him to send his ID information? Really? 419 rings a bell?

I'm just saying consider his point of view. You're thinking you that he's a Gigolo, he's likely thinking you want him because of his country of residence and possibly lying to him and maybe working with potential 419 artist smiley

Just a thought!
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by seguno2: 4:35pm On Apr 29
Grace456:
Not that I can't stay alone but it's a bit difficult for me. There r things I will want to do at home but no man to help. Like switch over from light to generator, carry something heavy maybe in the night that the staff would have gone home, maybe start the generator it makes me feel bad honestly

Get a niece or nephew to stay with you.
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by seguno2: 4:36pm On Apr 29
Grace456:
He told me he lodged in a hotel since he got back from USA but I went there unannounced and he later directed me to his friends house living in a ghetto and he said he just checked out from the hotel

It should be obvious that he is a scammer and fraudulent person
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by seguno2: 4:38pm On Apr 29
abeniagbon:
God truly bless you... Imagine some guys are funny....staying a ladies house for that matter... all his stay in yankee what does it gain... practical maybe nothing but a fine boy and accent speaking... eat your food, have sec with you and still ask you for cash, like someone said na to cash out on you he is planning.... even if he show all those ID he can run fake ID and show them to you... but his mind ain't with you... he is also keeping so many things from you either... bless up

Was that not how Tiwa Savage’s so called husband used her like a doormat
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Insectkiller: 2:08am On May 05
Grace456:


He hasn't slept in my house before he just comes around

How many times has he Bleep you before d ugly incident
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Kobicove(m): 8:09am On May 05
I wonder why a guy would be comfortable with the idea of moving into his wife's house after marriage

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Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by SavageResponse(m): 3:24pm On May 22
Insectkiller:


How many times has he Bleep you before d ugly incident

What do you want to do with this info? sad
Re: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by Gaddafih001: 3:28pm On May 22
Grace456:
Help Me Before I Make The Greatest Mistake Pls

I'm a single mother in my early thirties, my daughter is just 2year old and the father is not ready to marry me or take any responsibility on her but still hiding me and his secret wife and won't let me go but I have decided to leave becos he's no adding any value to my life n my daughter's either.

Fast forward
I met a guy online who claims he lives in the US and I discovered I like him since I've met him and now he said we should settle down and marry. I own a duplex in a choice area in Lagos, completed though still small loan I'm paying on it. I agreed to settle down with him but since I told him he can't stay in my house that he needs to get a house, he started acting funny.

The second one, I asked him to show me proof of ID or his work ID, for me to be sure he's who claimed he is, he changed it for me. I tried to let him know that I'm just trying to be careful, don't want to fall prey again but he won't listen to me. He stopped calling and when I call him, he will return my call after like 5hours.

Pls advise me, is it polite for a man to marry and come stay in a woman's house because he said he will soon travel back? This is someone I like to support to get another apartment somewhere else but I haven't told him that. He has really changed in days.

No insult pls...pls ignore rather than insult me pls.
Dm me...
I can and will marry you on your terms on one condition...
Just dey ginger me to success...
I don’t need your money.
I only need a good aura around me..

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