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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Kingcalls: 2:14pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
Better use that time do better thing..afterall na men like u de 4k am during the 4 Yr duration |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Nobody: 2:14pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
you are suffering from ONEITIS |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by emmanuelewumi(m): 2:14pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
Igbojihadist: Dump her and date her best friend, sister, neighbour or colleague. Thank me later. 4 Likes |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by WinterMinter(m): 2:15pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
drmikeadams:Nna eh Craze dey una 2 head |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by arantess: 2:15pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
LOL Come on guy, be a real nigga and move na What's all these Like others have said you need to add value and purpose to yourself then you see them running after you 5 Likes |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Goodnigga: 2:17pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
Igbojihadist:It is oneitis. Go out now and collect 20 numbers and try to at least invite one home. You will quickly forget her. With all due apologies, ugly girls are the ones who do this thing the most 7 Likes |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Nobody: 2:17pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
Igbojihadist: This is stupidity. Don't you have a purpose in life? 3 Likes |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by drmikeadams(m): 2:17pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
WinterMinter:no one person get the monopoly of madness..my brother..no mind am ..his my guy.. |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by UnimkeAk(m): 2:17pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
Boss13:Na olosho go chase u wen u get money oo , No high value woman will chase a man because of money .. Yes u will Bleep plenty girls.. But u might not get the one 5 Likes |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Sweeetheart(m): 2:18pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
three things might be involved here If she's a career lady then you've to reason along with her but try and convince her that you won't distract nor stop her from accomplishing dreams because the fears of career loving lady is that some men might stop them post marriage. Just practical conviction will change her mind 2. If she's not this above and she's not any pursuit then is either she's not mentally ready for marriage or marriage had become a shadow to her. Do not force her, so that you won't end in court few years after Lastly, you might be an alternative, perhaps she's waiting for the main guy she's into to pop the will you marry me proposal, you might be her backup if the guy eventually just lookaway Whichever way it might be, run am emotional test on her. If you're a real niggarr you will understand what I mean 1 Like |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by LienwaltAbel(m): 2:18pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
What is all this fuckery about? A mere girl who doesn't fancy you, get on with your life Mr man, she isn't the point your life revolves around for goodness sake. 4 Likes |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Nobody: 2:19pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
Igbojihadist: Well well well Look what we have up here Well,my brother we dey the same league but I still dey find babe while waiting for her to finish medicine in 2024��...maybe while dating and if I still have her in mind den I can still woo her 1 Like |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Thesaint141(m): 2:20pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
I feel ur pain bro, buh it's like see sence is far from you. |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by deltateam: 2:20pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
Igbojihadist: I think she's manipulating you. She's asking you if it's the love you have for her? What of her? How does she show her own love? I don't think you are emotionally stable yet to handle a relationship. 1 Like |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by FORWARDEVERLY: 2:21pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
Igbojihadist: Add another for to the 4 already .. make it 44years Waiting Ok... Pls continue Waiting and Wailing, that is how a Real man does. 1 Like |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by ismaog4u(m): 2:21pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
you need more sense bro |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Heterodox(m): 2:22pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
Igbojihadist:Sorry. Pele. You'll be alright. |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Naustine(m): 2:22pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
I been won advice u o...but e be like na u senior me, so na u suppose dey advice me |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by ALTERNATEID: 2:23pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
And you called yourself Igbo jihadist. What kind of weak jihadist are you? Jihadists don't go running after a lady for four years. They don't even give ladies priority. They go after their business and wait till they get to heaven to enjoy 70 virgins. You are a disgrace to jihadist all over the world for crying over a lady. Just change your moniker to IgboSimp 5 Likes |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Homextras: 2:23pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
I understand you brother, love can sometimes make someone sound foolish. The truth is that girl has a boyfriend, and you have been put on standby as a backup plan incase the guy disappoints her, she knows quite well you love her, but she met this other guy before you. However, it’s not healthy for you emotionally to keep on hanging on the hope that her relationship doesn’t work before you can then step into the future. Have a frank talk with her that you need to move on, and mean it. Tell yourself that what if this girl dies tomorrow(God forbid) won’t you date or love someone else? Use this to snap out of the temptation of going back. It’s possible for you to move on, you just need to fill your mind with other thoughts, and get more busy, with time you won’t remember her. All the best. 4 Likes |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by temitope27(m): 2:24pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
tomilayomi:u re like me ,cos if I talk my mind that guy can commit suicide |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Tylerbankz: 2:24pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
I don't mean to insult you OP. How old are you? Please, go back and continuing studying to pass your upcoming WAEC. 1 Like |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by haykes(m): 2:24pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
4years? you try o,guy move on and forget her she can even come back to you 1 Like |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by qtguru(m): 2:24pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
Igbojihadist: 4 years chasing woman, do you know how many potential women you could have met by then, don't follow that nonsense the heart want what it wants, just look for a reasonable lady. |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Ellixlimswag(m): 2:24pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
2months should be enough now... then you withdraw.. and just play passive interest... so that you no go de waste your own time... get busy and getting yourself better.. they love you when you have money or when you are on a strong part... after fews months again try and hit her... if she no Gree rest and make more money and try other good girls too.... if you de okay well well one day you go hear you have forgotten me... lol if you be bad person and you don get babe... you fit take your own slice from there... at this point I don’t even advice having anything serious either her even if you are still single all the best sha... 4 Likes |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by FORWARDEVERLY: 2:25pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
AfroKnight: You wn make Op dey hypertensive abi.. Lol... I swear, e fit be one Worwor thing wey no get yansh sef dey suffer the Op.. Na premium larger tears get an Las Las.. |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by DukeJoe17: 2:25pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
Igbojihadist: You are suffering from inferiority complex and I know that you don't have my money because money is a complex booster. |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Vicas2000: 2:25pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
Igbojihadist: Onetitis syndrome. Google it. Focus on you. Develop yourself. Make money. Five yrs from now...you will slap yourself why you even bothered to stoop so low to ask her out. 4 Likes |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by jimmychang: 2:25pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
Igbojihadist: After three days of not calling ,She will call you telling you that is this the kind of love you have for her and you have been doing this shit for four years Na strong mumu you be 1 Like |
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Iceyjayzz(m): 2:25pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
You got a big problem coon, focus on making money not girls, once you make it they will be the one pursuing you. 1 Like |
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