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Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Angelfrost(m): 8:43am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Richy4: Best comment on this thread so far!!! OP, this is a great counsel to take. 1 Like |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by oshorstan(m): 8:43am On Jan 08, 2022 |
You're too young to be a divorcee. Please stay fresh and young. Take care of yourself, get a career, do an msc, if you're rich, travel out.. just get a life ok. It is not the end of the world ok.. it is such a shame that it has happened. Don't worry, God go give you strength ok. Marry your children ! But get a Serious date 4 Likes |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 8:43am On Jan 08, 2022 |
DWJOBScom:Ok then... |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Blakjewelry(m): 8:44am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Optimistic4life:The most important question I will ask is, are you financially ok? If yes then you need not worry, it is phase and it pass. I think it will be even be easier in your case since you are both been separated for sometime. As what people will say! Forget about it, it's your life and no one will be there when the door is closed beside everyone got their own share of problem to deal with. |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Nobody: 8:44am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Optimistic4life: I am a man from a broken home. I never met my mum and dad together. They parted when they gave birth to me. That affected my education seriously. Till now I see my mum like a stranger though am the last born. It's not a funny experience. My dad finally had full access to us in 1999 and as grown up teenagers we were made to attend adult school first before going to primary school. My elder brother and sister were in primary 4 at the age of 14, and 16 while I was in primary 3 at 12. Nobody ever imagined will would turn out to become something in life . To the glory of God, my elder brother is a successful lawyer now while I'm an accountant. .... The bottom point is , it affects the children more that you. They will lack parental love and care . I was breastfed by my half sister ....it wasn't funny . As time goes on it will begin to affect the children's behaviour even when they are adults. There was a time I hated women generally because of my mum. But thank God to the word of God, it changed my mentality. But how many children have such opportunity to be taught rightly about the things of God? At 13, I would see other mums preparing meal for their family and I so much wanted to know how a woman's food tastes like. I was rather the cook of the house, nobody to learn from. Think about the children , not you 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by zoghys: 8:44am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Optimistic4life: Go out try some new things, feel good with yourself and live for yourself. 1 Like |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Alamkir: 8:44am On Jan 08, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK: Ppl really need to learn that spiritual cannot help the physical, only the physical can |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by InvertedHammer: 8:44am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Optimistic4life:/ I wonder what you did to him to warrant him divorcing you. Of course you are innocent. / 3 Likes |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Nobody: 8:44am On Jan 08, 2022 |
If you are available, I can be sorting your sexual needs when necessary but you go dy pay me 3 Likes |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 8:45am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Alamkir:Abeg loud the volume make Dem hear.. 1 Like |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by MouthofdGods: 8:46am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Soon the divorce will be finalized and we will both move on. Reconciliation isn't too late if you both want to give it a chance. Those kids need both parents, consider them. However, if one of the reasons you're currently separated is due to domestic violence, I'm afraid it'll be hard. Wife beaters hardly ever change. All I'm saying is it's not too late to try to work things out. Think about it 3 Likes |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by BePrepared: 8:46am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Nothing is late, God can still restore your marriage, plz don't add to the statistics, I'll be praying 4 u |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Karemarealty288(m): 8:46am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Avoid Tonto Dike's trends if you want peace of mind. There is 95% chances of both of you coming back together again.
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Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 8:46am On Jan 08, 2022 |
IamANigerianMan:Quote the op not me... |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Sheggy13(m): 8:47am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Optimistic4life:If you guys can still make things work, I'll advise you tow that lane. Someone can't just wake up and say he wants to divorce. Something must have gone wrong somewhere. If you were the one in the wrong, please drop your ego and try to appease him together with your and his families. It's not too late. 3 Likes |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by UncleKoboko: 8:47am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Optimistic4life:Cheating never pays... Being very vengeful will eventually make you a loser... Never compete with someone who has more advantage than you... Count your losses and move on. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by aminusodiq(m): 8:48am On Jan 08, 2022 |
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Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by aminusodiq(m): 8:48am On Jan 08, 2022 |
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Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by cobso7489: 8:49am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Tamale This is the best site for any Nigerian who wants to connect to Ghana
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Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by cobso7489: 8:49am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Tamale This is the best site for any Nigerian who wants to connect to Ghana
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Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Godbless3(m): 8:49am On Jan 08, 2022 |
You have been staying alone for long waiting 4 the judgement day and yet you are asking about the adjustment? |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by AbujaCitiBlog: 8:50am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Optimistic4life:What Happened? Was it a case of chronic lesbianism on your side? 2 Likes |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by BaddestJD: 8:50am On Jan 08, 2022 |
If you can make it work, please do. Avoid divorce as much as you can. It is better your partner dies than you get divorced. If he/she dies you would never see him/her again but if you divorce, each time you meet him/her, you both die again. - Myles Monroe. 6 Likes |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by vineyardfarms: 8:51am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Optimistic4life:devoice is not the end of the world, who keep the custody of the children? How old are they? trime your circle of friends, don't rush into another relationship, join church or social group of positive family minded. Let your past mistakes be your guide. Good luck. |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Nobody: 8:51am On Jan 08, 2022 |
obiekunie01: You mean the same Jesus that has taken the position of God, and blocked access to God except through him. Hmm, I remember the devil making that same comment, that he will be like God. |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Original4u1310: 8:51am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Trotro Nice concept. The site really makes sense. Nairaland branch in Gh
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Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by LegendaryArnold(m): 8:51am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Optimistic4life: Where's the shame and mockery coming from? It's about your happiness as long as the divorce makes you better, please you don't have to feel sorry about it. People's opinions aren't relevant abeg... focus on yourself and your babies. 3 Likes |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Original4u1310: 8:52am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Trotro Nice concept. The site really makes sense. Nairaland branch in Gh
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Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Nobody: 8:52am On Jan 08, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK:Misery loves company 1 Like |
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