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Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by Basiljoe: 8:58pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Amarisco: True story, if you know, you know.. 1 Like |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by Bukola94(m): 9:00pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Kipaji:u are a very real man, u are a legend in the making. May your legacy never die with you. Your bloodline won't go into extinction 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by Basiljoe: 9:00pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Saccharine:Can women lead themselves? |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by Basiljoe: 9:02pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
siofra:Evening Newspaper, rest abeg. |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by Kaytixy: 9:03pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Rokiat:so out of all the point this is the only one you could reason with. The funniest thing is that you don't even understand this very point you quoted cos if you did, you write what you wrote here. 1 Like |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by jeff1607(m): 9:07pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Sweetvie: Anyone that misbehaves gets shifted to one side,. |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by Ajofiapero(m): 9:07pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Although statistics has it that there is an almost equal distribution of the males and females on earth, many factors can easily disproportionate the ratio when it comes to marriage. An instance is a yearly report from a state prison positing that there was a total of 44,876 inmates currently distributed among the various prisons in the state. Among the 44,876 inmates, 44,471 are male, while 405 are female. Many of them have already spent more than the supposed jail term for their crime in those confinements, yet they are still awaiting trial. Dear ladies in the house, abeg any beta man wey you catch outside, beta hold am tight oo. D phrase "Men scarce" no be cap oo. 1 Like |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by Basiljoe: 9:07pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
cococandy:Unfortunately, reality disagree with you. "Most women in western culture who find themselves single at 38-42 are there after an earlier life that didn’t go as planned. They almost universally carry some kind of baggage." - Rational Male |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by Kaytixy: 9:08pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
pansophist:it is a known fact that women outnumbered men in the society. You know how many soldiers dem kill for maiduguri, what about ibop soldiers, all these are men and some of them have wives. 1 Like |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by Bukola94(m): 9:09pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
koladata:wealthy men with wisdom should be the only people practicing polygamy. If one don't worth 60M to 100M,one should leave polygamy for rich men. Just my opinion, and sexual strengths should be 90%, that prowess should be enough to satisfy 2wives. 2 Likes |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by Basiljoe: 9:10pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Zooposki:Your screenshots make me laugh, you are obviously a plugged in blue pilled beta. Keep dreaming. Men have nothing to gain in modern marriage, absolutely nothing, especially in gynocentric societies. |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by cococandy(f): 9:13pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Basiljoe: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/202102/why-so-many-single-women-without-children-are-happy?amp “Other research demonstrates how singlehood for women is increasingly viewed as desirable. A study from data analysts Mintel indicates women are more satisfied with being single than men, and less likely to look for a relationship.[ii] Part of the explanation has to do with women working harder than their male counterparts in relationships. According to Professor Emily Grundy, of the University of Essex, "There's evidence that women spend longer on domestic tasks than men and I think they also do more emotional work — so they still do more housework and cooking and things as well as more emotional labour." Dr. Grundy also notes that women tend to be more involved within social networks as compared to men, who often rely strongly on their wives. In her words: "Women tend to be better at having alternative social networks and other confidantes whereas men tend to rely quite heavily on their wives for that and have fewer other social ties“ 4 Likes |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by Bukola94(m): 9:18pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Ebubu3:trust ? Maybe it is exponentially. But if you can't be just or equity ( between wives&children ), u will get problems, the one that may send one's to early grave. And the competition, jealousy and hatred the polygamy men will create for the children's will continue after their demise. The grand children and expanded family may tow the lines 2 Likes |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by Kaytixy: 9:18pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
1Sharon:there is nothing toxic. I'm a product of one and we love our step mum very well that we always buy her things anytime we are getting stuffs for my mum. I also know plenty good children from good polygamous home. Plenty of the northern governors are into polygyny and there kids are doing well. |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by Basiljoe: 9:31pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
cococandy:Lmao. You are just looking for excuses to support your bias. I don't want to seem offensive, but my point is: reality disagrees with you. I'm a highly practical Red Pilled man and also a people watcher/Observer. Reality oftens disgarees with all this women solipsism and arguement of not needing men, in the real world, y'all need di.c.k and masculinity like your life depends on it. I can list numerous personal experiences, infact i've experienced women having to literally beg for association. You all's hypergamy won't just let you settle for low value men. I can easily search for an online article to support my assertions but you should get the point by now. REALITY IS DIFFERENT FROM ONLINE ARTICLES AND BIAS, IT JUST IS, WHAT IT IS. |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by Bukola94(m): 9:33pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
tommy589:is not going to be easy , the love & trust drop by 50%. Any day u decided to marry another woman, have it at the back of your mind. There will be competition in the marriage, even if they bond well while you are alive, if you are no more, things may not be the same again. Women of understanding are rare 1 Like |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by Nobody: 9:46pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Basiljoe:You guys are ridiculous Tell women you know what they want . Tell women what they want . Tell women how they feel. Tell women what to feel. Tell women choices to make. Tell women of the future that awaits them. All this wisdom/foresight under the umbrella of reality. But for some reasons your wisdom/foresight and knowledge of "reality" never makes you rich or high value men. How can you help women or have the antidote to their issues but can't help yourself? I don't want that type of wisdom in which I know what it is to help and guide my male counterpart wheras I am yet to become high value 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by djkaneo(m): 9:51pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
pansophist: There are more men than women on Earth. Get your facts right. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by Zooposki(f): 10:19pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Basiljoe: Then you guys should stop gaslighting women, always opening multiple threads discussing us. You don’t see women opening multiple threads discussing you guys, but you guys do that all the time, meaning there is something wrong upstairs with most of you. Your obsession concerning the female race is bordering on a disorder which you guys must learn to curtail. Even in real life, if you guys are not monitoring what we wear, you are monitoring what we do, where we go etc. It’s just too disturbing. 2 Likes |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by bukatyne(f): 10:41pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Wrong wording of topic. Polygamy is a system of marriage designed for men hence it can not benefit women the most. Infact, the other addition to a Polygamous man's harem is usually younger & more nubile. Using Ned Nwoko as an example, he doesn't check your readon while polygamy benefits women so the barren women, widows & divorcees around him are still there so his polygamy is of no benefit to them. And this pattern is repeated across Polygamous men all over Nigeria. Except for cultural reasons (levirage marriages), most polygamists pick younger women the more wives they pick. It is saying feminism is created to benefit men or Red pill to benefit women. However, certain women can benefit from a Polygamous set-up; some of the examples which you gave. So a better topic would be 'the categories of women who benefit from Polygamy'. P.S.: the women more than men narrative is not true according to world population stats. 3 Likes |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by Kelechi009: 10:43pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
GloriousGbola: This is correct but the problem with polygamy is that It cannot really be abolished. It is just like prostitution, It can never go away & it will always find a way to bounce back. Americans tried to abolish it but they have baby mamas every where now, an average American lady has 2 kids for 2 different fathers. In fact I stay up late nights to watch Kendra G on Youtube (A late night American dating show), majority of the women who come around are working class who has at least 1 kid. You'd almost never find a lady on the show without kids already. Also remember that polygamy practiced in a backward nation such as Nigeria is having so many kids which is quite different from polygamy practiced by elites in the West. Bill Gates had a lady he spends some weeks with once a year, this continued for a very long time before the divorce. The same with Jeff Bezos, this is a common pattern within the US elite community. They care about the quality time they spend with this other woman & not number of kids. So regardless of whether you support it or oppose it, It is never going away. |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by Sweetvie: 10:54pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
jeff1607:Exactly, l don't even cares about the women. Not like they were forced My main concern is the kids, the psychological impact on the children, their mental health. Polygamy is not really healthy. Children from a polygamous family has higher Global severity index. |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by Kelechi009: 11:01pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Sweetvie: Lol, are you sure? Those same women that do Voodoo so the other wife will fall sick or kill the other wives kids? 1 Like |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by Basiljoe: 11:23pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
CuriousStudent:Dumb skull, no one is telling women what to think, how to feel blah blah blah, we are just stating your obvious behavior based on real life observations. Sorry to disappoint your silly skull. I am rich and also a high value man, now go kill yourself ![]() Keep crying. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by tragergeorge(m): 11:26pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Rokiat:Hungry go just beat una... Go read the everything wen the manchi write and understand I nor know wetin man do you |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by Sweetvie: 11:30pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Kaytixy: My dad neighbor in Nigeria, a Muslim man with 2 wives, like those guys literally fight everyday with weapons. And you think it will not affect the kids? You guys are one of the rare cases and polygamy is mostly practice in north, it not a big deal for them. 6 Likes |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by Basiljoe: 11:31pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Zooposki:Lmao. You sound f.u.ck.ing paranoid. Nobody cares about you and your useless plight in reality, now rest please. "Remember, attention is the coin of the realm in female society." - Book 1, RM |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by Sweetvie: 11:35pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Kelechi009:That's why I said I don't care about the women. They can do voodoo and protect themselves but the kids can't. The kids are the ones that will suffer las last 2 Likes |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by VULCAN(m): 12:16am On Aug 09, 2023 |
You don't successfully counter a statement with another statement. You counter a statement with facts. He said men ready and available for marriage are less than the women. This is rather obvious in almost every country on earth since men require a level of financial stability to marry while women require nothing. You countered him that it is 50-50 without any links to prove your statement Pls do better Amarisco: |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by pansophist(m): 12:21am On Aug 09, 2023 |
djkaneo: What I meant is that in every dating market, there are more women who are ready for marriage, compare to men. |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by pansophist(m): 12:28am On Aug 09, 2023 |
Basiljoe: In the west, it's not called polygamy. YOu basically marry one officially, but fork many outside. Thats de facto polygamy. You can even have babies with the concubines. But legally to have two marriage certificates with two women at the same time? of course not. |
Re: In Defense Of Polygamy, And How It Benefits Women The Most by pansophist(m): 12:44am On Aug 09, 2023 |
siofra: You dont have to fight him na ![]() I know one thing for sure, and it is that time, humble us all. A man may dream to be polygamous, but with time, he will accept women will not do it with him, especially if he is not wealthy. A woman may see herself as a diva, and too classy for most men, but like a ripe fruit, if she won't humble to marry and wait for her mr perfect, she will overripe and become less desirable, and even previous low-quality men won't want her. So calm down, and resist the urge to shalaye. Life handles us all, offline ![]() 7 Likes 2 Shares |
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