Olosho

dealslip:
Some of this stories make sense to retards actually. This kind of stories happen around low self esteemed men and retarded women. Thank You

This is exactly how the lady felt until her dawn came.

popcykaylah:
I am going through similar issues. My wife is rude and mean towards me all for reasons that makes no sense . I cook,I clean and spend every kobo I have on the house.but yet I am not appreciated. She threatens me with leaving and she being in love with other men. I worry for our kids and i love us being a family . But she says she's got lots of better men. Right now I am not bothered anymore .. I have suffered so much in putting this marriage together. Na to let her go be next thing

You are obviously a weak man.

And I can guarantee you she has no attraction to you or has lost it.

She most likely settled for you to marry after she has passed her peak (~20 to 27 years old), none of the alpha males that she was giving her puni to smack it took her seriously and she was scared of ending up on the shelf, so she accepted your attention because (a) you are giving her attention, (b) you are a good and trustworthy guy, and (c) you earn enough to provide.

In her mind she has lost in the relationship game and settled for someone she does not want nor highly value. You are a mere back-up option that has been exercised. There are better men in her past and that she has come across recently that can flush her reservoir far better than you.

Your weakness is a turn off to her everytime and highlights her feeling of failure. She takes this feeling out on you because when women feel bad about their lives, they would rather blame someone else than take accountability of what they did wrong.

When a woman dares to ever threaten you that she will leave you, tell her to get the fuuuck out IMMEDIATELY. Tell her not to over-think it and do it now.

Talk less of when a woman is telling you how she fancies other men more than you and you accept it like mumu.

Stoicful:
Most ladies play themselves. I know a lady already on this road. I'm comfortable doing great and she is still attached to NYSC crush who is in another state, struggling...

I'm already dating other women and it will be a big shocker when I tell her I'll be getting married soon.

popcykaylah, now compare yourself to this smarter and stronger man.

IamtheTruth1:


She must have been watching K drama and started having stupid movie scene romantic thoughts in her head…


Now, e don clear to her that everyone is replaceable…

Many women are these delusional.

Carcholce:


You get better eyes. Story is fake as bobriskys boobs

I am in a similar situation, wife left me cos I ws in a financial mess which wasn't so before...
Now am doing fine and working on my life..
She is living her life believing dangote or oteldola will walk into the hotel she work ND wife her.
I always wish her well but nothing can make u come together again.. I pay feeding allowance for my kids every month so don't assume the story is fake

She will likely kill the new wife.

dominique:
All these stupid fake stories composed by men to emotionally blackmail women to endure marriage. It's not a today's something. Make ina keep cooking

Dominique, even you too?

dokkyelele:


I am so sorry about that don't worry healing become to you

Dogshit, meaningless advice/consolation.

Women never solve women's problems.

They leave it or compound it.

squash47:
Congratulations to him.

A cooked up piece to scare women into submission

Angelfrost:
Reminds me of Tyler Perry's "Acrimony"!

This man! It's like you were reading my mind...

Irupetepete:

I am in a similar situation, wife left me cos I ws in a financial mess which wasn't so before...
Now am doing fine and working on my life..
She is living her life believing dangote or oteldola will walk into the hotel she work ND wife her.
I always wish her well but nothing can make u come together again.. I pay feeding allowance for my kids every month so don't assume the story is fake

A man's loyalty is tested when he has many beautiful women after him and into him.

A woman's loyalty is tested when a man is facing financial struggle for a long stretch.

fyzaila:
She refused to forgive herself and move on. Kept herself trapped in the past which is hunting her present state.

Forgiveness is easy, forgetting is almost impossible. The pain of regret is absolutely traumatizing.

Gamesmart:


Damn right!

Hence, why I am not commenting on it.

Na nonsense!

I don't know the veracity of this particular story, but believe me, I've seen similar happen to close friends and family. It's almost like a running theme among them that they wish they could go back in time and make different choices...

seanwilliam:
Fake story

Omo Ibadan how u take know say na fake story?

wonlasewonimi:
I have seen this happen on a regular basis.

Izza common occurrence, people don't learn.

maestro299:
I don't know the veracity of this particular story, but believe me, I've seen similar happen to close friends and family. It's almost like a running theme among them that they wish they could go back in time and make different choices...

GBAMSOLUTELY[b][/b]

fyzaila:
She refused to forgive herself and move on. Kept herself trapped in the past which is hunting her present state.

which one is forgive herself? her 'remorse' stems from the fact that the ex is doing better than her, she wont have had such if the ex is still struggling up till now.
like a wise man once said, 'they don't miss you when you are gone, they only miss you when you are doing better'.

That's life for you. I had everything going on well with you, you selfishly destroy it thinking your beauty would last forever. I don't pity women like you 😏😃😏

Candidlady had the same problems. Just that her regrets will come as soon as she clocks 40

popcykaylah:
I am going through similar issues. My wife is rude and mean towards me all for reasons that makes no sense . I cook,I clean and spend every kobo I have on the house.but yet I am not appreciated. She threatens me with leaving and she being in love with other men. I worry for our kids and i love us being a family . But she says she's got lots of better men. Right now I am not bothered anymore .. I have suffered so much in putting this marriage together. Na to let her go be next thing

You are a very weak and senseless fool and your foolishness will cost you your life. Even if you are weak, pity your parents and your children. Do you want them to lose you?

She sees you as an obstacle to get happiness and will eventually kill you to move close to the happiness she so much craves. If she can't get it as a divorcee, she will get it as a widow.

You should start making alternative plans cos that lady will kill you.

Something is wrong on this platform. I thought the women bashing was a phase like most things but now it’s becoming a permanent part of the platform. Have incels taken over?

There use to be some intelligent and funny people on here but now it’s just Incels and frustrated people. It’s sad af.

popcykaylah:
I am going through similar issues. My wife is rude and mean towards me all for reasons that makes no sense . I cook,I clean and spend every kobo I have on the house.but yet I am not appreciated. She threatens me with leaving and she being in love with other men. I worry for our kids and i love us being a family . But she says she's got lots of better men. Right now I am not bothered anymore .. I have suffered so much in putting this marriage together. Na to let her go be next thing

Never be afraid to let go, you shouldn't tolerate an unreasonable spouse. ✌️

Your kids will be fine.

seanwilliam:
Fake story

Could be fiction, but it happens

Malawian:

which one is forgive herself? her 'remorse' stems from the fact that the ex is doing better than her, she wont have had such if the ex is still struggling up till now.
like a wise man once said, 'they don't miss you when you are gone, they only miss you when you are doing better'.

You're right

rossovu:

Forgiveness is easy, forgetting is almost impossible. The pain of regret is absolutely traumatizing.

True

sukkot:
that mane said wotowoto

I'm on my way to 30, I cant believe i can no longer take more that one satchet of nescafe or Lipton again.. stomache ache....

I'm actually ver anxious as i am now... i sleep nd wake uo with that single thought that 30 is here.... scarry.. to me, it's very scary..

Acrimony

Enjoy the consequences of your actions while it last

No sorries for her.

I have noticed something about most girls, of this generation. Any little misunderstanding, they just block or call off the relationship.

Beauty they say, use to fade and besides, you seems to be the problem here!

Uptownerd:

Regrettably, most will still repeat your mistakes and continue with the blame game.

I keep telling niggas and bannies who'd like to hear that marriage/relationship is one hell of a work and until we began to put in the work we'd be left with awnnnn and breakfast.

Minus promise of sex and the monetary benefits, most folks roaming our streets have no business with marriages/relationships, what most are looking for is purely transaction and nothing more.