What would make a person create such a thread

michaelponle:
When it started like play you were overlooking it, how can a man sleep and you Bae/wife will go to club and you forgave, she knew you won't do anything that's why she had the guts.
It means a man came to pick her and came to drop her at your place, if all you have told us is true, then you are extremely a weak and emotional unbalance fellow.
Shake your self stand strong, stop running and calling people for help..........Be mean, firm and have sense.

It's the modern day wife and not just about the male. Women now hate wifey and feminine roles. The modern woman has been taught to believe wifey roles is weak and her actions more than half of the time is to rebel and to fight normal. Many times its not just about being firm. Many of these ladies have developed a fixed way of interpreting life and by extension they behave the opposite of what's expected to present themselves as strong.


Many more marriages will end this way in this generation. And it's not just about males being flexible or not being firm

cocoberry:
Na so my papa born four outside o, come dey deny the last born, omo the last born na him resemble us pass...The mama say na mistake, 1 2 3 4 ? Certainly not mistake, this na deliberate.

Only you following all these males. Na wa o Modern woman

Perfectsouth:
I will never do DNA, if am still sane today it is because of those kids.. If they turn out not to be mine, bro you don't wanna know the outcome

You are not being wise. It seems you have a thing for making continous wrong decisions. You will never do a DNA test


It seems like someone said you're mad to suffer. Smh. You know the right thing to do but don't like doing it

Dreyton36:
Damn this got me deep

Bro on Friday this coming week
Send me a mail and identify yourself , I'll bless you with 100K it's a promise

INSHA ALLAHU

but on one condition, you must let go of that woman , stay safe

Woow. Thanks for lending a hand out.


This is good.

Nice

Perfectsouth:
no matter what happens, those kids will never suffer their mother's sin....
Wish she could give me my kids but she is using them as her bargaining chip

There's something you're blinding everyone to.


There's another issue that's crucial in your life that this issue has eclipsed. If I mentor you for one year, you'll see the positive change


But I will advice you to go and look for a very good apostle and submit yourself underneath his mentorship

It's apostolic covering and impactation you need

xtervaganza:
it's a long story. Maybe one day I'll share but all I can say is that the guy needs to leave without ever looking back

I agree. I avoided 2 by first of all checking and I ran unscathed

Genea:
First of, you trust a lot. Secondly, you don’t have a wife, stop sleeping with her. Thirdly, distance yourself from all these people and just chat with them cause of your kids, in fact collect your kids and annul your marriage, Lastly, if ever you get into a new relationship, don’t be a walkover, people have problems, you can’t solve everything, so mind your finances and help only when you can. Stop borrowing or using your tour last card to help people, you aren’t a messiah

D sweating almost ruined the fine makeup

Beverlyjean:
The only thing o have to say to u is that u are a natural fool

Easy my dear. Not to the already psychologically weary

xtervaganza:
maybe I should tell you my own story but it's too long. All I will advise you is to leave that family. I was once like struggling from hand to mouth despite working hard like a mad man with nothing to show for it. All my suffering ended the moment I dumped my ex wife and moved on to better things.


Now I look back at my life 2/3 years ago and just thank God cos I've been blessed beyond my own imagination

Why not share to teach younger men coming behind a thing or two like this Op is doing here

JoeEeL:
Sorry bro.

Most of the ladies we have now na olosho o. Coded and non-coded oloshos.

It's the new normal cos in the end, na still men dey f*ck them. The problem is believing you have a jewel as gf or wife. You just gats have very low expectations to be sane.

Girls will always f*ck for money and for flair. They will always do runs whether u like it or not.

As a guy, introversion does not pay at all. You sef be bad. If you won't be bad, ensure u catch a very young girl whom u can vouch for that is not bad. Otherwise, you'll end up being a loser cos na girls f*ck pass when them young. Both young and old men want to f*ck them. But as a young guy, your options are really limited, unless raba full your hand o.

You just gats have very low expectations to be sane.

You've said it all

Perfectsouth:
thanks for your words bro..
You see, some of us just want to live a life of one man one wife, no broken home, peace of mind and have a very happy home..
There is no way I explain it that people will understand the indept of it but I thank everyone for understanding..
Am even surprised no one is saying maybe am lying or trying to paint her bad, seems most people have witnessed this type of thing first hand

Stop it. Stop the I don't want anything to touch her. I have much to say to you too but because I'm not assured of your attention, I'll keep to myself. Go and divorce her and prove she's unsuitable to hold on to the kids. This is where to start

CaptainZubi:

Pls I need mature responses here not kids. The romance and jokes section is there for you
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We're you at any time very successful in your endeavor out of the midst of surrounding friends?


They may have " fired " you this particular condition without you knowing. There's just one clue whenever this happens and it's always a source I wish not to fully speak on publicly but is always projected at someone when they are succeeding in their endeavors


There's always the desire to sleep like if you wake you up from even 7 hours sleep, you feel like sleeping right away. If its this, then you need do legwork o

Don't disvirgin her

He should sell the land. How much does he want to sell?

Juliearth:





Sorry about that again.
Dont let these few bad experiences scar you completely about us. There are a few good ones amongst us. I am sure you know that already.

I know atleast 5 guys who are dying to be hitched. We are watching sha

mejai:
This ass talks too much like an over banged doggy style pussy that farts


Queefing jor

Anyanma

Juliearth:






Sorry about your past ordeals. Mind sharing?

Just the typical issues you already know about your sisters

Juliearth:




Your givings are apt! However, you should also understand that this ideology doesn't always pan out like the way you are projecting it in all cases. These days, it seems the virtuous ones have been relegated to the bridal train and asoebi community and the slay queens are bagging the medals of marriage.


The believe is that a woman who starts and stands by her man when he is at ground zero is honoured, but it seems the new mantra is "dump her and pick a befitting slay queen once you peak".

With these facts, I am tempted to think that all it takes is luck. Luck to get a (wo)man whose intentions are genuine and also same luck to make the marriage successful.

After falling into the hands of terrible women, I've come to the conclusion that great luck exists around finding a woman who's intentions are genuine

badmusatari:


What do you have there? How many minutes drive ti Lagos like Ikeja?

1 hour from Berger