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Education › Re: Nigerian Student Hid Food Under Table To Eat While Lecture Was Ongoing by 9jaBloke:
He must have been really hungry. If you've never been there, you won't understand.
Crime › Re: Kidnapped Bethel Student Refuses To Return, Says He’s Comfortable With Bandits by 9jaBloke: 10:10am On Feb 07, 2022
Stockholm syndrome or failed parenting.....idk
Romance › Re: What's Your Plan B If Nobody Marries You? by 9jaBloke: 11:32am On Feb 06, 2022
Live happily
Education › Re: 1st african to graduate from havard university is dead by 9jaBloke: 10:33am On Feb 06, 2022
Nigeria is richest in human resources
Crime › Re: EndSARS: Implement Panels’ Reports To Prevent Another Protest, Segalink Urges FG by 9jaBloke: 6:27am On Feb 06, 2022
Sell out
Politics › Re: Governorship Ticket: Sanwo-Olu Rejects PDP's Offer - Gboyega Akosile by 9jaBloke: 1:27pm On Feb 04, 2022
grin
Politics › Re: 2023 Presidency: Tinubu’s SWAGA, TSG Clash Over Harmonisation by 9jaBloke: 1:18pm On Feb 04, 2022
smiley
Sports › Re: Gareth Bale Is Filmed LAUGHING At Eden Hazard As The £150m Flop Is Sent Back To by 9jaBloke: 12:40pm On Feb 04, 2022
Ligue 1
EPL
La Liga
Celebrities › Re: Kim Kardashian Racist Joke About Her Kid In 2012 Tweet Goes Viral by 9jaBloke: 12:29pm On Feb 04, 2022
Mountain �️ out of mole hill

SportsHD:
People be digging up niggas pasts.
Jobless peeps


SportsHD:
That's how they convicted Cosby for something he did 100 years ago.
deservedly
Family › Re: How Do I Apologize To My Wife? by 9jaBloke: 11:55am On Feb 04, 2022
You are on nairaland to learn how to ask for forgiveness?

I don't think you are sorry. It's more of regret and fear.

You simply don't deserve her
Education › Re: Jerry Luck, The Pure Water Seller Paid A Visit To His Former Coursemates At EBSU by 9jaBloke: 9:38am On Feb 04, 2022
Has he changed school
Foreign Affairs › Re: US Kills ISIS Leader, Abu Ibrahim al-Hashimi al-Qurayshi by 9jaBloke: 3:01pm On Feb 03, 2022
smiley
Travel › Re: Father Almost Crushed His Son Who Was Hiding Under His Car (Photos) by 9jaBloke: 6:42pm On Feb 02, 2022
Thank you Jesus
Politics › Re: Buhari: Incoming Months, You Will Witness Massive Shift From Insurgency To Peace by 9jaBloke: 4:06pm On Feb 02, 2022
Amen
Family › Re: Help! My Crush Is A Ritualist And His Family Are Aware by 9jaBloke: 6:34pm On Feb 01, 2022
Stay in English classes... Ìrō!
Romance › Re: The Names Yoruba Girls Bear When They Start Dating Yahoo Boys (photo). Add Yours by 9jaBloke: 7:28pm On Jan 31, 2022
cheesy
Celebrities › Re: 5 Top Harry Potter Cast Who Have Died (Photos) by 9jaBloke: 12:43pm On Jan 31, 2022
Lifetime Harry Potter fan. One of the most valuable franchises in the world. J K Rowling is a selfmade billionaire.
Celebrities › Re: Jaruma Makes Donations To Prisoners (Pictures, Video) by 9jaBloke: 11:12am On Jan 29, 2022
If you really want to give, buy and give directly.
Politics › Re: 2023 Presidential Election: The Race Begins by 9jaBloke: 10:46am On Jan 26, 2022
1 contender
Celebrities › Re: Whitemoney Kneels As Pete Edochie Blesses, Prays For Him (Video) by 9jaBloke: 8:51pm On Jan 25, 2022
Otamiemie
Politics › Re: 2023: Adamu Garba To Run For President by 9jaBloke: 7:05am On Jan 24, 2022
So none of you saw 2019
Romance › Re: The 6 Little Things That Melts A Woman's Heart by 9jaBloke:
Who comes up with these thingshuh

If you genuinely love your woman, her heart will melt automatically. Love has no checklist.
Romance › Re: A Man And A Lady On A Motorcycle In Lagos Nigeria (1969) by 9jaBloke: 8:22pm On Jan 22, 2022
Jeon:
I DON'T KNOW WHY PAST GENERATIONS [including black and white race ]ARE BEAUTIFUL [INCLUDING NICE BODY STRUCTURES] EVEN WITHOUT MAKE UP OR PHOTO EDITING.
I was pondering on the same lines earlier today.

Most people had their original complexions and looked way better.
Family › Re: I Fainted When My Wife Said Our Former Neighbor Is The Father Of Our Child by 9jaBloke: 2:13pm On Jan 21, 2022
cry
Pets › Re: Remember My Caucasian Pup. Well He's A Man Now by 9jaBloke: 12:59pm On Jan 21, 2022
Black Caucasian. No racism in the real animal kingdom wink
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Guinea-bissau: AFCON 2021 (2 - 0) On 19th January 2022 by 9jaBloke: 9:53pm On Jan 19, 2022
smiley Jonas Mendes can now commit
Crime › Re: Mozambique: Ritualists Target Bald Men, Believe Their Heads Contain Gold by 9jaBloke: 5:00pm On Jan 19, 2022
Someone should tag tuface
Romance › Re: Help: I'm Love With One Of My Staff by 9jaBloke: 12:49pm On Jan 19, 2022
Vicktorhmustjap:
Hello everyone.

Please I sincerely need your help in terms of advice and counselling.

I am a young man in my mid thirty, has a beautiful wife and 2 kids. I have about 32 staff working for me. Just recently, December to be precise I started developing an emotional attachment to one of my staff. I told her I want her to join me to see a movie and she said she was travelling and she won't be around but January was fine. I knew she was avoiding the outing so I bought a ticket to the movies and sent it to her she never showed up and I didn't call her until work resumed on January 4th and I asked why she didn't come for the movies and she apologise that she was busy.

I told her we can go see the movies now since she initially wanted January, she said she can't that she doesn't want to be seen with a married man, and besides my wife is nice to her and also she doesn't want any girl with her husband when she eventually gets married so she won't want to be with anyone's husband that I belong to someone else.

I told her I don't want sex from her, all I want is from her is a squish relationship. she practically turned it down that she can't because she will be hurt in the end because belong to someone else.

Honestly, I felt hurt because I truly love her. I am more emotionally drawn to her even more than before. We spend considerable time chatting every day and on phones in the evening till night after the day's job. She is not so comfortable spending time in my office as she told me the day I was not in the office everyone kept asking after the boss from her and she felt embarrassed and asked them why can't call to know why I am not in the office.

she said we should please remind her the way it is, just chatting and phone calls and she can't afford to be seen around with a married man.

I really love her and I feel hurt as she is turning me down. I wish I can stop loving her, I really don't know how to stop loving her as I really wish not to hurt her.

Please I need the mature minds here to help give workable suggestions.

please Move to front page

lala
A squish relationship while married is emotional infidelity with potential to degenerate into a sexual affair. Show yourself and your family some respect and move on. The girl in your office is gold btw.
Celebrities › Re: World's Most Body Modified Couple Plan To Embark On '666' Project (photos) by 9jaBloke: 3:22pm On Jan 17, 2022
Agent
Politics › Re: Aregbesola Orders Prison Officers To Shoot Attackers On Sight by 9jaBloke: 2:20pm On Jan 17, 2022
About time
Politics › Re: Afenifere, PANDEF, YCE Kick As Osinbajo Says Nothing Can Separate Nigeria by 9jaBloke: 6:59pm On Jan 16, 2022
Bad company

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