Romance › Re: The Names Yoruba Girls Bear When They Start Dating Yahoo Boys (photo). Add Yours by 9jaBloke: 7:28pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
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Celebrities › Re: 5 Top Harry Potter Cast Who Have Died (Photos) by 9jaBloke: 12:43pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
Lifetime Harry Potter fan. One of the most valuable franchises in the world. J K Rowling is a selfmade billionaire. |
Celebrities › Re: Jaruma Makes Donations To Prisoners (Pictures, Video) by 9jaBloke: 11:12am On Jan 29, 2022 |
If you really want to give, buy and give directly. |
Politics › Re: 2023 Presidential Election: The Race Begins by 9jaBloke: 10:46am On Jan 26, 2022 |
1 contender |
Celebrities › Re: Whitemoney Kneels As Pete Edochie Blesses, Prays For Him (Video) by 9jaBloke: 8:51pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
Otamiemie |
Politics › Re: 2023: Adamu Garba To Run For President by 9jaBloke: 7:05am On Jan 24, 2022 |
So none of you saw 2019 |
Romance › Re: The 6 Little Things That Melts A Woman's Heart by 9jaBloke: 8:11pm On Jan 23, 2022*. Modified: 9:02pm On Jan 23, 2022 |
Who comes up with these things If you genuinely love your woman, her heart will melt automatically. Love has no checklist. |
Romance › Re: A Man And A Lady On A Motorcycle In Lagos Nigeria (1969) by 9jaBloke: 8:22pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Jeon: I DON'T KNOW WHY PAST GENERATIONS [including black and white race ]ARE BEAUTIFUL [INCLUDING NICE BODY STRUCTURES] EVEN WITHOUT MAKE UP OR PHOTO EDITING. I was pondering on the same lines earlier today. Most people had their original complexions and looked way better. |
Family › Re: I Fainted When My Wife Said Our Former Neighbor Is The Father Of Our Child by 9jaBloke: 2:13pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
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Pets › Re: Remember My Caucasian Pup. Well He's A Man Now by 9jaBloke: 12:59pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Black Caucasian. No racism in the real animal kingdom  |
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Guinea-bissau: AFCON 2021 (2 - 0) On 19th January 2022 by 9jaBloke: 9:53pm On Jan 19, 2022 |
 Jonas Mendes can now commit |
Crime › Re: Mozambique: Ritualists Target Bald Men, Believe Their Heads Contain Gold by 9jaBloke: 5:00pm On Jan 19, 2022 |
Someone should tag tuface |
Romance › Re: Help: I'm Love With One Of My Staff by 9jaBloke: 12:49pm On Jan 19, 2022 |
Vicktorhmustjap: Hello everyone.
Please I sincerely need your help in terms of advice and counselling.
I am a young man in my mid thirty, has a beautiful wife and 2 kids. I have about 32 staff working for me. Just recently, December to be precise I started developing an emotional attachment to one of my staff. I told her I want her to join me to see a movie and she said she was travelling and she won't be around but January was fine. I knew she was avoiding the outing so I bought a ticket to the movies and sent it to her she never showed up and I didn't call her until work resumed on January 4th and I asked why she didn't come for the movies and she apologise that she was busy.
I told her we can go see the movies now since she initially wanted January, she said she can't that she doesn't want to be seen with a married man, and besides my wife is nice to her and also she doesn't want any girl with her husband when she eventually gets married so she won't want to be with anyone's husband that I belong to someone else.
I told her I don't want sex from her, all I want is from her is a squish relationship. she practically turned it down that she can't because she will be hurt in the end because belong to someone else.
Honestly, I felt hurt because I truly love her. I am more emotionally drawn to her even more than before. We spend considerable time chatting every day and on phones in the evening till night after the day's job. She is not so comfortable spending time in my office as she told me the day I was not in the office everyone kept asking after the boss from her and she felt embarrassed and asked them why can't call to know why I am not in the office.
she said we should please remind her the way it is, just chatting and phone calls and she can't afford to be seen around with a married man.
I really love her and I feel hurt as she is turning me down. I wish I can stop loving her, I really don't know how to stop loving her as I really wish not to hurt her.
Please I need the mature minds here to help give workable suggestions.
please Move to front page
lala A squish relationship while married is emotional infidelity with potential to degenerate into a sexual affair. Show yourself and your family some respect and move on. The girl in your office is gold btw. |
Celebrities › Re: World's Most Body Modified Couple Plan To Embark On '666' Project (photos) by 9jaBloke: 3:22pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Agent |
Politics › Re: Aregbesola Orders Prison Officers To Shoot Attackers On Sight by 9jaBloke: 2:20pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
About time |
Politics › Re: Afenifere, PANDEF, YCE Kick As Osinbajo Says Nothing Can Separate Nigeria by 9jaBloke: 6:59pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Bad company |
Celebrities › Re: Dj Cuppy's Versace Room In Her Pink Penthouse (Photos) by 9jaBloke: 9:34am On Jan 14, 2022 |
The WC is not Versace  |
Food › Re: Cake Baked For A Civil Engineer By Ibadan Baker (Photos) by 9jaBloke: 7:40pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
I hope say everything na cake o. Make person no go chop cement.  |
Career › Re: Beautiful Female Engineer Turned Painter by 9jaBloke: 10:32am On Jan 11, 2022*. Modified: 10:47am On Jan 11, 2022 |
Kudos to her and her hustle. I like to see hardworking creatives.
I noticed she's not using any fume protective equipment. Paint emits a variety of Volatile Organic Compounds (VOCs) that are very harmful to humans.
Chronic exposure to VOCs, such as those present in interior paint, can lead to damage to the nervous system, liver and kidneys, as well as some types of cancer.
Whoever knows her should ensure to pass the message, tell her to buy a standard paint respirator mask and also learn how to minimize exposure to workplace hazards. |
Politics › Re: NIA Storms Peoples Gazette’s Office, Demands Source Of Memo About Rufai Abubakar by 9jaBloke: 4:14pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: Ladies, A Fine Man Without Muscles Or An Average Looking Man With Muscles? by 9jaBloke: 2:54pm On Jan 09, 2022 |
Forget fineboy and muscle. Just get money. Thank me later. |
Politics › Re: New Year Celebration By Nigerian Christians Unjust To Muslims --MURIC by 9jaBloke: 7:29pm On Jan 08, 2022*. Modified: 9:53pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
They should declare it o. The more holidays, the merrier. Please Traditionalists, Ifa worshippers, atheists should check their calendars too. |
Politics › Re: South-West leads as EFCC secures 2,220 Convictions In 2021 by 9jaBloke: 8:26pm On Jan 06, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: Nigerian Man Proposes To His Girlfriend Onboard A Lagos Bound Flight (Video) by 9jaBloke: 9:02am On Jan 06, 2022 |
 Recorded public proposals are usually cringeworthy but I liked this one. The pilot is a G |
Politics › Re: Buhari: I won't mention the name of my Preferred Successor, he may Be Eliminated by 9jaBloke: 8:38pm On Jan 05, 2022 |
PYO |
Politics › Re: NANS Endorses Umahi To Become President Of Nigeria (Photos) by 9jaBloke: 8:35am On Jan 05, 2022 |
The East and the West always at each other's throats.
The North will always have political control |
Celebrities › Re: Fans Drag Kate Henshaw After Being Spotted Kissing Nse Ikpe-etims Lesbian Sister by 9jaBloke: 9:24pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
 To everyone |
Celebrities › Re: Top Ten Most Rugged Looking Nigerian Musicians by 9jaBloke: 8:53pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
4get Dread & Dye. Na who get mind rugged o. |
Career › Re: Pictures Of How I Stylishly Resumed Work Yesterday (pics) by 9jaBloke: 8:28pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Zeh |
Romance › Re: Is This True About Knacking A Pregnant Woman? by 9jaBloke: 12:07am On Jan 03, 2022 |
What if Dangote is the culprit? |
Politics › Re: Colonel Anthony Obi Is Dead (Photo) by 9jaBloke: 11:07pm On Jan 02, 2022 |
 My Dad's pal. Mid/late 90s Osogbo. I think he later left for Abia |
Christianity Etc › Re: Paul Olawoore, Catholic Bishop Of Ilorin Is Dead by 9jaBloke: 2:34pm On Jan 02, 2022 |
 Requiescat in pace your Lordship May God grant you eternal rest� |