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Abduletudaye:
Screen shot is there na...

True.

LisaAnne:
This one obviously paid to get into the house

He is married to a popular British sportswoman. The car could be hers or could be hired. He is also an entrepreneur, thus he needs the platform for recognition and expansion.

I think the organisers make far too much money from sponsors and viewers to collect bribe from aspiring contestants.

alphaNomega:
After a forensic analysis, nothing can be more true...
Facts are as follows.

1. Pst Biodun did not violently r@pe Busola. He manupulated her into agreeing to open her legs after being romantic with her.
2. Busola was a virgin prior to her experience with Biodun
3. They had multiple consentual s3x as at then
4. She fell madly in love with him as at then
5. He broke her heart as a result of a promise he couldnt fulfill. Maybe she expected him to throw his wife and marry her later on I cant say what that was its between both of them.
6. She became promiscuous due to the emotional trauma Biodun placed on her at an early age.
7. She left a trail of whoredom before she met Timi.
8. They started having crisis in marriage. Timi made her talk
9. Looking back at her life over the years, and how messed up it had been, she connected the dots back to Biodun blaming him for her misery
10. she then came up with the rape story because she felt that consentual sex at that age was still rape(she didnt know at that time tho)
11. shes a pained woman living in regrets of how she ruined her youth and blames Biodun for her mysery
12. She want to see him suffer thats the only way she feels she would heal..

"Hell hath no fury than a scorned woman"


Everyone who has lived a promiscuous life will always try to escape the shame by blaming someone else. She already had in it her to be able to knack the guy on a car bonnet.

We know them. Spoilt adventurous brats. Her sister too was the same and Biodun chopped that one too.

I have seen this exact thing happen to a couple before and they did blame someone else after the husband found out after 10 years that he married an ex runz girl.The man was furious and was pushing the wife to help him file charges against the accused figure. We advised him against it because of the revelations we knew witnesses will bring which his did not know about.

After all the drama they still went their separate ways. The Dakolo guy is in something bigger than he can handle and his wife will never tell him the truth

Guys like Dakolo who place themselves at the top level in terms of moral values never recover when they stupidly start digging up their wife's past. After the anger with Biodun ends it will refocus on the wife.


Biodun 15 years ago was a young boy like Busola with both their hormones raging. The Timi guy is a disgrace to manhood. You dig up your wife's whoring history and she easily manipulated you with the most basic lie that comes naturally to a girl cheesy cheesy "I was raped when I was 15" " I lost my virginity while riding a bicycle" That babe will wake up at night, go to the bathroom open Twitter and have a good laugh at how dumb the world is. I'm starting to like her now sef

Look at this way, fine clean boy Pastor with women throwing themselves at you. His mission was none other than CHOP ONE CHOP ALL. Let's not judge him by who he is now. Times were different in Nigeria then and clearly did not rape her.

He chopped her and the sister and still chopped her again after Dakolo came into the picture. He has a right to be angry. The pastor made an error of judgement and so did the spoilt brat.

THE BIGGEST TRUTH OF IT IS THAT THE DAKOLOS ARE PAINED THAT BIODUN MOVED AHEAD TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL. IF HE WERE A POOR FARMER OR TRUCK PUSHER MRS DAKOLO WOULD HAVE HEALED YEARS AGO. THIS BEHAVIOUR OF BITTERNESS HAS REPEATED ITSELF SO MANY TIMES IN HISTORY. I AM NOT SAYING BIODUN IS CLEAN..NO HE IS SOILED TOO. BUT BUSOLA IS PAINTING HIM FAR DARKER THAN HE IS.

Validate your facts with verifiable proof or STFU

Yes. The case should be thoroughly investigated. That's what is being clamoured for. It's not in our place to believe or doubt Busola. Let's just watch the events unfold.

Get over yourself Tunde. It's not in your place to decide who wins.

Me, i don't care but I'll never support negativity.

tsmat:
And you can?

Most def

KanuSE:
@bolded,

On this occasion, to remain silent could be misinterpreted as admission of guilt.

U gerrit?

Like i earlier stated and i still mean this generally:

If your spouse is accused of a wrongdoing and you know that he/she is guilty, your marriage vows "for better or worse does not justify supporting or defending him/her"
If you are not in on it and you believe your partner is innocent, by all means go ahead and defend him/her even if he/she is eventually found guilty.

Standing by your spouse for better or worse when he/she does something wrong entails confrontation with the truth and assistance in doing the right thing.

It's better to remain silent that to defend a crime in the name of matrimonial solidarity.

Mind you, im still not saying Pastor Biodun is guilty.

Something is fundamentally wrong with many Nigerians.

tsmat:
Easier said than done.
Preach what you can't practice
#Hypocrisy

That's actually the most abused word today. You obviously can't define the word.

hottathanfire:
Do you know what you are saying? She should tell the world she doesnt trust her husband as a wife?

Who said she should tell the world?

At times silence is golden.

You should always tell your spouse the truth. That's my opinion.

imam07:
You are D idiot here. I support nobody in this case. If u follow all my posts what I said is busola lied about the rape accusation. All what she said can't be added up and with this I know it is a consensual love affair between both. First it is not a crime wen a pastor sleeps with another lady under Nigeria law so get this to your brain. We can only say is morally wrong and as a man of God is so shameful for sleeping with another woman.
Mr man, if u are not within ilorin settings u can never understand is issue. Many people in ilorin know biodun fatoyinbo is a randy person and many people including me is against this devilish act. But I will never agree with Busola Dakolo on her word rape.
If u conclude that biodun fatoyinbo raped busola based on her statement or interview, it means u too is guilty of this. Because it is not every or all girlfriend will say YES wen u request for sex from her. If my girlfriend says no and I later spice up my scope and have my way. You go call this rape? And if u tag it rape it means men are all rapist because smart guy will never dull himself. I am against rape when it is really rape but why devilish ladies always use this against men.

I can't make heads or tails of your post. Please repost in plain and correct English or get the f.uck off my mentions. Continue arguing with yourself. Goodbye Rapist.

If she totally believes what she is saying, fine.

If she believes or knows otherwise, wrong.


Generally speaking, standing by your husband for better for worse does not necessarily translate to supporting him if you know he commited a crime.

If your spouse is doing wrong, God is not asking you to support or defend the wrongdoing, rather He wants you to stand and tell your spouse the gospel truth and help him/her get back on track.

Tot it was naptu2. I actually rushed in thinking it was his thread.

Rest on our multitalented Lady of Songs. Your legacy lives on.

Benekruku:
I told you the people you communicating with are rape apologists, rapists and potential rapist.

Imagine them asking you if you have never had sex with an under age before.

Gush! This lots are pathetic!

Yes, those are the idiots defending Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo who we are not even sure is guilty yet and seriously hurting his chances of exonerating himself.

Imagine the impudence of imam07 coming online to ask me to swear that I've never commited statutory rape as if it's normal for every adult male to lay with underaged girls.


My answer is No, Never and I've spotted a Rapist.

imam07:
empty skull for your information at 16yrs u are an adult under Kwara State law.

Rapist, for your information that law was enacted in 2006 and came into force in 2007. The alleged incident occurred before then and the law is not effective retroactively.

Again, Nigeria is signatory to the Child's Right Act at the Federal level and the age of consent therein is 18 years.


Stop sleeping with minors. It's Statutory Rape.

imam07:
who told u she was a minor. Because she lied she was 17? U better go sleep. U fit swear u never Bleep under 18 before?

Yes i fit swear. Everyone is not a rapist/rapist apologist like you.

Lilttle wonder you reason the way you do.

yomi962:
[s][/s] trash

Even if you cancel this again and write thrash, there's no denying the fact that you are pained, depressed and you need professional help. Bye.

TonyeBarcanista:
Written by TonyeBarcanista

I have been following the alleged rape incident between Mrs Bisola Dakolo, the wife of musician Timi Dakolo, and Pastor Biodun, the Senior Pastor at COZA, where Mrs Dakolo alleged that Pastor Biodun had multiple canal knowledge of her without her consent as a then 17 years old teenager, an incident that allegedly happened some 20 years ago.

I have watched the pronouncements of some social media jurists and popular figures, including some politicians, musicians, influencers and actors, with most pronouncing judgement against the accused (Pastor Biodun) and a few others "standing with the accused".

May I add my voice to this subject...

1. Does Being A Philanderer Makes One A Rapist?

A couple of people, including Mr Timi Dakolo, the husband of Bisola, have accused Pastor Biodun to be a man that engage in inappropriate relationship with several female members of his COZA church, while that remains an unproven allegation, some commentators pronounced the pastor as "guilty" of rape because of his too many "womanising scandals", while some others narrated his philandering days in Ilorin, Kwara state, where he allegedly had multiple romps with several ladies of loosed virtues. While the allegations/testimony may be true, half truth or completely untrue, it still does not help the allegation of Mrs Bisola.

Rape is non-consented sexual relations and it is a criminal offence. Having multiple sexual partners is not a crime under the law irrespective of moral or spiritual opinion.

2. Bisola Dakolo Herself Was Accused of Having Sexual Relations With COZA Clerics

On May 30, a certain female with Instagram handle @elenapipper informed Mr Timi Dakolo that his own wife, Bisola, who incidentally is the accused of Pastor Biodun, was involved in illicit sexual relationship with Pastors of COZA church and some of her choir colleagues. While the claim of Elena remains an allegation, I believe that "2+2" should be put together by social media jurists if their intent is to give social media justice. I am yet to see the response of Timi and Bisola to that allegation and in all honesty, I expect the Dakolos to sue Elena for defamation/libel so as to prove their innocence- just like several social media jurists have challenged Pastor Biodun to do.

3. The Media Is Not The Appropriate Place To Lodge Criminal Complaint

I have said it umpteenth time that the media, be it traditional media or social media, is not a police station to lodge criminal complaints. The traditional media is interested in selling papers while the social media is highly interested in cashing out on trending issues. Popular faces and celebrities are interested in jumping on trending issues so as to stay relevant while influencers are interested in swaying perception. Majority of these commentators and social media jurists aren't interested in vindicating the innocent and to bring the real guilty party to JUSTICE. I heard of a planned protest at COZA Church by some so-called CSOs, but that again is just to sway public opinion and not necessarily see to that JUSTICE is done.

However, the appropriate thing for Bisola Dakolo to do is to first go to the Police station nearest to her, report the case, get her witnesses and other evidence, assist the Police in their investigation and ensure that the accused is charged appropriately to establish his innocence or guilt and get justice, which can only be dispensed by the court.

4. My Position On The Rape Allegation By Bisola Against Pastor Biodun

Rape is a crime against humanity and a robbery of ones dignity, it is a serious crime that should be treated as an offence worse than armed robbery- because the victim is robbed mentally, emotionally and psychologically.

However, rape accusation is one that should be properly lodged at the Police station and investigated by the appropriate police officer, and if found to be true, the perpetrator be punished. But if otherwise, the accuser be punished. As such, I neither agree with the accuser (Bisola) nor the accused (Pastor Biodun) just yet, but proper investigation be done.


Convulsively, we should allow wisdom be our guide in making judgement! May justice be done!


TonyeBarcanista can be reached via gmail at TonyeBarcanista@gmail.com

https://www.thebreakingtimes.com/rape-allegation-between-bisola-pastor-biodun-and-social-media-jurists-tonyebarcanista/

Philandering/sex with minors is being a rapist

sweetrace:
I’m never on anyone’s side. I am on the side of the truth of issues. I don’t know the pastor and can not speak for him. But I hate bullying! I understand false accusation. I have come to understand the way people garner support especially when the accusation is false. I know first hand that people go out of their way to destroy others for money, jealousy, ego and for no reason whatsoever. I don’t know that the Dakolos are okay financially. I don’t believe decent people will resolve issues this way. They will go to a court of law and not a court of public opinion. They may choose to confront the offender or they’ll simply do positive things to facilitate their healing.
Dakolo has a way with the public. The original competition that brought him to limelight was not his to win. Omowunmi was better than him, but he won because of the polls. People felt like he was a decent underdog and voted for him. To use this influence to destroy another human being is all shades of wrong. Plus his wife’s story has too many loopholes in it. But since I don’t know the facts, I believe both parties should take this to court. What on earth do the Dakolos want to achieve with this?
At that, the attention this case is receiving is way out of proportion. Wild people shouting at members of a place of worship: shame! Rapist! Are the members the accused? Is the accusation legal? Don’t people have the right to worship where the want to? Why can’t the wild ones go to the respective government officials and shout wildly at them?

You are not on anyone's side you say but your entire narrative says otherwise. You don't know the pastor but you understand false accusation. I'm not saying Biodun is guilty but 'why always him?' is a good question at this point.

You even went as far back as 2007 to register your dislike for Timi Dakolo, yet you are not on anyone's side you say.

You can't hold the Dakolo's responsible for the support they are getting and the way their supporters are acting. Rape is a sensitive issue and i pray you don't experience it.

Pastor Biodun should just initiate legal proceedings if he is sure of his innocence.

27Pushing30:
Accused of rape before? By who

Where did you see 'accused of rape'?

yomi962:
[s][/s] how bro, how do you know he did it, na you be judge and the executioner without evidence after 17years, 3times and she did not tell any one. all that he story na tales by moon light. this una hypocricy is disgusting

My comment was generic.

If you want my view on Busola Vs Biodun Fatoyinbo go to the thread below:

https://www.nairaland.com/5273798/biodun-fatoyinbo-rusticated-unilorin-over#79806382


Then for calling me disgusting, you need grow up and start using your brains absent emotions.

johnlvis:
Love the wife's courage. For better for worse u have to stand by your husband.

Agreed but standing by your husband doesn't necessarily translate to supporting evil. If your spouse is doing wrong, God is not asking you to support or defend the wrongdoing, rather He wants you to stand and tell your spouse the gospel truth and help him/her get back on track.

Good question

Acidosis:
This is thoughtful and funny at the same time. I said funny because this issue won't get into any court. Ese Walters protested fiercely on twitter yet Fatoyinbo did not approach a court. The next news we would hear is my wife or my congregation advised me to leave the matter to God.

Ese did not press charges and Biodun Fatoyinbo would not have been arrested even if she did because she was an adult and she didn't accuse him of rape. She said he took advantage of her via consensual sex.
Busola on the other was a minor when he had carnal knowledge of her, so even if she consented, it's still statutory rape.

Busola can decide not to press charges for obvious reasons but if Biodun Fatoyinbo does not take legal action like he threatened, then he's probably guilty.

sweetrace:
I agree that this case should be investigated. But please o, what does Busola do for a living? I thought she was a photographer and her husband a musician who releases songs once in a while. So, I don’t see her as well off. Probably average at best. So, yes she can be a broke desperate opportunist. Because, I’m beginning to think there’s so much more to this. This is not a rape allegation anymore. This is a move to destroy this man completely. I just wonder whose toes he stepped on?

Hey sweetrace, don't think i haven't thought about the bolded, i have. That's why I'm urging everyone to calm down and approach this issue logically. In as much as the Dakolos may not be crazy rich, you can't deny the fact that they are okay financially and they come across as very decent people so it's probably not a money issue. You are obviously on Pastor Biodun's side, you have a right to but it's too early to conclude that Busola is lying.

iswallker:
Someone has to recommend this case for trial my brother. It is not every someone raoed me 19 yes ago case that will appear in court. Busola doesn't have any intention to go to court - if she did she won't go to social media..the next thing is for her and her family to go underground..because people will ask for proof and they got none..

Pastor F already said he will take legal action, so one way or the other, it will go to trial. Don't be too certain that they don't have proof to nail him. Just keep an open and unbiased mind. That's the basis of my initial post.

Nigeria my Beloved Country. Everyone knows that Saraki, like most government officials is guilty of corruption and embezzlement. If EFCC nails him; one down, many to go.

I just want this anti-corruption war to be fought holistically. Investigate everyone that has held political office since the beginning of the Fourth Republic and everyone that has been petitioned (including Magu).

I have no sympathy for crimminals. If the law doesn't get them, karma will.

There's no proof yet that Busola is saying the truth, but she is not some broke/desperate opportunist looking for cheap popularity and pocket change. She's living a good life and has her reputation and that of her family to protect.

Pastor Fatoyinbo could be innocent of the allegation but this is not a one-off case as he has been accused before. It is still very possible that he is innocent of all the allegations. So i don't think a sentence should be passed until he has been given a chance to fully address the issue (s) and defend himself.

Busola on the other hand deserves to be taken very seriously. Rape is a grievous crime and it has become endemic in Nigeria.

However, anyone standing completely with Busola without giving Pastor F benefit of the doubt is unnecessarily emotional and guilty of fallacy of hasty conclusion.

Anyone defending Pastor F without asking for the case to be thoroughly investigated is a Potential Rapist.

The ideal thing to do is to let the case go to trial and listen to both parties give their accounts under oath.

Even though i don't fully believe in our judicial system, i feel that if we listen attentively to both sides of the story, somewhere along the line, the whole truth will emerge.

There's no proof yet that Busola is saying the truth, but she is not some broke/desperate opportunist looking for cheap popularity and some pocket change. She's living a good life and has a reputation and that of her family to protect.

Pastor Fatoyinbo could be innocent of the allegation but this is not a one-off case as he has been accused before. It is still very possible that he is innocent of all the allegations. So i don't think a sentence should be passed until he has been given a chance to fully address this issue (s) and defend himself.

Busola on the other hand deserves to be taken very seriously. Rape is a grievous crime and it has become endemic in Nigeria.

Anyone standing completely with Busola without giving Pastor F benefit of the doubt is unnecessarily emotional and guilty of fallacy of hasty conclusion.

Anyone defending Pastor F without asking for the case to be thoroughly investigated is a Potential Rapist.

The ideal thing to do is to let the case go to trial and listen to both parties give their accounts under oath.

Even though i don't fully believe in our judicial system but i feel that if we listen attentively to both sides of the story, somewhere along the line, the truth will emerge.

There's no proof yet that Busola is saying the truth, but she is not some broke/desperate opportunist looking for cheap popularity and some pocket change. She's living a good life and has a reputation and that of her family to protect.

Pastor Fatoyinbo could be innocent of the allegation but this is not a one-off case as he has been accused before. It is still very possible that he is innocent of all the allegations. So i don't think a sentence should be passed until he has been given a chance to fully address this issue (s) and defend himself.

Busola on the other hand deserves to be taken very seriously. Rape is a grievous crime and it has become endemic in Nigeria.

Anyone standing completely with Busola without giving Pastor F benefit of the doubt is unnecessarily emotional and guilty of fallacy of hasty conclusion.

Anyone defending Pastor F without asking for the case to be thoroughly investigated is a Potential Rapist.

The ideal thing to do is to let the case go to trial and listen to both parties give their accounts under oath.

Even though i don't fully believe in our judicial system but i feel that if we listen attentively to both sides of the story, somewhere along the line, the truth will emerge.

There's no proof yet that Busola is saying the truth, but she is not some broke/desperate opportunist looking for cheap popularity and some pocket change. She's living a good life and has a reputation and that of her family to protect.

Pastor Fatoyinbo could be innocent of the allegation but this is not a one-off case as he has been accused before. It is still very possible that he is innocent of all the allegations. So i don't think a sentence should be passed until he has been given a chance to fully address this issue (s) and defend himself.

Busola on the other hand deserves to be taken very seriously. Rape is a grievous crime and it has become endemic in Nigeria.

Anyone standing completely with Busola without giving Pastor F benefit of the doubt is unnecessarily emotional and guilty of fallacy of hasty conclusion.

Anyone defending Pastor F without asking for the case to be thoroughly investigated is a Potential Rapist.

The ideal thing to do is to let the case go to trial and listen to both parties give their accounts under oath.

Even though i don't fully believe in our judicial system but i feel that if we listen attentively to both sides of the story, somewhere along the line, the truth will emerge.