₦airaland Forum

kerzhim:
The two above collegues are just being sentimental. Its so unfortunate that Africa as a continent has never put it self in a position where technology will favour us. How many of those girls has ever played under the watch of a VAR technology? Lets be realistic...... Africa is so backward in all ramifications.

Which other females had played under VAR before? Seeing as this is the first time it’s being used...
Abegi, don’t indulge in SELF-HATRED. Problem with VAR is that it is still subject to human decisions and thus susceptible to any prejudices.
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Why was he on the road sef? So he doesn’t have a private jet? Not my mate....Mtcheeewwww!
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Donald95:
This boys should focus on their school.

I was once a fan until they mimicked Dino Malaye. A man old enough to father their mum. That shows they are not properly trained

But Dino Melaye is a clown na...
So why shouldn’t he be mimicked?!
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Not a good sign that LASTMA doesn’t know it’s own abbreviated name...
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You can address BOTH...
They are NOT mutually exclusive.
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Mk12:
I want to see your comment against ordega violent behavior before you came across this man comment

My post was in direct RESPONSE to a fellow NLer who voluntarily SHARED an opinion with the rest of us NLers...
If Ordega was on NL blathering on about “beating the daylights out of” her ex or “resetting his brain” rest assured I will call her out! SMH
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So Buhari has been commissioning UNCOMPLETED projects since way back when...
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Enyimbamercedes:
So everything from the bush is bush meat?
You enter the bush to defecate, get spooked by some strange noise and in blind panic you run out and get hit by a car. Does that make you bush meat?

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You may face an even greater danger from the mast toppling over...
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Mk12:
that can also be said to mean if a woman beat me,I will beat her back(self-defense). why do women always find it hard to accept that slapping a man makes you a manbeater?
here is ordega admitting that she use to assault her partner and instead of seeing a problem with that, you are here condemning a man who say he will defend himself when face with such violent and aggressive behavior from a woman.
or do you think it is only women who face domestic violence? if you think so, you need to change your mind because here is ordega admitting she used to assault her boyfriend and that makes her a manbeater

The danger of jumping into the midst of an ongoing discourse without context...

9jaRealist:
While I am also against women beating men...
“Beating the daylights out of” a woman just because she slapped you is NOT self-defense.

Nonetheless, the point is that you shouldn’t say “I don’t beat women” when you clearly will.
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kennygee:
A lot of underage kids are having wilful sex.

I'm just saying that the young man was probably prosecuted cause new poor. If na rich man pikin, we no go hear this matter.

jchioma:
At 16, most girls are already sexually active and of course, one of the bye product of sex is pregnancy.

Abeg, free the boy jare.

Legally, that’s irrelevant
As a minor, she cannot give informed consent to sex.

The law protects minors from their poor/rash judgment...
That’s why no-one can legally enforce a contract against a minor.
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Timileyin1234:
I think they have amended the law from 18 to 16

Under the Child Rights Act (which Niger State has domesticated), it is 18 years...
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GTFO:
yes, just following your Dad's footsteps

If your mum knew which of her customers were your dad...
He would be proud of your following his footsteps as a guttersnipe! SMH
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GTFO:
shut up GUY!!!

will the court remands over 50 years NED for impregnating REGINA soon too

hypocrites errwhere!!!

Are you high?

Regina Daniels is an ADULT by law...
She can give legal consent and enter into an enforceable contract. SMH
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GTFO:
shut up GUY!!!

You sound like a paedophilia...
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kennygee:
Can we call this a crime.

Tbh, most 16 year olds are more psychologically and sexually mature than a man who is 20.

Na just 4 years difference na.

The only reason this is an issue is probably because the guy is broke. Maybe a mai lemu or a mai shayi and daddy had better plans for his daughter to marry an alhaji.

Abegi, let’s not start encouraging paedophilia...
The mental difference between 16 and 20 is much wider than (for example) between 41 and 45.
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Mk12:
His statement is clear. What he means is he don't normally beat women but will be force to do it in that situation.
I have seen someone rushed to the hospital because she was dying from only one slap so a slap is also beating. I have also heard of how a man in my community slapped a taxi driver and he ended up dying from just one slap.

If you slap your man, you are already beating him . You can be refers to as a manbeater because I don't see any other reason that will make you slap someone except to beat him. Any other thing he does to you is self-defense.
I have read about case of murder cases against women being converted to homicide because her actions were taken to defend herself from the man attack.
So if a murder case can be term self-defense, why do you think ordinary beating cannot be self-defense?

And again, just for the record...
NOT TRUE! Defense and response are NOT synonymous.

Self-defense is a legal construct...
And the law requires it be both proportionate and reasonable.

Also, all murder are homicides and thus CANNOT be “converted to homicide”...
Murder is a legal term, so while all deaths are homicides not all homicides are murder.
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Mk12:
His statement is clear. What he means is he don't normally beat women but will be force to do it in that situation.
I have seen someone rushed to the hospital because she was dying from only one slap so a slap is also beating. I have also heard of how a man in my community slapped a taxi driver and he ended up dying from just one slap.

If you slap your man, you are already beating him . You can be refers to as a manbeater because I don't see any other reason that will make you slap someone except to beat him. Any other thing he does to you is self-defense.
I have read about case of murder cases against women being converted to homicide because her actions were taken to defend herself from the man attack.
So if a murder case can be term self-defense, why do you think ordinary beating cannot be self-defense?

Be “forced” by what/whom?
Supernatural powers beyond his control?

Meanwhile, please dispense of the EXTREME examples to try to score cheap polemic points. The fact that in an EXTREME case someone might be rushed to the hospital because of a slap (and I seriously doubt that was a female’s slap) does not equate every slap to a life-threatening situation. In fact, such EXTREME case is analogous to saying because car accidents can kill people can resort to deadly force every time there’s a car accident. Or because people have choked on a chicken bone, whenever someone serves you a chicken bone it’s attempted murder.

The point is that we can proceed infinitum with citing EXTREME examples or making RIDICULOUS analogies, but the dude’s Plain English words are clear enough. He states UNEQUIVOCALLY that if a woman slaps him like Oderga reportedly did to her ex (not beat him), he will lustily “beat the living daylights out of her” and “reset her brain”. If he is subsequently contrite at his own words, that’s a good thing (none of us is the finished product and life is a continuous learning experience), but let’s not engage in this rigmarole of childish semantic sophistry.
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APOPTOSIS:
But they said his MOTHER was later murdered.
The KIDNAPPERS have been arrested. They confessed to it, that they killed her since the money wasn't forthcoming....
The VIDEO is everywhere

She was released ALIVE and UNHURT...
After a reported N3 million was paid (initial demand was for N15 million).

Meanwhile, the video of the arrested kidnapper.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hDroBbQ03Ak

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eherbal:
the traffic law is Draconian and evil. community service with mugshot of offenders pasted on front pages of newspapers and social media,with the inscription," I'm a traffic offender" is enough deterrent.
the law should be challenged in court

Abegi, most Nigerians don’t have the shame gene...
Anyway, in virtually every advanced nation, most traffic offenses incur a monetary fine.
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BluePrincee:
I don't beat women, but God save that woman that will slap me first. I will beat the living day light out of her! Her brain will be reset to factory settings. Rubbish!!

Mk12:
is slapping not beating? why should we be sure she is not going to give you another slap if you don't defend yourself?
have you ever seen anyone who receive a slap, walkaway ,then come back later to start beating the one who slap him?
suppose a thief attacked you with a knife or stick and maybe you saw a weapon that could make you overpower him, will you wait to see if he will stab or hit you again before delivering your own attack?
never will a woman give me a slap especially in my face and you expect me to keep calm

I know you are just trying to argue Sha

Dude, even you did not previously equate a slap to a beating much less to “beating the daylights out of” someone...
Meanwhile, “beating the daylights out of” a WOMAN is neither proportionate to a slap nor a defensive action (rather but an offensive one).

Anyway, not quite sure why you keep belaboring the since-settled discourse...
My point remains UNCONTRADICTED that you shouldn’t say “I don’t beat women” when you’ve clearly stated (and since restated) otherwise.
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adetes:
When u know u v nothing to do with the man, y did u collect money from him and y did u accept his proposal

So money justifies taking a life?
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CanadaOrBust:
Poor guy

DISGUSTING!
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Elder0001:
Shut up and rest .

And if I don’t...
Will you beat the “living daylights out of” me?
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ZOO!

The DPO, the cop who helped him and even his girlfriend should all be prosecuted!
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These Lekki Gardens people again?
This company is building up a HORRIBLE reputation.

RIP to the dude...
Hope his family gets deserved justice!
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Mk12:
what do you normally use in beating people? is not slaps, punches, and maybe cane ?
if she slap you is that not beating?
I never remembered saying you should start combing the neighborhood looking for her so you can beat her.
have you ever seen any man combing the neighborhood looking for his girl so he can beat her?

I see you do not get the point of the combing the neighborhood analogy...

A response is not necessarily synonymous with a defense. You can shoot someone in the process attacking you with DEADLY force (not a broomstick, for instance), but not after the attack is over. Slapping you once is not synonymous with beating. Don’t shift the monkeyposts.
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So Naija dudes are not the only demons out there?

My sister, it may hurt badly now...
But this is probably one of the BEST things to happen to you.

Meanwhile, even though the new bride likely did not know of his duplicity...
She cannot now say that she has not been put on notice herself wrt the future.
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Abalado:
Do u think if u have a good character and the guy would left u for another girl? May be u people met at the club where u re climbing the pole to dance and ure expecting him to marry u, right? Marry kor, Mary ni, or may be u have a lot of guys and men fucking u around and he didn't talk, u thought the guy was a fool? Sey? My dear, if ure a good woman to the so called guy, he wont let u go, that's the fact, so continue with ur olosho may be u will still meet another mugu that will put u at home as his wife... Good day, awon oniranu omo, may be she's getting older now and she want to settle down by fire by force, if u take any bad step on the new couple, ogun will kee u there

Sorry dude, but it says a whole lot more about the guy’s character than hers...smh
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Mk12:
spiting may not risk your life but slap will.
when she slap you she may likely cause you bodily harm same as when you beat her.
a more appropriate comparison should be when you shoot a thief who attack you with a stick or knife in your house

“Beating the daylights out of” a woman who merely slapped you (even if it harms more than your ego) is neither a defensive action nor a proportionate one. Defense and response are not necessarily synonymous.

PS: Btw, if a thief attacks you with a stick in your house and runs away, you cannot go combing through the neighborhood for him with an AK-47 rifle and claim self-defense.
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gypsey:
you may be right.

but.

The law formalizes the process of seeking Assistance from any country that Nigeria has RECIPROCAL bilateral agreement with. in regards to what?

Arrest and prosecution, Right?

It could be a wide range of assistance, ranging from the provision of information and documents to arrest and extradition - but will still depend on the specific mutual assistance treaty signed with each individual foreign country (where there is no such treaty, this law will be toothless).
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Is it by force...
Anyone who feels the job is beneath her does not need to apply.
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