Politics › Re: London Judge Orders Confiscation Of $130M From Ex-governor Ibori by 9jaRealist: 10:06pm On Jul 21, 2023 |
Greyworld: Well its not very much out of place cos the dude out performed every other administration after him. Imagine how much more he could’ve done if he had NOT stolen their commonwealth… The message here seems to be it’s okay to steal so long as you can do a few good things. It’s said no one can ride on your back unless you’re bent over… So many Nigerians are eager to bend over and grab their ankles for thieving politicians. > |
Politics › Re: London Judge Orders Confiscation Of $130M From Ex-governor Ibori by 9jaRealist: 9:52pm On Jul 21, 2023 |
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Sports › Re: PSG Signs Nigerian Defender Nicole Payne. by 9jaRealist: 6:44pm On Jul 21, 2023 |
Boyooosa: They will be calling people that have not stepped their feet on the soil Nigerians 
Awon alatache!
Everything about that young girl is American
Tell ur leaders to do the right thing and stop claiming other countries' glory First, they have both “stepped their feet” in Nigeria… But how is it any different from an American born abroad still being American? > |
Sports › Re: PSG Signs Nigerian Defender Nicole Payne. by 9jaRealist: 6:35pm On Jul 21, 2023*. Modified: 10:43pm On Jul 21, 2023 |
Osariemen12: No wonder she didn't make it to the national team for the on going world cup tournament. Even the sister is a bench warmer; only there for numbers. They're not talented in football.
How has our national team deteriorated to the point of having the likes of Payne in it? I'm sure she's signed for the PSG third division.
Congratulations to her. I hope this doesn't become another bad business for PSG. Bench warmer for where abegi?! Toni is a STARTER both at Sevilla (La Liga) and Super Falcons. Toni is the designated corner and set-piece taker for the SFs… Meanwhile, Nicole just finished school at USC but will be a baller. > |
Sports › Re: PSG Signs Nigerian Defender Nicole Payne. by 9jaRealist: 6:27pm On Jul 21, 2023*. Modified: 6:49pm On Jul 21, 2023 |
Adakintroy: She is no Nigerian. Which one be Nicole Payne.
We be Amara, AFisat, rukevwe, bimbo self.
Nicole ke, that one na white lady. Cmanforall: PSG signs American defender So you didn’t see the Nicole OYEYEMISI Payne part of her name? After all is said and done, NIGERIAN blood flows through her veins. Toni and Nicole’s parents…🇳🇬 >
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Politics › Re: Tinubu Moves To Block Atiku’s Fresh Petition On Chicago Records by 9jaRealist: 9:07am On Jul 21, 2023 |
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Education › Re: Birmingham City University Appoints David Mba As Vice-chancellor by 9jaRealist: 9:56pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
FreeStuffsNG: That's a product of mixed race parents and most likely with British mother.
At first, I thought he is one of us full blooded Nigerians. Congratulations sir. Please do us proud o. Check my signature for free stuffs! Was going to castigate you for referring to David a “half-caste”… But it seems someone else may have already done so. So, KUDOS to you for being able to learn!  > |
Family › Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by 9jaRealist: 9:51pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
Tonytonex: It wasn't a general advice, I was talking to the Op. If you read his write up, you will understand. Abi you go help am pay his bills? His minor kids shouldn’t be helping pay his bills… Cheap (child) labor shouldn’t be the reason for having kids. > |
Family › Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by 9jaRealist: 9:46pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
abba190: u guys are always against having kids the west has succeeded on brainwashing u You should only have kids that you can take PROPER care of…If you don’t care about yourself, care about the kids who didn’t bring themselves here. Meanwhile, tomorrow, you lot will “japa” off to the same West… Oblivious there’s a reason why they able to invest in their progeny and maintain a high living standard. > |
Family › Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by 9jaRealist: 9:41pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
abba190: why would 38year old be earning 40k ? Because that’s what the ‘market’ offers… Quit having caviar taste with a boli budget. > |
Family › Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by 9jaRealist: 9:39pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
abba190: why are u guys angry because he has just 5kids if nigeria works properly a 38year old will feed 5kids with ease. its not his fault our leaders failed us Because a responsible adult should know that Nigeria is not working “properly”…Part of being an intelligent human being is being able to play the cards that you’re dealt! > |
Family › Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by 9jaRealist: 9:35pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
abba190: fck this country man i swear nigeria issa hell on earth Yes, it’s “nigeria’s” fault that a dude decided to have 5 kids while making N40K… > |
Family › Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by 9jaRealist: 9:33pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
Tonytonex: try open a small petty business for ur wife and kids. Any type of business. Abegi leave the kids out of it… Don’t know so many Nigerians think child labor is ok. Apart from household and basic chores… Let the kids go to school and concentrate on their studies! > |
Family › Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by 9jaRealist: 9:26pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
olabrinks: We have said this time and time again. Do not give birth to children you cannot take care of. Nigerians make it seem as if you’re impotent if you have 1 or two kids. Thank God the upcoming generation have learnt from their elders. We will no longer be seeing situations like this in 20 years. Have you’ve ever been Up North?! They generally start EARLY and birth OFTEN! This is not something to wish away… Nigeria has to be INTENTIONAL about family planning. > |
Family › Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by 9jaRealist: 9:22pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
RepoMan007: these people need that palliative more than others. Those trashing it should come see a family that palliative can greatly help in a 12 month cycle. The palliatives are for 6 months… After those 6 months, what happens? Instead of wasting money on palliatives… Provide public buses, etc., so they can get to work or market. > |
Family › Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by 9jaRealist: 9:10pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
We4all: I have zero pity for the likes of you. In fact, even if I had the means to assist, I will NEVER help people like you.
Do u know why? I will tell you. It's because some of you have decided not to have sense. Do you think those that gave birth to a child because that's the number they can afford to cater for are fools?
I don't know how some of you reason. The hardship you were facing wasn't enough, you choose to drag innocent kids into it. Now, you're running away from your responsibilities.
I will tell you the same thing that I always say to 'irresponsible parents'. If you can't train your kids, go and sell them. There will be willing buyers who will help you lessen the burden. Apart from the last paragraph of your comment (not sure if you’re being merely facetious), spot on… Sadly, one often gets the impression that so many Nigerians have no meaningful concept of parenthood. > |
Family › Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by 9jaRealist: 9:06pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
MossLuv: 8 people in a single room!!? How do you manage to make love to your woman Apparently hasn’t stopped him from making 5 kids in his 30s… Wouldn’t be surprised if more kids (or even a 2d wife) is added to that single room. > |
Family › Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by 9jaRealist: 9:02pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
ConfusePoint: Ranting. Ranting. Ranting.
I have decided to rant out my predicaments on this forum today.
What is the way out of poverty for me?
One inlaw is even living with us, making it 8 in number, all in one room.
This thing don come big pass me.
I know most of you here would blame me for impregnating a woman to give birth to that number of children but then, life is life. It happens like that sometimes.
They say a poor man's prayer is "e go better" but instead of things to get better in Nigeria, everyday things get worse.
Truth is, except I drive myself out of this mess to a better life for me and my children, this poverty that is so stricken will likely be extended to my children, which I really don't want.
No two ways about it except ...
But like a car without tyres, can it move even if it has fuel? Definitely no.
For 4 days now, I sleep outside in an abandoned car because of financial war at home. I can't go back home and I even feel like never to go back there but should I abandon them like that and run away? To where?
When I went to the market the other day with 5k to buy food items for the house, I was crying and talking to myself on my way back because I came back with almost nothing.
Nigeria have succeed to plug life out of poor Nigerians. The poor cannot breathe again. Let's die and go.
Advice: never give birth when you are not financially strong. Unfortunately, I've learned my lesson the hard way.
Life happens.
How do I help this family better than I am trying?
Wishing you the best in all you do. While, as human beings, we are empathetic with your plight… Instead of blaming “Nigeria” perhaps you should’ve put a rubber on it! “Nigeria” didn’t impregnate your wife.Over the past couple of years I have been conducting a sort of informal poll… And, of almost all of the upper-middle and middle class people I know, their driver or gateman or cook has MORE kids than they do. Why do the POOREST people in Nigeria seem to have the MOST kids? Our old maiguard had over 20 kids in the 21st century when everyone knows about condoms (or even the “pull out” method). #TakeResponsibility!> |
Politics › Re: Chairmanship: APC looks to Ganduje as Adamu’s replacement by 9jaRealist: 5:27pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
phren: How? Is he going to be controlling Nigerian money? He’s going to be taking bribes for access (which leads to influence, contracts, jobs, etc.)…  > |
Politics › Re: Chairmanship: APC looks to Ganduje as Adamu’s replacement by 9jaRealist: 5:18pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Senate Moves To Scrap Age Limit In Job Advertisements In Nigeria by 9jaRealist: 5:10pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
BabaCommander: Waste of legislative time. They will screen out those that are considered to be above the age limit at the interview stages.
We need proper orientation in the country Exactly! The Agbayas won’t pass HR… > |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Senate Moves To Scrap Age Limit In Job Advertisements In Nigeria by 9jaRealist: 5:07pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Erelu Fayemi Inducted Into Nigerian Women Hall Of Fame by 9jaRealist: 5:01pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Why David Hundeyin Was Arrested, Detained And Deported From Zimbabwe by 9jaRealist: 4:18pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
franchasofficia: Listen young man, all my life, I have a principle never to support whatever is not right or just.
It is a principle I learnt from my father and my father inherited it from his own father, it is unfortunate that I am one of you Satanic beings walking the face of earth as Black Nigerians, its so unfortunate.
I condemn Boko Haram attacks. I condemned ISIS terrorism. I condemned 9/11 attack on US. I condemned Israel's bombing of innocent, unarmed civilian Palestinians, I condemn Russia's invasion of Ukraine no matter the reason, Putin should have targetted Zelensky and kill him if he poses danger to him and his country Russia.
I condemn all Fulani herdsmen terrorists attacks on innocent, wretched farmers, children and women in Middlebelt communities, Southeast communities, Southwest communities, Southsouth communities, etc. I also condemn killing of innocent Fulani herdsmen by any group. I condemned any killings done in the name of IPOB or ESN or UGM, I also condemn Governor Hope Uzodinma inviting Nigeria's military to bomb and kill civilians in their homes in Imo State. I applaud any effort made by any government or constituted authority to destroy and stop criminals and criminality without bias.
I condemn Yoruba people's attack on Igbo voters in Lagos and also strongly condemn any derogatory remark made by any Igbo against Yorubas.
But most of you guys support injustice against others so long as the injustice is done to people you hate or don't like.
Many of you Nigerians are worst than Satan, your hearts are filled with evil, crime, corruption and injustice. You all celebrate and hail injustice and criminality Presumably your father and grandfather are NIGERIAN… Accordingly, you actually “inherited” NIGERIAN values/principles.Why are kids born to Nigerian parents in the US/UK often fundamentally different from black Americans or Brits? It is because there are underlying NIGERIAN values (and culture) which endures - regardless of current circumstances. Anyway, as someone born and raised abroad before relocating to Nigeria… One of the things I have since come to recognize among Nigerians is the ”my own is different” syndrome. Here’s news for you - YOU ARE NOT DIFFERENT…. Nigerians are NOT homogeneous, and come in all kinds of “principles” - the good, bad and ambivalent!!Ultimately, whatever ‘Nigeria’ is… Is the culmination of the various actions (by commission or omission) of ALL Nigerians - including YOU!! > |
Politics › Re: Why David Hundeyin Was Arrested, Detained And Deported From Zimbabwe by 9jaRealist: 10:58am On Jul 20, 2023 |
franchasofficia: To all Nigerians and Africans reading, Africa is a lawless country ruled by useless men that have no integrity. If you are running away from any African government's persecution, please avoid visiting any African country.
Africa, Nigeria especially is the Hell being talked about in the Bible. Some of you self-haters seriously need to pull your head out of Oyibo religion’s arse… If Nigeria is indeed this proverbial “hell”, it’s can only be because its citizens (including all YOU lot) are “devils”! SMH > |
Politics › Re: Why David Hundeyin Was Arrested, Detained And Deported From Zimbabwe by 9jaRealist: 10:52am On Jul 20, 2023 |
Westernlove: Many of you don't know Nigeria is the Fictional HELL being mentioned several times in the Bible.
There are Lots of African Nations that are 100% better than Nigeria when it comes to Decorum, Sanity, Honesty, Love etc.
All what most Nigerians know is just Money Money Money and they have the worst behavior in the whole world. Dude, if you don’t like being Nigerian… Abegi, turn in your passport and relocate to Zimbabwe.  We are PROUD of our Naijerianness… The good, the bad, the ugly and the SELF-CONFIDENT!!  > |
Politics › Re: I had no Conversation With Tinubu, DSS DG on tribunal cases - CJN Ariwoola by 9jaRealist: 7:26am On Jul 20, 2023 |
> There’s a report going around this morning that a member of the Presidential Election Petition Tribunal, Justice Boloukuoromo Ugo (from Bayelsa State) has just resigned because he reportedly doesn’t want to participate in any plot to “kneecap” democracy in Nigeria. Surprised that the story (true or false) has not made its way to Nairaland yet. > |
Politics › Re: President Tinubu Had No Telephone Conversation With CJN - APC by 9jaRealist: 7:24am On Jul 20, 2023 |
chokekachy: X > There’s a report going around this morning that a member of the Presidential Election Petition Tribunal, Justice Boloukuoromo Ugo (from Bayelsa State) has just resigned because he reportedly doesn’t want to participate in any plot to “kneecap” democracy in Nigeria. Surprised that the story (true or false) has not made its way to Nairaland yet.> |
Politics › Re: Dangote Refinery: Production Commencement Deadline Not Exceeded — Spokesperson by 9jaRealist: 10:55pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Tinubu Should Drive MTN, DSTV & Shoprite Out Of Nigeria - Reno Omokri by 9jaRealist: 10:48pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Reactions As DSS Twitter Handler Forgot To Switch Accounts by 9jaRealist: 5:21pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Reactions As DSS Twitter Handler Forgot To Switch Accounts by 9jaRealist: 4:56pm On Jul 19, 2023*. Modified: 5:22pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
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