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FamilyRe: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by abdullahi45: 1:42am On Feb 25, 2020
MAYOWAAK:
They are known as the Labia Majora and Minora.
I see that people are really confusing circumcision with female genital mutilation (FGM). Circumcision which I know is just hoodectomy, which is the removal of the clit prepuce, just like removing the pen*s prepuce, that is safe and doesn't pose any health threat or result in reduced sexuality. Although, there is no enough evidence to prove that it reduces the risk of STDs, it is well known to prevent hypersexuality in female.

FGM on the other hand is demonic and repugnant, and could make a lady become hyposexual and frigid. FGM is an umbrella term for clitoridectomy, excision and infibulation. Clitoridectomy involves the partial or complete removal of the clit. Excision involves the removal of the clit, in addition to the excision of the labia minora. The worst case is infibulation, which involves the excision of clit, labia minors and majors, and partial closure of the vag*na.

So, Op, if your wife was only circumcised, and not genitally mutilated, then there is no problem, you just have to delve into each other's sexual world and harness whatever makes it more enjoyable for you two.

God bless.
FamilyRe: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by abdullahi45: 1:09am On Feb 25, 2020
lefulefu:
if he had known then it wouldnt be a shock to him now.at least then both he and the lady would have found solution to the problem or learn how to cope with it.just imagine finding u have a problem or ur partner has a problem on ur wedding night cheesy.quite devastating cheesy.
Trying to justify premarital sex, right? You can't force people to think your own way. And don't forget every action is consequential.
FamilyRe: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by abdullahi45: 1:06am On Feb 25, 2020
nasirope:
No doubt female circumcision is totally bad and condemnable. Thankfully, it is now outlawed and only being practiced illegally by some uninformed part of the population. It is our duty to educate this people and also expose them to law enforcement agencies since the now recognizes it as acre against the girl child.
However, I think that we should be careful to make sure that we give only factual information even while trying to pass correct message. I mean we should avoid some myths if we want all part of the poppulation to take us serious.
For example the saying that if a lady is circumcised she would have to prepare for CS during child birth is not exactly accurate. Most people above the age of 30 including many of us, our sisters and relatives were circumcised and they give birth normally.
Complcatioms during child birth can be due to several unrelated factors.

HOWEVER WHAT IS BAD IS BAD!!!
NO TO FEMALE GENITAL MUTILATION!!!
BUT SPREAD THE MESSAGE IN A WAY THAT WILL APPEAR REAL .
THANK YOU!!!
Thanks for your contributions. But if I may add, the female circumcision called hoodectomy, which I know is not bad and it is done by cutting the clito prepuce to prevent hypersexuality. What is wrong, deplorable and repugnant is FGM which includes clitoridectomy, excision, and infibulation. Moderate circumcision (hoodectomy) is never a type of FGM, and I am aware that such doesn't predisposes ladies to any health challenges or reduced sexuality.
PetsRe: Lost Dog Reports Himself Missing At Texas Police Station (Photos) by abdullahi45: 12:25am On Feb 25, 2020
Eagleboney:
Civilized dog!
Not all the mumu dogs that full Nigeria
With mumu owners grin
PoliticsRe: Muslims And Christians Are Sons Of Abraham – Buhari On Leah Sharibu by abdullahi45: 12:06pm On Feb 19, 2020
Fasindo:
shocked



Terrorism should be called what it is. Boko Haram are against everyone including Muslims, don't forget they target Muslims and Mosques as well. We should rather frown at it and fight it together. It is apparent that they have refused to release Leah due to her religious convictions. But that's not an attack from Muslims, but from Boko Haram. Muslims are not against Christians, but Boko Haram are. Try to understand the difference between Islam and Boko Haram. Islam preaches peaceful coexistence, Boko Haram don't. There is no religious compulsion in Islam, the reverse is the case with Boko Haram.

So try to get the distinctions. We would only be able to fight terrorism, if we act in concert

#4Peace













Christians ar not against Muslim but Muslims ar the one against Christians.

Boko Haram kidnapped so many girls nd later released them except the only Christian girl among them nd u still saying that those people ar not fighting for Islam

Buhari should stop telling all these story, is he saying if it was his own daughter he wouldn't have made sure that the Boko Haram released her long time ago.

I wonder who bring this concept that we ar all children of Abraham. So who ar the father of Jewish, Hindu, Confucians, ATR?
PoliticsRe: Muslims And Christians Are Sons Of Abraham – Buhari On Leah Sharibu by abdullahi45: 12:05pm On Feb 19, 2020
Fasindo:
shocked

Terrorism should be called what it is. Boko Haram are against everyone including Muslims, don't forget they target Muslims and Mosques as well. We should rather frown at it and fight it together. It is apparent that they have refused to release Leah due to her religious convictions. But that's not an attack from Muslims, but from Boko Haram. Muslims are not against Christians, but Boko Haram are. Try to understand the difference between Islam and Boko Haram. Islam preaches peaceful coexistence, Boko Haram don't. There is no religious compulsion in Islam, the reverse is the case with Boko Haram.

So try to get the distinctions. We would only be able to fight terrorism, if we act in concert

#4Peace













Christians ar not against Muslim but Muslims ar the one against Christians.

Boko Haram kidnapped so many girls nd later released them except the only Christian girl among them nd u still saying that those people ar not fighting for Islam

Buhari should stop telling all these story, is he saying if it was his own daughter he wouldn't have made sure that the Boko Haram released her long time ago.

I wonder who bring this concept that we ar all children of Abraham. So who ar the father of Jewish, Hindu, Confucians, ATR?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Vs Newcastle (4 - 0) On 16th February 2020 by abdullahi45: 7:37pm On Feb 16, 2020
anonymousghost2:
MOTM = SAKA
Well deserved. He was full on energy...
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Vs Newcastle (4 - 0) On 16th February 2020 by abdullahi45: 7:31pm On Feb 16, 2020
Edoziesmart:
Congrats to arsenal today. Wishing them 5th position at the and of the league.
No. We hope for 4th position smiley
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Vs Newcastle (4 - 0) On 16th February 2020 by abdullahi45: 7:28pm On Feb 16, 2020
akimbomimer:
update score na!...abi wetin happenhuh
Lol.. No vex nah...
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Vs Newcastle (4 - 0) On 16th February 2020 by abdullahi45: 7:25pm On Feb 16, 2020
maynation:
Arsenal what dey happen today na?
The fall of Manshitty is giving gunners hope fa.
Lol.. smiley
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Vs Newcastle (4 - 0) On 16th February 2020 by abdullahi45: 7:24pm On Feb 16, 2020
Dannyozs:
A well deserved win for Asnal. They went beast-mode in 2nd half. Remarkable performance from Pepe, Ozil, Saka and Aubameyang. MOTM for me was N.Pepe cool
And Lacazette, he was super excited scoring..
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Vs Newcastle (4 - 0) On 16th February 2020 by abdullahi45: 7:23pm On Feb 16, 2020
IWTBAB:
4.0 grin cheesy grin

Wow!

See celebrations by the players, they are sooo happy grin cheesy,
Yeah smiley smiley
PoliticsRe: Keep Okada But Return Keke - Lagos Commuters Beg Sanwo-Olu by abdullahi45: 5:02pm On Feb 07, 2020
EzeIgbo1:
Modernization comes with a price. The pain for development is always temporary.

Lagos State is trying to expand the ability to meet with the ever expanding population and if not done right would leave the state looking like a big pile of rubbish.

Transportation has to be done right if the state is to ensure increasing population would not destroy her


The more Keke or Okada on the streets as an answer to increasing population and desire to meet their transportation needs would be counterproductive.

Okada and Keke should remain off the roads in the areas already declared banned
Your argument is clearly understood, but a saner clime would have provided an alternative right before criminalizing Okada and Keke riding.

In addition, the danger of Okada is indubitable, but banning Keke is too much. The government might have a covert agenda rather than the safety and security of Lagosians they are yelling...
PoliticsRe: Biography, Profile Of Prof. Ishaq Akintola, MURIC Director by abdullahi45: 11:21pm On Feb 06, 2020
b3llo:
This is a classical example of a blind man and his followers. This country is doomed with fellows like you. You are void of logic which is the fundamental of human reasoning.
The country is definitely doomed by bigots and religious intolerant fellows like you who sternly go against all good so far it is not recommended by his religious counsel. It is utterly clear who is void of logic here. Your bigotry shouldn't cost you a logical reasoning, man..
PoliticsRe: Biography, Profile Of Prof. Ishaq Akintola, MURIC Director by abdullahi45: 12:41am On Feb 04, 2020
b3llo:
I don't like him...
Great. Thank God your opinion about him doesn't matter. We acknowledge and commend his good work and leadership...
PoliticsRe: Biography, Profile Of Prof. Ishaq Akintola, MURIC Director by abdullahi45: 12:40am On Feb 04, 2020
b3llo:
I don't like him...
Great. Thank God your opinion about him doesn't matter. We acknowledge and commend his good leadership...
Foreign AffairsRe: Iran 'Standing Down' After Missile Strikes - Trump by abdullahi45: 6:55pm On Jan 08, 2020
CutieKing:
Their strike is just to appease their citizens back home to show they did something worth of revenge.
They were not going to take any American troops lives.
Okay. Says, CutieKing from his room. Anyways the world wants peace more.
RomanceRe: Am I Making A Mistake? by abdullahi45: 2:36am On Dec 17, 2019
IAmStrange:
I have come to notice that most times when human beings fall in love, we lose our willpower. People mistake it for sense - meaning we lose our sense but it's not true in many cases.

The person who is in love can actually have His sense intact and functioning and in every event, he knows the right thing to do... But he just doesn't do it because he has lost his willpower and his resolve has become weak so he runs around seeking advice from people so that their comments can serve as a sort of motivation to carry on with what he already thinks or knows he should do.

Secondly, you were saying he loves you to a fault. I don't want to dispute that. But I want you to know that "love" is not the only thing to be considered when choosing a spouse. You must not - I repeat - you must not marry someone JUST because he loves you. Love is not the only thing that guarantees happiness in a marriage.

There are more important things to be considered.

Do you really think those husbands that send their wives to the hospital after beating them thoroughly do not love their wives? in fact, they sometimes do that due to extreme love and protective jealousy for their wives?

Do you think all those men who womanize and cheat on their wives do not love their wives? In fact, in many cases, they do love their wives and give her all respect and love she deserves and would never allow any man come near her. Yet, they are serious cheats!!!

You are going to live with the character of your man and the character of your man is one of the major factors that will determine if he will make a good husband, father, in law to your people and if he will make a good "head of the family".

So cancel out that idea that "he loves me to a fault" if you think that that's enough for you to give in to him.

It's better for you to marry someone who loves you averagely and he treats you like the "queen" you are than get married to someone who "loves you to a fault" and he treats you like you are "serving a sentence as a prisoner" in his house.

Then thirdly, I want you to know that, that man has serious issues and if I were you, I will flee from entering into a marriage with such a person.

Please open your mind - that guy is going to cage you. He's probably going to make your life miserable.

- He has anger issues.
- He has trust issues
- He is uncultured (calling your sister a prostitute and hurling insults at you)
- He is a wife beater
- he jumps to stupid conclusions hastily (calling you a prostitute and going to the extent of taking your pictures)
- He checks your phone and wrongly accuses you of different things
- His jealousy is overboard

Believe me, A man who has all the above will probably make life miserable for you.

He may be the kind of man that will make you sit at home and cut you off the world. Then he maltreats you and doesn't take care of you, making you age faster and weaker as time goes on. Then he will be giving outsiders the impression that he is taking care of you and when you try to complain, they listen to him and not you.

And when you now start looking miserable, he ends up cheating on you with more beautiful girls out there while he leaves you at home to your misery.

There are men like this out there - that guy may be one.

So I advise you to flee from him. Do not listen to anyone. Don't let anyone pressure you into accepting him. They are not the ones to bear the pain and when you die and they get to know the true story, they will still blame you for accepting him.

That's life!

Then, please, do not also think low of yourself and pressure yourself into accepting him just because single men are not coming or because of your age.

Marrisge is a beAutiful thing but that's only when it's with the right person.

Being happily single is better than being miserably married

If you listen to the stories of many married women out there, you will thank your Lord and consider your single status a blessing, thanking God for saving you from what those married women have experienced.

I don't know your age but I think you are probably "not too old" yet.

Please, think positively of your God, yourself and aim for good.

Leave that man and after you have done that, pray to your Lord to bring you a good man you can settle down with.

And while you are still waiting, please be patient and understand that our major purpose on earth is to serve God. That's the major and true success.

Being single doesn't mean that you are a failure, don't let society pressure you into believing that.

The one who is married doesn't necessarily have more superiority in the eyes of God than the single one. The level of superiority is measured by how much you are close to God, how much of righteousness you achieve on earth and how much you do things that matter to the whole world - things that affect people positively.

Being single may turn out to be a blessing on its own. I know some people who went to very great heights of which it would have been difficult to achieve if they got married. What matters is your happiness, your wellbeing and how much your Creator is pleased with you.

So pray to your Lord and hope for good and be positive that he will send you a good man. But while you are waiting, try to do other meaningful things in your life that will bring you happiness.

Don't settle for a bad man who will make your life miserable.


May God soften your heart and grant you your desires.

dannyla
What a well articulated writeup that reflects its author's sagacity.

May the most High increase you in knowledge and preserve you upon goodness. Aameen
CultureRe: Abdulrasheed Akanbi And Chanel Chin Divorced! Oluwo Of Iwo Divorces Wife by abdullahi45: 3:45am On Dec 16, 2019
Obainoneandonly:
After you don chop the PUNA finish, you come divorce her...... That's what mostly Muslim men do.... He will marry a much more younger girl next year and tear the PUNA for like 3yeasr then divorce her........ That's how the cycle goes
Your lies will haunt you, no one needs to attack you verbally...
PoliticsRe: Olawale Bakare Mandate Speaks From Hiding (Video) by abdullahi45: 1:24am On Dec 09, 2019
Awol1:
He's a sharp guy.

Voom is better than statement any day anywhere.

But is it me they are calling to protest?

Sowore said in 2015 that Buhari is the next best thing after dodo.

Let him enjoy the delicacy he helped prepare for Nigeria.
What is wrong with a man reforming his ideologies after realising his mistakes?
HealthRe: Simple Acne Treatments To Get Rid Of Pimples On Your Face by abdullahi45: 1:18am On Dec 09, 2019
A305:
Personally from my own research and experience, No 5 works like magic, Give it a trial by washing your face like say 5 to 6 times a day and see the magic. See my page for that cheap benz
Praise be to the most High. We do that before every prayer.
PoliticsRe: Presidency Justifies Sowore's Rearrest, Says He's Person Of Interest To DSS by abdullahi45: 1:11am On Dec 09, 2019
Adonko:
oooh did you at anytime ever believe they acted on thier own of course NO, the tyrant sent them and his social media olosho came to tell us sowore staged a drama at the court....I just laugh.

Buhari should no this no tyrant ends well he should go and ask Adolf Hitler, his case may even be sooner due to pressure mounting from home and abroad.

The only thing that still defies all logic and commonsense is that Buhari still has people defending his gross failure what a shame.
It is really a shame. I tell you, most Nigerians don't deserve Sowore, many don't even care about he purgeys. If Buhari seeks third term unconstitutionally they will still vote for him and present excuses to back his shenanigans... Sowore should go and rest, Nigerians don't deserve him..
PoliticsRe: Presidency Justifies Sowore's Rearrest, Says He's Person Of Interest To DSS by abdullahi45: 1:08am On Dec 09, 2019
sLentlover7778:
I beg bubu.. take us back to Change, dis next level na something else oooo. Chai grin grin grin
I believed so much in that man. Not knowing he was just a scam...
PoliticsRe: Presidency Justifies Sowore's Rearrest, Says He's Person Of Interest To DSS by abdullahi45: 1:07am On Dec 09, 2019
mamdanju:
Very good. Keep him locked up until he get some sense. If there is trouble in Nigeria, he will run away to the US.
Sense, you say? It is apparent that this Government is only getting power intoxicated, nothing lasts forever... It is better if Buhari trends softly...
PoliticsRe: Presidency Justifies Sowore's Rearrest, Says He's Person Of Interest To DSS by abdullahi45: 1:05am On Dec 09, 2019
Zangazanga:
I agree with presidency on this one cos he was one of their supporters.

He supported CHANGE and now want to topple NEXT LEVEL. Sowore we die here.
Yeah, he supported change because he thought that was better. What is wrong with a man reforming his ideas?
PoliticsRe: Sowore: Between Facts And Fiction by abdullahi45: 12:49am On Dec 09, 2019
presidency:
STATE HOUSE PRESS RELEASE

SOWORE: BETWEEN FACTS AND FICTION

The Presidency notes some of the insinuations in the media about the arrest by the Department of State Services (DSS) of the agitator, Omoyele Sowore.

The DSS does not necessarily need the permission of the Presidency in all cases to carry out its essential responsibilities that are laid down in the Nigerian Constitution – which was the foundation for the restoration of democracy in our country in 1999.

However, it should not surprise anyone who has followed his actions and words that Sowore is a person of interest to the DSS.

Sowore called for a revolution to overthrow the democratically elected government of Nigeria.

He did so on television, and from a privileged position as the owner of a widely read digital newspaper run from the United States of America.

He founded an organisation, Revolution Now, to launch, in their own words, “Days of Rage”, with the publicised purpose of fomenting mass civil unrest and the elected administration’s overthrow.

No government will allow anybody to openly call for destabilization in the country and do nothing.

Mr. Sowore is no ordinary citizen expressing his views freely on social media and the internet.

He was a presidential candidate himself, who ran – and lost – as the flag bearer of the African Action Congress (AAC) in the February 23 general elections.

Nigeria's democracy was a long time in the making, and was achieved after decades of often harsh, military-led overthrows of government: the kind of situation Sowore was advocating.

To believe in and desire armed revolution is not normal amongst 'human rights activists', as Sowore has been incorrectly described.

Again, it is no surprise that he should be a person of interest to the DSS.

Nigeria is already dealing with an insurgency that has left millions of people displaced and desperate in the northeastern region of our country.

The Boko Haram militants, who are behind the violence, also fancy themselves to be fighting for some sort of revolution.

Nigerians do not need another spate of lawlessness and loss of lives all in the name of 'revolution', especially not one that is orchestrated by a man who makes his home in far away New York – and who can easily disappear and leave behind whatever instability he intends to cause, to wit, Nnamdi Kanu.

This is a matter for the DSS, acting under its powers.

Garba Shehu
Senior Special Assistant to the President
(Media & Publicity)
December 8, 2019
Rubbish and its reagents....
PoliticsRe: Buhari And Wife, Aisha Celebrate 30th Wedding Anniversary (photos) by abdullahi45: 1:31am On Dec 04, 2019
GeoAfrikana:
Please present your fathers and mother.



That looks 15/16 in your eyes?! You need help!
You don't need to reply the melancholic hater, bro. Even if she is 15/16, what is his problem with that; does he thinks he is the one to set the standard age for marriage. It is a shame that they approve of an adolescent to have a consensual sexual relationship, but will weep profusely when they see a youngster Muslim female get married, such hypocrisy.
PoliticsRe: Abubakar Shekau Threatens Audu Bulama Bukarti, Boko Haram Researcher by abdullahi45: 1:31am On Nov 06, 2019
IamAtikulate:
During Salah, I visited a moslem friend and we watched a movie on the early history of Mohammed and Islam.

I noticed that Mohammed was not depicted in the entire movie and asked why and my friend told me it is unislamic to depict Mohammed.

But what caught my interest was the conquest of Mecca led by Mohammed. I gave up on Islam at that point.

You don't force religion on the people.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conquest_of_Mecca
My above points about the conquest of Mecca still remain valid.
PoliticsRe: Abubakar Shekau Threatens Audu Bulama Bukarti, Boko Haram Researcher by abdullahi45: 2:50pm On Nov 03, 2019
IamAtikulate:
How did Mohammed conquered Mecca?
I hope you were able comprehend all that was written above. About the conquest of meccah that interests you. Fine, meccah was conquered via preaching the word of God and through battles. It may interests you to know that Meccans accepted Islam through preaching and not through battles. So the conquest of Mecca doesn't translates to forcing Islam on Meccans.

Below may help you if you are interested;
https://ilmfeed.com/8-rules-of-engagement-taught-by-the-prophet-muhammad/
PoliticsRe: Abubakar Shekau Threatens Audu Bulama Bukarti, Boko Haram Researcher by abdullahi45: 2:11am On Nov 03, 2019
abdullahi45:
First, having a PhD in Islamic or Arabic studies doesn't confer one to be a good believer, we have non-muslims who do.

Secondly, the true form of Islam is clear, and doesn't preach terrorism nor excessiveness as opposed to what we see terrorist organizations do today.

Lastly, don't forget the man revealing all the excesses of Boko Haram is also a Muslim and he quotes the Qur'an to explain and counter their excesses.
See below link for more info if truly you are interested in the truth, you can likewise do your own research
https://ilmfeed.com/8-rules-of-engagement-taught-by-the-prophet-muhammad/
PoliticsRe: Abubakar Shekau Threatens Audu Bulama Bukarti, Boko Haram Researcher by abdullahi45: 2:10am On Nov 03, 2019
Blakpot:
Correction my friend. Killing for the pope not for Jesus. There is nothing in Jesus teachings that anyone can use to justify any sort of violence or even ill will towards another.
Nothing in prophet Muhammad (SAW) teachings also justifies violence. Book Haram are extremists and that's apparent enough. Even Islam has etiquettes in the time of war. Only soldiers should be challenged, no young, female or non-combatants should be combatted. No nature should be destroyed. Is boko Haram doing the same?

See below link for more info if truly you are interested in the truth, you can likewise do your own research
https://ilmfeed.com/8-rules-of-engagement-taught-by-the-prophet-muhammad/
PoliticsRe: Abubakar Shekau Threatens Audu Bulama Bukarti, Boko Haram Researcher by abdullahi45: 1:58am On Nov 03, 2019
SamJed:
I stand to be corrected but it seems this groups are practising the true form of Islam that is Islam as written in the Quran. They stand so bold quoting the Quran giving quotations to defend their stance. Also for the former leader of ISIS to be a PhD holder in Islamic studies, it shows that he knows what he is doing.....from my own point of view, this guys are not daft, they are actually following instructions in their book
First, having a PhD in Islamic or Arabic studies doesn't confer one to be a good believer, we have non-muslims who do.

Secondly, the true form of Islam is clear, and doesn't preach terrorism nor excessiveness as opposed to what we see terrorist organizations do today.

Lastly, don't forget the man revealing all the excesses of Boko Haram is also a Muslim and he quotes the Qur'an to explain and counter their excesses.

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